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PoliticsRe: Thugs Have Invaded Our Obingwa Local Government Office In Abia State - INEC by Xavie(m): 7:17pm On Mar 19, 2023
accordadoga25:
Waiting for that gold digger (rudeboy abi kiloruko e) who married an older yoruba woman to help his music career to react to this..

I guess this attack is from Tinubu agbero again...

Instead of him to concentrate on his dead music career, na Lagos be his problem..

Even Dbull of Nairaland get talent pass the mumu... Na funds Dbull neva get to boost his music career..
and don't know all this divide are tribal profiling.. look in deep, @ the end of the day we all know that it was never a tribal affair.. just politicians vs the masses
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Gen-z And Their Many Problems In The Work Place by Xavie(m): 3:48pm On Jan 23, 2023
pocohantas:
Their favourite words are;

Mental health
PTSD
Literally

Once they use any or all of these words, they may not come to work the next day o.
mental health affects everyone.. not only generation Z
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by Xavie(m): 8:54am On Jan 18, 2023
justwise:
Ask/make your South African visa contributions here, i have seen increasing number of different threads about South African visa recently hence the need to dedicate one thread for South African visa issues.
Good morning Just wise.. been following your contents and indeed you're a Gem.. pls I want to ask, how much is average tuition fee for masters degree program in Southie Universities? Pls if you can give me the approximate amount in Naira
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is Short And It Disturbs Me by Xavie(m): 9:14am On Jan 13, 2023
siofra:
Yes, I'm still double dating.


I care for all my boyfriends the same way.
Omo my dear oge adịro.. gba mbọ ka i chọta di o... O dịghị mfe


Because at the end na you go cry
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is Short And It Disturbs Me by Xavie(m): 12:09am On Jan 13, 2023
siofra:
This is the first time I'm dating a guy this short (same height with me)

Girls that date short guys, how do you cope?


It's like all the men in Nigeria are short angry
this siofra no well las las, no be you dey claim to double date?? Why do you now care
RomanceRe: Should I Talk To My Neighbour About My Girlfriend by Xavie(m): 11:21pm On Jan 12, 2023
questioner:
Opinion needed here

I just got transferred back to Lagos in October last year and met this girl who is a secretary in one of our client office.
We sort of vibed and I asked her out, so we started dating early December.

On Christmas eve, I decided to spend the day at her place and on my way in, I met a familiar face driving in,
It was a guy who lived in the same hood with me before I left Lagos. We weren't friends really, more like acquaintance who greeted each other and knew each other on first name basis but never hung out together.
Apparently, he lives in the same apartment as my gf, He upstairs and they (my gf and family) downstairs. let's call this dude X.

When I told gf about X and how we once lived in the same area, she wasn't happy.
She said X was a bad guy and not the kind of guy to relate with bla bla.
I insisted that though I wasn't close to X, my impressions of him were an easy going dude, who rarely had trouble with anyone.

Beau insisted that he had a lot of friends coming around who were unruly and irresponsible and she just didn't like them.
I didn't really give it much thought since it wasn't like X was a close pal.

Last weekend, I had gone to pick her for an evening outing, we were outside when X was driving in again, I wasn't sure he saw me since it was dark,
so I decided to walk towards where he was parking to say hi, only for her to hold me back and insist she didn't want me to even greet him or have anything or discussions with him.
I acted chill and asked her why was she so persistence, she repeated the bad boy, rubbish guy talk.

Frankly all this has made me so curious and I am considering finding away to approach this guy and talk with him.

The opinion I need from esteemed peeps on this forum is -

1. Do you think I am being 'unnecessarily' curious by wanting to talk to X about my gf
2. If I do decide to meet him, How do you advise I broach the subject with him considering I don't even have his phone number and might need to go meet him at home
3. If you were in X's shoes would you consider it clumsy or agbaya behavior, me coming to meet you to ask about my gf - I am quite older than X, by my estimate, by 5 to 7 years or would you be cool with it


*Modified*
I think I should add here that X is recently married bout 3 months ago.
So I think it is unlikely they are CURRENTLY dating
Honestly she is hiding something from you that the guy knows
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Always Like This? by Xavie(m): 11:48pm On Jan 05, 2023
Autobot05:
Check the time of the msgs you'll notice say na now now
That's how to treat them bro cool dont be too available cool
Chelsea-man city
grin grin grin how did the chat go?? Share proof o
RomanceRe: Looks Like Hookup Really Pays Ladies More Than Hardwork. by Xavie(m): 11:34pm On Jan 05, 2023
imagrg:
I've just observed that most ladies are only enterprising in the area of hookup than in any other gainful activity.
Recently, I encountered my ex-student who told me that after graduating from the university, she had been jobless but funny enough, I confirmed that she has more than N3m in her account. She told me it was part of the gifts she gets daily from admirers and that I should add to it if I really cared about her. This really put me off.

It's like she has a micro-finance bank between her legs oh!

Men are really SIMPs sha oh!
omo ehh i tire..
RomanceMeet Him At His Hustling/building Phase by Xavie(op): 11:17pm On Jan 05, 2023
As you all know we humans love genuine stuff, reason why the rich spend money on brand new cars or Genuine stuff in general..

Now everyone loves true and genuine love.. my advice to young girls is these, find a guy that loves you and you also like, stay with him, buikd with him.. even though he isn't yet rich, if he has ambitions and works towards it, he will eventually be okay..

Most already made men cannot exclusively love a woman because they always feel it was his money that won her not love..

Happy marriage is underated
Being an evening news paper is painful, there are more beautiful women than you are who are now in their 30s without a meaningful relationship.. what makes you feel you can't fall into that category??

Be Wise
PoliticsRe: Brymo: An Igbo Presidency May Be A Pipe Dream - Singer On Adichie's Chieftaincy by Xavie(m): 10:34pm On Jan 05, 2023
AcuraZDX:
Is this the Brymo you all are talking about?

Person wey dey mad under Oshodi bridge
grin grin grin ebe m no kita, so-so ochi ka mu na chi
Music/RadioRe: What’s Your Favourite Instrument? by Xavie(m): 7:16am On Jan 05, 2023
ibkayee:
Never heard of Oja, googled it and looks like some sort of flute?
It's a native wind instrument similar to flute in the sound it produces, that's why i referred to my self as indigenous.. it can be very spiritual if an expert is blowing it
CultureRe: 10 Most Expensive Cultures To Marry From In Nigeria by Xavie(m): 6:42am On Jan 05, 2023
ireneony:
hmmm.....since my dad is ibo....which means no nigeria man will marry me,? cry hmmmm...maybe i will marry a whiteman huh
but thank God am not from the list mentioned grin
if your dad is Ibo, you are definitely Ibo smiley wink
FashionRe: Check Out My Natural Hair 2 Years After Being Mocked About My Hair by Xavie(m): 6:40am On Jan 05, 2023
ireneony:
More
Such beauty.. God dey creates tho kiss
Music/RadioRe: What’s Your Favourite Instrument? by Xavie(m): 7:34pm On Jan 04, 2023
ibkayee:
1.Saxophone (sexiest instrument ever)
2. Violin
3. Cello
4. Drums (I can play the drums badly, does that count?)
5. Electric guitar

Unfortunately I can only play the triangle but maybe in my next life I’ll learn how to play these

Used to play the piano sha but then I just stopped
The most angelic to me is Guiter, then violin and piano are dope... Then as an indigenous man i like Oja
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Called Me A Gold Digger by Xavie(m): 6:53pm On Jan 04, 2023
siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis
don't jubilate yet.. it may still backfire... I doubt one will marry you
TravelRe: See The Inside Of Luxury 160million Pounds Private Mega-yacht by Xavie(m): 5:40pm On Jan 04, 2023
Vanit Vanishing

Cool tho kiss
CrimeRe: NDLEA Nabs meth Cook In Imo, Five Airport Drug Syndicate, Others by Xavie(m): 10:09am On Mar 31, 2022
MasterChef.. Reminds me of Heisenberg and Pinkman of Breaking Bad
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Johnson Suleman Celebrates His 51st Birthday (Photos) by Xavie(m): 1:11pm On Mar 24, 2022
Christistruth00:
Occultic Vampires masquerading as Pastors
Gbamsolutely
PoliticsRe: 2023: President Meets All APC Chairmanship Aspirants In Aso Rock by Xavie(m): 5:12am On Mar 24, 2022
Nawa
Foreign AffairsRe: War In Ukraine: 'America Is Learning The Art Of Humility' by Xavie(m): 9:21am On Mar 20, 2022
princeeze1:
That is what the bbc article is trying to sell but we know better. America is not humble in this case because it has learnt the art of humility. The doctrine of MAD has simply made it humble. It has weighed the human and civilization cost of intervention and cowed down. If it were a country say in the caliber of Serbia, they would waste no time to intervene militarily.
Gbamsolutely, Shikina, Simple
Forum GamesRe: What Would You Do If You Saw This At A Junction? by Xavie(m): 12:44pm On Mar 19, 2022
Hmmm nawa.. i wont o, life too spiritual
CrimeRe: After Taking N10.7m Ransom, Kidnappers Promised They Won’t Abduct Us In Future by Xavie(m): 12:43pm On Mar 19, 2022
Haha nawa o
PoliticsRe: Okowa Congratulates Soludo, Hopes For Greater Cooperation by Xavie(m): 2:32pm On Mar 18, 2022
My Governor!!!
PoliticsRe: Triumph Of The ‘yahoo-yahoo’ Governors by Xavie(m): 1:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
grin
SportsRe: Everton 1-0 Newcastle: Alex Iwobi Comes To Lampard’s Rescue With A Late Goal by Xavie(m): 10:39am On Mar 18, 2022
Iwobiii
PoliticsRe: Tambuwal: PDP Is The Party To Beat In 2023 by Xavie(m): 10:37am On Mar 18, 2022
Haha.. thiefs have started to push false narrative and propaganda..
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Deploys Mystery Device In Ukraine Which Is Unknown To USA by Xavie(m): 9:37am On Mar 15, 2022
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