₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
quick internet research would have showed you that the more educated a woman is, the later she marries, the fewer children she wants and the more likely she is to divorce you

That is so untrue here bro. Look at her family values and family first. My 2 cents.

TimiRume:
Summary of all that has been said above me and the conclusion: Smart women are an asset, to you and to your kids.. but most men don't want smart women, they want a beautiful woman who knows her place.

Gbam. Could not have said any more. Change that most men to most Nigerian men though and you are 100% correct.

synanza1:
if you marry a smart girl she will give you smart son like this one

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIjzSt8_lkU

No be this kind son o lol, this one na oversmart dey worry am hehe

Yigiyaga:
Such women are rare if not extinct.Been searching my whole life .

Then you have not been searching well then. They are all around you. Expand your circle first, and you will find them. Even found one or two in NYSC Camp when I was not even looking.

dingbang:
But from all these descriptions of a smart woman, why do we still fall for dumb ladies?

Because most Nigerian men do not love to be challenged. Reason I advocate Nigerian men should travel abroad especially to Europe and North America, will open their horizons to see smart women as really desirable. I have had at least two girlfriends that were smart, one from SS2 to SS3, the other in University, and I had a blast, it was a very useful relationship.

davidflipcy5856:
Accusing your husband to be a gay is a serious issue. You even said it to his face that's too much to say. I think your hubby might be having an extra marital affairs not with his friend but through the influence of his friend. It explains your husband change of behavior. You stated his friend keeps many gfs so we can't rule that out.

For the way out, first you have to apologize to him. You know him better than any one here so you should know how to draw him back. After he must have forgiven you, you guys should discuss concerning his friend staying in your house . You can't discuss this when he is still mad at you. Personally, I wont entertain visitors more than 2weeks in my house. Find a way to tell your hubby so his friend could find another place to stay. There will be more trouble if he keeps staying with you guys and it's very obvious you are not comfortable with him staying.

Another good advice. Apologize first, make your point, he does not change, report him, he still does not change, go for a divorce. Life is not hard if most of our women in love matters do not think with emotions. Chikena.

Uyi168:
No matter the situation, people will always finds ways to blame the woman...
SMH..

Because they come with one-sided stories and they fret too much over small issues that is why.

opejulie10:
how did I make my home a place of war??by correcting him about coming home late,or not attending to his kids life anymore,or by cautioning him about visiting beer palor or drinking so bad that he vomits everywhere in the house.... I should have just left him and not say a word because I want peace to reign

Don't listen to them madam. You were right in confronting him, though calling him gay was wrong. Next time, he misbehaves, threaten to report him to his immediate family and your church pastor. See the magic there. If he is still continuing in his nefarious ways, report him to those people I mentioned. If he is still adamant, it might be time to think of a divorce (I hope you are not a housewife that has no job or you do have savings that can be used for business as a source of living) as bad as it may sound. Once again, this is not a matter to fret over. Follow my advice and you will be fine.

dangermouse:
Then it is more serious athan you think.
In as much as it is not wise bringing in third parties to ones matrimonial issues, i will advise you seek advise from his parents and yours too.
By so doing you can get an insight where the whole problem lies and then know the way forward.

Gave the same advice, include your pastor too.

UjuJoan2:
I understand your frustration madam, but accusing him of being gay just because he is close to his friend is going too far.

There are a number of reasons why your husband would prefer his friend's company to yours, and most have noting to do with sexual orientation.

He is thrilled to have a pal around to do 'guy things' with, and not be bothered about boring family responsibilities. It's a phase that will pass.

What you need to do is to try and win his attention back, try and make him your best friend again . . . not fight and quarrel with him, that will only push him further away.

Alternatively, let him be! When he needs you again he will come back.

Another good advice especially the last one.

UjuJoan2:
Your suspicions that he may be gay, based on what you just described is completely unfounded. Except there's something you are not saying.

Even if the guy was his lover, do you think he would be stupid enough to bring him into his matrimonial home?

Wisdom is profitable!

Exactly. She needs to check herself first to know if she has annoyed him, and if not, report him to the immediate family or at worst the extended family and her church pastor too. They can take it from there. This case is not a case to fret over as our women make issues as a storm in a tea cup.

UjuJoan2:
Your suspicions that he may be gay, based on what you just described is completely unfounded. Except there's something you are not saying.

Even if the guy was his lover, do you think he would be stupid enough to bring him into his matrimonial home?

Wisdom is profitable!

Exactly, very unfounded at that. She should check herself to see what she did wrong to her husband and if there is nothing she did wrong, she should report her husband to the immediate family or at worst the extended family and her church pastor too. The case can be taken from there. Definitely not a case to fret over as our women make issues as a storm in a tea cup SMH.

opejulie10:
nairalanders, I am confused and this is the last place I would ever think I would bring my family issues.. I have been married to my husband for 8 yrs with 2kids..he has been caring and all sort..

The problem started 6 months ago when he brought in his friend without informing me to leave with us cos of the distance from work to his home, along the line,I noticed my husband started coming home late, like past 12am,1am or even 2am,he doesn't bother calling me when he is at work, I do the calling and I kept complaining he apologizes and he continues again.
whenever he comes back from work,he would rather sit with his friend and even forget to sleep in his friend room,I have to wake him up to come over and sleep,he doesn't even help with the kids anymore,he doesn't want to go to church anymore,I keep wasting food as he won't eat if his friend his around. on Val's day my husband didn't even call or send a message or buy a gift,it has never happened before. I called his friend and warned that I don't want to see him in my matrimonial home again and I guess he told my husband,my husband didn't speak to me since morning, I even went to meet him about what was wrong and he said he was going to beat me up when I called him gay. he has reported me to my family and I feel so bad,I am so hurt and I don't know what to do,he is not himself this morning because his friend is not around

Report him to his immediate family or at worst extended family and your church pastor too and you can start from there.

I hope you have not annoyed him in any way as I take women's story with a grain of salt.

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my number was busy because I was trying to call you back but it wasn't going through.
I sent you a message on WhatsApp immediately but you weren't online

The first time I called back, you didn't pick up as well.

Solved. Sorry for the misunderstanding too. You guys have to get better at doing business though. Not everybody is fine with calling a number and not getting a response. Nairaland guys you can patronize her. I can not patronize her currently because my 4G SIM which I just upgraded to in Ibadan, an MTN 4G coverage area, has refused to browse and the matter is with NCC who have unfortunately blacklisted my number and putting me on hold instead.

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Maxymilliano:
LOGISTICS REASON IS THE MOST TRIVIAL EXCUSE FOR A COMMISSION THAT HAD ALL THE RESOURCES & TIME TO PREPARE.

This their logistics problem has a solution, why not put the election materials for a designated non-partisan bank in their bank vault at least one week before the elections. This service by the particular banks with their bank vaults can be had with a payment. That is a solution right there and gives everybody peace of mind. I am not a professor and have thought of this solution quickly but quota system product in the INEC Chairman has no ideas whatsoever bikonu SMH. What a country!

iamadedotun:
But Prof attahiru Jega postphone the election and there heaven didn't fall

Not few hours to the election and by the way, he was not the one that postponed the election, ex-President Goodluck Jonathan did. So apples and oranges analogy. Logic punctured bro.

eddie7:
WE'VE FOILED APC GOVERNMENT PLOT TO RIG FOR BUHARI

~ Atiku releases proof

The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar, Friday night, stated that the Managing Director of Activate Technologies Limited, Mohammed Sani Musa, whose company supplied the machines used in printing the Permanent Voter Cards (PVCs), is the candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC) for Niger East Senatorial district for Saturday’s poll.

In a statement Friday night by his Special Assistant on Public Communication, Atiku stated that the revelation was a result of its extensive intelligence gathering network to identify and prevent the ruling party’s brazen and ultimately failed attempts to rig the results.

“It is public knowledge that Sani Musa, popularly known as Sani 313 is a card carrying member of the APC and a close associate of several stalwarts of the party, including President Muhammadu Buhari who apparently pushed his nomination”, the statement reads.

“But shockingly, the APC Senatorial candidate for Zone B of Niger State, Mr. Mohammed Musa, has a contract with INEC to supply key voting materials in an election he is participating in, which is a clear conflict of interest and raises questions of probity and oversight in the issuing of INEC contracts.

“The INEC contract was to ‘upgrade’ the card readers and to print PVC cards. Further investigations have shown that the ‘upgrade’ consisted of pre-programming the card readers to accept fake replica PVCs (copies of genuine PVCs) that the firm printed in Nigeria. These two activities were undertaken so that the APC could boost its vote tally in its strongholds or force votes in Polling Units at PDP strongholds to be null and void by over-voting .

“Our investigation also identified the seven States where this activity was due to take place and we have therefore informed the Observer Community and our own extensive network of over 176,000 Party Agents so that they can forestall this activity by checking cards as allowed under INEC guidelines.

“Given that that Mr. Musa’s previous company, Act Technologies, had a contract to supply and install PVC card printers in the INEC Headquarters, it does beg the question why Mr Musa’s new company, Activate Technologies, was given a subsequent contract to print PVC cards itself?

“Other investigations have revealed that an employee and Director of Activate Technologies and an APC member, Mr. Mohammed Keffi, was filmed at Abuja Airport Domestic Departure Lounge on 29th December opening an official INEC envelope and then handling multiple ballot forms which he was checking off against his mobile phone.

“Sources also confirmed that this person was one of the people who was loading the fake card numbers into the ‘upgraded’ card readers in the Residence of the former Governor of Akwa Ibom, as well as other ‘Card Reader Farms’ in Abuja and Kano. These ‘farms’ are under guard by members of Government Security agencies.”

Atiku said while Alhaji Sani Musa has the right to hold any public office in spite of his line of business, it is morally unjustifiable to allow a well-known supplier of sensitive INEC materials to partake in an election in which the key materials to be used for the poll were supplied by him.

“A search at the Corporate Affairs Commission showed that most of the directors in Act Technologies are the same as those in Activate Technologies. The directors of Activate Technologies except Musa (now APC candidate) include: Abubakar Musa, Kabiru Abdullahi Bawa, Suleiman Danladi, Akinsuyi Akin Najeem. Activate Technologies located on Ganges Street, Maitama, learnt that is shares the same address as Act Technologies.”

He lamented that Activate Technologies was given contracts by INEC to supply PVCs for the 2019 general elections in spite of the fact that the owner of the firm is a candidate in tomorrow’s poll.

“A copy of one of many such contracts with reference number INEC/HQ/PROC/ICT/S106/1 dated October 4, 2017 and signed by the Secretary to INEC, Augusta Ogakwu, stated that the firm would need to print 112, 218 PVCs, ” Atiku said.

“Mr Musa had attempted to hide his ownership via proxy shareholders who have been revealed as members of his own family. However his position as Founder and MD of Activate Technology Limited was clumsily exposed to the world via his Linked-in page where he bragged about his firm to secure more business for it.

“Our candidate and the Party has conducted extensive research into what the APC will be attempting to do to shore up their collapsed vote share in these elections having studied what we call the “Osun Playbook”. We have been able to implement extensive preventative measures to pre-empt their plans.

“So the Nigerian public can go out and vote confident in the knowledge that their vote will count. Our candidate has said on record that “even if you do not vote for me, please go out and vote as this election is not about me, it is about Nigeria and your future”, the statement added.

Is this a country or a sh.i.t.hole? No matter the number of votes they rig with, lifeless FC is on borrowed time and would lose anytime they decide to hold the election. I have said my own.

Oyimeoyimemua:
I have always had this feeling that this man can't deliver, where is Jega.... How do u postpone an election few hours to voting This is not the first time elections will be postponed but this one get K LEG

Exactly. The K Leg bad gan. They don see that people travel go vote out lifeless FC, den want disenfranchise them smh.

Bossontop:

This is basically what happens when incompetent pipu are placed at d helm of affairs........ Highly disgraceful

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Especially the quota system product types SMH.

mmb:
Who did we offend as a country.

If this were to be in advanced countries, the Electoral body chairman would have resign.

What a National tragedy.

Tragedy in the sense that people have travelled far and near, events postponed or cancelled, Businesses lost millions as a result of early closure on Friday, INEC paid millions for logistics, etc.

The poster below me, you need not to comment here because Nairaland is for Nigerians and not Biafrans.

You forgot to mention that recruiting companies will not be calling for interviews or aptitude tests until after the presidential elections and its results.

Babygal2020:
Thanks a bunch!!!! I appreciate

You are welcome dear.

BlackSpanner:
After scamming and putting so many adhoc staff through so much stress

Bros, is it a must ad-hoc staff go through all the stress I am seeing? Elections have a long way to go in this country!

PoliticsNigeria:
@POLITICSNGR

PoliticsNGR has been furnished with a transcript of the full statement by the Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC on the postponement of the 2019 General Elections. Read Below;

"The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) met on Friday, 15th of February 2019 and reviewed its preparations for the 2019 General Elections scheduled for Saturday, 16" February 2019 and Saturday, 2nd March 2019.

Following a careful review of the implementation of its logistics and operational plan and the determination to conduct free, fair and credible elections, the Commission came to the conclusion that proceeding with the elections as scheduled is no longer feasible.

Consequently, the Commission has decided to reschedule the Presidential and National Assembly Elections to Saturday, 23% February 2019.

Furthermore, the Governorship, State House of Assembly and Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Area Council Elections is rescheduled to Saturday 9" March 2019. This will afford the Commission the opportunity to address identified challenges in order to maintain the quality of our elections.

This was a difficult decision for the Commission to take, but necessary for the successful delivery of the elections and the consolidation of our democracy.

The Commission will meet key stakeholders to update them on this development at 2 p.m. on Saturday, 16" February 2019 at the Abuja International Conference Centre."

https://politicsngr.com/breaking-inecs-official-statement-postponement-2019-elections-transcript/

Sincerely, why does this happen every election cycle? Is it because currently a quota system product who is a square peg in a round hole is the INEC Chairman?

Postponement a few hours to the election (the one in 2015 was not even close) shows the sheer incompetence of this INEC Chairman and is a ploy to disenfranchise voters who travelled to vote.

You INEC guys are just postponing the evil day for Lifeless FC, he will still lose even with the possible disenfranchised voters with today's announcement.

I am Atikulated.

Corperadams:
Does he read?

He doesn't and never will SMH.

AroleOduduwa:
ATIKU2019

Thank you o Omoluabi rere.

GOFRONT:


Where is NwaAmaikpe!!!.....Election is tomorrow

In the mods gulag and dungeon! Lalasticlala, Seun, Dominique, Mynd44, please release and unban NwaAmaikpe at least for the elections! Last I know, we still have freedom of speech in this country!

babaolofin:
You still remembered the dramas of Elder Orubebe and that Professor who announced Rivers State election in 2015. Those dramas will go into Nigeria political history. How can a professor claimed he doesn't see very well in a very illuminated situation room. When more lights were switched on, he said he doesn't understand the handwriting as he was not the one that wrote the result. Thank God for Professor Jega's maturity in handling those dramas. This time around, nobody can try that nonsense in Rivers with the presence of SARS & soldiers and very active electorates

Funnily, I still remember both experiences like yesterday and it was 4 years ago for that matter!

Topccy007z:
For logistic reasons or for the APC to perfect their rigging plans.

Inec had the whole time to sort things out.

I just want to believe it's not true. I don't trust independent news.

Atikulated I am

Atikunation hit like

Tyrannynation hit share

They are only postponing the evil day for Lifeless FC.

I am Atikulated.

#AtikulatedNation

One of the zombies is even sharing my post, or are there DSS now on Nairaland?

A shi.t.hole country where there is no freedom of speech whatsoever especially under Lifeless FC.

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Babygal2020:
Thanks dear.... Were the brain teaser questions numerical or verbal questions?

They are numerical and pattern based. The verbal is complete the gaps for a comprehension passage.