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questioner:
I'd like to summarize my issue, Confused on the way forward.

1. I met this beautiful babe at a restaurant - pretty face, fresh baby skin, nice catwalk. She was damn proportionate, average boobs, average butt, avg hips, average height, angelic look, you can take her anywhere kinda girl.
She leaves the restaurant some minutes before I do.

2. While driving out, I notice she's still at the bus stop waiting for a bus/cab, so I beckon her and gave her a lift home. We exchanged numbers.

3. Called her two days later asking to hang out, she was hesitant but I persisted and she later agreed

4. We chill out at a bar in the evening but she wasn't acting too friendly, not answering my questions and just behaving hesitant.
Infact, a friend I met at the bar wondered if i offended her, I explained we just met and don't know her too well.
Luckily, it was one of those Real Madrid Champion's league match days where Benzema was rescuing Madrid from the brink, which made up for her boredom.

5. We were about leaving when she got a call from her younger sister who said she was nearby with a mutual friend of theirs, so younger sis (YS) agreed to join us and then I'll drop them at home together.

6. YS came into the bar and behold she was a stunner! As beautiful as the older sis (OS) but she (YS) had huge boobs and was tall - not kidding but video vixen stuff.
Almost every man around turned as she made her way to us. I mean Those boobs was bouncing as she came in
She also turned out to be the life of the party extrovert, came in with a big smile, greeting everybody on sight and immediately initiating conversations.
infact about 3 guys came to the table adjacent us, just to take her number while we were there.

7. So I ordered another round of drinks and meat and peppersoup and since YS was easier to talk to, I was more comfortable
asking her about what they wanted to take etc, which annoyed the OS who asked why I was talking to her YS while she was with me.

8. It came to a head, when YS wanted to request for an extra bottle of water , I couldn't hear cos of loud music, so I placed me hand across her shoulder to pull her mouth nearer my ears (innocent action, believe me) so I can hear her. I suddenly got a slap in the back from OS who warned me not to try what I did again and totally stopped talking to me - I wrote her off after that incident.

9. Shortly after that, we decided to go home, I managed to slip my biz card secretly into YS hands and whispered call me, she looked annoyed and said 'why?'

10. Dropped the girls home and practically forgot about them, I felt OS was no go area and didn't think YS was going to call back...

11. Some days later, very early in the morning, my phoen went boooom....YS was calling and asking why I told her to call me. I suggested we meet later in the day.

12. Picked her up (at junction some distance away from their house) and brought her to my place. While I was still thinking of how to break the ice, she was already stylishly bombarding me with questions.
Do you stay alone in this big house - Yes
What job do you do - Banker
Are you married - No
Do you have kids - No
You must be old O ? - Just 31+
What about my sister - Nothing between us, I have not spoken to her since that day and that was also the first time we met

She seemed satisfied with all my answers cos she relaxed and became very chatty

13. She came back to my place the next evening and this time around we got smashing, it was mind blowing, she was amazing, energetic and that her long legs were put to good use.
I would have called her a 10/10 overall and one for the long haul aside the fact that she said she dropped out of Uni while her older sis is a graduate

14. She later warned we should keep things on the low for now cos her sister might not be happy.

15. Everything seemed to be going well until bang...bout a week later, I got a call from OS, she was obviously trying to win me back asking why I didn't call her back and sh*t
I just responded politely but she wasn't deterred, she kept calling like every other day, while I only called back once a while
in fact, I had to lie that I had gone for a training and would be away for the next 3 weeks.

16. Problem is, the 3 weeks will expire this weekend and this girl (OS) has promised to give me what she failed to do weeks earlier.
Talking smack about how she wanted to spend the night at my place but she was so angry back then bla bla and how she's looking forward to me being back.

Herein, lies my dilemma
Younger sister is hooked and we have a little secret going
Older sister is also getting hooked and she wanna be starting something
Me, the beneficiary (or is it victim), I don confuse - both girls are top tier babes

What do I do?

a) Do the right thing and continue with YS

b) Do the right thing and stop the low key games with YS, and go for OS

c) Do the right thing and enjoy life with both sisters, shebi I no force them

Frankly, I would have gone with option C, na the stuff of dreams, but the things I am hearing these days about babes,
I dey cautious about safety, these girls are sisters and if they find out, nobody knows wetin dem fit do.

But NL people, what do you think ?

Odewaleadesoye:
Source: Vanguard

daewoorazer:
As seen on Twitter haha:



Source:
https://twitter.com/gut_zeela/status/1525143939090632705?s=21&t=GhKUMexdvAG5Q8GnJvYudg[/quote]This one's ex is still a learner

slivertongue:
Good
The monstrous, bloodthirsty fanatics who took the law into their own hands and murdered Deborah should be publicly executed after a fair trial to serve as an example to other would-be holy murderers

adedayoa2:
They don't need curfew, arrest those students that killed Deborah, televise and let us watch them die too.

Cantonese:
Nonsense people

advanceDNA:
U did right by giving him small space...playing hard to get is not a bad idea...he's the guy...he should chase you..since you have shown him you like him..

The nigga is from a place where women make first move all the timr...dont be shy....send him a message.....

"Hey..i know you would be busy with other stuff coming all the way home...well, ive given you enough space to breath...whats up...when are we seeing again"

If he doesnt play ball after the message....its his loss jare...he should get the fvck out

Wizywiz:
can't u see her profile says no Dm ..she doesn't deal on Dm's she is queen Elizabeth all men should bow and worship her if they want her

richie3384:
The. Best way to fix it is by speaking to the person that linked u both.at least u HV learnt ur lesson. Mind game is expensive. Men HV moved on from the past way of chasing women

Jayzx:
That is how most of them will be forming hard to get and be crying every Saturday in their closet when their younger one are getting married. Yeye people

jericco1:
My dear, try and reply his messages too, he is human too, remember not replying someone's message is in its own way a message as well.
He could think you're not interested we well.

Why do you guys make it difficult for yourselves?

Dripsandchills:
but ur desperate naaa but if guy likes u we don't care we appreciate u n might take u serious, I respect a lady that acts on her emotions n not try to complicate things with kid reasoning. He has moved on bc he understands you're not emotionally intelligent

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Angrymode:
It's a disgrace being in the same country with such animals.

myrrtle:
may bandits visit you and your family members. Banzam mutum.

foolbuster:
Why is nobody talking about the live bullets being fired at unarmed protesters

Meedot2:
For the very first time, I am proud of Nigerian Police.

MangekyoAlt:
Kill as many as possible. Silly bastards

Mightymanna:
Release them what is their crime?

Redpill1:
WTF man
Dem suppose arrest all of them

dollynnn:

Oh my God! What is the north turning into?
They are not even remorseful for what they did.
The North should be seceded from Nigeria and allow them wallow in their ignorance, primitivism, and barbarism .
"One Nigeria" shouldn't be by force !

JEWELofHELL666:
Armed policemen are currently firing live bullets at protesters demanding the release of the Muslim fanatics responsible for the gruesome murder of Deborah Samuel, a student of Shehu Shagari College, over alleged blasphemy.

So far, five protesters have been confirmed injured.

Video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wNFND6jfJk0

Some injured...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CEOdrv3uFyA

AntiBMC:
The best thing is to arrest all of them. The odds are, the rest of the perpetrators would be in the crowd of protesters

emmanuelbrown26:
Happy that men are speaking out and also had it being u didn't experience it, u would hv said its a lie. I hv being hammering it both online and offline that I prefer to be with serpent than Nigerian women, they are deadly and evil than devil himself.
They hv called me all sorts of names but I don't care

justicechichex:
The things i read on NL daily eh.. Haba.

Omoh this marriage of a thing no be beans and bread ohh.

Mooh247:




What a silly woman

Abeg Oga for the sake of your child try and work things out with her , I know it must be hard hustling for money and still getting no peace of mind at home or common appreciation

Till she gets her senses back, avoid her as much as possible because domestic violence and assualt is a crime that would completely destroy you and your reputation and nobody would listen to your side of the story


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APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Mariangeles:
Living among northern Muslims is as dangerous as finding yourself in a den of hungry lions.
They can turn on you at any moment.
It's an unimaginable nightmare!

The very annoying thing about them is that the ones in the south act so meek as if they can never hurt a fly, whereas they're all the same.


The most unfortunate part about Deborah's story is that even if she had found a way to escape, they still would've made others suffer for it.
Lives would've been lost.

fortz007:
Thank you for the insight. I’ll consider it

sayso:
Mouriho gave them a clue,they said no to him. Now it will take them 3 or 4 years to compete.

angelfallz:
The Manchester United players have gone on holiday already