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CrimeRe: Driver Rapes COVID-19 Patient He Was Transporting To The Hospital by XDaBOSS(m): 10:44am On Sep 09, 2020
Konji is a bastard
CrimeRe: Four Nigerian Students Arrested For ‘hacking’ Bank’s System In Philippine by XDaBOSS(m): 11:30pm On Sep 08, 2020
Nawa ooo....
CrimeRe: Lady Stabs Her Fiance To Death In South Africa (Photos) by XDaBOSS(m): 8:21pm On Sep 08, 2020
This SAs as their name no funny naso their temperament no funny...
SportsRe: UEFA Hails Osimhen After Second Hattrick For Napoli by XDaBOSS(m): 7:18pm On Sep 07, 2020
He better not finish all his goals in preseason games ooo...
TravelRe: Types Of People You Meet In A Transit Bus(pics) by XDaBOSS(m): 7:00pm On Sep 07, 2020
Ah....you've listed them all...
EducationRe: What Took You To The Principal's Office In Secondary School? by XDaBOSS(m): 8:02pm On Sep 06, 2020
I was called to the principal's office on several occasions due to various reasons or offences. One of them is I toasted a female teacher and another teacher happened to see the letter (don't know how), I was arraigned to the principal's office...Imagine.
The male teacher that reported me was only jealous...Las las I pass am sha.
EducationRe: Rats Destroy ABSU Student's Property During Lockdown (Photos) by XDaBOSS(m): 11:32pm On Aug 31, 2020
Eya...see how innocent baby rats were victims of the mass killing.....Only God know how they were running for their lives to safety...
I come in peace sha
FamilyRe: I Still Steal From My Parents At The Age Of 35 by XDaBOSS(m): 11:01pm On Aug 31, 2020
Bros, E b like say your cause na that una old village chief priest do am for you as your people no gree am host your naming ceremony...

And now the old man (chief priest) is dead...so sad.

Your case no get cure as the person weh suppose cure am no de.
Whish you success in your entrepreneurship.

I come in peace sha...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs FC Copenhagen : Europa League (1- 0) On 10th August 2020 by XDaBOSS(m): 8:46pm On Aug 10, 2020
This match is a work over for manchester united..I predict 2-5goals in this match for man utd.

RomanceRe: Does The Bible Restrict A Christian Couple To A Particular Sexual Position? by XDaBOSS(op): 12:20pm On Jun 07, 2020
BadRadio:
Adam and eve had it so in the garden. did u forget?
The Bible didn't tell us if Adam had an intercourse with Eve while in garden of Eden. The first intercourse of Adam and Eve mentioned was after the fall (when they were sent off the garden) and no sexual position mentioned.

Genesis 4:1 (NLT)
Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant. When she gave birth to Cain, she said, “With the Lord’s help, I have produced a man!”
RomanceRe: Does The Bible Restrict A Christian Couple To A Particular Sexual Position? by XDaBOSS(op): 12:11pm On Jun 07, 2020
StubbornGENIUS:
In other words men should suck their wife's boobs till they are high/intoxicated.Good to know
As long as its to her consent, its not a crime.
RomanceRe: Does The Bible Restrict A Christian Couple To A Particular Sexual Position? by XDaBOSS(op): 12:08pm On Jun 07, 2020
BadRadio:
Anything beyond missionary is devilish !!!
The Bible never stated that sir..
RomanceRe: Does The Bible Restrict A Christian Couple To A Particular Sexual Position? by XDaBOSS(op): 12:05pm On Jun 07, 2020
xendra:
there's a lot of things the bible didn't say/mean and God doesn't care about but men have twisted and retwisted until some people are now tired of Gods words because they think it's a trap. but that's just the devil using men to win.

Just be married before sex. as long as you're not hurting yourself or your partner in the process, God doesn't care.
I totally agree with you.
RomanceRe: Does The Bible Restrict A Christian Couple To A Particular Sexual Position? by XDaBOSS(op): 12:03pm On Jun 07, 2020
samincredible44:
since there are no bible scriptures that justify missionary style,you all should just let couples do whatever they want.
Yes, as long as its within their marriage and as long as none of the partner is hurt in the act.
RomanceRe: Does The Bible Restrict A Christian Couple To A Particular Sexual Position? by XDaBOSS(op): 12:02pm On Jun 07, 2020
UndauntedYOCA:
Uh, if there isn't anywhere in the bible where it is stated that missionary style or a particular style is the sole style to go with then make people dey enjoy dey go.grin grin
I believe couples have the right to explore and enjoy their sexuality in which ever way they want to as long as its within their marriage.
Even the Holy Bible did not mention a particular pattern of style which they must enjoy sex with.
RomanceDoes The Bible Restrict A Christian Couple To A Particular Sexual Position? by XDaBOSS(op): 10:42am On Jun 07, 2020
The Bible does not provide a “how to” manual on sexual activity between a husband and wife, but it does provide us various principles. Here are some biblical verses that will give you more knowledge on sexual positions.

Proverbs 5:18-19 “Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her".

1 Corinthians 7:3-5 “A husband should fulfill his obligation to his wife, and a wife should do the same for her husband. A wife does not have authority over her own body, but her husband does. In the same way, a husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but his wife does. Do not withhold yourselves from each other unless you agree to do so just for a set time, in order to devote yourselves to prayer. Then you should come together again so that Satan does not tempt you through your lack of self-control.”

Song of Solomon 4:3-5 “Your lips are like scarlet ribbon; your mouth is inviting. Your cheeks are like rosy pomegranates behind your veil. Your neck is as beautiful as the tower of David, jeweled with the shields of a thousand heroes. Your breasts are like two fawns, twin fawns of a gazelle grazing among the lilies.”

Genesis 1:27-28 “So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Then God blessed them and said, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and govern it. Reign over the fish in the sea, the birds in the sky, and all the animals that scurry along the ground.”



Christian sex life is amazing! Sex (within marriage) is a blessing from God and married couples are free to do any sex position they want, whether you want to do missionary or something else. Sex within marriage is God’s gift to us so you’re free to do whatever between (the two of you only). We are not to have threesomes and sex with multiple people nor are we allowed to bring pornography in the bedroom.

1 Thessalonians 4:2-4 “For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable.”

You should not be afraid to talk with your spouse about your sexual preferences and anything regarding marriage and the bedroom. Have respect for one another. You can’t force someone to do something they don’t want to do.

1 Peter 3:7-8 “You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. To sum up, all of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit.”


http://myrelationshipgists..com/2020/04/does-bible-frown-against-married.html
PoliticsRe: Tinubu With A Placard, Demands Justice For Uwa, Tina And Jennifer (Photo) by XDaBOSS(m): 10:56pm On Jun 02, 2020
This man want play politics again....Baba no hope for u oooo...come 2023
RomanceUnderstanding The Power Of Relationship Expectations And Its Effects by XDaBOSS(op): 11:23am On May 30, 2020
Expectations play an important part in our lives (you expect your day to be good as you woke up in the morning; your boss expects you to show up for work; you expect one thing or the other from someone or something). Similarly, expectations are psychologically important when you enter a relationship.

It's impossible to enter a relationship without expectations.

While expectations can do us a world of good, there are times when they can actually block healthy growth in your relationship (and almost any expectation can ultimately be problematic if you're relying on it too heavily, relying on it while excluding new incoming information to the contrary).

How expectations can lead to relationship problems

Your relationship is more likely to proceed smoothly when your expectations are in sync with your partner's. When you and your partner hold conflicting expectations, relationship problems, such as a breakdown in communication, increased conflict, hurt feelings and a loss of intimacy can arise.

Relationship trouble is also likely when one or both of you hold unrealistic expectations. Here you place demands on your partner (and the relationship) that are unreasonable and unlikely to come to fruition. An example would be expecting that the relationship will always make you happy or that you and your partner will always see eye to eye and agree with each other.

But holding differing expectations in certain relationship areas is a reality for many couples; after all, you and your partner each have unique needs and personality styles, despite the similarities that may exist between you. The goal isn't to find someone who holds the exact same expectations as you do or to convince your partner that s/he must abandon his/her long-held beliefs and see the world exactly as you do. Instead, the goal is to increase awareness of each other's expectations and to find and work toward common ground when possible and learn to accept the inherent differences that may always exist.

Preparing for a relationship is an excellent idea. Part of your relationship preparation should involve increased awareness of one another's expectations. This information will allow for better communication, mutual understanding and compromise, and it will help prevent you from feeling blindsided down the road by any significant differences that may arise between you.

A Few Relationship Categories to Consider

Here are three different areas of your relationship. For each of the listed relationship categories, you and your partner hold certain beliefs and expectations (though you may not be fully aware of them).

For instance, you may expect that you will both work and have a shared bank account.
Can you see why it is important to open up the channels of communication around each other's expectations?

For each area of your relationship listed below, reflect on the following question and write your responses:
What's important to me in this area is____________________________.

When answering this question, be as specific as possible. The more detail, the better.

1. Communication and compromise (do you both value mutual sharing and working out issues with respect and equanimity?). What's important to me in this area is_______________________________________________.

2. Commitment (how you expect to demonstrate your commitment throughout the life of the relationship?). What's important to me in this area is _____________________________________________________________.

3. Money-management (all the ways in which money will be handled and spent). What's important to me in this area is _______________________.

As you write and reflect on your responses, you will slowly gain greater clarity about your expectations for that area of your relationship. Be mindful of the expectations you hold that feel extremely important to you (i.e., you'd be unwilling to compromise regarding this issue if yourpartner holds a conflicting expectation).

Also note the expectations you hold that you'd be willing to compromise on if needed.
Ideally, you could have a discussion with your partner about each of these important relationship categories. This will help you become more attuned to your own needs and your partner's needs.

Understanding your own and your partner's relationship expectations will help you create a mindful and fully conscious union, a union where knowledge and mutual understanding are the norm.
http://myrelationshipgists..com/2020/05/the-power-of-relationship-expectations.html
RomanceFive Questions You Need To Ask Yourself Before Gettimg Into The INSTITUTION by XDaBOSS(op): 9:45pm On May 24, 2020
Getting married is one of the most significant, life changing events you'll ever face. Unfortunately, people don’t always keep this in mind as they plan for their wedding day and not for the more important months and years that follow. Most couples dangerously assume their marriage will just work out, no matter what challenges it faces. Since nearly half the marriages end in divorce and many couples end up seeking for help trying to salvage their relationship, it stands to reason that this assumption is highly flawed.
Rather than leave your marriage to chance, begin to cultivate a realistic mindset that will allow you and your partner to prepare for the future.

5 questions you need ask yourself before getting marred are:

1. Why do you want to get married?
Give yourself time to reflect on this one. You'd be surprised at how many people get married simply because they feel pressured by family, friends, society or an obligation of life they need to fulfill. If you're getting hitched because you’re the only one of your friends who's still single, your parents want grandchildren or feeling pressured by the society as to fulfilling an obligation of life, you might want to rethink things before it's too late.

2. Why do you want to marry this person?
"Because I love him/her" isn't an adequate answer, since love is not enough to make your marriage work. So take a few moments and go deeper. Be very specific, saying "S/he is great" doesn't give you useful information, but saying, "S/he is generous and compassionate" can. What is it about this person in particular that makes him/her different from everyone else you might have married?

3. What core values do you share with your future spouse?
This is one of those areas of a relationship where compatibility matters. Sure, opposites might attract, but your marriage will be on shaky ground when you don't see eye to eye on issues that matter most to you. While it might be premature to ask someone on the first date about his/her core values, you definitely should be having these conversations well before saying "I do."

4. What are the main differences between the two of you?
There is a side effect of love that you should know about. The excitement and euphoria of new love can blur your vision. "Love myopia" will narrow your visual field until you only see how well you and your partner get along. All your similarities will be highlighted. It's important to refocus your vision and think about the ways in which you and your partner also differ. You don't want to be blind sided down the road by a difference you cannot live with.

5. How do you picture married life?
You and your future spouse have expectations about being married. Conflict is likely to increase when your expectations are significantly different from your partner's, (For instance, you envisioned a romantic weekend with your spouse, while for him its the moment to hangout with his boys and watch some football). Many couples may also have unrealistic expectations about love and become disillusioned when faced with the changes that are a natural part of long-term relationships.
When you give these questions serious consideration, you take an important step toward preparing for the joys and challenges of marriage. Share your responses with your future spouse. The discussion that follows should help you develop a foundation based on shared knowledge and realistic expectations.

http://myrelationshipgists..com/2020/05/see-five-questions-you-need-to-ask.html
CrimeRe: Man Punches Taxi Driver To Death In Owerri (Pictures) by XDaBOSS(m): 5:04pm On Mar 01, 2020
See killer punch abeg.......RIP to d dead
RomanceRe: Checking Her Phone Has Cost Us Our Beautiful Relationship by XDaBOSS(m): 3:34pm On Feb 20, 2020
I wonder why most guys feel going through their girlfriends' phones is d right thing to do. It only makes u insecure n even less mature. Girl out of trust allow u touch her phone, u just turn fbi agent on top d phone...
End d relationship pls so we all can find peace.....
CrimeRe: SARS Officers In Ogun Shoot 2 Traders While Chasing Yahoo Boy by XDaBOSS(m): 2:51pm On Feb 20, 2020
Y dem no burn der legs n heads na...mk de feel small pain of wetin der victims de feel??
PoliticsRe: Amotekun: MURIC Sends Message To Southwest Governors by XDaBOSS(m): 12:06am On Feb 16, 2020
Xisnin:
The man is dangerous and many Muslims have chosen to pretend he doesn't exist.
He was the originator of the fake news about "Church" birth certificate even though no such document exists.
When you ask them to give you an example, they run away.
It is all about defending the killer bandits while hiding under religion.
You're right though....its really unfortunate.
PoliticsRe: Amotekun: MURIC Sends Message To Southwest Governors by XDaBOSS(m): 6:41pm On Jan 27, 2020
Yoruba community need to find a way to shot dis man up for good. Ignoring him is not d solution here cuz d FOOL is only trying to please his masters (Fulanizzz) by causing disunity among Yoruba people. Some people are born slaves, n no matter their level of literacy n exposure, they'll still be slaves to even those lesser.
CrimeRe: 4 Herdsmen Killed In Kogi, Their Bodies Dumped In Ofu Rivers -Retaliatory Attack by XDaBOSS(m): 1:52pm On Jan 21, 2020
nawa ooo....naija police xlf just be like journalists now....na to de report feedback dem sabi dis days...
God why u carry put for dis country na? I know say na sinner i b, but i no deserve dis punishment na...
PoliticsRe: N2 Million Christmas Allowance: Senators Angered by XDaBOSS(m): 4:33pm On Jan 13, 2020
Daryldaro:
That's okay.
I hope so
PoliticsRe: N2 Million Christmas Allowance: Senators Angered by XDaBOSS(m): 3:33pm On Jan 13, 2020
Daryldaro:
stop diz.. we dnt pray 4 such, they are our leaders they deserve much more. they make numerous sacrifices for us...even risking thier lives n comfort
With all due respect, I think you sound foolish and senseless too. Is any of your family member a politician/senator too? pls tell me so I can make the curse more intense. You claim they are our leaders....of what good is their leadership to their people? They deserve more? what about the fat millions they are paid as salaries and other allowances? They make numerous sacrifices? I won't comment on this because my comment will be accompanied with a great insult. Risking their lives and comfort? Now am beginning to think you are one of them or probably joking.
so those receiving the minimum wage are they not humans? don't they even have better use to the society than those fat big belly animals called senators....? The minimum wage is even too much for the senators...I hope the get worse than that come December 2020
Christianity EtcRe: Ghanaian Pastor Caught In Hotel Room Trying To Sleep With Church Elder's Wife by XDaBOSS(m): 3:20pm On Jan 13, 2020
This looks more like a movie role....I can't be convinced
EducationRe: I Want To Go To School But I'm Confused by XDaBOSS(m): 3:12pm On Jan 13, 2020
Medicine or Pharmacy? Oya choose one.........
FYI, u need like, sorry...u need love biochem ooo, cuz whether you finally get medicine or pharmacy u must stake biochem courses during your course of study. So I don't understand which one is "I hate biochem".
Well, my advice to you is that you learn to love biochem, enjoy it, work harder, write jamb, have a good score (250 and above) and then you'll be good for your course of choice.
PoliticsRe: N2 Million Christmas Allowance: Senators Angered by XDaBOSS(m): 3:01pm On Jan 13, 2020
Is okey....come 2020 December, they'll all be getting the minimum wage as their Christmas bonus. 2million too small abi? See how foolish and senseless they sound xlf
HealthRe: What's The Name & Medical Uses Of This Flower? by XDaBOSS(m): 2:54pm On Jan 13, 2020
It is used as a local drink because it helps provide blood to the body

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