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ABANGWABOI:
She is a Ms not a Mrs..

That sums it up.. definitely a Toxic single mum..

She should be jailed in same room with Core rapists....

carmaldyn:
Bleep Nscdc management and the board.

Bleep Nscdc management and the board.

Bleep Nscdc management and the board

Nekky5:
Life is scripted and timed!

NwaAmaikpe:





Sit your mom down and get the truth from her.

From my end, I can't think of any other thing asides that maybe you are the product of a rape she's never told anyone about, that's why she'd forever resent you.

This is why we keep saying women are confused creatures because that is not a good reason to hate you except she didn't climax on the day of your conception, and in that case, her hate is very justified.

Mariangeles:
That is not always true.

You don't know the circumstance that led to them being single mothers.

bigjackass:
It's the feeling. The baby definitely felt something negative about the picture

AllahIsShit:
Hope you are equal to the task of raising a gifted child.

AllahIsShit:
Congratulations, you have given birth to a prodigy.

SirIconR:
Man... You Just wasted your money in doing this body work.... The nyash no even make sense at all

seeme2:
I hope you deserve that your wife, gentleman OP. You derived the wrong conclusion from life. What a waste of your sufferings. Look, i am 35. I have had great times, and rainy days. These things come and go and come again. Just get married when you can predict your stability for the next couple of years. People get married with meager income and get millions within a year. Some have already bought their life's last car before marrying. Head or tail, marrying early is best. It is the foundation of wealth. Your children have no choice but to manage... they are too small to be corrupted. God may bless you before your first born is old enough to be impressionable. If you wait till money comes who says it cannot go again. So you wait till 70 because it goes and comes?

Look, marriage is more economical than singleness... that is if you are a classy guy sha. Take the easier way and thank me later.

MrBrownJay1:
all you people are looking at marriage with a failed vision.... you dont need money to get married, marriage is just an extention of a r/ship sealed by a useless piece of paper....if you guys were broke and could date happily, then there is no reason why you couldnt get married and still be happy. the problem here is that all you people are thinking that a broke couple should do exactly the same thing as one with money, while the couple with little money needs to ADAPT TO THEIR SITUATION until they have enough money to care for a family (aka children etc)

a lot of people are quick to call a man/woman broke because they only have money to take care of their own needs, but the reality is that there are many people who are broke because they paid their rent, put food in the fridge and paid their bills etc. if 2 broke people join hands, then they can EASILY live happily ever after (so long as they dont try to add to their family). so a broke married couple needs to take contraception, need to cut their coat according to their situation and they need to work towards getting a better life situation in order to have kids etc

it takes money for a single person to take care of their basic need... its called LIFE and everyone should be able to take care of their basic needs before thinking of marriage, same for married ones. you dont need "more" money to get married than the money you each had to take care of your basic needs, if your spouse cant/couldnt take care of their basic needs then you shouldnt get married and that person should sort that part of their lives 1st before thinking of getting married, as they are a LIABILITY

as for your hustle statement, no wonder so many men fail in marriage when they think that having money to take care of a liability is the solution to their problem....a liability is a LIABILITY whether you bring more money to the table or not.

Juliearth:
That it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others. Marriage has a way of unlocking blessings to the couple involved. Also, it is partnership for life. Thus, when you you marry a woman whose thinking aligns with yours, you can do exploit. Remember that two good heads are better than one.


Also, you don't have to write your union off. You and madam should go back to the drawing board and trace where the problems are from, make necessary adjustments and see how things would turn out for good.