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Make this one just be my sugar mummy

kechywillz:
If I don't park out of this country in 2020,I have my self to blame

BRO, how is Ireland

Mitsurugi:
Rr

Capital letter R and the small letter.
Even if you must book space, at least the capital R is enough

What if I act wicked like

Slawormir will share some apps with you.

Ernerstdavid55:
crack screen 38k hmmm 20k

Pay 35k

Ernerstdavid55:
hw much for alright sale

39k

just2endowed:
ok let me consider, what is the status of the phone

About 6 months old with a cracked screen. Perfectly working

Please where can I buy Huawei p40 lite in Nigeria?
I was told that it wasn't in Nigeria.

I have y7 2019

Saw hh

WILLuKPquiet:

Where is the guy sef

Bullhari fit Don banish am oo

MANNA will not fall from the heaven, only BBQGRILLS will!

Many people act nice for the sole purpose of pleasing others and attempting to make themselves feel validated. I noticed that I have this issue and it has impacted me badly so I have made an ongoing commitment to deal with it. When you are a people pleaser, you are being ingenuine and dishonest. This shit makes things awkward and you become very boring because you constantly agree with what others are saying and doing and don’t speak your mind for the simple fear of offending them. By being nice you make people see less value in you and make yourself become more vulnerable to being exploited by others.

You have to realise that you just can’t please everyone. You never ever will be able to. And it’s completely okay. Its how the world works. I’ve been nice for so long and it has done Bleep all for me. For as long as you’re a people pleaser, you will be stuck inside your own mind and shell and you will continue to have negative thoughts and sometimes even anxiety. The key is just not to give a Bleep what others think. You do things the way you do and stop seeking validation. And I know it’s so much easier said than done but you have to realise that others don’t care much about what you do. To put it more simply, the world doesn’t give a Bleep about you. You’re just like anyone else. You’re not special, it’s facts. So why then, should you worry so much? Think back to your daily lives, how much do you notice and care about what others do? Exactly. Not much. That’s precisely how others view you as well. People focus on themselves too much to care about what others are doing. Realise this and you won’t be as anxious.

Nice people tend to put others ahead of themselves and constantly seek the approval of others. This is honestly such a damaging trait to have. Now don’t get me wrong, there is a distinct contrast between being “nice” and being “kind”. The difference between the two is that when you’re kind, you are being genuine with your intentions and do it because you want to. Whereas when you’re nice, you do it ingeuinely and are dishonest to yourself and others because you want to please the other person and get them to like/validate you.

So many people are nice for the wrong reasons. Start changing from this moment onwards. Be your true self. Don’t be dishonest. Stop seeking validation. Build your self confidence and do shit with honest intentions - do it because you want to (not because you think it’ll make someone like you). Don’t seek happiness from others. Start to take control of your lives and do not let others control it for you. The truth is no one gives a Bleep about you as harsh as it may seem. This is just how the world works. I promise that when you stop being nice (that doesn’t mean the same as stop being kind) that you will live a TREMENDOUSLY better life. Also, remember that to stop being nice that doesn’t that you should just become a massive jerk. Sure, you will without a doubt offend people because you can’t please everyone, but don’t transition into a dickhead where you put constantly put others down for the wrong reasons because it makes you feel better. I think the more appropriate way to deal with this is to be “assertive” when you need to (whereas a nice person would just let themselves be taken advantage of because they don’t want to cause conflict).

Realise that you WILL offend people. You WILL come across people who don’t like you. You WILL never ever be able to please everybody. But don’t let it stop you from doing what you want just because others don’t like it. Don’t be a people pleaser because the world and society doesn’t reward people pleasers. Just stop giving a Bleep what others think about you and don’t obtain your happiness by seeking validation from others because if this is the way you gain happiness, then you will never ever truly be happy. Stop being that fake, agreeable and boring nice person and you will gain massive respect along the way and you will build stronger relationships with others. There’s no better time to start doing this other than right now.

I just felt like I had to get this out there. I myself have been a victim for far too long and it’s diminished my social status and impacted my social skills. I truly hope this helps many of you guys out there. Even if it’s just one person I’ll be happy that I have made a positive impact on that person’s life. Best of luck.

People should stop mentioning my moniker

People should stop relating my moniker to the igbos

iLegendd:
Block of texts, so I didn't bother reading. People should at least put their write-ups in digestible chunks instead of a wall of poorly punctuated texts.

Lazy full

Diamondvicky:
My coursemate, a brilliant students just gone like that still heart broken the protest still goes on

You stay in igbesa

DubbyV:
Lol.. The whites live a totally different life from us

Anyways... I have an iPad 4 for sale. Check my signature if you're in PH

Why did you buy to sell it back?

Is it not OK? Thieves

Vv

Thank God I stopped playing bet9ja

Kennyswagz1:
ok yamleg

Ok oo

lindareep:
Congratulations

Beard growth oil wa o...(Lagos only)

How much

ibedun:
ABOKI SMART PASS FOOLISH ARROGANT POMPOUS SOUTHERNERS!!!

Especially the fools from S.......... clue: Yamleg

Ok

Vg

My sumec 1.8kva generator is not starting.
The mechanic said the pressure is low.
This gen is barely 4 months with less than 20 hrs usage.
Help.

Prior to the problem, after putting off the generator, I forgot to put off the fuel valve.

FavRicc:
Uk used Ps3 slim
Hacked
2 wireless controllers
HDMI
Usb
Power cable

13 Games installed
Pes 20
Fifa 19
Grand theft auto V 5
Call of duty
Injustice
Metal gear solid
Mortal combat complete edition
Castlevania: Lord of shadows 2
Dead or alive 5
Wwe
Fight night
Ninja garden
Motor storm

60k firm

Lemme give you 35k

victordanok:
Hello, please help me out.

My gen is refusing to stay on when it starts. starting it is a struggle, i have cleaned the plug, there is oil in the gen but it still refuses to stay on after starting. its a fairly new firman gen about 4 months so i dont expect all these stress. what other reasons can there be for the gen not starting??
the sound it is giving is like that of the choke being turned off and it just goes off less than 1 minute after starting

Hi bro

nwaozzugwor:
No it can't

Thanks.

Kindly help,
I've been unable to start my Gen... At first it started for 3 seconds before stopping and since then, I've been trying to get it to work to no avail.

The gen is barely 4 months.
Plus the gen is yet to work for 24 since I got it.