₦airaland Forum

Mayflowa:
I don't believe it is a professor or psychology professor that wrote the article. The language is not really appropriate for a Professor in the US. Many of his thoughts are baseless and bias. He is an impostor to say the least!

But, this isn't from a Nigerian man. I think he is Kenyan or so. Maybe East African. So I do not want you to snare Nigerian men for this.

Which kind prof be that?? Lol. That's a very obvious lie na.
Just some little backward thinking dude who knows nothing trying too hard to justify infidelity on the side of men.
Not even a high sch diploma holder from the US would come up with such a shitty writeup.

kay29000:
MONEY. Nothing more than money. Her neural part ways have built a pattern in her brain that shows how one should get money when needed... That is, once she craves money, she automatically thinks sleeping with a guy will get her that money. That is already registered in her brain, that is why it is very very hard for a woman that has collected money for sex multiple times to just give it up like that, even after marriage.


This is why I always try to tell girls I know never to go that route. But more and more decent girls are exchanging their bodies for money nowadays and it is scary.

But I just gave her money!! More money than she will ever be able to make on the streets!!!

It's not about the money. Its the trill!! The excitment of being with a new man everyday! You think some women dont enjoy that kind of stuff??
You think it's only men who are excited about new pusssy??
Are u even aware that women enjoy sex more than men??
Dude u have a whole lot of learning to do about women.
I advise u to read about the sexuality of a women written by a WOMAN!!

kay29000:
The truth is bitter, and because of the emotional nature of most women, you will never believe this post, but it has a lot of truth to it.

You say how did he know how women behave when he is not a woman. Are human beings Lions? Are we goats? Are we whales? But we know how all these animals behave from close observation over periods of time. The man that wrote that posts is a psychologist, so he must have done some research before saying all that.

Asking if you can love someone and still go ahead hurting them... Men don't see sex the way women see it. Most see it as just a way to get rid of that burning sexual urge. It can be described as how someone just wants to eat when hungry. After eating, does that person cuddle the yam he ate? Or just walks away to do other things.

Let me tell you a short story. Early this year, I met a girl on nairaland, and we started chatting, till over a couple of weeks, we kind of developed feelings for each other. When she came to my house, we had sex. Later that day, I found out she was married. I called to blast her on the phone for deceiving me and making me like her without telling me she was married. She then apologized and said she really liked me and that I wouldn't have wanted to be her friend if I had known she was married. She later asked if I would marry her if she left her husband. The husband doesn't give her attention and is never around. You think that kind of woman can't kill her husband?

You guys just wakeup and come up with baseless writeups about women
I don't blame u we are in mysoginist society.

Ask any woman who had ever suspected her husband was cheating and was proven right. The first thing she will say is his attitude changed.
When a man starts cheating his attitude towards his wife changes immediately. Because his attention is somewhere else.
Is that not an emotional attachment?

yuppyz:
This write up is about married women, and not those who exchange their body for money

The write up is about women having emotional attachment with all of their sex partners.

Both wives and prostitutes are women.
So if a wife is automatically emotionally attached to every sex partner so should a prostitute be. Cos they are both women.
Prostitutes are not a different specie.

kay29000:
Prostitutes don't enjoy sex...They are motivated to have sex by the money they are going to collect...They are emotionally attracted to money. This is why, the lower you pay a woman for sex, the less you enjoy it. And the more you have to pay for sex, the more you enjoy it.

Guy. Give a prostitute $100m she will still go back to the streets.pls what is her motivation?

hatchy:
We are talking about wives here and not prostitutes who ply their trade for money.

Some of you just write to be noticed without understanding the thread.

Oya go back and read it all over again,this time slowly.

I don't need to read this bull shìt again.

I'm a woman and a man cannot speak of what he thinks of me the same way I cannot speak for men.
Besides the op was talking about women! Wives and prostitutes are both women!

I'm a Christian. I pay my tithe joyfully.
When my husband had a good job I wasn't paying tithe. Then he lost his job. I became more devoted and paid tithe out of the little I had. Then God have my husband a better job than the one he lost.
This is my personal experience with tithe paying.

I can't advise anyone not to pay tithe at the same time to an extent I support daddy freeze. Pentecostal pastors are just a little short of being criminals.

YoungRichRuler:
If it's lalasticl.ala, it's frontpage

Well, I'm a Christian.
I give my tithes.
I'm not forced or coerced to give it.

Jesus died that I might have life in Abundance, to the full, till it overflows.

If folks under the old covenant pay 10%,
I'm under a better covenant and my God deserve more than 10%.

If I don't pay my tithes, there is NO curse that will come upon me because I've been redeemed from the curse of the law.

I agree completely.

This just proves what I've been saying for a long time.

NIGERIAN YOUNG MEN ARE BECOMING MORE STUPID BY THE DAY!
Just look at the number of men who agree with this stupid senseless write up...

How can a man speak for women?
Do prostitutes fall in love with there customers?
Who told u women don't date strictly because they enjoy the sex?
Do sugar mummies want to divorce their husband's??

I can't believe the stupidity in the thread. And what's worse is the number of our supposedly bright young men that agree with It!

TheArchangel:
How can a man speak for a woman?


You say women are very emotional and have sex with emotions attached?.....well ......where does this analysis placed the rungirls and the prostitutes or are they not women.?
Women enjoys sex much more than men, it is just the society that made it seem otherwise.

My sister. See me see trouble.

He should have also told us what menstruation and child birth feels like since he knows women more than we know ourselves.

hatchy:
https://www.google.com.ng/amp/www.zambianobserver.com/i-do-not-support-cheating-not-in-anyway-but-this-leaves-matters-to-be-argued/amp/

Trash!

Prostitute fall in love with their customers abi.

Stop justifying infidelity. It's wrong on both sides

Tundeiab:
WOMEN OF NOW ADAYS. SOLOMON HAD 700 WIVES AND 300 CONCUBINES, DID YOU HEAR ANY ONE OF THEM COMPLAIN?
HE SAID HE WAS SORRY, SO WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT?

Well we are not in the days of king Solomon.
If u want that type of marriage u can get it for yourself.

Did and any of king Solomon's wives or concubines build house for him?
Did he vow to be faithful to any of them?

The slavery of an African woman called marriage

All those men here talking shìt would u remain with a woman who gave u an std??

Op follow your heart and use it head. If i were u I'll put the well being of my kids first. If u don't need him for ur kids well being especially financially u can call it quits. Cos truth be told he will continue to cheat.
He isn't even remorseful.... chai. We women suffer too much.

tayo60:
Forgive him and move on. Woman, save your marriage.

What if it's not worth it...

dingbang:
Biko madam the std you contracted is curable.. Its not like you had Ebola.. Na you go use your hand take spoil your marriage o

It is the husband that spoiled the marriage o

Tiffbuxas:
when dem begin press d bress she should not complain o... Cuz it's tru D clothe dat dey press not d bare breast

Women walk around naked in the West. No one molests them.

That can only have in an uncivilized country such as Nigeria.

lefulefu:
even with spiritual commitment and with kids involved..there are couples who still walk out of their marriages on a Routine basis.nothing binds in marriage except the love the couples might have for each other.haven't u heard of some wives who dump their their husbands when they lose their jobs?

Red herring....

She didn't dump him because of money or job. She dumped him because she wants to be married.

;Dw

WeirdoNg:
Some people don turn sex into food

Sex sweet pass food o

Lol.

Wantee wantee no get. Getee getee no want...

Funny world.

Amarabae:
Y killing it?
Wildlife conservative law should be made jor

Deer is eaten all over the world. Even the cutest bunny rabbits are eaten.

muller101:
Monkey pox fall on u

Story

Poor thing

But very sweet

ON social media?

Has he gone mad or something?

He can't caution his wife at home or he has no control over her what so ever! Shame!

KreativGenius:
Smh. Have a lovely day madam

You too bro

KreativGenius:
No curses, what is this, lawyer tell me


U can advise your future daughters to date a guy till they hit menopause in the name of ups and downs of life!

Tell me where i brought your personal family into the discussion

That is a statement which is in line with your argument my brother. Practice what you preach!

frenzyduchess:
why should I?, he is crying wolf, let him answer, what if the reason she left was because her ex was ready to put a ring on it and him loosing his job was just a coincidence?

I love a sister with a good head on her shoulders.
U have sense my dear.

They call us women foul brain.
When we show intelligence and make decisions devoid of sentiment, they try to label us golddigger.
Meanwhile they don't even have gl one can dig for not to talk of gold..

KreativGenius:
I won't stoop down to curses like you. I can see your sense of maturity in your comments.

Best of luck, Lawyer.

No curses from me. Unlike u who said i was talking trash. Just stating the obvious.

alexialin:
Guy! That's another way of looking at it


When he had money, why didn't he marry her?

He was obviously controlling other babes. Smhh. Typical traits of a successful guy.

Na when he lost job, he then realise his gf has left him, crying wolf and coming online to campaign against women.
Smmhh.

If only God can play what happened between those two when he was doing well. Alot of guys here will just keep quiet and walk away.

All the guys here can see is : SHE LEFT HIM, WHEN HE LOST HIS JOB.
That's all they can see. Everything before he Lost is job is nothing to talk about.

Anyways I no blame all of una..

That's how una mindset is wired.

Don't mind them. I pity ladies who can't stand on their own feet and make their own decisions.

They want us to date perpetually as if time is not ticking...
As a single girl I gave myself 6months to date a guy. No marriage I'm out!

I married my second bf!

KreativGenius:
I don't insult people. Too occupied for that. Stop spewing thrash simple. It's obvious you don't have understanding about the ups and downs of life.

If you marry and your husband becomes job ( God forbid ) divorce him because of the temporary inconvenience

It's obvious that your are a kid and very naive.

I've been married for 12years. And yes there has been ups and downs like most marriages. Yes, my hus was at some point out of a job and of course I stood by him. Why?? HE'S MY HUSBAND NOT BOYFRIEND!!!

He married me within months of meeting each other. We have a life long commitment and children! How do u compare that to dating?

U guys are just too hypocritical.
U criticize a woman for having a child with her bf yet u want woman to date perpetually!! Forgetting that our biological time clock is ticking!!
It is ever woman's dream to be a mother o. No time to waste!!

U can advise your future daughters to date a guy till they hit menopause in the name of ups and downs of life!

KreativGenius:
What about faithfulness ?

What about loyalty ?

So if he married her when he had the job, and got fired right after, she should also jump out

Don't confuse the ones coming behind, what you spewed here is thrash

Abeg wait! Stop with the insults and think!

Is marriage and dating the same

Is there any legal or spiritual commitment when dating??

Don't compare marriage to boyfriend and girlfriend Pls!

KreativGenius:
You sound like the girl or her bestie. Can you read what you spewed here carefully

I don't know her but she's a damn smart lady!

No time to waste!

Again I ask since he claims to love her, why didn't he marry her when he had a job?