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bisous:
Do you bleep them before things go awry? if yes maybe you got the wrong entrance or just don't do it right or they are scared you'd take them for granted.....Relationships are about energy exchange (as most of life is) and most times the less care you show(for most young people) the more atop of the game you are

nope I don't

YNeme3E:
I feel for u bro,, buh I think u need to be less nice, cos most of d girls see you as mr nice, and they don't lyk it much.. PS. SOSC and SOHT girls are good at this.. Buh take ur time bro, I'm sure soonest u find a girl d@ lyks u,,, though those futo girls dey worry shaa...

I semi dated a bch babe she for roughly 2 yrs
SEEET wet I dey no get love

HenCq15:
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Thread never make FP u dey book space

uglyogre:
keep deceiving yourselves with the 'ladies love bad guys' notion, don't go and work on your characters, manners and your words.maybe when you stop being picky and give others the chance to receive the love you crave for, you'll also find what you're searching for

My mannerisms are impeccable
Bout character let's just say I'm not your average Joe

Tape recorder, very irrelevant
Iron, not compulsory ( I where only polos( Ralph and. Tommy Hilfiger) ( I sell them too)
I dry clean my suits and other clothes

finofaya:
This your OP should be in the career section.

I don't think you've been inside a court room before, judging by the misconception you have about lawyers.

I'm sure you realize that a lawyer can resort to lying only when the facts are not in his/her favour. Therefore, you cannot lie when the facts are in your favour. It is not correct to say that lawyers always lie. You have to choose your clients carefully. A lawyer cannot bear false witness anyway, since it is the litigant who gives evidence.

If you've heard of appeal, you'd know that a lawyer would have to lie his way through at least three different courts and 8 different judges in order to completely win a case. It is difficult to lie your way to total victory in court. Lawyers also depend on their reputations a lot; if you're a known liar, judges tend to be wary of you and it becomes harder to get away with stuff, meaning less success for you.

There are quite a number of lawyers, SAN's even, who are good christians. You have the likes of Ozekhome or Izinyon in this category.

A born again christian lawyer should not define career success in terms of money, instead it should be defined by the positive impact you have on the resolution of particular disputes and on the legal system in general. Generally, any person that sets out to make all of the money would not qualify as a born again christian. Money is said to be the root of all evil.

You don't have to be a trial lawyer. There are so many other options available to you that don't involve advocacy.

A lot of times, litigants think lawyers are telling lies because they fail to grasp that legal requirements for evidence differ from their personal requirements for evidence.

So yes, a born again christian, what ever that means, can be a successful lawyer, just as he can be a successful business man. There is nothing about being a lawyer that requires lying.

its posts like this that makes me love nl

I said it

Make I dey comment

MudRaker:
Trade Unions in Nigeria are composed of the most desperate and corrupt men.
The fact is that this current administration is the best so far when it comes to paying salaries on or before the 25th of every month.
I know this first hand. The IPIS system is the best to curtail ghost workers, salary diversions and delays.
Just go to the APC states especially in the SW. They owe without human conscience.
It is these same APC SW governors who claim progressives but were opposed to implement minimum wage rates and pay pensioners alongside adopt the PENCOM act.
Nigerians are daft.

Ok
But I can infer that u are daft because u are a Nigerian

This festive period again, may God give the woman strength to go on, as for the puncher , register with Nigerian boxing federation as a participating inmate

OohMpa:
[color=#808000]Here's why:

1) They feel you're a player cos all players start nicely

2) They see you as hypocrites who want sth. After that, hasta la vista

3) You don't live in the real world. Obviously, you can't relate to them

4) You'd always be second to the real guys. At least they don't lie to them

5) Nice gets you a relationship, real sustains a relationship. That's where they wanna be

Keep on with the nice while ooh Mpa gets realer every second. Guys like you really up ooh Mpa's statistics

#Sai[/color]

What do u mean by real

lilmax:
Don't act nice

its not an act

andromida:
Why do you think she hates you?

shw seizes an form of relationship and her friends start avoiding me and she ignores my calls etc

andromida:
Your hating her serves no one not even you. Hate is as strong as love only negative and destructive especially to the person carrying it. There is no guarantee that the love you feel for someone will be reciprocated and really any one has the right to do what they want to do. Just free your mind you will find a better match for yourself.

its the other way round , she begins to hate me,

clevvermind:
if he is really born again, he will never think of those things. he is not to go back to his old lifestyle. the appetite for sin dies. unless he was not truly born again as he claimed.

una wey dey read Bible backwards

andromida:
You sound nice but you know too much of anything can become a bad thing and sometimes the attraction just dies it's not your fault and there is nothing you can do. Its not because you are not a jerk maybe she is not feeling you anymore. If you have to act like a jerk before a woman likes you then she does not really like you she likes the act you are putting on and how long do you plan to keep up the act? See why it's best to be yourself?

If she likes bad boys, you may have to leave her so she can find what she is looking for and you can find someone who appreciates what you have to offer.

well thanks for the advice ,but when affection dies why does it metamorph to hate on her side

andromida:
What is your definition of niceness?

I don't intend to take her firva ride, I'm don't bully her and shout at he, I don't devalue her by making her feel inferior and unwanted, I encourage her, tell her how beautiful she is and the likes

Youngreinhard:
I don't know why they do... Buh I think you shld change the topic from "nice guys" to "nice people" cos nice girls their experiences too... It aint no gender thang.

Very nice suggestion

Extom:
What exactly do you want?

Just a normal relationship

Bimffo:
The reality is Ladies hate Nice guys..

I am not saying you should stop been nice, but if ur Nice level is on 80%, reduce it to 10% and see how it works..

Check out this moniker on Nairaland.. "CharlesNneji1" and get his books or E-books.. Mehn, it will help you alot.. You will be catching all those babes like Fish.. and they will swam around you like flies..

PS: Ladies will always be Ladies..

I tried being a bad guy, shit doesn't just suit me

chekasforchekas:
Brother, you really have to ask your self what's wrong, and make corrections, because from my experience, when it comes to relationship, woman likes to be pampered, after first round of sex, they behavior changes, and you see the persons character and attitude and if you can handle it you stick to it, but if you can not, it's left for you, so am saying baba, don't think they hate you, love your self, accept your person and you will be loved.

Thanks bro, actually my best company is myself

I won't deceive my self I'm a nice guy to the core
I'm the kind of guy that holds the door open for a lady
I call her by 6:45 to be the first to start her day. I don't shout at her , I'm a nice guy but I'm not a pushover
I don't take shiit (what I considered shit might vary from what others considered shit)
But I have perennial bad luck with women ,looks can be deceiving , I have the looks a player and also my startup lines and catch phrases are straight out of the players manual,I tried to be a player but it never worked out for me
Maybe it because I'm the only guy among 3 girls and mom ensured and still ensures that I treat all women like queens ,im yet to meet a lady that hasn't given me her her number and I'm very picky but I've only had 2 successes in all my dating attempts, admittedly I'm quite young (very early 20's) , but in all the ladies I've woed I've observed a pattern it goes like this

week 1 everything perfect, she calls I call , lovey dovey shi, love is in the air

week 2 I really have no idea what always happens

subsequently she hates me,absolutely detest me, she doesn't reply pings, see's me and ignores me I'm beginning to wonder if I have a problem because the pattern is getting very annoying
PS
I'm in an 'all guys uni (FUTO) and I'm in my early 20's with a young fac
please relationship experts advise needed
Only mature comments
Niaraland love experts
CC
Mizmycoli (Nairaland love expert )
Kachisbarbie ( pretty Lady analyst

pacesetter939:
I am a FUTOITE as well. The 'insiders' information you claim to provide is laced with falsehood. Like I opined earlier, FUTO is far beyond EEE & SEET; sort out your difficulties with EEE & desist from coming to a public fora as this to sour the great image of my alma mater. I've seen what obtains in other universities & I can tell you that I'm proud to a be FUTOITE.

No p go and spend 4 yrs doing masters

pacesetter939:
Why would you say such of FUTO?
If you had an encounter with a particular department, you don't begin to smear the image of a great institution like FUTO. Sort yourself out as FUTO is one of the best schools in Nigeria.

My friend I'm in my final year in eee in FUTO, I dey give insiders advice , masters in FUTO takes TIME

herald9:
currently... Naija doesn't have any rapper apart from M.I, Yung6ix and erm bonus.. Vector...

That's the realest niqqas we know.

young six lyrically gifted

hilsocial:
My name is Hilary. I just graduated from FUTO ( Agric Economics) . I am interested in doing my M.Sc and Ph.D but i want to know how many years it will take for each and the average cost for each in Nigerian Universities and abroad. Thank you for your anticipated response.

what ever happens don't do MSC in FUTO

johnstar:
oga, u no weda gals nor gree for am??

vaselin don finish for market

But wait o
As woman fine reach man go still reason man matter
The devil is a lawyer