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Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

This is my stance and opinion, you can get in on board as a technical consultant to grow the business. Follow the money and forget the lady, create a technical embargo. Get typed a written document more or less like an MOU, I had a lady I had plans to marry but suddenly she got married. And just last three weeks she called me to help her out with a technical support in her business and of course I gave it to her.
You can even use the opportunity to kill two to three birds, become a business consultant to other businesses, I believe she recognizes some of your potentials just that when got married to another fellow. Get a team on board so that you can plan your visits, so you won't have to always be around every week. Moreover, pray about it.
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lecturer50:
She may not even accept you.
That she is running after the other man does not mean she would accept you.
This is the mistake men make.
A lady might be very cheap to one man, throw herself at his feet, love him because of some reason only known to her.


Another man would not respect himself and allow her be.
He thinks she is cheap.
He would go to her and she would reject him.

That she is cheap to one man does not mean she is cheap to all men.

Most ladies have 2 sides.
She would be very cheap to Mr A but very difficult to Mr B.

That is why men must learn to respect themselves.

That you ask the op to give you her number shows how desperate you are.

Will exposing your desperation make a woman come to you or accept you?


Some statements are not necessary because it would not even guarantee you a woman.

If you know that saying "I need a girl friend" will not make a girl to come to you or accept you, but will rather make girls to run away thinking you are desperate,

why not just pretend as if you don't need any woman,at least that will give you some dignity.

Girls wants a man who already has a girlfriend or at least is not desperate.

A person who is always saying he needs a girlfriend is interpreted as a person who has problem that is why he is lonely.

That is why women don't need such a person.

So men must learn to respect themselves afterall saying that you need a girl or that you should be given a girl's number, that will not make you have a girl.

It only makes you look cheap and desperate and further disgraces the male gender.

Ask any man that comes to nairaland and says he needs a girlfriend and they will tell you.
No girl has ever contacted them.

Why can't men stop all this shame and also show women that they themselves are not cheap.

Like I said, coming online to disgrace ourselves does not make girls to accept us.



It even pushes girls away.

If we really want girls,we must learn to show them that we don't need them.

That is when girls would be desperate to get our attention.

So we can then get them.

But in our desperation,we are even driving them away

The wise is enough for a word

have you seen how many of you fail exams and interviews, you only reason from one mirror and perspective. It is obvious you cannot comprehend my short typed sarcasm. At least you have preached your sermon and it is exactly the opposite of who I am

Such adventure would have been best in a church or mosque

It does not change anything, believing that there is good and evil is enough

I bet to disagree ruga is not th solution

This is why I don't support vaccination for COVID 19.
1. Vaccines were rush because of media influence by Big wits pushing for vaccination whereas Malaria, HIV, tuberculosis among others do not have vaccines yet.
2. Yes it is an infectious disease created in the lab, that means new varieties of it will emerge most especially because before 2019 we already have nothing less than 20 coronaviruses common among animals.
3. The COVID 19 Vaccines there is the possibility that it will connect with the blood and DNA of the individual creating new programs in the body of the individual. The main challenge is that if the internal features of some people rejects the vaccine it can lead to death.
4 if COVID 19 will be successful the type of vaccine to be used might have to depend on the patient.
5. It is an economic bioterrorism to weaken other economes

Ritako:
I am based in abuja, a single mum ( not seeking sympathy with it) am a strong hustler but ve been down on luck, so i need a job within Abuja and if am lucky lagos
I am graduate with B.A in theatre arts and humanities...... i have good managerial and administrativeskills
I have good communication skills, team spirit, zeal to work and complete task, above all with a fast and creative mindset. Please kindly pitch me in any good offer

I will advise you research on NGOs in Abuja and call the strategic one stating what you can offer them

Thoughtful if only if they knew the future results of their political antecedents they would have been more creative. I so much believe in a weak centre and strong branches

Manlike2good:
I have done that already. under settings I have a tab called API where I can get the secret and public keys. then I have another tab where I see webhook. I can't find the secret hash and it is required for WooCommerce aswell

you don't need the secret hash bro just test it with like 100 naira. I still did it yesterday

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chatinent:
Imagine yourself in this dilemma:

You kind of found yourself in an unpropitious situation. You traveled down to a certain place for sth personal only to stumble upon a lady who seemed cultured at first sight. She initiated a conversation, and also suggested you keep in touch on WhatsApp. You were waiting for your client.


At first, her benignancy made you feel she meant no harm -- there's no harm interacting with a nice person, you felt...even though you sensed a touch of pride and authority the way she spoke. She also walked with a bounce kind of.

Of late, the clock has refused to hit twelve. She has become your hunting shadow. You clearly told her you weren't single, neither were you interested in an affair nor can you offer anything more than a friend.

She wanted more. She proposed an alter ego, which you declined due to some craze she was already exhibiting. She's a rich spoilt brat.

She also suggested you lied to “whomever you are dating” she was your old-time bestie, which you also declined upfront.


You have tried almost everything polite without mincing words. There's no miscibility between you both. You have called her and spoken to her in camera, feigned anger, avoided her..but all your efforts seem to be to no avail.


How do you show this sort of person the nearest exit without being rude?

May be you should give me her number so I can confirm and be sure

tbibuzz:
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But I thought they left us here to settle there

Growing to become very intelligent in spiritual realities and the essence of Jesus Christ and His Role in the salvation of humanity which is by the Conviction of the Holy Spirit and his tutorship. Then coming out to reject the message, declaring that Jesus is not the Savior of humanity, disgracing the sacrifices of Christ which were once strong in ones heart by the Holy Spirit. It is saying the Holy Spirit told lies

Hebrew 6:5-6

bitbybit123:
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Eze2000:
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omowolewa:
How?

Chat me up via 08089456258 will explain better

Even masters, what you need is money to travel out

Travel and run program like University of People or Datacamp online

Instead of traveling to the US own an offshore company there and do business there from Nigeria

Usually you need at least 1000 subscribers and 4000 hours of views in at least a year

Download easyphp or wamp server and install first.