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totalbaby: I'm not married because of my career and want to be financially stable first, don't want to be dependent on a man.

Stop deluding urself
By d time u become financially stable, ur market value would have dropped, most eligible bachelors will flee from you, d only men dat will fit ur shoes are golddiggers, second-wifed men, handicapped and villagers
Be warned and get married immediately
Have you ever considered that your future husband might want you to become a full time housewife?so why labour too much
You are a woman and will always remain a woman

In 2008, I met one of them igbo chick under d pretence that I was opening secondary market insurance account. Dat chick was super georgous...was still an undergraduate dat time and developed cold feet in toasting her..can't remember her username

Mindependent: More like best ways to ruin any relationship mschew

Re-read
Except u r a woman wrapper

[quote author=fxxkin_heiress]You're assuming that only females use fake pictures?[/quote]Talking from experience
Some time ago, tried meeting up with a facebook girl in d same univ with me but unfortunately her facebook pix turned out to be d direct opposite: - long neck (like ostrich), spotted face, fake voice, poor dress sense (jus like ajasco)...
Damn!!!! I started hiding from her after dat day because it was glaring I was more beautiful than her

Why do I think there is a relationship btw beautiful women and their hot temper. Virtually most beautiful girls tend to flare up on little tins. What is d reason for this?
Is there any temper hormone associated with beauty
Just an observation

pepperminty12: Suen pls u need 2 screen ppl b4 dey join this forum cos shame don dey catch me 4 som ppl!!! Na wetin make me tok say I WAN COMOT o!!! *whew*

Abeg who be SUEN?

I am single, married and still searching

Tea girl
Corporate secretary to MD
Undergraduates
Female Industrial trainees
Cleaners
Call girl
Bar girl
Strippers
Actress

I believe in monitoring ur partner (use a relationship drone if u can afford it) because u can hardly trust folks nowadays. My office colleague jus caught his fiance in bed with one of his church pastors

Online dating is a scam because u see prety pix but in real life, der r crap
*except sexylemon*
Where is she self?

Tips for a guy in a serious relationship
1) The less you want her, the more she wants you.

2) Don't call her every day.

3) Don't be too nice or she'll step all over you.

4) She is lucky to be with you.

5) Exercise.

6) Be cocky and funny and bust her balls every chance you get.

7) Never beg.

Don't pay for the first date -- choose something that's free.

9) Always keep your pride.

10) Never treat her like a goddess.

11) If one girl rejects you, move on to the next one.

12) She is human too.

13) Don't take any crap.

14) Get a life -- and don't make her your #1 priority.

15) Indifference is your best friend.

16) Gain confidence.

17) Never change your ways for a woman.

18) Respect yourself.

19) Always carry pen and paper.

20) Don't take rejections personally.
I'd like to thank Terminator911 for sharing these quick tips that he' spicked up over the course of many years of dating women.

ifyeky: Op, wat abt market? #just saying#

Bad and good girls are found in d market
D places I mentioned, u hav 80percent chance of meeting reponsible girl

Incase u r considering starting a relationship, then keep off from d ff places because u wil end up wit a girl likely 2cheat on you aka irresponsible girls
1. Club
2. Badoo online forum
3. Sometimes facebook, nairaland, twitter
4. Tagged forum
5. On d road beyond 8pm

Another way out is to check out ur responsible male friend. His sister friends is likely to be responsible..one tin for sure is dat responsible girls cluster

I know many guys are having the challenge of meeting wife materials inorder to avoid problems in their future family. The so called wife materials are few and can be spotted in some places due to their responsible nature.
1. Week day Church service (not sunday church)
2. Cinema (saturdays)
3. Wedding involving responsible couples
4. Charity homes
5. Library
There are many other strategic places you are sure to find them but always note, you can never find a single responsible girl in the club. Any single girl that goes to the club is capable of sleeping with any guy dat night. Beware

Anything wrong wit releasing some gasses in presence of ur lover..do u find it offensive
A popular saying; if u havnt perceived ur girlfriend mess, then she still got so skeletons in her cupboard

Adufaye: Whic kind childish quest b dis

U r a nut case
Stop smoking crack, drugs not good 4you

Incase you are given another chance 2come back to this life. Will you remain a virgin before marriage or you will still like to sleep around

My humble opinion:
I feel a guy should get married btw d age of 25 to 30yrs..My reason is not far fetched
Late marriage leads to a man using his retirement/pension benefit to train his children in secondary and tertiary institution and it can be avoided by marrying early, making all ur babies b4 36yrs
Secondly, when a man marries late (frm 40yrs), he wouldn't be able to satisfy his wife (esp when she is in her peak period) because the man will be weak due to several engagements.
For a girl, she should marry btw the age of 20 to 25yrs because she starts losing her feminine characteristics after the age of 26yrs which leads to forced, desperate and wrong (most times) decisions

Holding economic and health factors constant, what age should a guy take a girl to the alter for marital rites

@sister-jay
Sorry seems u r affected by dis post..did u study animal husbandry?

Logically speaking I think your course of study and level of study determines your relationship status to a certain extent
For example, its very easy to understand why a female 600l medical student/Doctor will easily get married compared to a girl who studied Agricultural root science or Diploma in canopy arrangement.
No insult intended but I think ur qualification hav a role to play with who you marry
Although not in all cases
But u can drop ur input

Didier Drogba, 34, Ivory Coast
He is out 4his last nations cup

Havnt really travelled round the world and I think the worst hold up/road congestion/traffic jam I have ever been involved in happened in lagos, Nigeria, btw Sanfield (Addax petroleum busstop to CMS)..a journey of about 10mins (all tins being equal) turned into 4hours..Gosssssssh
Can it be worst anywhere in the world?

@all
Thanks for responding to my post
I don't understand why people keep saying body beauty should b secondary when we know quite well sex is a important thing in keeping marriage as well as character..so if u don't like ur partner body then u can't give ur best in sex which translate to anoda kind of problem..

We all hear from church, wedding seminars etc that when searching for a wife, beauty should b a secondary factor while character primary..

A friend have this close female friend, they share everything together, play and joke together but the problem. She recently suggested they tie d knot since they share everything together except sex

My guy said, he is never attracted to this girl sexually due to his preference for girls with Big boobs and hips and d girl is d direct opposite..

Does it mean all these pastors and wedding counselors err in their teachings putting physical body factor as secondary when it should b primary

A statistics conducted online by a Christian body about what guys and girls need from their future partner received about 162 response
151 from Single Ladies
10 from Single guys
What does this indicate?
Are guys irresponsible and insensitive on the need to get married?
Are the ladies so desperate to get into the family way?
When a 'not rich' Unemployed guy proposes to these 150 ladies, u r sure to get a negative answer
There is no doubt, there is this desperation for ladies to get engaged with already made rich guys whereas many of the present rich/big men weren't rich when they were gettin married years ago..
Is something wrong with our present societal girls?

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