₦airaland Forum

MrMacinterchi1:
o di egwu o. how come she suddenly learn how to apologize to a guy? 8th wonder of the world.

m surprised, I don't even know if she exists anymore, she has called me over 5 times today, she is now acting like a saint but local man is not doing again.

RexEmmyGee:
This is to test his loyalty as he claimed. Manchester united board are watching. They might even be the one sponsoring this mouth watering offer to test him. The passion he claims or money

nor b only passion. he is already 30 and these clubs Do not respect players, the moment u lose form u r history to them. so I think it's better he continues plying his trade in China.

Thinkandwin:
God bless you dear,
You are delivered, go and sin no more.

Lols,its a lesson to me and I learnt it the hard way.

Roman7:
Oga.......u wasn't being a nice guy...u was just a "fool for love"

I was kinda stubborn at times but at the beginning she was so nice that she wouldn't decline any of my request,so I just wanted to complement her effort.

I would and wouldn't blame myself also.

luminouz:
You were too nice,too available, too good and therefore BORING!!!


Creating some artificial scarcity makes women thirst for you. Thats just human fuqin nature.

that's true,now I realize all that now.

luminouz:
U welcome mudafvcker!!!


Truth is,most humans never know the value of what they have until they lose it. Sand is everywhere but valueless unlike diamond which is scarce

Diamond and Graphite are both made of carbon. The former is scarce and thus invaluable while the latter is used for pencils and its everywhere,so valueless.

yeah that's true, I treated her like my younger sister,did d little I could to always make she was happy, she was very popular among my friends and siblings,I was really surprised cos I didn't know what more she wanted that I didn't give to her. I fear women honestly.

stanliwise:
Dont let her beg for too long if you still love her, Go back. The treating women as worthless and less value has a grey area. It only works if you need to attract a stubborn partner or a partner like yours.
But the moment they start acting properly and treat them as much as how they treat you, please follow what we call the MIRROR STRATEGY. As a guy take the lead in doing something but ensure she somehow complement your effort in doing something else also meaning she somehow mirror your good gesture. If not then you can punish the behavior by using the law of attraction. But when a pattern complement your effort or when a partner is being real and truthful to you. NEVER PLAY GAMES THEM.

thanks,I do still love her but I don't think I can go back to the relationship,she really abused me emotionally despite the fact that I was nice to her,a whole of stuff she did that I didn't state in my write up.

I just want to start afresh and let her know the world does not revolve around her, she is beautiful and probably will get a new guy soon if I don't go back but I'm not jealous anymore.

Yoighaman:
I love this.

yeah bro.it wasn't really easy for me but the truth is I can never put myself in such a tight situation again.

DaddyRochie1642:
Am glad you have received sense,

Now, there is a guy here in Nairaland that you really need to read his posts so that you'll understand women completely, ... His name is Ubunja.

Search "Ubunja" on Nairaland and read all his highly educative write-ups and I can swear with my Masculine Balls, you will not regret it

yes o, i received it in a thousand fold.

I will heed to ur advice, thanks a lot for your information.

ityP:
all women are like this. Many here would try to deny it. never treat a lady like she means the world to you. Be ready to let go and believe you will find someone better than her.

I made a grave mistake and I know how foolish I was because I felt I was in love with one foolish girl.i just didn't want to see her unhappy for once, I have regained my senses now.

it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

I am beginning to fall in love with this man. I have been wondering why the north despite the highest number of political office they have had still churn out almajiris all over the nation to beg for alms, it's so repulsive that their leaders have blindfolded them from being emancipated from the shackles of this ugly and despicable act.

there is no proper education to sensitise these people rather they have been engulfed with quranic recitations and other unprofitable and Mudane activities.

I wouldnt want to believe that these Northernerns are abusing the practice of Islam because they pay too much attention to irrelevant things that has no direct benefits on their standard of living, probably Saudi Arabia,U A.E, Kuwait and other Muslim nations are using the standard revised version of the Quran while our retarded brothers in the North are still making use of the archaic and outdated version of the Quran.

Boyooosa:
Help me ask am, how many people dey respect oba of benin on daily basis.
Some Edo people sef dey talk say oba of benin is not a first class king in Edo kingdom, I don't know how true that is. If it is true, he now wants to compare that one with a king that covers one of the largest tribes in the nation, well, if not the largest sha...,

some Edos, bros u can lie for African. this has got nothing to do with majority, oba of Benin has been the sole head of Edo traditional council from inception .your Oni is equivalent to our palace chiefs in Benin.

Rhaspody:
i have heard this story before.

i have heard something similar before but it just happened to me, the reason I am sharing it is that why would a girl always burst into tears even when she knows she is guilty. she made it seem like I was attacking her unnecessarily.

Even when I tried to show I cared less so It wouldn't toil on me when I finally expose her,she still made it seem like I was having trust issues.

I met her in school when I was in my finals and she was a fresher, she was very understanding and wouldn't bug me with money issues because she knew I was just managing. she said something that struck me and that's why I promised myself I was going to continue with her after graduating from school.

she said back then that most girls where nice that it was mostly because a guy would ditch a long time girlfriend when he begins to make money for a fresher babe. that she knows the day I graduate from school I was still going to leave her. I promised her I was going to surprise her and she said story.


this is the third year after graduation and she is in her finals now. I gave her 200% of my time because I felt she was kinda different but las Las I learnt they are all the same.

I fear our 9ja babes more than Fulani herdsmen. I recently broke up with my religious olosho girlfriend. I used to truly love her,gave her my time and made sure I helped her in my own little ways. she recently started telling me about this guy she claimed was her bestie, she said the guy asked her out when they were freshers in school but she told him she has a boyfriend and they moved on and became close friends.


Recently she told me they were designated to undergo teaching practice in school that I should help her look for a good school in town that she wanted to live outside the school environment because it was her final year in school,so I looked for a good school and asked her to apply, babe agreed and said she was gonna apply the following day.the next morning she called and complained that her close friend said the school and the environment wasn't OK that I should help her look for another school close to her bestie's house, that the guy promised to allow her stay in his house but a different room all through the duration of the teaching practice.


I asked her, so I should allow you stay with a guy that asked you out and you him turned down for a month and 2 weeks the next thing she burst into tears, u don't trust me, I am not a prostitute, I just smiled and told her she was staying in the school I had searched for her and she reluctantly obeyed, that very day my feelings for her collapsed and never woke up.

the following week she reside duty in the school and each time I was with her the guy would always call her and she wouldn't take the calls I told her I am not controlling you anymore, u are free to take any calls but she would insist she doesn't want to disrespect me that the guy is always bugging her to come over to his place that she told him I wouldn't allow her to but he kept insisting,I told her it's a free world but I can never trust or believe her again and she burst into tears,i am not a prostitute, m not a hoe but babe who said so.




few days to the the end of their exercise, she called me one sunny afternoon and pleaded I help charge her phone
at home, she pressed the lock key and gave me the phone thinking it was locked, i unintentionally touched the screen and I saw the phone wasn't locked as she had assumed, she scored an own goal,i comfortably went through her chats with the said guy and saw my girl telling d guy I love you with all my heart but u don't give me attention, she even went as far as telling the guys best friend How he so much loves d guy and they were already dating but the guy doesn't really give her time and all that.i counted this bae was into five different relationships. I screenshoted it all and sent it to my phone because I knew she was going to completely deny and cry profusely that I was lying against her.

I feel our 9ja babes .

the bead connotes royalty in the Benin kingdom. in as much its a free world but it's also wrong to deliberately denigrate the custom and tradition of others. Chioma chukuka still remains my best female Nolywood actor.

LegalOpinion:
Which university?

off key International university Daura.

marvin905:
how does being cool or not does relate to being a cultist

my point here is we should stop relying on mere propagandas and hearsay,by being cool,I meant ur assertion was baseless and unfounded.

Obton:
Pls tell them. There have been news spreading everywhere about cult killings in nearby unis since last year. But they won't say those Unis are cult dens.

it's so annoying bro.

SamUnbeatable:
school wey colour plenty pass student!!!!!!
in school session everywhere be like rainbow...... if u know u know.....

You are simply allergic to change, nor talk wetin u nor know OGA.

marvin905:
then I was in another place when someone blew a guy's brain out in supreme hotel..
year's back..
dude learn to read very well or is your school fees a waste..
am not bringing ekp down..
come are you ok self or is not the same ekp that everybody fears engineering students cause 60% of them are cultist..
ekp.is a den of cultist just like auchi they are calm buh that doesn't mean they ain't there

that's misleading,currentling UNiBEN is worse than AAU in terms of violence, you are just allergic to change that's why u keep recycling old stories. I had a lot of friends in engineering back then and they were cool so I don't know where you got ur assertions that 60% are cultists.

marvin905:
it's not about the company he or she keeps it's just how the school is..
ekpoma don calm down buh you will really naive if you think that there isnt much cultist there..

there are cultist in every tertiary institutions all over Nigeria.

He is only trying to debunk the baseless assertions that school activities is always hindered by these cultists. I graduated 2017 from AAU and enjoyed life to the fullest in school but was never perturbed to join any cult.

AAU is not a war zone anymore,gone are those days. most Nigerians are allergic to change that's why they keep reinventing old stories to smear the effort of the school.

Osagyefo98:
Thank you.

Please can I have the location of your plot of land for off selling.....We don't need likes of you in Igboland.

We don't want our value to be corrupted..

Stay in Benin and procreate but let us be and remove your eyes from Igbo issues.

you welcome.

the only value I can deduce from an average igbo man is hatred. I have never put my eyes in your issues but Your constant bashing of other tribes especially the Benin people is totally uncalled for,You guys are worse off than the binis U are castigating.

Osagyefo98:
Stay in Benin with that your stories and don't disturb our peace here biko.

no need coming back, You can go perish with your hate while u guys are worse than those people you are condemning.

Legaldruglord:
Edo women are only hardworking in house chores oh . Lets be guided .

house chores ke,A typical Edo will comfortably take care of her house hold when her husband is not buoyant enough to take up responsibilities.

I can count up to ten In my church alone that have built houses and u wouldn't even know they own the house except You are so close to them through petty trading.

one even after building the house bought a bus for her husband for commercial purpose,An average young Edo girl can play hard to get or test ur financial capabilities but marriage here is very sacred and they don't run away except for reasons beyond their country.

back2sender:
Benin woman, Tufiakwa!!! God forbid. Even men in Edo run away from them.

dumb fellow from the yeast. always quick to attack and when targeted begin to wail marginalization.

You guys that stole FTC from me my God is watching u all. this is the closest I have ever been. Kudos to the Nigeria army anyways.

franchasng:
In as much as you sound harsh, you made very valid point.

Edo guys alone should marry Edo ladies, only Edo guys can deal with Edo ladies because they understand them better.

Any guy from other tribe getting married to an Edo lady is playing with fire!

u sound pained,may frustration not kill u in Jesus name. OGA kindly state where you are from so we can engage in a round table talk.

defashan:
Which Edo? Be careful of women from there. Marrying from there is like buying ‘bend down delect’. If you are not careful, you will get an Italian returnee of many battles, or a deported old girl from Germany and other parts of Europe.
They are very promiscuous and will disappear with your baby/babies at the slightest domestic issue or run away with another man.

The seemingly naive ones who haven’t crossed the Mediterranean Sea would deceive you and elope with an Indian or Lebanese who would abuse and dump them later.

Avoid Edo women.

You are a pathetic and pained fool. Edo women are one of most hardworking women in Nigeria.in my church alone I can count up to 10 women that have built houses with their petty trading and made it look that their husbands built the houses.

I don't see anyone that wouldn't elope with ur baby with this nasty attitude u are putting up. if I may ask, where are you from? be proud to say it so we can start from there.