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I agree 💯.

However, could you believe I've also seen some ladies in their late 20s with zero sense and zero knowledge about life?

I know of one always chasing clout online with no iota of seriousness for her life. Yet, she's already a graduate!

God will help our ladies but for 18 -23, for me it's a no-no. Primarily because I can't relate with someone that can't reason on the same frequency with me. She can hardly take care of herself without your input and she will want you to fund every of her lifestyle. She can't even contribute to your career and life in anyway.

Everything is not sex. Sex is just an addition and like an icing on the cake, just to bond and add salt and pepper to the relationship.

I had expected that something like this would have been established by Borno and Sokoto/Kebbi states that have been the hotbed of banditry and terrorism but up till now, I doubt if they are even thinking in that direction at all!

Honestly it's so mad right now. The landlord of my friend increases his rent every year. From 120k for a mini flat in Akute to 250k to 450k and now he's sent a notice that the next rent will be 800k just for a mini flat!

Something needs to be done about this ASAP. No landlord should be allowed to increase rent in less than 3 years!

lawbabs:
How old are you? You talk like a child. Do you know the longstanding friendship between Ben and BAT? So because you hate the president, Ben must be in bed with you? Who do you mob think you are?

That moon mentality can never leave them. Very aggressive say of people.

lawbabs:
You have no right to shut someone up because he likes who you hate. Respect others even if they have different religious or political leaning. This Nairaland is full of hateful humans. Chai!

Pls let them know bro.

Not respecting other people's choices and opinions is the height of stupidity. It's not a must I like what you like a and that's okay. We're different people with different orientation and different beliefs.

ebukal67x:
A friend of mine said that the visit was unnecessary and the gift should have been sent. What do you think?

Why do you mind all those unnecessary people who believe everything important is unnecessary! The same way they claim the coastal highway was unnecessary but kept complaining when it was not opened for their use on time.

Young man, I really imagined myself in your situation and really I know how hard it must have been, living with this secret.

However, I need you to know that you've got no fault in all of these at all. Most times we have no choice to choose the kind of family we're born into born we are at full liberty to choose how we live.

Pls let this secret not harm your relationship or delay your own plans for your life. For now, tell your woman that your adopted father is your father and do everything accordingly.

Your woman will still get to know this secret years later but it's not advisable you tell her now because this is a woman and it's will be too early to tell her some things as sensitive as this until after some years together when you must have trusted her or her ability and maturity to handle some things.

Live your life, give your mother some gap (if possible, for your sanity) and never stop your care for your adopted father (as he's been in your life from childhood, at least, see him as your benefactor).

In as much as your biological father has not the boldness to step in and claim his son till you are grown like this signifies that he has always been part of the crime all along and he's enjoying the whole thing. So, live it at that. It is his headache with that of your mum and that shouldn't be your problem. But remember to let your mum know the effects the secret has had in your life's trajectory (that's if she's that mature to handle that. If she's not, please just keep quiet). Maturity has nothing to do with age.

Lastly bro, face your life, give very little attention to your biological father (because he's not really worth it. He tried breaking a home with no intention to follow it through), if possible, relocate from that vicinity or town you live with them and only relate from afar.

That way, you will live your life in peace devoid of distractions from any of them. Thank God you are a professional and can take care of yourself. That in itself is power!

All the best bro.

oz4real83:
Your mom is the kind of wife that men do fasting and prayers for to avoid getting married to such women. She was obviously benefiting from both men and was scared of revealing the issue so that her benefits won't stop. She did all these for financial and promiscuous reasons. You are now an adult and instead of still telling the man, no matter the consequences, you still want to continue in that lie. I pray the man has other children that are his, you and your mom are already a loss to him. Some women are just so evil

Someone is traumatized and at a crossroad and has come for an advice but all you could do is blame and judge!..

Na wa o.

Next time you have nothing meaningful to say, just scroll and pass.

This is a very sensitive issue and all the man wants is some advice that could help him chart a course for his life. Odiegu

Hmmm, I pity the driver and his innocent family members,not because of what he might have experienced before this scenario but for deciding to send himself to prison for his inability to control his anger.

Some people are foolish enough not to know when or how to fight.

You want to unleash your anger and it is to a Lagos State Authority agent in uniform at the point of his duty in his own territory in Lagos! Haa! I pity your life because you will be inside for God knows how long. That your frustration that you could not keep in your house before coming out will be relegated when you get to where you belong.

It is not done anywhere in the world. You don't assault a government agent in uniform. It is tantamount to assaulting the government itself.

You will learn the hard way.

ebukal67x:
Partial suspension of visa issuance is better than outright ban.

Even if it's ban, ban can be lifted when the time is right!

anonimi:
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How is any of these governors working in terms of improving basic services and utilities for everyone in their respective states

How many technicians, engineers, accountants, administrators, lawyers, billing clerks etc have been employed by them to make ordinary water available for every household?

Which of the governors is doing better than Sanwo Olu and his three predecessors are doing in Tinubu’s TAX monster plan detty Lagos




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5v-F81hNTs

Of course, none of them is doing better than Sanwoolu but now that they're beginning to wake up, let's encourage them so they will continue to perform... And by the end of their tenure, they will be able to look back and realize that they've really brought about some development in their domain and also made life a lot easier for their people.

Yankee101:
I hear ENUGU governor is working
Abia governor Otti is working
Zamfara governor Dauda is working


Who is else is working?

We are waiting for Imo and Ebonyi state governors. We've seen the handiworks of Abia, Enugu and Anambra state governors.

In the SW, only Lagos and Oyo state governors are working. We're waiting for Osun, Ondo and Ekiti state governors to show workings too.

DeLaRue:
Most transformative head of state since Nigeria's independence 65 years ago.

The famous words - 'Subsidy is gone'. And so, it went.

Record non-oil export.
Record balance payment
Stabilised naira
Incredibly successful student loan scheme
Unprecedented tax reform
Credible and independent Central Bank
Local gov't revenue autonomy
State police
Audacious coastal road
Sokoto-badagry super highway.

And so.many more.

The only real and truthful comment I've read on this thread!

All these he has achieved in about two years of governance. Trust me, it takes boldness and a bit of ruthlessness to achieve this but at the end we will all be better for it.

Every reform comes with some sacrifices because some people must pay the price for it. People talked about subsidy removal but look at the achievement from the removal of subsidy!
Two legacy projects: Lagos - Calabar coastal highway and Sokoto - Badagry highway! Some people even claimed the coastal highway is useless and unnecessary but when it wasn't opened on time, they started grumbling! (That's people for you).
Also, some students dream of going to school would have been dashed but for Student education loan!
Talk of record non-oil export, a lot of people are smiling to the bank but will not come out to tell you the government is good.
In addition, for the first time, we're celebrating Christmas with cheaper food and cheaper fuel, something that has never happened before.

Abeg, anyone who says Tinubu is not a good president should bring the scorecard of his predecessors and let's check something.

Tell me that a bag of rice today is 50k but he met it at 40k and I would tell you that minimum wage was 30k and some states were even struggling to pay but today it is 70k and some of those states struggling to pay 30k are even paying 100k an above.

The hardworking first lady, you have tried. But it would be more honourable for you to have built schools, sponsor formal education and reward excellence to encourage your people and get them informed instead.

We in the South value thing that opens our mind because that's the only recipe for personal and societal development. You see all these circumcision, weddings and religious obligations, they are personal responsibilities we can do on our own. We don't need the government to do that for us.

Axis313:
Dangote really mean these people o.
He just want to wreck the marketers that imports fuel.
Anyway,may their price war benefit Nigerians.
AMEN.

And so what? They too should come together and be resilient enough to build a refinery and by then they will be able to compete favourably with Dangote. Anything outside that, Dangote will continue to use them to catch cruise.

Alariiwo:
You call this development?

You went to snap one major road to deceive your likes.. What of the erosion gullies and death traps all over Anambra?
Go and reclaim those places from erosion if you want anyone to take you serious.

Oga be calming down! Someone posted throwback pictures of 2017 and did not even wait to allow him post the current ones before you started throwing jabs.

I'm not from the South East but I want any right thinking person, who has eyes for good things to come and convince me that Soludo has not tried in Anambra!

As far as I'm concerned, presently, Soludo is the best performing governor in the East followed by Enugu state governor. And Abia is next. I'm still waiting for Imo state governor and Ebonyi state governor because I don't know what they're waiting for.

They all have heavy allocations. So, they should also work.

Now back to my region, I can see Seyi Makinde is trying in Oyo state, (not enough tho) but what Dapo Abiodun of Ogun state, who has the greatest potential is waiting for is something I don't understand! Ogun state is supposed to be next to lagos in terms of infrastructure but no! Ogun state has the poorest road network in Nigeria and this is not good for their image at all.

Please sir, we're looking up to you because we know you have the capacity to turn the infrastructure fortune of Ogun state around. Good bless you as you do so, His Excellency!

Ondo, Ekiti, Osun, pls the governors should upgrade their states please. I know I've not really gone out to those places in recent times but there's nothing happening that we don't get to hear in Lagos.

Lagos! The chairman of them all, in fairness to the governor, I give him kudos! It's always been one development upon the other. Good bless governor Sanwoolu! But sir, help us remember the suburbs like Ikorodu in your road rehabilitation. Thank you sir.

In the first place, why would a hospital be without oxygen at any point in time, whether there's an emergency or not ? The hospital as as an institution should be heavily sanctioned for the negligence and for employing a quack doctor. Even an illiterate knows that a woman with a 4.2kg baby must not risk pushing, let alone a doctor who claims to be in charge of a procedure in a theater.

His license should be withdrawn and he must be made to pay for the innocent life he wasted. His punishment must be heavy to serve as deterrence to others like him.

Succinctly put, the Vice president has said it just the way it is. Of course we're in a democracy and people are free to contest elections but the players already know it's just for the record.

As far HE Peter Obi, although I know he's partiless at the moment but I will only advise that he keeps his money and wait for another 8 years before trying again, especially now that the "we no dey give shishi" mantra is already outdated. I know Atiku has money and can afford to continue running without getting broke or tired.

A word, they say, is enough.........!

MEGAWATCH:
I don't know why majority of them are from south west.

Do south west men have issues with sex please?

I'm very curious, this is just a question please I don't intend to undermine anybody or region.


Thanks so much for your understanding.


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Yes, many of them from south west because the region has zero tolerance for nonsense. Other regions aren't doing enough, that's why you're not seeing the news from there.

Oga, leave that man. Osinbajo knows what he was doing right from the very beginning. It's just unfortunate that a pastor of his stature could stoop to that.

There's nothing wrong in having an ambition but this is he had was betrayal, not ambition. He's a pastor (not a politician), he's been a lawyer of repute, very respected but for him to have contemplated a presidential run when his benefactor was still in the race is the height of insensitivity. I'm sure if he had shown some interest in governorship race, his benefactor would have even been of assistance, ensuring his victory, and he would have had a golden opportunity to make a huge positive impact in his state.

I'm a Christian from the South West, so forget tribe or religion. If anybody has ever helped you become somebody, to the extent of making you a no 2 citizen in a country like Nigeria, you owe that person some loyalty!

Dijita:
Could it be that Buhari was playing both side on the field in this case Tinubu and Osinbajo for the benefit of others. I am not a politician, even a novice like me know that if Tinubu and Osibanjo go into the primary their home based support will be divided and they are both may likely loose.
How did Osinbajo as a pastor believe he can win the primary on fairground when majority of his home base south west will support Tinubu? As a lawyer with years of experience in the Nigeria system, How come he could not discern that he is been used to scurtle Tinubu ambition?

As a man of God, should he not be very aware that if he were to be help to become president by Buhari and the so call Cabal he would beholding to them and thereby be corrupted?

The bitter truth is that if you divorce your husband because he cheated with a side chick, you would be leaving your own home and position as a wife to the side chick, you will automatically become a side chick to another married man.

So ladies, marry your best friend, a man with the fear of God, who also has a responsible man he respects, who can call him to order either in the family, church or society. So that when he cheats, you have him reported to that person to ask him questions.

Then, sit him down, ask him what you're not doing right or where you offended him, just sort it out with him.

The only reason I can support a woman to leave her marriage is physical abuse.

If it is cheating, 75% of married men aren't innocent. So, that woman that's encouraging you to leave your husband, what her own husband is doing might be worse than yours. Stay guided.

Anything to continue crashing the price of fuel is welcome.

There is no need for these people to get hysterical over an enterprenuer (Dangote ) decision to either increase or reduce his price. They too should come together, form an alliance and establish a refinery so they can produce at a price lower than Dangote.

They are not willing to do this and a normal businessman will always see that as a tool.

It's audio project
It's white elephant project
It's only on paper to syphon money
It's a waste of money
It's very unnecessary
We don't need it
We don't want it!!!

If you are amongst those who ever said any of these lines above and today, you are driving or riding on the same Lagos -Calabar coastal highway to your destination, honestly I don't know what to call you.

But never mind, it's only phase 1. You've also seen the display at the Calabar end too! Just wait, it's 8 years journey. If you know it's too long for you, pls take a back seat.

The should be investigated and be made to face the music if found to be true.

Honestly nothing surprises me anymore, especially when it comes to this opposite gender!

You were married but cheating with your church pastor! And the pastor asked you to leave your husband and you did!

What do we call that one now?. Stupidity, foolishness or madness because I don't just know how to place it.

It's your cross, deal with it.

Hisroyalbadmeat:
Nyerisi of Rivers State,The Slayer of IPOB, The Lion of The Niger Delta,Ekwu eme one of Port Harcourt, The political martian of Nigeria, POS Africa, Some folks think say you dey do juju,but them no know say na Jesus you dey follow,No body get moral reach wike,Wikematics is a movement,Nkelem anu meka

You can say that again. Some haters have been waiting for his downfall but it's better they go back to their houses and bring mattresses with them because they will only continue to sleep but will never see.

Hmmm....where this hatred will lead some people to, only God can save them. There's nothing like Woke in the story but all of you were just like ..
Wike this, Wike that...he's wounded, he's defeated...
Haba!

This is the same way you urged him on that eventually earned him a six months suspension and an emergency rule.

You people should learn to mind your business abeg.

jiggyman:
How many phases are they gonna build? Why you tearing up?

Answer the question you rambler

I already know your type. You people lack the common sense to make a point without passing insults and I'm not going to join issues with your type.

So, if you have nothing meaningful to say, especially when all you could do is pass insults out of your hatred for good things, pls stay off my mention.

I've always known that some of you would still be sad for the developmental effort.

Interestingly, your opinion doesn't count

jiggyman:
How many phases are they gonna build? I think you have an inside knowledge, why not answer instead of churning out d#*b quotes

vislabraye:
. That's what i fail to understand. Asian countries do not spare drug offenders, worse of all is Thailand. But i guess, greater risk means greater reward.

That greater reward is their main motivation. But on a flip side........

These our brothers should continue. Or are they deaf and blind? The governments of foreign countries catch them almost on a daily basis. Yet, they wouldn't back down! Ki lo shele gangan??

Their elders should call them to order now. Does it mean that some of them can not do any other meaningful business than this drug business?