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Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

Hmmm
Women are deep and so deep .. your advice are valid .. but I can tell you cohabiting with woman /lady for 1 year before marriage does not mean you will know her..the real her .. ( you can draw subtle clue from paying close attention to her mother relationship with her father.. even single mother, by the way she behave around men).

Women do vagina reconstruction … after every every
A woman can be pregnant for another man and pin the child on a very upright responsible man
A woman can have 50 million bank account balance and still ask for 10,000 naira from her man .. forming no money
A woman can build a mansion completely without her husband knowledge ..
An average woman have narcissistic tendencies..

No be by gra gra to deal with a woman (especially) a wife, you go behave like heavy oluku, give monkey banana in order to be miles ahead of her .. the day you open dossier .. she will know you are real G.

So all in all.. it’s God that can save men from women , women are the same but with variance in character..

A woman was the first to have the knowledge of the world.. before the man that was created first ..

I adore and respect women folks who are real ladies with brains and manners.

Feminism /LGBT is a plan orchestrated as far back 1988 for the new millennium - The new World order.

Men will be rendered 2nd class and the marriage institution is meant to be destroyed worldwide- the family system will be altered..

I can't Ooo!!!
Marry fire kwa??

She get easily provoked and so hot tempered.......

She's very stubborn and hardly listen to OR follow our opinions

Just too religious.........infact she fought everyone close-by/neighbour/family/friends/youths/strangers who wouldnt readily absorb her preaching(BIGGEST TURN OFF).......

She's hyperactive too........hardly sit her ass down on a spot to rest.......if she's isn't doing this then definitely she's up doing that...... even the unnecessary things and wud lament if u failed to join her........

Mind:Those r her weakness anyways

GOOD SIDE:

SHE SINGLE HANDEDLY SPONSORED OUR EDUCATION FROM PRE NURSERY TO BEEN A GRADUATE........

SUCH A YOUNG PRETTY HER GOT HERSELF MARRIED TO ONE IDIOT DURING HER PRIME...........INFACT SHE STRUGGLED SPONSORING HIS EDUCATION TO UNIVERSITY LEVEL EVEN WHEN HER FAMILY WERE VEHEMENTLY AGAINST..........

.........BUT THE IDIOT BECAME DOCTOR AND NEVER CAME BACK TO HER/US........JUX THE ONLY PERSON I WILL NEVER FORGIVE EVN ON MY DYING BED.........

SHE SPONSORED HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS TOO.......SOME GRATEFUL WHILE SOME R INGRATES.......

Good day Gentleman,
I feel your pain and how deeply hurt you may be.
I don’t know you from Adam but for the sake of your
prosperity and joy for your kids / unborn kids generation, you need to man up and forgive that man God ordained shall be your biological father.

Life is deeper than we know it

Hmm , he was asked about procurement of Arms .. $1.2 billon .. he made a statement that previous COAS should be called in for interrogation.
Plane crash - ��‍♂️�

Isheri crash top brass fine military men in the 1990’s

Come 2023 .. the cabal will do everything to cover
their tracks ...
Buhari is no more since 2017

I beg to say .. there is something fundamentally wrong with this proposition.

Does Micro and Macro economics mean anything to the
people at the aim of NNPC.

Do they do business case analysis and value engineering to validate their decision.

Where is the Gas feed coming from?

NLNG in finima is well suited - OGGS (offshore Gas Gathering System - Shell + JV) feeds LNG

Afam Gas Plant in Ogbigbo well suited

Gas plant for power generation in Maiduguri - Any thought of largest African Solar Panel ( Renewable Energy).

Gas monetization is not about building Gas Plant in Maiduguri. Nigeria was so supposed to be second behind (rival) Qatar when Raslaffan was incorporated in 1993.
Qas Gas has 14 LNG trains now.. The dream of NLNG was cut short in 2007 at train 6, took over a decade to revive train 7 project.

Saudi is building the world futuristic city called Neom inviting close to $500billon. Where AI /robotics will be 100% maximized.

Nigeria leaders?

At Op,

Well written,, but nothing out of the ordinary. I will tell you something deep to help your unborn kids and future generations.

Women who are very successful and still home keepers and makers - law of nature bestow upon them children of Glory.

1. Example - High Chief, Otunba Adenuga Glo . His Mum was a well known successful / rich trader in Ibadan. Well respected high society woman but utterly submissive to her husband. You notice he empowered Bella big time .. this was due to his own mum.

2. Madam Folorunsho Alakija (richest woman in Nigeria ) - Still serve her husband meal and wash is undies .. she said this publicly in a lecture (2016)

3. The current chairman of first bank of Nigeria .. A woman of honour and grace - Madam Ibukun Awosika proudly said she is her home maker / keeper

My dearie there are law of nature — that aligns things.

Odi a jo lo

Re: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by bunto: 6:38pm On Jan 10
Lie from hell! Doctors are very busy people, especially in Nigeria.
yemmie:
@DrFunmi, pack well and reason..

I have consultant neurosurgeon, consultant cardiologist, consultant Gynecologist as buddies, we roll right from Uni days in their undergrad days and still roll hard till now..

Look into the mirror and get your priority right so you don’t regret in your old age ..

Hear word from AgbaAkin ..


Dude, I don’t have to prove this to you.. at IdiAraba Luth, UniBen and UCH teaching hospital you will see balling doctors .. mind some were club boys in Uni and even hard men .. make I no talk.
Mind you some of these doctors have practices and work in hospitals but they sabi wella. There are not based in Nigeria now self .. so bone

@DrFunmi, pack well and reason..

I have consultant neurosurgeon, consultant cardiologist, consultant Gynecologist as buddies, we roll right from Uni days in their undergrad days and still roll hard till now..

Look into the mirror and get your priority right so you don’t regret in your old age ..

Hear word from AgbaAkin ..

The pipeline is going to Morocco.. the deal signed between Nigeria and Morroco should be scrutinized.

China built a pipeline for Sudan and they paid back with
crude oil ...

I don’t understand if it’s lack of exposure that’s is disturbing the current crop of leaders.

There should be future master plan for development of Nigeria. The future Nigeria as it is now is mortgaged for 50 years with all these loan.

Tizeti CEO was my colleague in one of the IOC, full employee resigned and started Tizeti.. there are a lot of bright minds in Nigeria but the Government is not supporting their growth.

To change Nigeria.. the youths must be ready to put all
hands on deck... look around the world . young leaders are emerging.

Fathers and Elders.. Ahmed Bola Tinubu, Babatunde Raji and Co. Dear Elders.. The Northern Caliphate signed an agreement with Britain in 1914 for 100
Years...about the mere geographical expression.

The agreement elapsed after 2014.. Dear fathers / elders.. What was agreed after 100 years expiration between the Northern Caliphate and Britain about Royal Niger Company used for Amalgamation by Lord Lurgard.

Note sirs : Royal Niger Company (Britian) power was only over the Southern Nigeria Protectorate.. Due to the means and huge deposit in Southern Nigeria Protectorate and control over the Atlantic Ocean for trade.

Thank you Sirs

How much ?

Allah (S.W.T) words are concrete.

Before the eyes of Yorubas - A repeat of Late Pa Akintola vs Late Pa Awolowo fight again in south west ( different dimension)

However, it will be very very brutal in the south west this time.. Most of the current south west politicians are not dining with the devil with a long spoon, they are in fact preparing the food together with the devil in the kitchen.

Yoruba Ronu - Papa Ogunde sang..

The imposter as a president is been blackmailed, Abba Kyari was sacrificed (by those he so much trusted) for knowing too much/ over stepping bounds and must be taken out of the equation.

May God heal Nigeria.

@ Dyt ... I try hard not to respond to you these new era girls... most of you lack wisdom of the old

1. Whether you / others like it or not ... there is a divine status quo... right from the first creation ( Eve was created because of Adam)....

2. The root of generational tree ... the continuation of
human race lies with the man ... “ Don’t worry you tell there are sperm bank”

3. Spiritually in the coven of women .... the equation will never be balance without a single male ...I will not elucidate

4. Generational blessings and curse emanate from man ... so be careful the way you treat than man in your life

@ All men ... the person that can make you shine or sink is that woman you call a wife or friend... ( be wise) in your dealings with her ... this is a divine status quo right from Adam...

@ men to be great / successful and to fulfill your destiny .... avoid sex with random women..

Dude, I feel for you. I will go straight to that point.

1. Your wife feels she is superior and may be possessed unknowingly and may belong to Egbe Orun.

2. You are not a weak man, you have good spirit.

3. The pragmatic solutions here is to stop seeking her
affection and attention. Get a female friend ( think of those your old female friends you had good rapport with growing up), divert those energy towards your female friends.

4. Don’t have sex with her again henceforth. Break the spiritual hold ... gradually her grip over you will wear off.

5. Focus on your inner self for re-birth, cleansing of your troubled soul .... listen to music that make you dance a lot as kid, to bring back your joyful youthful memories ... positive energy

6. Avoid argument and confrontation with her to maintain your health and BP

7. Focus on your job / enroll in an online course that will help your career.

8. I will not encourage it .. but start flirting with ladies to get your mojo back..

Don’t pay evil back with evil ... stay clean and be good.

Ekun ti o rin bi ole ... ko kin Shey ti O jo...

Olodumare a gbe’o

My 2 Cents

Kingibe the next COS, he belongs to the same cabal as Abba. They need to cover their tracks..

Remember Allah ( S.W.T) is watching Mallam Kingibe

The imposter in ASO ROCK will be revealed soon by Allah (S.W.T).

Allah is Al -Jabbar, Al- A’dl, Al- Quduus, Al- Azeez

No wonder fire in AGF office and other government parastatals.

Life is transient.. Allah (S.W.T) said it all souls shall taste death.

People go to any length to acquire power and fame, forgetting man was created from sperm and female egg ... Man would be returned to Mother Earth where the smallest creature of Allah (S.W.T) will feast on a once powerful man filled with Arrogance, boastfulness, impunity and wickedness.

Life is illusion! It is a cycle of start (been born) and death (end).. what you do between cycle time will determine what becomes of the generations you leave behind and the journey to the great beyond of giving full accountability.

May Allah (S.W.T) forgive the dead of his shortcomings.

Be humble in wealth and power, extend hand of help and favor to your fellow mankind and be patient in the times of little and hardship!

Abacha
Saraki (Elder)
Pa Adesanya
Pa Enahoro
MKO
Pa Awolowo
Pa Akintola
Pa Azikwe
Were all man of worldly power but they are no more ... every living politician should remember a time will come to be humbled by death !

Dear poster, how old are you my lady.

In the coven of wise women without a single male in attendance the Centre will not hold.

In the coven of men of wisdom, without a balanced single woman with motherly heart, the Centre will not hold.

At poster do a deep research of the world you live in.

All the best.

I remember what he did at Sofi night 1998 night at Kwara hotel hosted by Kwara poly.

He came very late at about 2am , he wanted to do any how with his security entourage...

Omo boys para... with different four ... Omo K1 beg oo, as in really begging... he was kept at Ariya Garden that mid night ...

Hmmm ....

Mind you most of the girls in town now are agent of ..with a mission in the world.

Are we sure real Buhari is alive ?

I knew Seun as a young man back in ife. I registered before all those folks and still active till date

Too much kids on nairaland

Some one said he was not aware of internet as of 2005

I used Internet for final project 1999/2000

There must be a power tussle among the siblings of the family that leased the land.

If you marry Susan ... below are likely things to happen .
-You will not attain your full career potential
-You might develop high blood pressure that could affect your heart - early death
-You might end up having a child outside your matrimonial home
-You might be sad and depressed for a long time
- you may loose self esteem

Marry a woman that will bring out the best in you and be your pillar of support.
Someone who want to be your partner to build a dynasty
Some one that spur you to do more because of her being homely, sweet, mature, respectful and filled with fear of God.
Some who accepts and acknowledge you being the head of the home and knows her role well - I.e she is your back bone.

Men never never never marry a feminist as a wife !

Men .. man is getting old

Canada 87 U16.
Saudi 89 .. miracle of dammam from 4-1 down
Senegal 92
Japan 93
94 / 96 climax

These are years of amazing 9ja football

Just like yesterday ...

Now live work and in the same Dammam / Dharan

Live ....

Son listen to your mother, follow her advise.