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@Ifemma: r Ʊ expecting now

Hi All,

it's good to here after a long time, am ttcing for number two for some months now if y'all will remember me.

Last month i tot i"d gotten there with all the symptoms and all but alas my AF came right on time, so it is back to "work" dis month.

I believe in God strongly.

@Venuss: if you are not comfy with any gift, pls dont keep,

where are the rest of the clan with their update

Have a grt day y'all

Hello House

Nice thread,

My sister is contemplating moving to Oz

I want to help her with as much info as possible cos we have have any contact there at all.

How Oz treating u new entrants like Tuno, Marcar etc

Wishing you all the best

Hi All,

I'm actually kinda doing a research for my lil sis who is thinking of relocating to Australia. she lives in Nigeria at the moment and i wld appreciate any advice on the steps she can take towards achieving this dream.

Thanks y'all

@Sirabbey: like you said it depends on where one works,

Automatically in some organization u forfeit annual leave wen you go for Mat leave

@ Outstrip

I wasn't complaining, i talked abt my experience and wish there's a uniform law across board.

i Think in Nigeria a woman is only entitled to Maternity leave after being confirmed on a job in most organisation. I got 12 wks maternity with full payment where i work which is in d private sector.

i think 3mths is way too small for a woman to recover from child delivery. take my case for instance, i went on Mat leave 5wks before the baby arrived due to some complications. my baby was barely 7 wks when i had to resume work. thanks to my Mom she was the one that looks after my daughter at that tender age, though i resume work 1hr later than resumption time and close 1hr earlier than close of work for 3mths but it cant be compared.

i wish there cld be a more effective change in law concerning pregnant women and they are not seen as unproductive as labelled in most organisations.

If she's truly desperate afta 5yrs then she'll see ɑ̈ specialist asap. I don't think it is right for you to prescribe Clomid  her since Ʊ r not her doctor or are Ʊ? What if it does more harm than good Let her see ɑ̈ GYN immediately

Prevention always better than cure.

She shld be careful, this is a gift from God that some pple are spending money to have and their bodies are going through traumatic experiences.

i wish ,

@Gen Buhari:
it is quite possible, our bodies react in different ways and i feel it is better not to debate if the medications was responsible or not. let's allow her grief but remember her in our prayers and pray that very soon, the sound of rejoicing shall be heard from her camp.

it is well with us all.

@ Blank: my song for your friend is "Eyes on the Sparrow".

The Word of the Lord says " HE know all about us", "That HE will never leave nor forsake us, " That He will do a new thing", that The Glory of the latter house shall be more than the former", That He will perfect all that concerns us".

Cling unto these word, It is well with us, Amen

Ok what odunamine said and how I feel are EXACTLY the same we are not a pity party here. I  have looked at your answers to questions Dr hastrup and they are educative so i have nothing against that but when i just see people asking one question,with  new id's   popping up it makes it look like an answer and question thread instead of a community that it is meant to be .
It is a thread meant for people going through infertility to come in talk about it and not  just for people who have one question and never come back again. It was not meant to be a ask Dr blah blah any question and he gives you answers like some other health threads.
(Share pains?, heal each other?
Is that a way out?, Pity party or knowledge about what you have and a way to get treatment and where to get one.)
Yes Dr hasstrup that is exactly what we have been doing here share stories and heal each other with words and look for solutions to issues arising.
Everything is just not simple cut and nail and drugs and go and see doctors. it takes a toll on you emotionally and psychologically ,that is why i made this as an outlet . As it is the internet i have no claim to anything but I think some of us love it the way it was and meant to be.

@ Arlington
I prefer wen this forum was interactive and pple come in to give update on what they are going through and what medical assistance they are seeking. It was quite helpful seeing that they are not alone and there a number of couples in similar situation. I t was even more encouraging to read the success story of some members like Ejadamen, luvly, Stages, Arlington etc. It was even more fun getting a regular report of how they are progressing thru their pregnancies.

I find the new Dr, posts funny, it looks more like copy and paste and doesnt look sincere to me and again asking pple to get in touch personally with you on the yahoo messenger screams fraud. In our quest for knowledge and solution, let be mindful of the steps we'll take towards solutions. I know it is a almost to get across to the contact details details of the genuine pple who have truly TTC so that we can draw strength from them if need be.

In all, i pray that God will help us in dealing with pple who are always out to take advantage of others and for the said doctor, i think your time is up here

@Mogbomoya:

Am sorry if i came across to you as harsh but like we all know safety comes first and understand ur situation but will thank the Lord that you are here today to share this with us and also to forewarn anyone who might fall victim.

I know there are total strangers who will help without holding back, i think it is a gross SIN against humanity to take advantage of people's predicament.

My dear, the Lord will visit you and you will sing a song of victory very soon like Stages, Arly, Luvly etc. etc. in this forum.

It is well dearie,

Shalom!!!

Madam Mogbomoya,

U took a high level of risk, despite the fact that you are desperate pls let's always apply caution. I would not allow a stranger touch me if it is not in a proper hospital setting.

i still await the Doctor to come up here and give his own explanation. pls severe all ties with him and for any assistance there are registered fertility clinics around town who will investigate your health history before any administration can be done.

i'm so in shock right now, what did he take your blood for sef orisirisi lo wa laye

oh really

am TTC for number 2 but will check the forum anyways

thanks

Thanks for your advice Udoka2, actually on the TTC forum reading tru the pages

Hi All

I recently started trying to conceive for my 2nd child, my lil is 2yrs and 1mth but looks like it is not going to happen. it took some months for me to conceive the 1st too.

I will be sending my contributions but right now still trying to read us the previous pages.

It's a honor to be here and i pray that the Awesome Father will visit as many that need His Touch,

From my reading here, i've come across posts from Arlington, stages, my peace, Masido (we r on the same page) etc

God bless y'all.

it breaks my heart to hear that Dr. Kathyekiti is no longer here.

I"ve actually been reading and enjoying the previous post for sometime now and so sad to see she is not here to advised in my situation.

I pray you come back soon Doc.

Miss you loads

Much Love everybody,

He was able to beat the Nigerian Customs one way or the other but luck still ran out of him

i wont be surprised if they propose a law that every adult foreign female travelling to UK shld come with pregnant result from specified hospitals .

stringent measure will be applied.

Let's all wait and see

i read with amusement the posts on this Nigerian woman

the babies are so innocent and don't deserve this publicity

I will not support this woman's behavior, it has only shown that she is not a straight person.

First of all she abused the use of drugs.

For someone in her right state of mind, i believe she knew that her actions has consequences and she stood the chance of multiple babies.

I dont believe her claim that she didnt know that she was expecting more than one baby. she endangered her life and the babies by her acts.

I dont want to be judgemental but her actions have further dented the image of Nigerian. it is stated in the visa that "no recourse to public funds", so regardless of her situation, how does she qualify for public funds?

She took a decision and she shld have crossed her "t' and dotted her "i'.

for her to now said that all her families are based abroad and she doesnt have a roof over her head here in Nigeria doesnt sound true to me.

for the sake of the young kids, i pray that her visa shld be extended so that her kids can be strong enough to travel back and she shld be sent home to care for her kids here.

She shld just go ahead and plan her return pending the time, am sure she'll be shocked at the level of support she receive from friends, extended family, religious grps here cos WE LOVE BABIES HERE and we know they are nothing but gifts from above.

She shld appeal to NGOs here as well the state and federal government to help in anyway possible (clear the bills).

I will not support her fight to stay there against their laws.

Let's not because of this moment forget tomorrow. enough damage has been done to the image of this country and every little effort made by everyone of us to redeem the image will go a long way.

Thank you

@Adunni: u made me laff, sure your hair is all grown now, my hair is presently receding (Iya Eko style) and my hair is pretty damaged. that's why i took d decision in March 2011.

it is well too early to tell the difference cos d hair's growth is very slow but i will hold and again i must mention that it is quite encouraging to hear fellow black women going natural,

God bless we all

am in transition as we speak

am three month post- relaxing

though it is still early but with the level of damage done to my hair, there is not looking back

i'll also welcome tips from women who have gone natural on how to grow a healthy TWA

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i've got indian and brazillian hair for sales too

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i've got indian hair for sale,

pls come and buy

I think Miss. Bayelsa was robbed of the crown,

Miss Taraba shld be the 4th runner-up,

She didnt answer the question asked well and doesnt look confident enough to me,

am kinda disappointed in the judges

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kindly send me d maggie e-book, gumbi_y@yahoo.com.

Tx

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@ Bece: is dat ur real birthday