eni4real:
*salvaged not savaged
You are absolutely right... Some guys could have committed suicide without their loving girlfriends.. That is more than a Diamond

that's true...i remember what my ex girl used to tell when I am passing through some unpleasant situations."John u are a big man don't b intimidated by what u see now. God will bless you beyond ur expectations. those words uplifted me at that moment.

I think the best feeling in the world is when u have someone that genuinely care about you even when u have lost hope In yourself. they might not have the gold and diamond to offer at that point in time but their words can help build you and prepare you for the future.i remember when a girl asked me "do u have a life" I couldn't sleep that night. sometimes those little care, kiss and phuck savaged a lot of stuff. Anybody that stays by you,understands u,made u feel happy even when u had little or nothing to offer deserves an accolade.

i give up on Nigeria,her politicians have taken us for granted for so long.some few months ago my friends and i went to work at a construction site,after working for some hours we decided to relax and fill our stomach,Next minute a brand hilux which i presumed was owned by the government popped up with some security personnel,A beautiful woman alighted from the hilux and asked if there was a block moulder amongst us,my close friend was so infuriated by the question and burst into flames,he lashed out at the woman for coming to seek for a block moulder from the midst of youths that are below 25 yrs,"madam will you allow your children take up such vocation"?. the woman was stunned apologized and walked away, she felt it was just a harmless question and I felt likewise also. seeing this pictures I could understand why my close friend was visibly angry and reacted arrogantly towards the lady. I cautioned him anyway,i told him the woman is not responsible for our predicament she was only trying to help, maybe our parents didn't hustle enough or take much risks like their counterparts,they probably believed that Nigeria would get better soon.. na God go punish poverty I swear.

bjbjbj:
Me na Adolor primary school I go for Benin city. Come start Idia college from there I enter Ambrose Ali university ekpoma. Na Toronto I for come and up oo.

AAU nor b beans.hope u nor join them shake the school ooo.

Ugosample:


don't worry
your time will come

But let me beg you (not warn you)

When you leave, PLEASE be a good ambassador of our country, and whatever repugnant mentality you may have (the naija jaga jaga way) PLEASE leave it in Nigeria

Cheers

thanks,if I want to make it roughly in Nigeria I will meet a few persons and get connected.i just don't want to make a decision that will hunt me later that's why I am trying to thread carefully.thanks for advice. seconded.

ogbonti:


Bros I no blame u boo, America is not heaven though.. we have our own challenges here like everywhere in the world BUT I won’t trade this country for anywhere in the world. It is where u can make as much money and live so happily as your skills or talents will permit. It is HOME away from HOME!

May God help you get here someday If it is your dream to live here, you are blessed!

yea true,Nigeria is becoming very difficult by the day...u struggle to graduate from school with little support,still learnt a vacation while in school but things are still not going as planned. we just hope someday we will get there.

ogbonti:


Na me you dey take 17 years in Yankee rake for? Bia Nwoke, I have been here 22 years, what have u seen? I am not saying every white chic has bigg butt, but I am saying there are a sizable number of them who have curvy hips and yes, large butts and why I say it’s real is because a person who cannot even buy a $2,000 best up car and is at the bus stop waiting for a bus and she is like 18 to 22 wearing papa John pizza uniform, where will she get maybe $10k to $30k to do a butt lift? That means whatever she has is natural and I see it all the time. Now I tell u, most white girls who live in very densely populated white sub divisions rarely flaunt their big butt, the ones who live in diverse cities like Dallas, Miami, Houston flaunt theirs maybe because of the black population there who see it as a thing of beauty. I can’t argue anymore ... it is well with all of u, maybe when I see some with ur eyes who have crazy butt with great shape and flat tummy, and u see they are too young to have gotten under the knife for surgery.... then u will remember me.

u guys have lived out side this country for 22 and 17 yrs respectively. I just hope someday I will be like u guys. Nigeria is hell, local man is tired of this shithole country.

lefulefu:
bros u cant blame him.the only black women u would see in italy are those old bini madams wey don retire for ashawo business or active ashawos.na wetin dey pleasing to im eye na im go for.maybe if he was in a place like uk,canada or germany then he might have seen a smart young nigerian or african lady to get married to.

your foolishness is legendary.

Thumbs up baby girl.the moment an average Nigerian girl knows ur mum is the reason u don't have much to spend on her it is finished.some might pretend and try to punish u but others don't give a hoot they serve it raw. Won't ur mummy find something to do,r u not a man why can't you take care of me like ur mates are doing.
A Neighbor That gave his mum access to collect rent from d small house he inherited from his dad, recounted how his girlfriend flared up because she needed money and didn't have to give to her at that point.why will his mum be enjoying from d house why she doesn't have money to Spend,He should stop d mum from collecting money from the house.she was just vibrating and causing chaos.

GREATESTPIANIST:
Wow......wow .... I love hearing this....... it's so amazing how ones life can be transformed.......it's pointless arguing with some fools though, they wouldn't comprehend......God bless u

thanks..its so unfortunate u can please everyone even Jesus Christ had his fair share of criticism despite the fact he never committed sin.

lilianofentse:
My Aunt visited this man's church last year. Ni.gga ez fake asf

same way my elder sister visited and her life got transformed,the man of God took her back Memory Lane,things she had forgotten brought it back to her knowledge,i watched d clip, it was so exact and d prophecy was real and timely.the man of God prayed for her. few weeks later everything started happening like a film.Her life was completely transformed,she couldn't conceive in few weeks she got pregnant. She has two kids and pregnant with d third one now. I used to say he was fake back then but not after Wat I saw.Someone I used to extort money from by feigning sickness cos she never believed in miracles today if I call her I am sick the next thing she starts speaking in tongues,given me words from d scriptures and telling me where to read From d scripture,she is so aggressive with d word of God now. Someone I used to Persuade to at least attend Sunday service.

Rhea:


I am not sure what someone with an above-average-level command of written english in nigeria today would end up in a ghetto in Accra. Good story, just does not add up.

boss the slogan of Accra is cry Your cry. Even ur brother at some point will jilt u. I had friends that travelled there to hustle because they were assured of steady balling when they get there unfortunately some had to jump through the fence to escape from the hellish treatment they were being subjected to,the nauseating part of it all was that they never stayed with strangers they stayed with friends that they grew up together,friends that they had known all their lifetime. friends they could call their own brothers.imagine drinking just one sachet of water in a day,Accra is cry ur cry.

Accra.cry ur cry. Even your brother go loseguard u

rusher14:


So anyone that doesn't steal is broke?

it's really funny,without fraud they were romancing extreme poverty and starvation that's why he draws the conclusion that u are broke.

gypsey:
I think it's only in the people's imaginations, a myth. And if your ex wife didn't die, that's a proof that the whole thing is a myth.

it's no myth. the lady may fall sick mysteriously and she will only live when she is bold enough to confess and perform the necessary rite.it doesnt mean it's death instantly.

Deepfeel:

Davido might not be from the street but he sings and acts like a street kid even more than wizkid , african-american rappers do that too they rape and act like they were brought up from the ghetto just to sell records

boss I tell u. Davido is more of a street guy than wizkid. A friend of mine that featured Davido recently had initially approached wizkid but he didn't grant him audience.But when he met with Davido the guy only checked his song and saw it was OK and jumped on it. one kobo he didn't charge him. Davido is the real MVP abeg.

adecz:



The scale of human sacrifice in Benin
at that point in time was
just too much.

Remember, slavery had been abolished &
yet the Benin kingdom was still acquiring &
slaughtering slaves at an industrial scale.

The British wanted to dialogue & the Binis would
have nothing of that.

Just like at the time, superstitious culture
decreed that no stranger elements were
allowed to come during the period of those
pagan ceremonies... Of course the oyibo ignored
such laws. Same today, that the chief should not
enter Benin.

No cultural practices is greater than the law
of the country.
Example, if any traditional ruler tries human
sacrifice today, he will be apprehended, tried and
hung.

I hiherto don't support fetish practices,i was born into a Christian home but u cannot smear a tradition that has lived for centuries for trivia issues. the offence of the chief is still yet to be stated. if he committed a grave offence arrest him, try him and punish him but u shouldnt bring him to Benin cos u r desecrating the throne of the oba. prior to that proposed dialogue that turned bloody the Britons have been regular callers at the palace of Benin and have been warmly received.the desperation of the white to amass and loot Benin had grown so much that they couldn't wait for the ceremony to be over. if I pay u an August visit and u ask me to wait outside cos u are busy will I try to forcefully break into ur home?

McTobe:
Lol U don try. Yes I am an Igbo I speak Igbo and I am proud Igbo but I have a history that was handed down to me by my great great grand father and you can’t tell me my ancestry more than my grand father have related it who himself was relatively educated by the standards of his time. I am Igbo my ancestral descency is Benin. And I may not even stay in Benin for one day in this earth life but this is my story and this is my root.

it's obvious u know his history more than his grand parents.the thing dey pain u.

ChristianNorth:

Don't be stupid. Does Eze Chima sound Edoid to you? I am sorry, but you guys are just clueless revisionist.

OGA nor b fight if I hadn't watched it life on AIT it was a documentary.the elders couldn't stop making reference to Benin.it was my first time of hearing it also.Except the elders were probably drunk or didn't know much about their origin.

hammer6F:
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NONSENSE TALK!

BEER PALOUR TALK AFTER SOME BOTTLES OF GUINNESS.

U SAY, U TRACE UR ROOT TO BENIN, BUT WEN ONE OF U DID A COUP D ETAT, YOUR ROOTS WERE TRACED TO ERI AND ALL IGBOS SUFFERED.

EVEN YOUR BINI BROTHERS, U LABELED SABOTEUR. I AM TIRED OF FUCKERY IGBOS FROM THE SOUTHSOUTH.

IF I HEAR EZE CHIMA CAME FROM BENIN AGAIN, WITHOUT A BENIN NAME, THUNDER GO FIRE ....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ2pcLO9HSc

I watched it in a life documentary on AIT also where the elders confirmed it. how there fore fathers migrated from Benin some few thousand years ago. just accept the truth OK. nor b fight.

adecz:


A weak Oba was pushed into the war with the British by
trouble making lieutenants, they were all hanged
and the Oba spared because he didn't support
the war.

A mere mortal like me didn't ask for the Oba
to be removed, I was referring to the arrested chief.

the problem here is the arrested chief does not enter Benin traditionally because he had a duel with the oba before he was crowned, its a traditional rite the crown prince has to go through before he is crowned as the Oba.Had it been he was taken to a police station outside Benin, it would have been a different ball game entirely.so the cleansing here has to do with bringing him to Benin when the tradition forbids it.FYI Oba ovoranmen wasnt weak,he was wise,he knew the whites were cunning,he never trusted them but he was just diplomatic never to start the war first.the Oba knew spiritually that the British were a more superior power but he never became an errand boy for them he stood his ground and didn't want to start the war first. FYI from the desperation of the whites to have free trade and with Benin as a stumbling block the whites would have definitely invaded Benin with or without the actions of the Benin warriors.the actions of the warriors only made d invasion quicker.those warriors are legends today in Benin kingdom because they fought courageously to defend the kingdom.

you are in a relationship forming gentleman while your girlfriend is playing home and away matches.you guys finally settle down and ur pay her bride price and take her home,she can no longer do the things she used to do and now it's ur turn to enjoy ur life. the thing can pain. they start crying all men cheat but madam na u teach me d game o.

adecz:

It was for this same ritualistic,
superstitious beliefs that the British saccked
Benin Empire & sent the Oba on exile in 1897.

Police, make ina no fear,
Nothing go happen.

If he dares govt, they should depose
him & send him on exile.

Dasuki & Jokolo on my mind.

FG should depose the Oba of Benin whosoever will jokingly make that statement in a public domain is gone for ever.FYI the whites saw the Benin Empire as a stumbling block to their free trade.At that point in time most kingdoms within the present day South south Nigeria where directly or indirectly under the benin kingdom so They had to launch a full assault on the kingdom.the Benin kingdom fought and lost gallantly.

IkpuMmadu:


Tell the op to show us

Upper siluko
Oliha
Ogida
Textile mill Road
Electrod
Uwasota
Egor
Edaiken

Even New Benin


Not some tiny ring road

Edo State is backward, Benin city is a glorified Village! I know that pace well and the crime rate is higher and mud houses too much

mention ur state pls..

nkwuocha:

Ewwww! Even the first son given to a witch coven have a say!

the bastard son of a demented ritualistic and occult killer who crossed d path of an owerri goddess and sacrificed the sanity of an only son for a mere okpa. I am not surprised ur pant has been used.

Epistemology:
The same Benin I schooled for five years

Benin is one of the worse cities I've been to, a city where you can't go out whenever it's raining, their drainage system is nothing to write home about , there's no security..the only things in Benin are hotels, bar and clubs


I laugh

Benin is an ever dynamic state cos u schooled here probably during the time of a failed govt u expect it to be ever stagnant and deteriorate.A lot have changed over the years.there is massive construction and beautification of roads with functional drainage all over Edo state. this is not limited to the main roads only but adjoining roads linking different streets and avenues.Over 140 roads have been awarded with a handful completed and others still under construction.the exercise continues until all roads are touched and up to standard.

nkwuocha:
Edo state has good road network but its a very mediocre state. Many ugly untarred roads. GRA looks like an average street in surulere. Very poor drainage system and very little rain can fload half the whole city.

Sorcery evidences on every nook and cranny of the city is usually an eyesore. From the remnants of snails to the mutilated bodies of tortoises. For a state so fetish, I'd expect atleast 14 hours supply if light, the worst is going home and meeting darkness EVERYWHERE at night. Its Terrible.

Ibo kwenu u guys will always rant. don't know Wat u meant my remanants of snails and others but whatever unruly message u r trying to pass ur region is far messed up and backward than u can imagine.

Unrated900:
Marry Edo girls at your own risk

na your sisters full there.if only I haven't traveled to the west I wouldn't have complained about your foolish statement.

not all long time girlfriends are loyal.my one time sweet baby always supported me because I was in school and never wanted to add to my burden.she never asked me for money and was always understanding.this single act endeared her to all my friends.they all held her in high esteem.Each time we had a disagreement the backlash I received from them always prompted to reconcile with her. "o boy u get free girl u nor dey spend u still dey form"it was later I knew she was into 4 different relationships at that time.she started having issues with them that later it was reduced to just two.I never felt such love before it was so unconditional back then that while I discovered Wat she was into I couldn't just end it at that time.it was tough not everyone will believe me.

GidiWoodsMan:


Leave them alone, they are all living in the past, including the Oba. You can imagine him thanking the army for 'protecting democracy'. He thinks if Buratai had the wherewithal carry out a coup he wouldn't have done it already.

A military coup wouldn't reduce the popularity or sacredness of the Oba.He only thanked Him firstly because he is a Nigerian and unbehalf of his people.Bring an Idi-amin to rule Nigeria today the sacredness of the Oba of Benin remains intact.

few days ago police officers stopped the taxi I boarded and asked the passengers to avail themselves to be searched. I sat at the front seat ,alighted from the taxi and was searched, nothing incriminating was found on Me.the youngest amongst the officers collected my phone and ordered I unlocked the phone which I vehemently declined.he said Nigeria has no data base for tracking crimes so the best way they can get information was through searching of phones that he was in no way harassing me by asking that I unlock the phone.He threatened to unleash mayhem and arrest me for misconduct, I was scared though, he was holding a gun and we were in a partially secluded place.i have heard of extra judicial killings and accidental discharge.thank God I won the contest though.

I think the best option here is to be self employed.i am a graduate presently serving in cross rivers most times I don't even report at my PPA despite the the threat to sanction me. I design buildings and even without having a contract of my own I sometimes make more than 50k a week.the minimum i make weekly is 25 to 30k.thank Goodness I resigned from the 6k work I got immediately I left secondary school after just three days just to learn something even when we saw 6k then as millions.i just plan to save up something to relocate outta this country.sometimes I can't even save up to 20k a month because of family commitments,friends will call for help,babes go come do their own. we survive in this country by God's grace .