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I have my reasons for saying he shld call the man,I hav dealt wit dis situation last year my ex got married and i had to shun all her calls and txt messages,she just gave birth and she called me saying ,"i don't care for her anymore" that i shld atleast come and see her baby i said no that i will send money for baby powder,till date she is still angry with me,why i dnt want to see her is obvious.....It takes principle to resist a woman...single or married

My guy pardon me if i sound raw but ur wife is sexually ,psychologically and emotionally attracted to her ex,it seems the memories of the fun(rough raw sex) is still fresh on dier minds.....approach dat guy man to man and tell hin the implications of his actions if he continue s to disturb your wife bro u have to use d gangstar approach and teach him a lesson he wont forget in a hurry.....To be a Man u must have a Mafian Spirit

U can imagine what dis ladies pass thru wit dis our distorted mindset,is it a crime for a single ladY to be rich?....i mentored one young lady during her sec. Sch days being a family friend i knew she will go far expectedly she made a first class and presently works wit an oil company,her monthly salary is almost my 3 months salary,I laugh when she calls me big bro....its her destiny @ 28 she is earning mIllions....so guys if you re lucky to find such lady that respects you dnt let go

None for now

Its obvious that the senate committee chiarman on INEC will be the PDP flagbearer with Nze Akachukwu Nwankpo as the running mate...with the disquaAlification of Prof. Soludo and the Consensus Candidature of Ifeanyi Uba in Labour Party and Sen. Chris Ngige of APC whats your political prediction?....WHO WINS?

She no dey look face....dem no born am well dos empty threats are for ajibo boys no be street men.

@ Op tanx for dat but there are exceptions to dis
- the reality of our time is such that the quest for comfort and luxury has pushed the ladies to a vulnerable mental state thereby being used and dumped,battered and disregarded by the so called real or made men...a lady whom I respect so much once told me that her greatest mistake in life was not marrying the young hardworking guy who was earning a meagre salary in an indian company in 1999-2000...today dis same guy is a top engineer with MTN,while the husband is an unquenchable sex machine sleeping with mistresses and prostitutes and beats her at the slightest provocation,I always tell ladies that a very hardworking,prayerful God fearing but broke man can never be poor....am a living testimony...I know how I started gradually the ministry is moving...In conclusion IF YOU DON'T DATE ME WHEN AV GOT NOTHING WHEN AM MADE I GO FOR READY MADE LADIES TO COMPLEMENT MY WEALTH....transaction completed

i just don't know why a mother will mount an undue pressure on her daughter to get married... Dis is becoming unbeareable as she is insisting she comes back with a man dis xmas for introduction....what can she do? Presently she is not in any relationship as the b/f travelled overseas an ended their 3 years r/ship...and she is 34

I agree wit the op,most ladies dis days are not dat good in cooking,one was even swearing wit her life dat I wasn't d one dat made the onugbu soup she ate wit me,its a very big challenge when ur gf/wife looks forward to eating your food,it spices up the relationship....for her to learn...when she is cooking just be gisting with her den u will be dropping the lines if she is the sharp type she will learn in less dan a 6 months

-i tink if its illegal then govt shld legalize it or scrap it out,its like cociane business dey are making cool money just opening and closing leg and those in dat field unofficially earn more ...just saying

I wonder why the world's oldest occupation/proffession is tax free? I think there is need for the commercial sex workers to start paying tax as some earn more than average civil servants..whts ur take?

My dear,u need to change your mindset,FYI the pump price of sex here in lagos is just 1k on the commercial sex market...u need to see the beauty and shape of the ladies in dis market offering sex @ a very cheap price ,i don't value sex anymore i value principle,attitude,achievement and mutual compatibility when am dating a lady....U DON'T DO ME A FAVOUR BY HAVING SEX WITH ME.....I DON't NEED IT

Its not easy considering the responsibilities and the meagre income..the only country I can suggest is Qatar,but he needs to raise some money for it....he shld also know qatar is a core moslem country...its well dear

A woman cheating in a marriage pulls down the spiritual stronghold of dat marriage...A married woman cheating because the husband is cheating or is not in town is inviting disaster in his home....for guys please say
" No to Married Women" ur playing with ur destiny

Human physiology well from experience u might likely land a job as a sales rep in a pharmaceutical company,but if u have some extra cash u can go for MBBS or D.Pharm which might take 5-6 yrs to complete,or betterstill B.SC Nursing...the choice is urs

Havard University is the best place to be...i wanted to go for M.Sc Public Policy when i saw d tuition fee plus other expenses i no fit shout,i still have dat in mind shaa,mind u Okonjo Iweala is a technocrat she served as world bank vp prior to joining government so she doesnt depend on tax payers money to finance their education

@ Nikkykay....my dear i think the best option is to quit,most successful ladies can't strike a balance b/w (Money,Fame,Excellence)and Men...I can't imagine someone who talks so arrogantly to men driver,cleaner etc being my wife.,dis sheer arrogance in most cases makes me feel so bad that i end up arguing every now n then over dis Superiority Complex...Its just an attitude problem

Very Funny a hermaphrodite said dat am broke & i should find my level.....no comment @ mgbeketoto i dont tink dis has to do with sexual satisfaction cos am not a learner

Guess I hav to work on my temper and take it gently with her....

@ Dayokanu abi guess I need to refine my search dis time attitude comes first before career or intellect

Not married yet..

@Baby_123...am a very flexible person when it comes to making decisions so am not the issue here even her sisters do complain of dis uncompromising attitude so I guess she is just the rigid type

@ dayokanu its obvious ur response is quite immature,dis is a social media u don't expect me to fine tune my english here,based on job levels we all know naija I secured a good job late(few months ago)while she has spent years on a plum job,qualification wise she has a masters degree with other certifications and I have same so what's the stress,its just dis idea of women empowerment and gender equality...guess I have to give her a break

Well we re still dating,maybe she feels she is very idependent financially,on the basis of intellect we re @ par am just unfortunate to hav not gotten a better job all dis while...guess I hav to quit before I mace her am very gentle but hot tempered

she is always arguing and expressing her intellectual prowess even when its obvious she is not making sense....how can a man cope with a lady with a domineering attitude,very un-submissive and annoying just because she has an excellent career profile....mature replies pls

My Guy u said u attend Christ Embassy.....impossible cos dat church posses a huge chunk of preety,elegant and God fearing ladies...Join the singles fellowship in ur church and ur ministry will move to perm. site sharpally

i guess its unnatural but a lady can just make passing comments like ,"I for like u be my man for life,just dat dos other babes dey confuse u"......it might be funny but she is serious

The Banks always use the downsizing as a preferred strategy to cut costs....its highly regrettable especially when the labour market is congested,aside downsizing there should be other areas to cut costs and maximize profits

My guy I understand your predicament,u just have to take it easy on yourself indian guys enslave us a lot here,I advise u discuss with a legal mind before taking any decision,betterstill work at your own pace if your salary is not attached to meeting target

The man has sexual challenges with the wife which was left unresolved till it culminated to dis unholy drama