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In graduate school I lived with three close friends. We shared a four-bedroom house, groceries and a strong desire to find husbands. Though we didn’t discuss it in mixed company, we talked about it a lot in the safety of our home. It was probably the subject we talked about most. Sitting in the hallway, eating popcorn in our pajamas, we’dadmit that our deepest longing, even more than career success, was to get married. Then we’d bemoan how most of our male classmates were either not marriage material or....... Read More >>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/08/finding-a-husband/

“I cannot recall a time when an article stirred such anger in me…. I am SHOCKED that Focus on the Family would allow such an article to be placed on its website.” ” I must say that I can hardly find words to properly express myhorror at the bogus expert that was posted on your website.”
So began two of many emails we received complaining about ” The........ Read More>>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/08/defending-the-cost-of-delaying-marriage%ef%bf%bc/

I was divorced two years ago from a devastating relationship. I’m now at a state of recovery where I find myself being friends with both men and women. My problem comes when I find myself not knowing how to “be a friend” with a woman. As a result, I ........... Read More>>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/08/as-a-divorced-man-how-can-i-be-a-womans-friend/

Tashamania: OP. Your sex reads 'male'

Is there something you are not telling us?

wat do u want to hear from me?

Well, Harley and I were best friends. I discovered that loved him more than life itself when we started dating. He was everything I wanted and more in someone. When he couldn’t take a relationship, he broke up with me and said he’d think about us dating again when we graduate in a few months. I missed him, but I understood where he was coming from. He was scared becasue I was breaking through his emotional wall. He realized that he loved me more than he thought.

Then the unthinkable happened: he told me he...... Read more>>>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/07/love-lost-and-found/

Chapter One

Our love story started long before Matthew and I ever actually met.

And when you think about it, most love stories start that way. Every moment leading up to the one in which you meet your future husband or wife somehow shapes you and prepares you for that person you were fated for. Any previous heartbreaks or dark days or lonely nights can be crucially important in the grand scheme of things—sometimes we need to know what something feels like when it’s wrong before we can ever really know it when another thing is RIGHT.

So that’s why I need to start the story with a little bit of background. The whole “girl meets boy, boy and girl fall in love, boy and girl get married” model is a little too simplistic for my needs. You people want details, don’t you? Of course you do.

When I was 18 years old and working as a waitress at a little family restaurant, I met a guy who was 10 years older than me. He was the one who came before Matthew. We dated for three and half years, and even lived together during the last year and half of that relationship. We moved into a tiny little house and owned Gracie and Cooper together and our relationship was never a terrible one. He was a good guy, I was a good girl, and we really did love each other.

But for every moment of those three and a half years, I had a
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Here are our 3 unique marriage proposal stories.

#1Diana and Don (engaged)
Diana never thought Don was into all the romantic stuff. However, his Valentine’s Day proposal changed all that.
From Diana: “Don and I have been living together for four years and have two kids. Inever really thought much about having a real wedding or a romantic marriage proposal. I always figured one day that we’d just decide to do it or not. So his proposal actually came as a shock.
On Valentine’s Day last year, we got a babysitter for the kids and went to our favorite Italian restaurant. As we were eating dinner, I reached into the bread basket and to my surprise, found a velvet gift box instead. By the time, I could open it, Don was asking me to marry him. I was so floored that I couldn’t stop crying. We are getting married in May.”
#2 Dexie and Scott (married 11 years)
Dexie and Scott had been dating only aboutsix weeks, when he proposed........ Read more>>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/06/romantic-proposal-stories/

There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl. This
romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper-cranes as a gift to his girl.
Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future
doesn’t seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day,
his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back.
She also told him that she couldn’t visualize any future for the both of
them, so let’s go their own ways there and then …Heartbroken, the guy
agreed. But......... Read more>>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/06/heart-touching-love-story-a-way-of-love/

Do you know why girls play hard to get? Perhaps, it’s because knowing how to play hard to get with a guy is by far the most effective way to make any guy desire you in no time. After all, it’s a secret that really works!
Knowing how to play hard to get with a guy is the difference between becoming desirable and being overlooked.
But most men do say it puts them off. So why do girls play hard to get anyways?
And are men really telling the truth? Does playing hard to get turn them off?
Playing hard to get
Guys may get frustrated when they have to put up with girls who play hard to get, but they too, would accept that they like it when girls play hard to get.
Well, at least most men would.
How to play hard to get with a guy
We’ve seen it happen several times, in movies,amongst friends and in several other places full of frenzied dating activities.
Women love playing hard to get, and they usually play hard to get even if they..... Read More>>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/02/how-to-play-hard-to-get-with-a-guy/

You know how to attract a guy’s attention, but do you know how to make him want to go out with you? Find out how to make a man fall in love with you using these simple steps.
It’s easy to attract a guy and make him like you.
The hard part is knowing how to make a man fall in love with you.
You don’t have to change yourself or pretend to be dumb just to make a man you like feel comfortable around you.
If you really want to make a man fall in love with you, you need to understand men and their ways, and use it to your advantage.
How to make a man fall in love
Use these ten tips and you’ll see how easy it can be to connect with a man and make him desire you.
And what’s the best part? Well, you really don’t need to change a thing about yourself!
#1 Dress attractively
Men are visual, and women know this better than anything else.
When you’re out with the man you like, dress your best. If you see him grinning widely or taking discreet glances at your attire, you know you’ve hit the nail.
But dressing attractively doesn’t just stop working its magic there.
If he sees other men staring at you or admiring you, it’ll only make him desire you more. Men are extremely competitive when it comes to wooing women.
Win the attention of other men in the room, and the man you like will do anything to get more attention from you. And of course, he’ll realize how lucky he is to be with you.
#2 Be pleasant and smile often
Men can’t ever resist a cute smile. And if you can be pleasant and warm when you’re with him, he’ll....... Read more>>> http://coolpenny./2013/01/02/10-easy-how-to-make-a-man-fall-in-love-with-you%ef%bf%bc%ef%bf%bc/

“How can I get the most out of sex? How can I have a fulfilling love life?” University students worldwide ask these questions. Why? Because both pleasure and emotional fulfillment are important facets of sex.
Sex is often on our minds. According to two psychologists at the universities of Vermont and South Carolina, 95% of people think about sex at least once each day.{1} You might wonder, “You mean that 5% of the people don’t?”
One way not to have a dynamic sex life is to concentrate solely on technique. There is certainly nothing wrong with......read more>>> http://coolpenny./2012/12/27/dynamic-sex-unlocking-the-secret-to-love%ef%bf%bc/

There are laws that govern the process of getting rich and when applied by any one, the person is bound to become rich. The reality is that anyone who practices these principles knowingly or unknowingly becomes rich
n 1910, a man named Wallace Wattles published a book titled The Science of Getting Rich. He claimed that anyone who followed the process laid out in thebook was bound to become rich with mathematical certainty. It turns out that since its publication and up until today, men and women have used the processes he laid out to become very rich. The processes in his book are summarized and outlined here in modern day English.
Anyone can follow the processes and become rich because getting rich is as aresult of doing things in a CERTAIN WAY – like causes always produce like effects.Anyone with an imagination and some discipline follow the processes. These principles work regardless of your current financial status, profession, business, career, or geographic location.
Of course you will naturally do better in a business or profession that is in alignment with your personality. A goodpersonality test will reveal which environment suits you best, your primary motivations, and what career suits your personality best. It will also provide a guide how you should direct your energies. To fast-track your progress by understanding what suits you best, you should start of by taking this personality test which is one of the best available, and create an alignment between your efforts and your energies.Take the personality test by clicking here
Principles from The Science of Getting Rich
Principle 1 – Create the Mental Image and Hold On To It
The force that created the earth is still working today. Creation is happening asyou read this and thought is the only power that can produce tangible riches. Everything you see is a product of thought. Therefore you should create a picture of the things you desire. Thought in the creative plane produces the thing that is held in that thought.
A person has the power to create the things he or she thinks about in a sustained and consistent way. Regardless of your current financial circumstances, in your mind you need tocreate a picture of what you desire. Create the thought in your mind and hold on to it. You will notice that to think of your current reality and financial situation is easy and does not require much effort, however the powerand secret lies in your ability to create the image you desire and hold on to it in your mind and hold onto it as truth.
A person who can think in a sustained and consecutive way of riches when in poverty and surrounded by poverty or the appearance of it, becomes a master mind. It is the first principle to practice to become rich. Thankfully there are processes and tools that can help. Thereare advanced visualization techniques available today that help to manifest your desires easier, faster, and effortlessly. Essentially you create motivational, customized movies of yourmental images and it changes your entire life by your devoting just a few minutes a day. To create your customized movies of your mental images click here.
Hold the mental image of what you desire with positive certainty that it is being made and it is on its way to you.
Principle 2 – Know That It Is Your Right to Be Rich
Understand and accept that it is the will of the Creator for you to........READ MORE>>> http://sapostiks..com/2012/12/12-proven-principles-of-getting-rich.html?m=1

Fake news

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Here is a look at 10 of the most crucial events in 2012 that made the world pay attention. Some were good and some too horrible, it’s better to forget.
1. January 2: OccupyNigeria protest began in Nigeria in response to the fuel subsidy removal by the Federal Government of President Goodluck Jonathan. Protests took place across the country, including the Nigerian Embassy in London, New York and Italy.
2. January 28 – Death toll from coordinated bombing attacks in....Read more>>> http://sapostiks..com/2012/12/occupied-in-nigeria-displaced-in-new.html?m=1

2013 brings new things and new experiences. You are a co-creator of your experiences and you have the opportunity to take action to make your 2013 happy and bright. These are processes that will guide you to make your 2013 happy and bright
2012 has been a great year, an interesting one full of surprises and just like every year, full of new things. 2013 is a new year and every new year bringspossibilities. Rationalize it this way, a huge door opens up with unlimited possibilities and you can walk in and take what you want. That's a fact.
Every new year brings possibilities and opportunities that can change your life in a second. There is one thing you should know at this time and keep with you; it is that you are a co-creator with the Universe. You create the circumstances, experiences, and events that you experience. Assuming you havenot been doing so purposely, but rather doing it unconsciously like most people, now is the time to tap into your personal power and create the life you want.
There are four and a half processes that you should adopt and utilize which will make your 2013 happy and bright. That is what you want? Right.
# 1 Process: Forgiveness
Now is the time to let go of hurts, pain, bitterness, disappointments, and regrets. Someone once said that......Read more>>> http://sapostiks..com/2012/12/4-and-half-processes-that-will-make.html?m=1

December 25, 2010: Just in time for Christmas, Palestinian Authority TV comes outwith shows extolling the fact (at least among Palestinians) that Jesus was a Palestinian and the first Palestinian martyr. Christians believe that the Romans executed Jesus to placate a faction of the Jewish clergy who opposed themessage Jesus was putting out. Jesus was known as a popular rabbi, and was accused by the Romans of claiming to be "king of the Jews." Some Jews (who later became Christians) accepted Jesus as the long awaited messiah. But most Jews, and all Moslems, do not. Moslems believe Jesus was.......... Read more>>> http://sapostiks..com/2012/12/shocking-revelations-about-jesus-christ.html?m=1

According to tweets emanating fromNollywood diva, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde’s Twitter handle, she just returned back to the country and that is no news we know but what however is,she fell face flat at the arrival hall of the Lagos airport. This was apparently due to......Read more>>> http://sapostiks..com/2012/12/omotola-falls-face-flat-at-lagos-airport.html?m=1

Constant complaining creates more stress in a relationship, while gratitude creates emotional, spiritual and physical health. All relationships need a little pick-me-up sometimes–even the best of them. If you feellike your relationship isn’t quite what it usedto be, here are some things you can do to improve it and keep your fire burning. 1. Improve your communication There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication. The more you communicate with your woman, the lesslikely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems insteadof holding them in. Remember, if you......... Read more>>> http://sapostiks..com/2012/12/8-trusted-ways-to-deepen-your.html?m=1

A coroner has described the death of a man who was found standing up in his kitchen as ‘bizarre’. A friend called out when he saw Andrew Evans, 35, through the window standing up with his hand reaching into a cupboard in the kitchen of his East Grinstead, West Sussex home. But it was only when he received no reply and let himself in that Mr Evans’s friend realised that he was dead. Mr Evans had injured his head before his death on May 10,...... Read more>>> http://sapostiks..in/2012/12/bizarre-drunk-man-found-dead-standing.html?m=1

Have you been struggling with obesity even though you eat well and exercise frequently?New research shows that some people who are suffering from obesity are not entirely responsible for their weight gain. The research shows that a certain type of bacteria in the foods that you are eating maybe causing you to put on weight. The studywas done in Shanghai with mice. The researchers bred these mice to be....... Read more>>> http://sapostiks..in/2012/12/are-you-struggling-with-your-weight.html?m=1

The brain is an amazing organ; the coordination centre of sensation and intellect. There used to be a misconception about our brains, our intelligence, and our IQ. We used to think that we were bound to live with the intelligence level we had at any given time. New research has shown that we can become more intelligent, smarter, and increase our IQ levels by........ Read more >> http://sapostiks..in/2012/12/5-simple-steps-to-becoming-more.html?m=1

A Cameroon appeals court upheld a sentence against a man convicted of homosexuality for texting his male friend to say, “I’m very much in love with you.”

Roger Mbede, a university student, was arrested in March last year after the man who received the message tipped off authorities, Human Rights Watch said.

A court sentenced Mbede to three years in prison at the time after he was........READ MORE>>>
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A book claiming to be the world’s first ‘gay bible’ has been published to coincide with the debate on same-sex marriage.

Titled the ‘Queen James Bible’, its editors claim that it is a re-working of the King James Bible translated in a way that ‘prevents homophobic misinterpretation of God’s Word’.

‘Homosexuality was first overtly mentioned in the Bible in 1946 in the Revised Standard Version. There is no mention of or reference to homosexuality in any Bible prior to this – only interpretations have been made’, the book’s official website said.

 

KING V QUEEN: BIBLES COMPARED

 

Genesis 19:5 (King James)
‘And they called unto Lot, and  said unto him, Where are the  men which came in to thee this night? Bring them out unto........Read more>>>
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Cheating requires significant effort. Messages have to be conveyed. Time and locations are discussed. Is your man covering the phone and speaking in hushed tones?

Love is a wonderful thing. So is falling into it. Feelings can be very complicated and confusing. How do you know that your love muffin is all that he claims to be? Is he putting on a show or is he genuine? It takes a while to know for sure, so don’t rush headlong into love with your eyes wide shut. As you navigate your love life, there are several tricks and secrets that you can use to stay happy, healthy and sane.

Many people fall in love with love and later learn that compatibility just isn’t there. Maybe your fella is just interested in an ego boost; craving your attention, fun and sex. Perhaps he’s even looking for you to pay his bills. Or what if he really does want love and domestic bliss, complete with a family of his own? How will you know? Everyone has a motive and a desire. You need to understand what drives him. To do that, you need to pay attention.

Emotions can be as stormy or as calm as the sea. It is hard enough to tell your own feelings, let alone guess at his. You recognize the ebb and flow of the tides: life is constantly changing. You want a relationship that is easy, happy and free of negativity. But life will always serve up something surprising. If you’d like to reduce your chances of bad surprises, you need to be on the lookout for warning signs.

Suddenly a Sweetheart

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