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selflessmaya: Tell that to all the graduates who roam around jobless, Tell that to the ppl who worked and dont have pension for retirement and die miserable and piss poor, Tell that to my mother who has worked for over 20something yrs but barely has any savings but a girl i know who will turn 23 in novemeber, someone who might not have been born when my mom got her 1st job has over 140mill, in her personal account yes you heard right "OVER(in emphasis)" 140mill and she never worked a day in her life for any of it and is yet to graduate next yr and just had a wedding so fancy it will make your head spin and no her family is poor so dont think she's an heiress. even thinking of it makes me pissed and my mom is on strike sef, i wan madt, no one should tell me like i dont know what i'm saying, the world is wrong and time is fleeting. I'm not saying hard work wont pay o, i just know it doesnt pay as much as it used to. In 2014 times have changed, this is a new millennium and things are different and a new breed of humans exist. My mentality is doing me good already and i love it and i have absolutely no problems.

There are ppl who give their all and get nothing in return and there are ppl who lay back, do nothing and get everything hard workers grind for and i am proud to be the latter. I grew up wanting to be hard working and blah blah blah. but after seeing what happened to my mom, after seeing how looked down on women are in Nigerian society I had to grow up, after seeing how men marry a pretty girl and keep her poor and they multiply like pigs, she loses her figure cos they're too poor for an in-house gym and the same man she gave her life to will still hurt her and cheat on her and emotionally abuse her and she has to put up with it cos she's a woman, like it's a disease. Do u know where good girls end up? in one man's kitchen, she will do the laundry and go to work then go to school run, then come back and cook and all that for a man who thinks she's beneath him and under appreciated, what kind of life is that? And at just 32, they look wrinkly cos of sun damage and seem 2wice their age. Some girls are stupid enough to sign up for that i'm not. So i found myself someone that suits me. My mentality is doing me good already and i wont have it any other way

...It seems your mind is made up Ms Maya Chukkas,Good Luck Babe.....if i had borrowed dis your mentality i would have been a drug baron,yahoo guy,kidnapper or dating the likes of Mama Bakassi..AM CONTENTED WIT THE LEGIT AM DOING

@SelflessMaya
This mentality of yours will do you no good,HARDWORK PAYS AND WILL CONTINUE TO PAY just that it takes time to make it thru hardwork, living an average life is momentary for the focused,intelligent and hardworking bear that in mind,if only you know what most of these rich men do with u ladies,The spiritual governs the physical...To whom much is given..Much is taken,have u asked yourself why those Benin Classy Babes have charm marks in strategic places in ther body is bcause they know the terrain is rugged so they are extra fortified and prepared to mitigate the risks....(Thru life experience)i went to see a senator from my state in a hotel for a small contract he sent his personal aide to arrange two babes for him. On arrival he looked at the two and asked him to take one (tall,plumpy and preety)back that she is empty,i was shocked what he meant by that,till today that statement still remains a mystery to unravel,In most cases they give you big money and also give you big pain which u might not see(childlessness,sudden death,bad luck etc)

Female Students that indulge in sex trade simply do it cos of GREED and TO BE SEEN AS CLASSY/POSH...Suprisingly some of them are from decent families with stable financial status..Is just peer pressure and lack of contentment...Most of these ladies continue the trade after skuul even as working class babes dating the CEOs of companies and Politicians...I just pity the Guys they will eventually lure into marriage cos such habit and lifestyle is very hard to stop

Big Booty trips me wella,i don do skinny babes cos am always scared i might break their waist..lols apologies to the slim/lepacious babes #TeamBigBooty

Am in my 30s i intend to marry probably 2yrs (or less)from now 33-35yrs

I thank God for her life...whether she be runs girl or sharp babe the bootomline is that she wants a better life,She is in Nafdac now and by Gods grace soon she will meet a young man that will love,cherish and care for her...This is what every woman needs even the runs girls...For your info:the babe is super loaded before she left hopefully looking for true love

I also hate it when ladies at their younger age snubs every single guy because she is dating rich married men for money, once she clocks (30)thirty She will remember church and start forming no sex till marriage...Association of Nigerian GuyMen decide to taste before we marry cos ladies don decieve us wella

Guys dey vex o...For me i hate it when a lady thinks her pu-ssy can generate cash so once you agree to date be ready to bear all the financial burden...I hate it when ladies form class(high maintenance) outside when she can't even feed herself if her pu-ssy is removed...Ladies grow up and be independent...it trips me big time

joker5180: Have you read the post well? He said he is currently employed but looking for something BETTER.

Obviously from his write up he is underemployed possibly seeking for new oppurtunites and enhanced pay package,secondly my post is mainly for those currently unemployed

@Op i understand your plight having passed thru 4yrs of radical unemployemt and underemployment...I am proposing a project that will run concurently with NYSC where graduates will devote 6months of their service year for Skill acquisition after which the govt. Provides minimum of #200,000 per corp member to start up something pending when a good job comes...I call it Graduate Entrepreneural Internship Scheme...just that the Govt. Will say "No Money"..i also suggest graduates apply for Grants and Loans for Business start-Ups e.g YOUWIN Grants,BOI loans etc. "With God all things are Possible"

I tink Peter should have initiated genuine reconciliation by attending the wedding,av always advised married men to take the lead in their family "A family led by a certain type of woman(in this discuss) is prone to Confusion cos most ladies are more emotional than rational"...an instance of this emotional reasoning happened yesterday when my girlfirend insisted i use the money i budgeted to buy a commercial bus for the family upkeep to buy an SUV" in her words ..."Use that money and buy a Car for yourself don't you need Comfort?" I just laughed it off

Opinion differs but for me i think thats the best priviledge(Dual Citizenship)i can give to my child am seriously asking God to provide me with the fund when the time comes for marriage and childbirth

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Abroad Husband Ke....don"t be decieved the only good thing there is the infrastructural development,meanwhile u need to develop yourself don't depend on abroad husband to go abroad...you can do it yourself..YES U CAN

Opening Bell Rings
BiDDING STarTS
@Alex in Lagos declares interest with a declaration to marry you in 12months
Provided you meet my expectation and you be "Born Hustler" like men the era of "OBIAGELI"(siddon dey chop husband money) is gone...pm me for further details

@Op u have to make your parents realize that there is no rush in life,many guys that meet your criteria abound here and mind you most guys in naija are hardworking just that oppurtunity hasnt come their way finally i advise you be confident and prayerful

Dis challenge u face now is only but temporal,Get closer to God and also tell your pastor/priest that you lost your job,their prayers and network of contacts can pull you through...Be a Man...Be strong

Hmm I now understand why most single ladies date married men cos they are virtually the link to their source of happiness....I pity any lady with this skewed mentality...Respect #Ngozi Okonjo Iweala,Ms Evelyn Oputu,Ms Funke(Main One Cable),Ms Aruma Oteh,Chidima Uwajimogu,Senator Chris Anyanwu,Sen. Nkechi Nworgu,Amb Kema Chikwe,Sen.Joy Emordi,Sen Grace Bent,Sen.Esuene Helen,Hon Uche Ekwunife among others who vowed to own the Gold rather than being the Gold Digger...Not Forgeting Mrs.Folarunsho Alakija and Prof. Dora Akunyili#...I detest young ladies with a high dependency mindset

If she dated a married man before marriage..she won't stop after marriage...the real reasons are greed,pride and lack of contentment

Dis guy don hammer die with his little or no academic qual....av leant dat to hammer in Naija u must be Rugged...I mean Rugged

Just the Nigerian Mentality....though I discourage divorce I won't advise my sister to stay in an abusive relationship. Dis is 2014 pple shld mind dier biz..whether you are divorced,separted,married or single live your dreams snub d aprokos

Just the Nigerian Mentality....though I discourage divorce I won't advise my sister to stay in an abusive relationship. Dis is 2014 pple shld mind dier biz..whether your divorced,separted,married or single live your dreams snub d aprokos

Nyz thread...am feelin it

Noted...am just so hapi dis Xmas

Many chics were slaughtered on xmas day....dirty minds I mean chicken...Enjoy d best dis yuletide

lwkmd...thé girlfriend needs 30k for shopping while hé earns 50k per month.....thé babe is preety n hot and other guys are willing to spend on her,wetin dis My guy go do?

OP Bro go ahead...Nairaland guys will surely support you
-I almost fainted when I saw Dr.Reuben Abati's old pic in Linda's blog...Never despise a hardworking man in his humble beginning...I laugh @ dos ladies dat are waitng for ready made men when the unemployment rate is 54 per cent...the lord is their strenght

Av always find myself lusting after ASSesible Babes,i just can't resist the shape...sexy n curvy...