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For decent and responsible Anambra State Ladies ready to settle down, pls feel free to drop ur pin here. It possible u can find him here. Good Luck.

Seun: Christ Embassy. I think their ladies are wealthy, single, liberal and affectionate!!

I hear say majority Christ Embassy men na G * A * Y..... So lots of single ladies will be there.

Goldie Harvey’s Manger’s Statement

Goldie Harvey,Nigeria’s Female Pop sensation is alive and not dead as speculated by most online media platforms including Linda
Ikeji’s blog.

Goldie’s manager,TeeJay who disclosed this in a tweet stated that it was untrue as her client was still hale and hearty and attributed the story to the works of her enemies.

Linda Ikeji had retweeted a tweet supposedly by Goldie on her handle @goldieharvey and later posted the rumour on her blog and said she confirmed it from Denrenle,Goldie’s friend.

She had said,Goldie went into a coma and was later taken to....... continue to read. http://sapostiks..co.uk/2013/02/goldie-is-alive-not-dead-managersays.html

Continued from Part 2

That was the bad news. Now, here is the GOOD NEWS for the nice guys (only).

Believe it or not, that overgrown Boy Scout approach to women that everybody tells you is a liability… Nice Guys Finish Last… hmm, remember that?. That can actually be a mega advantagefor you Mr. Nice Guy.

You see, a jerk has the boldness, fearlessness and courage to walk up to a woman and face her rejection — kudos to him. But that’s all this cocky egomaniac has going for him. Some better-than-you arrogance, some charm from him being a player, and the passion driven by him being the center of his own universe. He has no clue what it’s like to have a heart that can love a woman because his idea of love is getting drunk every night and sexing it up with pretty, dumb air-heads — or anything with a skirt standing in a dimly- lit street corner.

The Nice Guy (a real one) on the other hand, is a man of character and is sensitive to women’s feelings, and given the chance is capable of being a good guy in a relationship. But unfortunately, too much sensitivity and often too much “political correctness” is all nice guys have to offer. A lot of heart, brain smarts (but not so much social smarts), and not so much guts (too much wishy-washiness).

Women don’t give “nice guys” much of a chance because “you guys are so easily intimidated, try too hard to be liked, show too much interest too soon, and turn yourselves inside out to please. It’s so hard to respect someone who always says “you’re right…”, “anything you say…”, “bend over and I’ll kiss your ass”. As partners you nice guys bore us women to death and drain out all the passion, love and life out of us.

A real bad boy has the boldness, fearlessness and courage of the jerk and the thoughtfulness and sensitivity of the Nice Guy — and he takes these traits to a whole other level…

Here is where being a Nice Guy can really be a BLESSING.

Since it’s so much harder to acquire a “loving heart”, develop character and learn how to be sensitive to women’s feelings in ways that make women feel truly respected and truly loved, it’s so much harder for a jerk to embody that DEPTH OF EMOTIONAL RESONANCE that the bad boy has.

That gives you the Nice Guy an edge over jerks because most of you already have a lot of heart and character, and all you need to do is............continue reading http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/why-women-dig-the-bad-boy-sex-appeal-part-3/http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/why-women-dig-the-bad-boy-sex-appeal-part-3/

The Navy SEAL who killed Osama bin Laden has recounted in an interview the night he shot the al-Qaida leader three times.

WASHINGTON: The Navy SEAL who killed Osama bin Laden broke his silence on Monday, recounting in an interview the night he shot the al-Qaida leader three times and the financial anxiety he now faces as an unemployed civilian.

The commando kept his identity secret in the Esquire magazine profile but revealed his role in the daring May 2011 raid for the first time, as well as the worries he has for his family's security.

"He looked confused. And way taller than I was expecting," the SEAL says of Bin Laden.

When the commandos came upon Bin Laden in the dark on the third floor of his Pakistani hideout, the al-Qaida mastermind had his hands on his youngest wife's shoulders, "pushing her ahead" and there was a AK-47 nearby.

"I don't know if she's got a vest and she's being pushed to martyr them both. He's got a gun within reach. He's a threat. I need to get a head shot so he won't have a chance to clack himself off (blow himself up)," the commando says.

"In that second, I shot him, two times in the forehead. Bap! Bap! The second time as he's going down. He crumpled onto the floor in front of his bed and I hit him again, Bap! same place," he says.

"He was dead. Not moving. His tongue was out."

The Esquire article, which refers to the unnamed commando as "the Shooter," focuses on the Navy SEAL's plight as an anonymous hero without a pension, health insurance or extra security for his family, with the title: "The Man Who Killed Osama bin Laden...is Screwed."

The lengthy magazine profile comes after another Navy SEAL who took part in the raid, Matt Bissonnette, published a book last year, "No Easy Day," which drew the ire of Pentagon officials who allege he broke a pledge not to disclose classified information.

The Esquire article confirms earlier accounts, including one in "No Easy Day," describing how once Bin Laden was mortally wounded and collapsed on the floor, other SEALs shot him repeatedly in the chest and legs.

According to Esquire, the whole confrontation with Bin Laden took only 15............ continue reading @ http://sapostiks..com/2013/02/navy-seal-who-killed-osama-bin-laden.html

Continued from Part 1

The sex appeal of a bad boy is real, so real that once we women go “BAD” it’s really hard for us to go “NICE” — BUT of course there has to be more to the boy than badness for badness sake.

Regardless of what we women say we want from the men in our lives, and regardless of what society tells us to want, on some deep primal level we want men who exhibit the traits of UNCORRUPTED AND UNADULTERATED MASCULINE ENERGY — that is the abundance of masculine energy balanced by traits of feminine energy.

Now, before you go completely weird on me and start calling me nasty names.

Let me say that I completely understand that this is hard truth to swallow, especially in cultures where we’ve been conditioned to think that one has to be competitive, aggressive, antagonistic, emotionally detached and guarded, uncompromising and physically stiff like a robot to be considered a “real man”. Those men who exhibit any slight traces of feminine energy (easy-going, non-competitive or consensus-driven, emotionally intuitive or sensitive, physically virile or lithe etc.) are laughed at and made to feel like they’re deficient, damaged, flawed or confused about their sexual orientation.

This thinking is psychologically and psychosexually faulty from get-go and has nothing to do with real masculinity or with reality. This is one of the main reasons why so many women today feel that something is missing in so many so called “alpha males”– IT IS.

In the natural and in reality, both of these energies have to be present in an individual for that individual to be “in balance” within him or herself, and to be able to both captivate the hearts and enrage the hormones of the opposite sex. Men have to have some traces of feminine energy just as women have to have some traces of masculine energy for “inner balance” and irresistible magnetism.

A REAL bad boy is the example of a man who has embraced this duality of energies and is most successful at using each energy in the right way, at the right time, in the right place and unto the right person.

But just who is this man that almost every man wants to be, and almost every woman wants to sleep with?

1. A real bad boy isn’t necessarily a model of physical perfection — just a real human being with scars, warts, defects and all but someone who is very confident in who he is and in his own person.

2.  He is quick-witted in a boyish cheeky way and whatever his age, he never seems to grow old at heart, dull in mind or weary in body. His uncanny ability to always add an erotic edge of danger about everything makes him so unpredictable and mysterious (that lone wolf aura).

3. In front of women, he is starkly honest (sometimes too honest) and an open book. He doesn’t pretend to be a saint (what-we-see-is-what-we-get). He is also tough enough to stand up for what he believes in and even take on the world if he has to (this sometimes gets him in trouble).

4. He takes no nonsense from nobody (not even from the woman he loves) but can also be very tender, attentive, vulnerable (dark side), ultra-sensual, incredibly passionate, determined and persistent.

5. He is one of those rare men who is completely in touch with his natural instincts and able to articulate his own feelings (very calm in every situation). He can be picky as hell but when he loves a woman, he loves her so deeply, so noticeably and so overpoweringly that he brings to life the UNCORRUPTED AND UNADULTERATED FEMININE ENERGY within her.

This is the kind of man almost all women would like their guy to be a little more like every now and then. In my African native culture we call this kind of man “the warrior with the wildness pounding in his veins”.

His WILD AND UNTAMED DISPOSITION (masculine energy) enrages women’s hormones, and the........ Continue reading @ http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/why-women-dig-the-bad-boy-sex-appeal-part-2/

The head of the world’s Catholic Church, Pope Benedict XVI, has announced that he’ll resign from office on February
Vatican spokesman announced the retirement, but gave no reasons for the resignation.

A press conference is scheduled for later today by the Church.

The full text of the Pope’s announcement follows.

Dear Brothers,

I have convoked you to this Consistory, not only for the three canonizations, but also to communicate to you a decision of great importance for the life of the Church. After having repeatedly examined my conscience before God, I have come to the certainty that my strengths, due to an advanced age, are no longer suited to an adequate exercise of the Petrine ministry. I am well aware that this ministry, due to its essential spiritual nature, must be carried out not only with words and deeds, but no less with prayer and suffering. However, in today’s world, subject to so many rapid changes and shaken by questions of deep relevance for the life of faith, in order to govern the bark of Saint Peter and proclaim the Gospel, both strength of mind and body are necessary, strength which in the last few months, has deteriorated in me to the extent that I have had to recognize my incapacity to adequately fulfill the ministry entrusted to me. For this reason, and well aware of the seriousness of this act, with full freedom I declare that I renounce the ministry of Bishop of Rome, Successor of...... Continue reading @ http://sapostiks..com/2013/02/the-head-of-worlds-catholic-church-pope.html

Mynd_44: Why would anyone wanna dete their ex?

U de ask me?

One can describe Kemi Olunloyo in many ways, an outspoken journalist, media expert, advocate, politician,deportee, the list goes on.

The daughter of former governor of Oyo State, Omololu Olunloyo is one outspoken woman that keeps on talking even when it threatens her life, she’s come under attack so many times but that has not stopped her in any way from posting comments online.

Recently, reports that she had complained about Yoruba people altering their real names on Facebook sparked reactions from all corners of social networking sites.

Olunloyo had posted:

“Nigerians really irritate me on Facebook when they alter their names into these eyesore names. As a member of the Community standards team at Facebook, u are not allowed a fake name. Many Nigerians in the Yoruba tribe where I am from, disgustingly alter the spellings of their names to horrible proportions. These beautiful African names are defaced due to lack of self esteem. I reported 10 last week on FB and they were told to produce ID before their pages could be re-opened. They got mad at me. I clearly warned them beforehand. Even ppl with other fake nicknames need to be reported if you see them without a real name. I don’t see this trend in other tribes in Nigeria. #SMH

My full name is Olukemi Omololu-Olunloyo spelled like a eyesore is Holukehmi Hormololoo-Howloonlawyour”

When we decided to look for the source of this comment, we stumbled on far more shocking opinions from herself.

Just before like many others who thought her statements aren’t real, Olunloyo made it clear on her Facebook page that they were:

 ”Nigerians, why are yáll so WEAK to think my acct has been hacked when u see a shocking status. Don’t u have people that KEEP it REAL in Nigeria?,” she posted.

Here are 10 controversial comments from Kemi Olunloyo:

1. Igbos are the wisest Nigerians. If they were all deported to Imo/Anambra/Enugu, the Economy of Ibadan will collapse!

2. Anyone WORSHIPING with Adeboye and Oyedepo are in a C.U.LT. they are all risking DEATH like Jim Jones congregation.

3. Yorubas treat Hausas terrible. They are not ur sooya slaves!

4. Good Morning, its 9.15am in the City of Angels. (Real Angels)
Stop messaging me about an AGENT of the DEVIL!
F**k Adeboye

5. One of my children was raped by a govt official at age 4. It was covered up. It has eaten me up inside for years and I am now on the phone with his US Senator while Im (sic) here. I want justice for my son.

6. Why are most of my FB fans in Ng MEN? Could it be the women are jealous and intimidated?

7. Madam Governor Lifestyle: YES I carry Guns around Ibadan. There are 5 of them and I owned them legally in the USA.

8. Madam Governor Lifestyle: NIGERIAN WOMEN, you irresponsible bitches that feel that I should have stayed in an abusive relationship at 26 need to know that domestic violence should not be tolerated in Nigeria.

9. Nigerian Muslim women, I know I rippped yáll last month and u gave me 1500 comments and failed to go burn the streets down. I’m one of you. Remember keep those HIJABS clean. I have had to cover my nose smelling ppl’s heads while waiting at the bus stop. Also it is absolutely NOT necessary to rinse your vagina during an abolition. Hands, legs and head ONLY.

My statuses are designed to read the Nigerian mind and mentality. I want to fix this country and being a politician is not the only way to do it.

10. I once proposed to AKON in Canada. He loves Nigerian women.

Love her or hate her, Olunloyo who has plans to head to the Senate in 2015, will keep on talking in her hope to change the Nigerian mentality

The Bad Boy Sex Appeal

Why do women always fall for the bad boys and leave the good guys?”

This is a puzzle that bugs the hell out of so many guys.

The theory out there — usually advanced by frustrated guys complaining about the “jerks” who get the women they can’t have and those who constantly worry that a “bad boy” might steal away the woman they love and they won’t be able to do a damn thing about it — is that women must somehow be “addicted’ to shady and scandalous characters who demean, humiliate and treat them like disposable objects.

First up, to generalize and say all bad boys are the same and that every bad boy is up to no good, is to have a serious tunnel vision on the sex appeal of the bad boy.

However, I have to agree that there are women who are intrigued by what they themselves don’t understand. These women fall fast and hard for jerks, gangsters, criminals, thugs, bullies, moochers, addicts, womanizers, abusers and emotionally unavailable men because these men mimic some of the QUALITIES that make bad boys so appealing but soon or later the women realize that these men are as cold, selfish, cheap, lazy, spoiled, calculating, bitter, cruel and controlling as they come.

This attraction to struggling or troubled souls that need fixing, protecting or nurturing has very little to do with love or even the men themselves, and a lot to do with these women’s need (yes, need) for men who bring out in them a deeply buried desire to be depended up on, or overpowered (or punished) by an aggressive, cold, ruthless, selfish, heart-less and even possibly violent male.

Many of these women fall for these men knowing too well that these men want a shag but not a relationship, or cheated on their last girlfriends, or have a long rap sheet, or have never held a steady job, or are zonked out on drugs and alcohol every evening etc. but the attraction is so strong because troubled souls create the outer chaos these women need to distract themselves from what’s really going on in their own souls. These women manage to somehow convince themselves that if they can somehow make him more loving, get him off drugs, help him succeed or whatever, then they can somehow have the love they didn’t get in childhood, or feel important (something they never made to feel growing up) or even get back the “power” taken away from them in their past. But they are only........continue reading @ http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/why-women-dig-the-bad-boy-sex-appeal-part-1/

This list of “don’t take your ex back (yet)” signs applies to men and women alike.

1. S/he has not completely accepted that you’re broken up and still talks like you’re still together or acts like you owe him/her something.

2. Contacts (in person, letter, cards, email, text or phone) are always about him/her trying to convince you that s/he has changed. Even when s/he is talking about you or the relationship, you get the sense he has no real interest in what you think, your needs or wishes.

3. S/he is still being controlled by neurotic neediness – e.g. contacting you because he/she thought you contacted him/her, then contacting you again to apologize for earlier on mistakenly contacting you, and then contacting you again – for whatever.

4.  S/he is (still) blaming “someone else” (you, your friend (s), relative(s), “other man/woman” etc.) for the problems in the relationship, for the break-up or for the two of you not being able to “get back” together.

5. S/he is still obsessed with “fixing you” and talks like s/he knows you better than you know yourself. You feel like you’re constantly being “coached/counseled” by a life coach/relationships “expert”.

6. S/he won’t let you take any responsibility for your role in the break up.  Says things like “You were great, I’m the one who messed up” or “You’re a wonderful person, I made you do x and y”. See this for what it is, “emotional bribery”. It takes two to create a relationship and it takes two to destroy it. If /she doesn’t get that simple fact, s/he still doesn’t get it. It’s that simple!...............continue @
http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/10-red-signs-you-shouldnt-your-ex-take-back/

Whilst breaking up is hard for everyone regardless of whether you’ve been going out for one week, one month or one year, how each person chooses to move on after the break up is different. Personally, I do not think there is one best decision that works for everyone and I’ve seen one decision that worked for one person completely fall flat on the face for another.

Let’s look at some of the pros and cons of each of the FOUR possible decisions:

1. Completely severe ties

There are many reasons why people no longer want to keep contact. These can range from the break up being too painful to anger about the break-up, from trying to suppress feeling of love that still linger to fearing that an ex may interfere with a new relationship. If you (or the other person) want to completely severer ties, that’s your right. The upside of this decision is that sometimes you need a clean slate on which to begin a new relationship – no ex-baggage. The down side is that you may cutting yourself off from the one person who really knows you and can be a strong support system (true friends are few and far between) when you need a shoulder to lean on ‘ especially before you meet someone new.

2. Stay friends spend a lot of time together, hug, and accidentally, from time to time, kiss

Some people decide to stay friends because they enjoy each others company and especially if they’ve really become very close and have intricately interwoven lifestyles. The plus side of this decision is that although you’ve broken up, you can still enjoy all the benefits of a relationship. You don’t have to feel lonely or get a groin work out from strangers (with all the risks). The flaw with this decision is that one or both parties are setting themselves up for another heart break when one person finally does move on or meets someone new. The person who feels left behind will not only feel re-betrayed but may actually try to guilt trip the other forcing him or her to end the friendship altogether.

3. Stay friends but spend less time together and avoid the ‘sex’ part

This appears like the better decision. It’s usually the sex part gets things a little complicated. If the two of you can keep hands of each other, then that is prove that the relationship was not only based on sex but true friendship which can sometimes last a lifetime. The down side of this decision is that, it can be hard to tell if someone is keeping you around because they don’t want someone else to have you. If you are not careful, you can stay in this limbo for the rest of your life.

4. Completely severe ties then try and pick up the friendship pieces later

This may be the best decision for a majority of people. When you truly believe you’ve got over the pain of him or her breaking up with you and can see him or her without getting upset or be tempted to make him or her realize what they are missing, you may want to meet up and renew a friendship.

 

You may find that they’ve met someone new and are happy but you are good with that. Whether you can be friends or not depends on the new man or woman in his or her life. Some people prefer that their partners have no contact with an ex, and some others don’t mind. And you really think of your ex as your friend, you should be happy with whatever is best for him or her and his or her new partner.

On the other hand, you may find that he or she is still single and out and dating again, there is little harm in assessing the competition. Second chances do come around once in a while and you may be better prepared this time round.
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Relationship cheating is a very common occurrence. If you haven’t experienced it yet, there’s a good chance you eventually will. In this article we’ll explore how often cheating occurs, how to define cheating, signs of cheating, and how to deal with it.
Although I personally prefer non-monogamy, I opted to write this article using a monogamous perspective since that seems to be the more popular relationship paradigm. Given the frequency of cheating in monogamous relationships, it would appear that true monogamy isn’t as common as people would have each other believe.
Frequency of Cheating
I found it difficult to track down good cheating statistics. This seems to be partly because people have a hard time being completely honest, even when surveyed in ways that safeguard their anonymity. There’s still some shame and guilt associated with admitting the truth, even in private. So instead of sharing a bunch of detailed stats that might be wrong, I’ll simply share the big picture elements.
Slightly more than half of all married people will cheat on their spouses at some point in their lives. Men apparently cheat more often than women, but the gap isn’t huge.
Most of the time cheating does occur, the other spouse doesn’t know about it, with women being in the dark slightly more often than men.
That’s if you’re married. If you’re in a committed relationship but aren’t married, then I’d imagine that the odds of cheating are even higher. Partly I say that because cheating is more common when you’re younger and becomes less likely as you age.
The big game-changer here is the Internet, which makes even 10-year old stats seem very dated now. Recents surveys suggest thatmost people have flirted online at one point or another, that when people spend time in chat rooms they’re usually motivated by romantic or sexual interest, and that about a third of adults have had real sex as a result ofa connection that began online.
In the USA alone, tens of millions of people cheat on their primary relationship partners. Cheating is very, very common. Most of the time when people cheat, they hide it from their partners, and they usually succeed in........... Read on @ http://coolpenny./2013/02/06/cheating-in-relationships/[color=#000099][/color]

yeye4live: Must every one b in a relationship in orda to enjoy val, s dier any advise 4a guy like me witout a permanent Gurlfriend

u for tell am to use soap

Donalð Genes: Oqa you be qay or na lesbian you be? Wetin u dey cuddle dey find?
I don't understand even the slightest itsy-bitsy of your post

ur papa.

How to Invite Cuddling Without Inviting Sex
I’ve been getting lots of inquisitive feedback regarding my recent article on open relationships, especially with respect to the section on deeper friendships. One question that a few women asked me essentially boils down to this:
I really love cuddling, but I have a hard time inviting guys to cuddle with me because they might think I’m inviting them to have sex with me, and sometimes I just want to cuddle. How can I ask for cuddling and not have a guy think I’m offering something sexual?
Believe it or not, this can be an issue for men too.
Let’s ponder this situation from some different perspectives since the same issue can have multiple causes.
Are You Communicating Clearly?
When it comes to discussing emotional matters, many people are notoriously poor communicators. They express themselves in such vague and fuzzy ways that it’s no wonder they’re frequently misunderstood. They drop confusing hints instead of being forthright and direct. They insinuate instead of invite.
If you want to improve your results in this area, first get comfortable with communicating clearly and directly. In fact, even if you’re....... Read more>> http://coolpenny./2013/02/06/how-to-invite-cuddling-without-inviting-sex/

The Book of AFCON 13 v 1 - 12,
1 And on that day when the Super Eagles had
gathered in the burning bush against the
Ethiopians of the eastern Desert, Keshi, the
leader of the delegates gave directions to the
people, but they listened not.
2 And Keshi knowing what awaited him at
Abuja knelt down in his heart and cried unto
the heaven saying "My God, my God, please
do not forsake me, give me only one chance."
3 As soon as he spoke those words, the Lord
heard his cry, and the Holy Spirit descended
on the burning bush in the south of Africa
where the men had gathered and said to
Moses the Son of Victor, "Moses, go yea forth
into the 18 yard box of the Ethiopians."
4 And Moses hearkened unto the voice of the
lord and ran into the 18 yard box of the
Ethiopians. and behold, a defender of the
Ethiopian Army brought him down and
caused a penalty.
5 And when this had happened, Keshi knew
that the lord had heard his prayers and used
Moses to cause a big scare for the Ethiopians.
So he beckoned unto Moses to open his ears
to the voice of the spirit and hid the
commandments of the lord.
6 And the spirit came unto Moses again,
saying "Moses, play ye the ball into the left
corner of the Ethiopian net. And when Moses
had done this, the Eagles recorded their first
goal in the burning bush.
7 And the spirit drove Moses into the 18 yard
box again and caused another great scare in
the defense of the Ethiopians which made
the keeper of the Ethiopian army attack him
unwisely and got a red card from the
Moroccan Judge of the southern Court.
8 When this had happened, the people could
see the hand of God on Moses. And Keshi
knowing the way of the spirit, said unto
Moses "because the lord had used you to
deliver the people of Nigeria out of the hands
of the deadly Ethiopians, you shall go forth
again and take the penalty.
9 Thus, as the lord would have it, Moses
brought down the Armies of the Ethiopians
by placing the ball beyond the reach of the
make-shift goal keeper who the Ethiopians
had brought against him.
10 And when Mikel the son of Obi saw this
things, he became jealous and said in his
heart "see this small boy, for him mind, e go
dey think say him play pass me now because
say e score 2 penalty and I miss 1. I go soon
do am watin drogba do Torres. Then him eye
go clear."
11 And when the draws were made, it was
said that the Super eagles of Nigeria would
go to war again with the eagles of Ivory
coast, where Drogba the son of Didier was
captain
12 When Keshi the son of Stephen heard
these words, he cried unto heaven and said
"My God, My God, Why has thou forsaken me?
For he knew that the defeat would be mighty,
else the lord send a Prophet
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Kingsley Moroc Michael and 2 others like this.
Evans Aniekan
this tym surely yaya the son of toure will destroy nigeria unless moses come to her rescue again.good one chinedu!
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Kingsley Moroc Michael
Nt Moses alöne, every1 has his or her own wrk 2 do, even u.
We jst have 2 PUSH"pray until smt'g hapens".
But e no go easy.
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Okechukwu Nwokafor
and yet the people of nigeria in d west of africa. Has called on d God of there fathers, to deliver dem from the oppression of the Ivorians, the Franco fonites. For their knw the works and Drogba d son of Diver, for how he has crushed many nation. But d God of there father "just de look them, Him never talk anything" and d people's heart faileth dem forde knw not wat to do........

The return of extortion of commuters on the Imo state axis of Port Harcourt-Owerri High way by men and officers of Nigeria Police Force ( Imo State Command) is becoming worrisome
By Okechukwu Nwokafor, Port-Harcourt
It has become business as usual for the men and officers of Nigeria Police Force ( Imo State Command) on the Imo state axis of Port Harcourt-Owerri High way, on surveillance duties. They have now returned in full gear, in the habit of extorting money from innocent commuters plying this route. This is in spite of the ban on such practice by the present Inspector General of Police, IGP, as he assumed office as the chief executive of the Nigeria police.
For quite some time now, commuters plying many Nigerian roads have heaved a sigh of relief from the actions of law enforcement agents, especially the police who are in the habit of extorting money from innocent commuters at road blocks. Before the ban on road blocks, a journey of one hour could take as much as five hours.
Worried by the grumbling of many road users who suffer untold embarrassment in the hands of these security agents, Mohammed Abubakar, the Inspector General of Police, IGP, ordered the dismantling of all road blocks by the police across the country. This was not only aimed at ensuring sanity but also checkmate the ugly trend of extortion by law enforcement agents at road blocks.
But in Imo state, security operatives seem to have gone back to the old order by returning check points, and blocking highways where they extort money from commuters. Consequently, Commuters in the state are now grumbling over the activities of these men who have now abandoned their duty for wanton extortion.
A lady told a story of how she and another passenger in a commuter bus had entered a nearby bush to ease themselves as their bus was stopped by soldiers for search at a check-point. “When we moved into the bush, we saw to our consternation, heap of notes being counted by one of the soldiers in the bush. On sighting us he scolded; what are you doing here. Turn to the other side”. The lady said they quickly left that spot for another side.
That common scenario can also be seen in almost all the roads where either soldiers or the police mount road blocks in Imo state. Their modus operandi is still the old method of stopping the vehicle and stretching out their hands for toll. Any driver that fails to comply promptly is asked to park by the road side. His punishment includes long delay or payment of additional toll or both.
Those who dared to move without parting with money to these security operatives have ugly stories to tell. There have been cases shooting vehicles and in some cases killing the driver or passenger, or killing driver and a commuter. Some passengers call them armed robbers who rob those they are supposed to protect. This development has not been pleasant to many Passengers who grumble among themselves and ask why this situation would be allowed to continue in Imo state when it has been stopped in other states.
“All I know is that the Inspector General of Police has stopped road blocks. In their place we have surveillance groups who are not supposed to be at a point, and not supposed to collect money from anybody”

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Seriously. What's stopping you from initiating one?[/size]

u want her to initiate it with u?

lollollol

jay bee: ^^^^
Everyone has a right to free speech hun.

u don de hun person wife? Lol good thread.

leonshom:
E be like say u jez woke up,abi u no sabi 123 again

lol

Abdul Adam56: Nd then wat happened?

@ Abdul open the link below the post

My cellphone’s beeping sound woke me up one night. Used to receiving important messages only, I grabbed my cell and sleepily pushed the keys and read the message.
“Hi there! Care 2 b my txtmate?”
Not knowing who the sender was, I deleted the message right away and placed the phone on my bedside table, I tried to go backto sleep.
I had just closed my eyes when I heard the message tone again.
“Hi there, again! Care 2 b my txtmate?” again, the message said.
“Who the hell could this be asking for txtmateat the wee hours of the night?” I asked myself.
Again, without bothering to reply I deleted the message.
I was never a ‘textmaniac’ – someone who enjoys texting anyone and everyone even at the wee hours of night, not to mention during the day. My parents, who were alwaysout of the country forced me to own a cellphone. They told me that having one was more convenient – they could monitor me even if they’re miles away.
I wanted to turn the unit off, but since my mother was fond of calling me at night, just to check if I was safe at home, I decided not to.
Just as I was to close my eyes and return to my dreamless sleep, the phone beeped again.
Same number…Such determination!
“Ply reply 2 dis msg & b an angel & save me frm dis abyss of emptiness!!!”
I never knew why, but the message struck me. I got up and pushed the keys… I just realized I was replying to the message.
“Im not an angel, n f u want som1 2 save u, m not superman… I’m just a simple prson who u wake up at dis r of my nyt!!! Nway, do I know u?” I typed.
Seconds later came the reply.
“Nope. U don’t know dis lonely soul. Nor doesshe know u. But I want 2 b ur frnd. I’m Mikaella Cervantes. U?”
“Just call me Julius. How’d u get my no.?” I sent back.
“Hi Julius, nice 2 meet u. Just shuffled the last two digits of mine,” she replied.
That was the first and maybe the last time I met someone over the cellphone.
We exchanged messages and learned so much about each other that night. We only said goodbye when my alarm clock rang at 5:00 AM! I had to prepare for school!
And that was also how it all started. A day would not pass without a loving and thoughtful messages from her. It was only then I had learned to appreciate text messages and become eager and excited everytime my phone beeped, hoping it wouldbe her.
I never knew why, but her response sent shivers to my spine, ” Value d people hu hav touched ur life bcoz u will never know just wen dey will......
Sorry i have to cut here I couldn't copy all for lack of space. Read the rest @ http://coolpenny./2013/01/17/love-could-be-this-sad/

Love rectangle is a somewhat facetious term to describe a romantic relationship that involves four people, analogous to a love triangle. Many people use this term for a romantic relationship between two people that is complicated by the romantic attentions of two other people, but it is more frequently reserved for relationships where there are more connections. Minimally, both male characters usually have some current or past association with both female characters.These relationships need not be sexual; they can be friendships or familial relations. Both males and/or both females can also be friends, family members (frequently siblings) or sworn enemies. The addition of bisexual or homosexual characters can add complexity.
The term “love rectangle” can imply that the arrangement is unsuitable to one or more of the people involved whereas an arrangementthat is agreed upon by all parties is sometimes called polyamory.
The word “love” can be added to the front of other shapes to reflect romantic relationshipsinvolving more people, e.g. “love pentagon”.
In William Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream, there is a love rectangle between the characters Lysander, Demetrius, Helena, and Hermia. Demetrius is granted Hermia’s hand in marriage by her father, but Hermia loves Lysander, and the two flee, intending to elope. Demetrius pursues the couple, and Helena pursues Demetrius, whomshe has always loved. The fairy Puck, in tryingto use magic to resolve the situation, temporarily transfers both men’s affections to Helena. Further tampering restores Lysander’s love for Hermia. Demetrius, now inlove with Helena, withdraws his claim on Hermia, and both couples are wed......... Read More on other related love issues @ http://coolpenny./

[center][/center][i][/i[/color][color=#006600]]Unemployed Christian Chukwudi Got Married against Friends Advise.
**”you can’t be paying the bills for him and still be doing all the work in the House”. – wife’s friends advised. A Guy who has no job got married to a banker, despite his fears and several advices that it’s not good to marry without a job. Every month the girl would give the guy her full salary of N135k after removing her tithe.

The guy would give the wife N20k for personal upkeep and the guy determined what happened to the remaining money. This happened for three good years. There was happiness in the family and the wife never refused to do her primary home duties for that 3 years, despite wrong advice from friends that ‘you can’t be paying the bills and still be doing all the work’.

There was a particular month the guy used about N70,000 to travel from state to state for different interviews.He finally got a job witha good firm in Port-Harcourt. His salary was N600,000 monthly for a start. He bought his first car (a brand new) for N4.5m, he gave d wife the car key, and continued to take public transport to work for about two years. Then he bought the second car for N6 million. Then he took the keys of the first car and gave his wife the keys of the second car. They were very happy. They eventually moved into their own house after few years.One day, the wife was looking for some documents. Then she stumbled on a file neatly hidden, when she opened it, she saw her wedding picture when she was very slim in the first pageof the file.

She then saw that the document to the purchase of the land and every other thing in the house were all written in her name! At the last page was the husband’s wedding picture and a note written by him: ”MY WIFE IS ALL I HAVE GOT. NOT EVEN THIS HOUSE WORTH N24M AT THE TIME I BUILT IT IS MINE”.

Tears started to roll down her eyes as tried to put the documents neatly as she saw them and walked back to the kitchen. This couple got married in 1998. Last Sunday was their wedding anniversary with three children, two boys and a girl. True LOVE still exists till this day. Are you sure the love you have for your partner can be compared to this one you just read? No matter what, remember you chose each other. So share. It doesn’t matter who puts food on the table.

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Ignatio: I won't argue if demons possess people through music.

One of them just tweeted:

RT @dutchminati: I would #cut4bieber, but I would also #kill4bieber, because he's God and he should decide who lives and dies. Love you @justinbieber

Maybe there's something these kids are seeing that we're not.

may be they are also high

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