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Let's get mature hook ups for serious relationships here...mind u no games strictly above 25yrs
" Alex,31,tall,handsome,working class,lagos resident seeking chubby working class lady preferably from the east for a serious relationship dat can lead to marriage..whatsapp 08091014665,pin 225A4606

Chubby all d way

Cooking is no big deal to me,I enjoy cooking so I dnt see ot as stress,I just can't stop thanking my mum for dat early training,though am d last

Mature plumpy babes add me up...08091014665

@ Op be positive about Guys just be nyz and friendly and define your r/ship from d start,lastly build your self confidence ,add me up 225A4606

Is dis boko haram online?, i observed smtn with ladies as it concerns friendship,sexuality and marriage...
- Most Ladies who keep most female friends around them tend to have less affinity to men
-This increase their chances of finding sexual satisfaction within their clique of female friends
-Ladies who are chronic lesbians don't find men attractive,with this lack of attraction,they lose interest in Men, so guys don't push or argue wit anti-men.for other ladies wiling to Marry just be hopeful

@ Op dnt worry your time will come,just be positive minded,dress well,smile and communicate well(dnt be arrogant or Saucy to people below ur class)...am patiently waiting for your I.V...cheers

its a very dicey issue,the lady waz born in UK and a practising public health specialist her career has prospects over there the guy has a secured job he doesn't just want to leave for an uncertainty in diaspora...if u were in their shoes what do u advice them to do? pls be reasonable and logical in ur response tnx

In a situation u met a lady online who resides in UK,she wants to get married but doesn't plan coming to Nigeria anytime soon,the guy works in Nigeria and doesn't plan relocating abroad for personal reasons how will dis marriage work?

In a situation u met a lady online who resides in UK,she wants to get married but doesn't plan coming to Nigeria anytime soon,the guy works in Nigeria and doesn't plan relocating abroad for personal reasons how will dis marriage work?

Dnt waste ur time and money to prove your love,devote that time and money to build your business empire...then u attract ladies of like minds
Love to me is just a function of compatibility and convenience....i only date career minded ladies cos they complement my thinking and approach to life

Its really funny....to carry bag for who? QUEEN ELIZA
Real Men dnt have time

i just can't stop loving chubby ladies over the slim ones,my fear is the possibility of getting fat in d long run,thats not withstanding i don't do slim ones at all i feel their tiny waist could break...my apologies to d slim ones...mail me if ur in Lagos...V.I ,lekki,Ikoyi axis...alexiyoungie@yahoo.co.uk

Sexymoma....though i haven't seen her pics i kinda lyk her sense of maturity

Dis is abig diff. b/w gd charcter and beauty....There are preety ladies with serious character issues that u can't just keep them around w/out getting pissed or irritated due to dier arrogance,stubbornness and unsubmissiveness

What keeps men is not beauty but developing the ryt attitude ,maturity in handling issues and relating well with diff. class of people...beauty attracts....attitude keeps men.....Have u got the right attitude to keep your man?

There is absolutely nothing wrong in clubbing,i started clubbing in my 2nd year,i mutilated club stamps and entered free wit my friends yet am a christian to a fault and am highly principled and responsible...wat i luv most in club is just the music n' drinks,so dear clubbing is not bad it depends on the person and his sense of responsibility

@ Mr. Knowitall...is true nobody wants to date a broke ass even guys dey step up to date babes of same class or higher...no dulling
I told him dat dis disguise stuff doesn't work in Nigeria,it might be working in canada

Laughs...the guy is quite dark though he not tall he just look like a normal naija guy,some guys for naija fresh pass dos yankee guys so no be by skin

An old frnd living in canada came back searching for a wife ,he attended a wedding today in ogba,he was as modest as possible with an etisalat dual sim phone i laughed when he said he wants to disguise to know if he can meet his true love,he just came back angry dat the lady he met during the reception screamed "Bros,find your level i don't date broke guys" when he told her that he works in a micro.finance bank,Ladies why do u scare away guys w/out even knowing his future or his real identity?

emotional fun

A friend who was my former employer once confessed on why he keeps a young female undergraduate for fun...he just said jokingly "its my contribution to the less privileged as i help her pay her fees...my kids are thru with school and my wife is richer than me"....i can help but laugh,NLanders wats ur take on dis?

Don't attach morality to common sense,if you are within the vulnerable group(sex workers) its advisable to carry protection

@ Kcluv9ja am just pissed by the way my colleagus talk about marriage,they(mostly married ladies) even gave me a deadline that by next year i should be getting married in reality am not just ready financially for that and i haven't found my love so wats the stress...though i have a steady job which i just started...my idea of marriage is that of everlasting happiness with no financial stress..

Happiness my dear,i understand ur situation at the moment but i want to tell u the blunt truth
- Have u asked yourself why God gave u Money?
Probably he wants u to use that money to assist people around you including your would be husband
Most rich ladies always believe that they will attract and Marry very comfortable guys...In reality it doesn't always work
- It might be your destiny to build your own man...maybe its part of your success story
Stop Looking Up...Just Look Down And Move Up

On a personal note i feel its best to attain financial stability i.e having a continuous stream of income,an apartment,a ride and a reliable liquidity in the bank..most ladies won't subscribe to this cos its a factor of time...Some just want the marriage by fire by force without seeing reasons...i have struggled all my life i don't want to continue dis struggle for life.

Guess nairaland is okay,just that most people are faceless( including me)here,maybe fashola is on nairaland using fashybabe as username....hahaha

In this era of social media people are hooking up and meeting real online friends,majority still complain of meeting fake people who pose as friends and cause serious damage to our personality in the long run,so i ask with every sense of openness which social media interaction platform do you find very useful in meeting Nice,genuine friendly people?

At times i ask why so much pressure is on singles to settle down without first considering the financial implications which might be burdensome after marriage...Guys..Will you prefer to marry just because u have a steady job or do u prefer to attain financial stability before thinkin of marriage?