greencard:
did u interview them ni?

na my area ni.benin is almost like a no man's land with the daily influx of these hoes from the east, the other day I traveled to a village in the outskirts of Benin and a friend persuaded me to go with him to one of the brothel close by, I was shocked with d rate of Ibo girls there, they are the brain behind these numerous brothels in Benin.

so I always laugh when their brothers attack us online even when they know they are at the forefront of these illicit trade.

greencard:
how did u know?

90% of those girls are from the east take it or leave it.

mariodko190:
Benin gals with Ashawo work ehh, Abeg mk una rest mk Toto tight small

I don't know why these Biafra ladies have turned Benin to their London. Benin is almost like a no man's land with the influx of ur sisters on a daily basis,

we are appealing to the eastern governors, most Especially d governor of Anambra to open the over head bridge at Onitsha so that the virtous women of eastern Nigeria could return home to their loved ones.

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Must Benin b associate wt oloshowork?
Tufiakwa 4 halfcasted afonjj...

none of those girls are even from Benin, those ur sisters that always go back to the yeast to celebrate Christmas and new year with different gifts to your parents, this is How they hustle in Benin.


pls help us beg your governors to open ur borders so ur sisters can return home, they are stranded here with no hope in sight.

AfroKnight:
Let me paint a picture.

She continues to contact her ex without hiding it from you. You begin to think she’s at the least, honest with you cos she is not concealing this fact. After a while, you get worried at the frequency and nature of their conversations. So you complain about it. She becomes defensive almost immediately. She tells you there’s nothing romantic between them, that they are just friends. She may even imply (or declare outright) that you are insecure. This jab hurts you but “love” compels you to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Little by little, you are conditioned to condone this unusual friendship she shares with her ex. You raise your suspicions and she shuts you down again and again. Then she begins to call you a controlling and intrusive partner. She says you are letting your insecurities drive you.

Meanwhile, she’s having steady sex or going on dates with her ex. But you’ve been browbeaten to accept the lie she feeds you. Until one day she makes a mistake and you catch her red handed and then she gets angry or teary eyed and she walks away from the relationship, claiming that he seduced her in her moment of weakness or some other bullshît like that.

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Bro, you are leading yourself to this bus stop. It is the worst feeling, when your gut tells you something and you fold your arms and watch it metamorphose into a nightmare. Make it a binary solution. She either limits her contact with her ex drastically or you breakup. If you condone nonsense she will take advantage and ruin you.

God bless you sir.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Nice one
Edo state should do the same
Close everything

Na only two case we don record for Edo

yes ooo.i think our governor is not being proactive enough .He should do same to avoid stories that touches the heart.

I really don't understand the case of Edo state. A week ago the first index case was announced and few days later it was confirmed that the speaker Edo state house of Assembly tested positive, A new case has been confirmed now and the total figures still stands at two.

is that the case of d speaker wasn't recorded or they just updated it now?

Hassan88:

I be Edo Pikin ooo
Auchi Freeborn.
We know ourselves for There.

I don't know if Auchi people are this foolish,u complain Benin is bad but the streets of Auchi is almost empty,All ur parents and siblings have relocated to Benin.

Isn't it foolishness to relocate from Peaceful Auchi in droves to a Benin full of witches as u claimed.

The problem I have with my Benin people is that they are too Accommodating, yet these foolish Auchi refugees still come online to spew trash .

Hassan88:


Are you done?
For the records, I am not an Aboki.
I am a free-born of Edo State.
Auchi precisely.

it doesn't stop d fact that you are an by aboki blood,your statement is so callous and primitive.

flexyrule:
There's nothing "City-ish" about Benin.
I always wonder why the place is called Benin City.

it's one of the places that brought respect to the black man.when the Portuguese explorers first visited Benin they were marveled at the level of development in Benin,By that time ur forefathers were still living on trees like monkeys.

Hassan88:
Land of witches and wizards.

An aboki spotted, coming from a place that has been ravaged by killer herdsmen,bandits and bokohoram.Your aboki brothers are the major menace we have in Benin.

An average Yoruba woman and infidelity is like bread and beans but they are always at the forefront of attacking other people.A friend of mine rented and apartment with some married Yoruba women as neighbors. He slept with virtually all of them.

The last time I went there I was shocked with the way he was being respected like a king.most times they engage themselves in a brawl just because of him. I told him to be careful so they won't poison him, so he had to quickly relocate and they were still pestering him to come show them his new apartment but he declined.

Too bad.

quentin06:


see this one, better have urself checked for convid, you sound like a terminally I'll patient.

you are dead already,low key harlot.the stay at home order is really affecting Your trade and just know those hotels remain closed till further notice.

[quote author=quentin06 post=87804578]Edo amaka, when other daughters are bringing, dollars, euro and white suitors this dey bring virus.

no wonder she ran to stay in Ph, she knows her people don't tolerate rubbish.[/quo te] while You are bringing in naira,so what's the difference between u and her,u have a minimum of five boyfriends and still sneak from hotel to hotel meeting guys for peanuts.

Going to ur numerous boyfriends house after sex they pay u,so r u different from other girls Ewu.

quentin06:


why the harshness? its obvious she na prosty, the gov was just being polite.

after all what will a 19 yr old unknown model do in France and Italy if not prostitutionn.

contact tracing should include her foreign clients as well.

Don't we have brothels in every nook and cranny in Nigeria,don't we have coded runs girls that disguise as girlfriends but moves from one guest house to the other.

The fact someone has travelled out doesn't make her a prostitute,I don't know if she is one either so m not making a case for her but the case of Hasty generalization should stop.

StreetFight:
19 years old Model from Edo State who has travelled to France, Italy and Greece. Edo is cursed with prostitution.

u r a big and hopeless fool.

MrMacinterchi1:


I suggest you hear her out first. Then amicably tell her ur stand on the issue as it is, so that she understands that u have moved on from her. This will reduce the calls U'r getting from her

boss I have told her severally I am no longer interested in the relationship, that I just Want to b alone for now but she is not taking it. right now, she is feigning to be sick, always coughing when she calls me.

she went further to say that I should highlight her grey areas that she was going to adjust but I declined and asked her to make her self happy that it's a free world.

I am enjoying single hood,no stress, my expenses have reduced drastically, sometimes I recharge my phone once in three days and I am just free.

Budline1:


Now she's getting what she deserves. In anything we do in life, we must always be respected, that is what we should always take note. RESPECT over love or lust. You can rule anywhere you are respected, not bad, that's the strategy bad boys/players use..
Girls only date those they respect, be good but always earn/fight for your RESPECT. Take note.

thanks boss I'm wiser now..

MrMacinterchi1:


o di egwu o. how come she suddenly learn how to apologize to a guy? 8th wonder of the world.

m surprised, I don't even know if she exists anymore, she has called me over 5 times today, she is now acting like a saint but local man is not doing again.

RexEmmyGee:
This is to test his loyalty as he claimed. Manchester united board are watching. They might even be the one sponsoring this mouth watering offer to test him. The passion he claims or money

nor b only passion. he is already 30 and these clubs Do not respect players, the moment u lose form u r history to them. so I think it's better he continues plying his trade in China.

Thinkandwin:

God bless you dear,
You are delivered, go and sin no more.

Lols,its a lesson to me and I learnt it the hard way.

Roman7:




Oga.......u wasn't being a nice guy...u was just a "fool for love"

I was kinda stubborn at times but at the beginning she was so nice that she wouldn't decline any of my request,so I just wanted to complement her effort.

I would and wouldn't blame myself also.

luminouz:

You were too nice,too available, too good and therefore BORING!!!


Creating some artificial scarcity makes women thirst for you. Thats just human fuqin nature.

that's true,now I realize all that now.

luminouz:


U welcome mudafvcker!!!


Truth is,most humans never know the value of what they have until they lose it. Sand is everywhere but valueless unlike diamond which is scarce

Diamond and Graphite are both made of carbon. The former is scarce and thus invaluable while the latter is used for pencils and its everywhere,so valueless.

yeah that's true, I treated her like my younger sister,did d little I could to always make she was happy, she was very popular among my friends and siblings,I was really surprised cos I didn't know what more she wanted that I didn't give to her. I fear women honestly.

stanliwise:
Dont let her beg for too long if you still love her, Go back. The treating women as worthless and less value has a grey area. It only works if you need to attract a stubborn partner or a partner like yours.
But the moment they start acting properly and treat them as much as how they treat you, please follow what we call the MIRROR STRATEGY. As a guy take the lead in doing something but ensure she somehow complement your effort in doing something else also meaning she somehow mirror your good gesture. If not then you can punish the behavior by using the law of attraction. But when a pattern complement your effort or when a partner is being real and truthful to you. NEVER PLAY GAMES THEM.

thanks,I do still love her but I don't think I can go back to the relationship,she really abused me emotionally despite the fact that I was nice to her,a whole of stuff she did that I didn't state in my write up.

I just want to start afresh and let her know the world does not revolve around her, she is beautiful and probably will get a new guy soon if I don't go back but I'm not jealous anymore.

Yoighaman:


I love this.

yeah bro.it wasn't really easy for me but the truth is I can never put myself in such a tight situation again.

DaddyRochie1642:






Am glad you have received sense,

Now, there is a guy here in Nairaland that you really need to read his posts so that you'll understand women completely, ... His name is Ubunja.

Search "Ubunja" on Nairaland and read all his highly educative write-ups and I can swear with my Masculine Balls, you will not regret it

yes o, i received it in a thousand fold.

I will heed to ur advice, thanks a lot for your information.

ityP:



all women are like this. Many here would try to deny it. never treat a lady like she means the world to you. Be ready to let go and believe you will find someone better than her.

I made a grave mistake and I know how foolish I was because I felt I was in love with one foolish girl.i just didn't want to see her unhappy for once, I have regained my senses now.

it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

I am beginning to fall in love with this man. I have been wondering why the north despite the highest number of political office they have had still churn out almajiris all over the nation to beg for alms, it's so repulsive that their leaders have blindfolded them from being emancipated from the shackles of this ugly and despicable act.

there is no proper education to sensitise these people rather they have been engulfed with quranic recitations and other unprofitable and Mudane activities.

I wouldnt want to believe that these Northernerns are abusing the practice of Islam because they pay too much attention to irrelevant things that has no direct benefits on their standard of living, probably Saudi Arabia,U A.E, Kuwait and other Muslim nations are using the standard revised version of the Quran while our retarded brothers in the North are still making use of the archaic and outdated version of the Quran.

Boyooosa:

Help me ask am, how many people dey respect oba of benin on daily basis.
Some Edo people sef dey talk say oba of benin is not a first class king in Edo kingdom, I don't know how true that is. If it is true, he now wants to compare that one with a king that covers one of the largest tribes in the nation, well, if not the largest sha...,

some Edos, bros u can lie for African. this has got nothing to do with majority, oba of Benin has been the sole head of Edo traditional council from inception .your Oni is equivalent to our palace chiefs in Benin.