This is more than genocide. I have not seen such autrocities in Nigeria before. Buhari, his people and his evil party must ask for sincere forgiveness from God and Nigerians.
It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.
There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.
During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.
I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.
So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.
Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.
The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.
PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.
Don't give up on yourself dear. While there is life, there is hope. A Living dog is far better than a dead lion.
lekanolas: Political thugs loyal to the Chairman of the National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW) in Lagos, Musiliu Ayinde Akinsanya popularly known as MC Oluomo hijacked ballot boxes in the Sogunle area of Oshodi during Saturday’s local government elections in Lagos State.
The thugs, who moved around in two Toyota buses hijacked ballot boxes at various polling centres in the area.
The thugs who were fully armed chased away voters before hijacking the boxes.
In one of the attacks at Diran Alake street, the PDP councillorship aspirant for Ewu ward narrowly escaped death.
His brother popular know as Double O was, however, beaten to stupor and taken to an unknown destination. As at press time, his whereabouts is still unknown.
The incident, which occurred around 1p.m also left many wounded.
The thugs were led by Samson Agbetoye, a.k.a. Golden. Golden is a known thug and loyalist of MC Oluomo.
To show that the attacks have the blessings of MC Oluomo, the NURTW boss drove past the area a few minutes after the incident.
Ababbio: The Emir of Daura, Alhaji Umar Farouk Umar Kastina state has said that Nigeria is lucky to have president Muhammadu Buhari, Newspremises reports.
The Emir made this remark when president Buhari paid him a courtesy visit in his place on Friday, July 23, 2020.
The mornach said things “would have been very difficult” if he, President Buhari, wasn't in office.
In his words:
“Your visit to Daura reflects your good character which we are very proud of. I can assure you that men, women, children, marketers and artisans are always pleased to receive you and they will be praying for you.
Today is not for speeches but for appreciation. We have been blessed so much as a community because you are the leader of the country. You have brought honor to our domain.
As a community, we have benefited a lot with the increased traffic of people and organizations coming to help us here. We know it’s because of you.Nigeria is lucky to have President Buhari, things would be difficult without him - Emir of Daura says May the good Lord always go before you and behind you, and remove all obstacles from your path.
Nigeria is lucky to have you at this time. I am not saying it to please you, but if you had not been in power it would have been very difficult. I doubt if we will be here today.”
Many applicants have called me and are asking questions towards the ongoing FRSC recruitment having one or two issues hindering them to apply.
Since the recruitment started i have applied for many applicants which i have lost counts, i will use my experience so far in giving applicants who wants to apply themselves.
FRSC online recruitments is always not straight forward, for those that applied in 2018 could remember.
So when they open the portal for 2021 exercise, it is so easy for me because of the previous experiences i had for applicants in 2018.
If you follow the steps i am giving out you will do it successfully yourself.
STEP TO STEP on how to apply for 2021 FRSC online recruitment;
2. Read the instructions and the position you are qualified for, fill in the form currently with email, then submit.
3. Password would be sent to your email. Copy the password, come back to the portal, at the top you will see "applicant login", click on it and login, with your email and password sent to you.
4. After that, at the top again, you will see your full name you registered with, click on it, scroll down, you will see edit profile and my account.
5. Click on edit my account: from there you will see manage password, then change the password to your own password.
6. Scroll up and you will see manage profile besides manage my account, click on it and scroll down, you will see upload file, click on it and upload your password that doesn't exist more 50kb, after uploading, click upload file at the top, and click update, you will see your uploaded passport at the top of the screen, with this you have successfully creates a profile on the portal.
Now, time to start your application, your will see Application at the top, click it, you will see my application, click it, you will your submit application, click on it, then fill the stages one after the other till the passport stage, once you get there, upload same passport you uploaded earlier, it will upload, then preview and finish it. Clue:
- Creating profile first will bypass the issues of passport error and when you get to preview stage, your passport may not show but do not worry, you can submit it
- If you are using phone, make sure your browser is on desktop form
- You are uploading passport alone
- At the preview page, your passport may not show, go ahead and submit
If you are still having issues, you can quote me with your questions here, i will try to find time to respond as soon as possible and if you want me to apply for you, contact me at;
Politics › Re: The Cruel And Savage Genocide Of The Buhari-osinbajo Regime Must Be Stopped! by Xscape1993(m): 3:51pm On Jul 26, 2021
