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Guy u don mess up big time.....the technique is the moment she got married delete her no. then if she calls don't pick......sleeping with a married woman is the beginning of your failure...quote me

lols...i call it emotional philantropy i dnt really blame dem shaa times are hard...just dat most naija lades hav sense but ar not sensible....If ur re dating a rich dude and ur wise u tink of saving moni to set up a small business or using ur sugar daddy connection to be securing a cleaning contract from oga @ d top.....dey say business before pleasure...in dis case it will be pleasure wit business.....tink outside d romance box

If u wish to stay alone dis golden rules should apply;
- Avoid bringing in several types and grades of men to your house(oga on top dem)
-Have good comm. with neigbhours
-Avoid late nights
then for your parents u have to make them see reasons
.......just tot of dis ur name'UKWUBUEGO' hope dis is not part of d plan

i tink marrying a wealthy and rich dude is d best, in reality its a highly competitive market so u have to stand out in character,beauty and economic status plus other exceptional additional qualities.....naija rich guys use ladies like tissue cos of their fragmented mindset when these guys wants to marry they go for those ladies with a wealthy background,beauty and a sound education. Don't blame them cos they want to get richer....yes richer

As an illustration
I do ask myself for how long will I be a bachelor?
For how long will I continue to step from one g/f to another in a bid to find the perfect date?
For how long shall I continue to attend clubs and parties claiming to be young when am depreciating age wise?
For how long shall I continue to postpone God's blessings that come with marriage?
.....If ur a bachelor,above 30 with a job,an apartment with some savings....think about this...The earlier the better

Two wrongs don't make a right what is the way out...how do we restore santity and civility of mind in dis era of monumental moral decadence.we need solutions

I must say the comments received so far is quite an insight to other needs to consider having kids,thumbs up guys its quite an experience....more of dat

Am speechless...ur write up is quite captivating and emotion driven....guess u have to discuss with your boyfriend to know his plans for you...its not easy for guys taking dis decision of getting married...I pray u marry a wonderful man

My guy I blame it on greed and the poverty level in the country,when dis ladies cross 30 and still sigle dey start claiming child of God...very funny...for me I dnt date students/hustlers

Well mature minds don't waste much time...if u like her make ur intention known to her,give her 1 month if she proves hard to get...bro move on.

Am talking about the working class,for me I wld say three is appropriate

-considering the unstable and harsh economy in the country at the moment,how many children is advisable for newly married couples who are private sector employees...-without attaching sentiments to tradition,ethnicity and religion

Have u registered dis product in Nigeria...DO U HAVE TRADEMARK CERT. & SONCAP CERT with dis i can invest as a distributor

)Young man u hav exhibited the height of immaturity such ladies wld not like exposure even if she agree to date you,be careful next time I have loads of them on my linkedin profile but I am very discreet about my interaction with them cos they are high profile babes occupying very top positions in the corporate ladder.
What differentiates boys and men is the ability to keep secret tinx secret

Just can stip laughing when I saw dis,I feel like sharing it kelly Handsome Tweeted...An empty pocket doesn't deserve an erection...Is dis an emotional parable?

;DWell,Single mum can be expanded to include widows..that's where I belong I was raised by a woman but ve got the masculine orientation and mindset from uncles and cousins...Single mums shul expand the horison of their children by taking them to strict uncles/cousins who will instill discipline on them esp. The males

@ 2legit....well its just a sad story,they did their introduction n trad. she was heavily pregnant,she travelled to give birth and decided to stay back for a while,the man lost the job in March and she started delaying her coming back for reasons best known to her,she has relations in Canada.....Maybe she is being advised to abandon the marriage since they haven't done the church wedding...its so sad but true

Its rather unfortunate that marriage built on purely economic reasons fail to stand the test of time.
Nigerian Lady abandons husband who recently lost his job here in Nigeria...the lady who delivered of a baby few months back advised the man to look for another woman as she doesn't plan coming back nor inviting him.....Marriage of today is indeed for better

People meet on facebook,twitter,even linkedin started dating and eventually got married,I wonder what makes u guys tink such can't happen here,there are very genuine people here so u guys should stop dis wanton generalization,I hate it

Pls if u aint searching just don't comment u can observe, dis thread is strictly for mature minds please

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Is dis boko haram online?, i observed smtn with ladies as it concerns friendship,sexuality and marriage...
- Most Ladies who keep most female friends around them tend to have less affinity to men
-This increase their chances of finding sexual satisfaction within their clique of female friends
-Ladies who are chronic lesbians don't find men attractive,with this lack of attraction,they lose interest in Men, so guys don't push or argue wit anti-men.for other ladies wiling to Marry just be hopeful

@ Op dnt worry your time will come,just be positive minded,dress well,smile and communicate well(dnt be arrogant or Saucy to people below ur class)...am patiently waiting for your I.V...cheers

its a very dicey issue,the lady waz born in UK and a practising public health specialist her career has prospects over there the guy has a secured job he doesn't just want to leave for an uncertainty in diaspora...if u were in their shoes what do u advice them to do? pls be reasonable and logical in ur response tnx

In a situation u met a lady online who resides in UK,she wants to get married but doesn't plan coming to Nigeria anytime soon,the guy works in Nigeria and doesn't plan relocating abroad for personal reasons how will dis marriage work?

In a situation u met a lady online who resides in UK,she wants to get married but doesn't plan coming to Nigeria anytime soon,the guy works in Nigeria and doesn't plan relocating abroad for personal reasons how will dis marriage work?

Dnt waste ur time and money to prove your love,devote that time and money to build your business empire...then u attract ladies of like minds
Love to me is just a function of compatibility and convenience....i only date career minded ladies cos they complement my thinking and approach to life