₦airaland Forum

danhans:
My bro never you do that mistake,I did because of my mum said she is not in support and i regretted and still regretting because her reason when i got to know is not on point at all so pls stand as a man go for what you want,stand by it and have evaluation of it compared to others and take your decision

Dear OP, you see it from a different perspective by weighing this gentle man's advice. A stitch in time saves nine!

Parents especially mothers have covalent bond with their sons which makes it difficult to let go of them whilst this is normal but if they are too curious & malicious hence dish confused and shady advice discouraging their sons not to marry a particular lady, this shouldn't stop the guy if he really loves his lady to fight for her.

Sometimes I don't believe in this cock and bull story about what an elder sees, a child can't see it. It could be out of selfish reasons they are speaking. It's not all cases parents are right.

A story comes to mind where the parents ill advice their daughter to marry another man against the one she loved. Fast forward after 5 years in her marriage, she is the bread winner why her husband is lazy, unpatriotic and abusive. The other man is doing well in his marriage. This lady in question even advise me as a man to be careful when taking parents' advice in marital decision.

That being said, discuss with your mother and get a reasonable explanation to the reason why she did not subscribe to your relationship.

TundeBricklayer:
At least he is reconstructing the road before the heavy rain we witnessed, you hypocrisy when flood that nearly swept Abeokuta two weeks ago was treading here you said it was climate change, you didn't remember how Ibikunle Amosun borrowed $350 million few months to complete projects he abounded since his first tenure, the money has fizzled out nothing is going on in Ogun, he can't even pay ordinary workers salary, but you hypocrisy will turn blind eyes to critics your governors, do you what me to show you the havoc caused by flood across southwestern states



When this happened in Ogun state you remembered climate change not bad leader, but once is east you hypocrisies will says it's bad leadership

My comment wasn't laced with tribal words. Tread carefully boy. If you check my comments on Amosun regime, you will see I condemn his lacklustre performance.

If you like, keep hyping an underperforming governor. We like celebrating mediocrity in this country as you just expressed it now.

In all regions in the country, the government pays no attention to meet the people's need.

Also, most governors don't perform in second term.This is fact! Obiano and other performing governors at first term has regressed after being re-elected.

Imagine a governor commissioning a round- about and inspecting plastic bridge in overseas. Corruption has dealt with their brain.

MissRaine69:
She has issues of commitment and trust deep rooted in a dysfunctional childhood. Not everyone experiences this but those with borderline personality disorder struggles with making,keeping and maintaining relationships.
Her inability to sustain a relationship is self sabotaging she rejects before she is rejected as that’s how low her self worth is.

Aptly written

Shey the guy get EAR so?

Who else noticed the grammatical blunder from the lady "Oder". Honestly this guy messed up. He didn't profile the hungry lady before asking her on date.

[quote author= post=69710905]Free market should definitely be allowed.[/quote]It will lead to inflation. Nigerians are too greedy. They will keep hoarding it

The poor thing will be wondering what happened to it's skin

Smart dude if the story appears true.

Depends on the model, fuel efficiency, luxury, etc. Both are good.

EniHolar:
Àwọn oniranu

O le sèlé si anybody. Ma sòbé o!

resurgent2019:
I hope igbos are listening? We are not against ports opening in other parts of Nigeria ooo—especially the East. Yorubas are not that hateful towards igbos.

We want the best for igbos. I hope this lays the matter of Yorubas hindering against development of Eastern ports to rest. We don’t want to hear such baseless accusations from igbos again.

Let me add to this, some people think Lagos state benefits from tax collected by the oil marketers, exporters and importers of non oil products not knowing all levies go to FG's pocket.

Whether 120 ports are open in another state, tax generated will still head to abuja. Sometimes when I see people who claim to have high degree of intellect saying Lagos state don't want other states to experience what they are enjoying especially in this aspect, I shake my head in pity.

deomelo:
From building the lousiest bridge in the history of mankind to blonde and bubble-head plastic bridge idea....

Is this going to be the 2nd Niger bridge or 3rd, 4th or 5th Niger bridge?


This man is useless no be small

Not again

I won't forget a stern warning/advice from a senior manager telling me to abstain pleasing my in-laws. He shared a touching story of his life and how it has caused him personal development and marital success.

It's a very complicated situation and this is not the time for blame game.

Tell your wife to pick between you and her family. If she picks you, once again inform her your T&C. If she refuses to change, don't divorce her but take a break. You can best till relocate to a new location in FCT without letting her and her family know your residence.

I believe after a while, sense will sink into her head your importance and the decision to detach herself from her parasitic family.

Lol This Qatar version of NASS has been severely disturbed to the extent that he had to force himself read/understand the vendetta in Nigeria politics.

What a dynamite reply!

Amarabae,

You know what? Most times you choose to be judgemental instead of being objective with your view.

That aside, men know being a woman is not easy. We might not be vocal but our actions speak it whilst the reason men provide for their wives and children.

Financial, moral, emotional and physical assistance is what women crave for in a man. These things mentioned comes with sacrifice. There is limit to which a woman can do these things else severe consequences will hit her.

Men tend to combat stress more to ladies which is the reason we are the hunter. Don't forget that ladies physical strength quickly fail and this is where she can't compete for long with a man.

Men hardly depend on lady for financial assistance but ladies can depend on several guys for it yet still be earning handsomely.

Yomit71:
folakemigeh are you here, someone is crushing on you. can we hang out at protea hotel tonight

You are crushing on a guy using a lady's picture. Keep crushing. I pray you don't end up crashing.

Between, did you learn from the Op's article?

How much will he spend at a cheap brothel to have his desired pleasure?

Not only has he brought shame to himself but to his family, vicinity, country, God and finally the cow

I pity those who will eventually eat the abominable cow.

After consuming it, they may have sex with fowl, fish, rat, bat, etc.

deomelo:
He's still far far behind...

God bless you my brother. He is definitely lagging behind in critical projects where his hands are most needed.

Many roads in the state are collapsing and for waste management, it's now an horror show.

It's a pity the lawmakers in this country are not proactive nor have brought initiatives to the table before. A country with great and immense intellects being ruled by illiterates ( both educated and non educated ones). Smh.

blackpanda:
Trump the noisemaker. Didn't he issue several empty warnings to Kim of north Korea. Last last he ran there like a cowardly dog to prostrate for him

America has become weaker under trump. Everybody just de do anyhow

Some people are good at twisting stories just to sweet their frustrated mind. Where did Trump prostrate to kim? How has America become weak under trump?

There is no sense in the nonsense you spewed.

Success is famous while failure is obscure. People hail you when things are sweet yet tongue lash you the moment things turn sour.

One should never do things to please people. Please God, yourself and your family ( wife and children).

I thought the Germans are non racist people. Not only they are racist but as well an ingrate.

Oh no! Not again

Atiku, we know this. We won't vote for PMB and you as well.

Amarabae:
No shame.
You left Abuja to "Lagos " just to eat his money.
What if he uses you for ritual?
Nonsense.
The room is dirty and scattered, why not help the guy to arrange it instead of trying to shame him on social media.
If you really love the guy, you should have helped him tidy up the room at least.
Hungry gluttonous empty entities everywhere.

I appreciate God for restoring you back to who you used to be. May this intelligence be permanent.

chinjo:
This is a president for crying out loud. Meanwhile one yeye fake slay queens will be bothering us with news on how she travelled from ABUJA to Lagos to meet a guy who actually lives in Ogun and how she is been fed with yam and palm oil for 3 days. Girls u better learn from this woman.

Lol that story still bothers me. Anyway her consolation is the fact that she is not used for rituals and eating yam steadily.

Psittacus:
First Bank response

First Bank response is damn badass

Union bank got so much savage.

I like the healthy competition displayed by them.

HungerBAD:
Move the picture closer.

I no see anything.

Enlarge the picture with your hand. You will see something

Lmao

Good for u. Enjoy sango ota, home of seun