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Guess I hav to work on my temper and take it gently with her....

@ Dayokanu abi guess I need to refine my search dis time attitude comes first before career or intellect

Not married yet..

@Baby_123...am a very flexible person when it comes to making decisions so am not the issue here even her sisters do complain of dis uncompromising attitude so I guess she is just the rigid type

@ dayokanu its obvious ur response is quite immature,dis is a social media u don't expect me to fine tune my english here,based on job levels we all know naija I secured a good job late(few months ago)while she has spent years on a plum job,qualification wise she has a masters degree with other certifications and I have same so what's the stress,its just dis idea of women empowerment and gender equality...guess I have to give her a break

Well we re still dating,maybe she feels she is very idependent financially,on the basis of intellect we re @ par am just unfortunate to hav not gotten a better job all dis while...guess I hav to quit before I mace her am very gentle but hot tempered

she is always arguing and expressing her intellectual prowess even when its obvious she is not making sense....how can a man cope with a lady with a domineering attitude,very un-submissive and annoying just because she has an excellent career profile....mature replies pls

My Guy u said u attend Christ Embassy.....impossible cos dat church posses a huge chunk of preety,elegant and God fearing ladies...Join the singles fellowship in ur church and ur ministry will move to perm. site sharpally

i guess its unnatural but a lady can just make passing comments like ,"I for like u be my man for life,just dat dos other babes dey confuse u"......it might be funny but she is serious

The Banks always use the downsizing as a preferred strategy to cut costs....its highly regrettable especially when the labour market is congested,aside downsizing there should be other areas to cut costs and maximize profits

My guy I understand your predicament,u just have to take it easy on yourself indian guys enslave us a lot here,I advise u discuss with a legal mind before taking any decision,betterstill work at your own pace if your salary is not attached to meeting target

The man has sexual challenges with the wife which was left unresolved till it culminated to dis unholy drama

Guy u don mess up big time.....the technique is the moment she got married delete her no. then if she calls don't pick......sleeping with a married woman is the beginning of your failure...quote me

lols...i call it emotional philantropy i dnt really blame dem shaa times are hard...just dat most naija lades hav sense but ar not sensible....If ur re dating a rich dude and ur wise u tink of saving moni to set up a small business or using ur sugar daddy connection to be securing a cleaning contract from oga @ d top.....dey say business before pleasure...in dis case it will be pleasure wit business.....tink outside d romance box

If u wish to stay alone dis golden rules should apply;
- Avoid bringing in several types and grades of men to your house(oga on top dem)
-Have good comm. with neigbhours
-Avoid late nights
then for your parents u have to make them see reasons
.......just tot of dis ur name'UKWUBUEGO' hope dis is not part of d plan

i tink marrying a wealthy and rich dude is d best, in reality its a highly competitive market so u have to stand out in character,beauty and economic status plus other exceptional additional qualities.....naija rich guys use ladies like tissue cos of their fragmented mindset when these guys wants to marry they go for those ladies with a wealthy background,beauty and a sound education. Don't blame them cos they want to get richer....yes richer

As an illustration
I do ask myself for how long will I be a bachelor?
For how long will I continue to step from one g/f to another in a bid to find the perfect date?
For how long shall I continue to attend clubs and parties claiming to be young when am depreciating age wise?
For how long shall I continue to postpone God's blessings that come with marriage?
.....If ur a bachelor,above 30 with a job,an apartment with some savings....think about this...The earlier the better

Two wrongs don't make a right what is the way out...how do we restore santity and civility of mind in dis era of monumental moral decadence.we need solutions

I must say the comments received so far is quite an insight to other needs to consider having kids,thumbs up guys its quite an experience....more of dat

Am speechless...ur write up is quite captivating and emotion driven....guess u have to discuss with your boyfriend to know his plans for you...its not easy for guys taking dis decision of getting married...I pray u marry a wonderful man

My guy I blame it on greed and the poverty level in the country,when dis ladies cross 30 and still sigle dey start claiming child of God...very funny...for me I dnt date students/hustlers

Well mature minds don't waste much time...if u like her make ur intention known to her,give her 1 month if she proves hard to get...bro move on.

Am talking about the working class,for me I wld say three is appropriate

-considering the unstable and harsh economy in the country at the moment,how many children is advisable for newly married couples who are private sector employees...-without attaching sentiments to tradition,ethnicity and religion

Have u registered dis product in Nigeria...DO U HAVE TRADEMARK CERT. & SONCAP CERT with dis i can invest as a distributor

)Young man u hav exhibited the height of immaturity such ladies wld not like exposure even if she agree to date you,be careful next time I have loads of them on my linkedin profile but I am very discreet about my interaction with them cos they are high profile babes occupying very top positions in the corporate ladder.
What differentiates boys and men is the ability to keep secret tinx secret

Just can stip laughing when I saw dis,I feel like sharing it kelly Handsome Tweeted...An empty pocket doesn't deserve an erection...Is dis an emotional parable?

;DWell,Single mum can be expanded to include widows..that's where I belong I was raised by a woman but ve got the masculine orientation and mindset from uncles and cousins...Single mums shul expand the horison of their children by taking them to strict uncles/cousins who will instill discipline on them esp. The males

@ 2legit....well its just a sad story,they did their introduction n trad. she was heavily pregnant,she travelled to give birth and decided to stay back for a while,the man lost the job in March and she started delaying her coming back for reasons best known to her,she has relations in Canada.....Maybe she is being advised to abandon the marriage since they haven't done the church wedding...its so sad but true

Its rather unfortunate that marriage built on purely economic reasons fail to stand the test of time.
Nigerian Lady abandons husband who recently lost his job here in Nigeria...the lady who delivered of a baby few months back advised the man to look for another woman as she doesn't plan coming back nor inviting him.....Marriage of today is indeed for better

People meet on facebook,twitter,even linkedin started dating and eventually got married,I wonder what makes u guys tink such can't happen here,there are very genuine people here so u guys should stop dis wanton generalization,I hate it

Pls if u aint searching just don't comment u can observe, dis thread is strictly for mature minds please