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greatgod2012: According to nigerians, or let me say yorubas, where i'm from, this man has been given "vegetables" to eat...............won ti gbe efo fun je.
I just hope we know the meaning.................

Funny enough, those who you think are more and better enlightened and social still believes that something is wrong with any man who can go to this extent in taking care of his family as well as helping his wife at home. From experience, my own sister called me in confidence to ask me to confess to her the charm i used on my husband, just because he met him losing my hair and after that losing our daughter's hair after which he took her to the salon.................she actually said it in our dialect, "even, if you won't confess to me, saaa ba mi wa iru efo ti o se f'oko e, ki emi naa see f'oko mi" meaning even if you won't confess to me, just help me to find the type of vegetable you prepared for your hubby, in order for her to also prepare it for her hubby and i told her "iwa l'oba awure" meaning good character surpass charm, and she said, maa tan're e, meaning, keep deceiving yourself.

Can we see.......

This is not suprising, we Yorubas as just so funny, as the elderly ones feel its an uncultured act for a man to take over some duties from his wife.




In most cases you would hear issues of people saying " oti so oko e di arindi" meaning the man is now a mugu.



I see little or nothing wrong in doing such afterall as partners( oko ataya), you are now one so no assistance is quite unnecessary or unreasonable

Jeez! What a heartless woman. What could make her carry out such a wicked act?

Tolexander: are you from ife?

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Do like Ife,Iwo,Ede,Ilesha.

omotenah: guy liking a guy? if thats not homo then idk wat is

Is that what you think? Its best you work on your level of reasoning. If a guy appreciating the music of his fellow guy amounts to homosexuality, such a silly conclusion * Harlos where art thou? *

The kids look quite pretty.

[quote author=emma_best2000]Year of peace , love and blessing , That is what I prophecies .
* In Jesus Name Amen *[/quote]Prophecies are just so numerous this year.

thando: breathe again? very hard once u see how polluted the air is under microscopic view

View that picture.

Mmmm

You both have all the time in the world to consumate your marriage,no need to rush or fuss over it. You are both legally married afterall. Her being on her period isn't the end of the world.

It will be so nice if you have a heart to heart talk with her. Make her understand how you feel,she should also be free in pouring out all your worries to you.
Do recognise the fact that marriage is a life time investment and put aside your thoughts of considering a divorce. You could invite someone she holds in high esteem who she confides in to speak more sense into her head. Her parents should also be aware of her behavior as it could wreck your home. You both have kids so put aside all plans on ending the marriage as in the longrun,your kids will bear the brunt of the consequences. A broken home for your kids isn't the way out,do act wisely. All the best.

Nice one!

Sir Chides: asap? whats the meaning of that

That word or term in question is a common one used,might not be in the dictionary but its a familiar one am sure most peeps know * btw, Nathandrake, the way you fuss over this your old love of a thing seems quite amusing*

davseun2ta: you are right!

Right and left are synonyms.

Wow!!! Nigerian doctors are also quite competent,nice one.

Dizzella: Cool ur temper

Temper(s) aint so good,they ought to be controlled.

Is this for real?

akorlade: basketball was invented by whites but blacks are so good at it, you can't help but mention abdul jabber, olajuwon, jordan, kobe et al.

Et al is an indispensable term in referencing.

Sheenor: Angry standing in self-hatred,
drowning in my tears.
Looking back on my life,
what I've been through the past few years.
everything I do & say,
wishing somehow things would change,
praying for a way.
Same old sh*t just another day,
living this evil life that was created just for me.
Starving for love, affection, & attention,
I know none of this is how it's really supposed
to be.
I try to be strong,
even though I feel so weak.
Feel like just giving up,
but I won't accept that level of defeat.
Pretend like I'm always happy,
although I'm never really okay.
Waiting for this pain to end,
that I feel every stupid day.
It's hard to say what's wrong,
when nothings going right.
Hard to keep myself going,
when I've been blinded by sight.
This pain is never ending,
it just goes on & on & on.
It's all so unbelievably real,
I just wish it all was gone.
Trying to pick myself up,
when I've fallen so far and hard.
But I don't know where I'm going,
It's all so very dark.
My heart is weak, my emotions sore,
I do my best to never let it show.
But deep down inside I feel like,
I'm dying & nobody knows.
A lot of f***ed up thoughts,
run through my head constantly.
I just wish I didn't live,
this life of MISERY!

Misery? You say,some people have gone through more difficult situations.

nathandrake: Day by day
Oh Dear Lord
Three things I pray
To see thee more clearly
Love thee more dearly
Follow thee more nearly

Nearly,dearly,clearly possess a definite rhyme scheme

I feel its the way your body system is,just eat a balanced diet at all times. Avoid junks as they are not healthy. Dont think too much about it,with time you would get the desired result as it comes naturally.

She looks dashing,her outfit might not look so alluring to the eyes because its an old school trend in the African traditional way. It sure looks cool on her!

harlos: hot being your last word means you're seriously in need of a strong thing

Thing(s) you desire in desperation aint worth having.

Hankerchief for me,which is of immense importance. Other present items may include lipgloss,wallet and little makeup kit.

Hmmm,for real?

She looks fabulous.

Cool.

chiefololade: Mercy Aigbe is a nollywood actress

Actress (es) of these days are just so unskilled for my liking.

Emmyk: Stress can be reduced if you smile often.

Often? Yes,it also reduces already built tension.