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Yes nash u a absolutely right. Had since deleted my posts there.

Hello baracodam,
I'm not a muslim but one of ur answer drew me to this thread.
I lv d way u answer questions.
Very maturely. I hope others will emulate from u.
Kudos.

These peeps r vexing!
U want news about naija, go online.
NTA is for our parents and grannies, or retired folks.

And if u say privatization,some folks will protest seriously!
I think where they r now is where Ben Murray Bruce left them some yrs back.

That u r earning a living, of a certain age and want to marry does not mean u a qualified for marriage. Both male and female. Some pple need to go to pre marriage school.
This my guy belong to such group.

Pls is ur partner not ur hubby?
Pray, tell me why u won't give him ur passwords.
Don't u trust each other?
In case of emergency what happens?
Unless its a k legged union, I wonder why u two won't hv access to these important things. They r done for d future. For d children, for retirement.
Everything don't hv to be suspicious this or that.
Pls pple should stop killing their union with their mouth.
If u found out giving it out was unhealth, u can change them with reason and not suspicion only.

Jgal, I no kolo o!
U know I'm a realist.

If u take a poll, u will be so shocked that majority of d guys will reply like Jefizy.

He is d only man that said something and he talks for majority of them guys.
Like he said, let what happened in vegas stay there.

Even a notorious adulterous man will still wanna believe that his wife is his alone. Its a fair world here u know.

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YES.
A 9yr old will be able to sweep her room.
Wash smaller plates especially in d afternoon, bath her younger ones, arrange her room and d house, wash her playclothes and host of other smaller smaller things. She oe he can assist mummy in d kitchen too.
If u had started early enuf, at 9yrs whenever she wakes up, she will immediately arrange her bed. It doesn't matter if its well arranged or not. The essence is for her to know that its her duty to do so. After school, she airs their socks and school shoes.

Afterall, we go for housemaids below that age and expect them to do wonders so why won't u train urs to learn how to be responsible early?
It still doesn't stop them from having fun as children. Some r on d brink of womanhood already at that age.
The way u will teach them about d opposite s*ex and how to use pad is how u r supposed to teach them to do housework at that age.

Listen folks, d way guys will eat and zip mouth is how I will do my own and zip,zap and superglue my mouth.
Wetin be consience for this matter?
Its common sense that u will use abegi!

Some of all these our lovey dovey wonderful hubbies will turn to a monster if they hear such thing. Remember, its easier for a wifey to forgive than hubby.
Infact u might never recognise ur hubby again and d simple truth is that u r bound to lose more than d guy if things go awry.

For the one that said u will confess during old age, abeg to who? Ur children or grandchildren? Or the old man counting his days on earth and u wanna hasten it up for him?
O dikwa risky.

Confess to God and carry ur cross alone. Afterall na who send u go before.
Ezigbo wifey.

Jbabe, u r miles away. Not even d same culture.Its understandable.
Here, u learn a lot by attending classes.

Most of d time we assume I don't care attitude cos we think help is on d way.
I've always said, if u r preggy, do as if to say its only u in dis world. U and ur unborn baby. It helps a lot.
Overdependent has made some of us very lazy.
General ascertion though.

@op, didn't u go to antenatal class at all?
While preggy, its always advisable to go to classes and learn. Interact with pregy like u. Use search engines and educate urself. This is 21st century abeg.
One thing about our ladies is they must ever give u one advice or d other whether u asked them or not. Pick some of them. They may be useful to u.

U don't wait till u ve put to bed or bc u r expecting help from an older person u don't prepare urself.

Zip my mouth forever

Well, I will be worried too but then again he is an adult.
2ndly, I guess u r not even near his age so pls do respect his decision.
U can talk to his pastor. Let him have a chat with ur uncle. If he rnt shifting ground, u guys should let him be.
Maybe he is still hoping.........
At his own time,he might reconsider.

On d other side, hv u considered that he has reproductiv*e problem?
He might not want to face what he faced b4 with his other wife and is using church as a cover up.
I'm just saying sha. Think about it. D more reason u should let him be.

Mrsincredible, I'm very serious about self esteem.
Mr Roy is equally correct.
I understa ur reservations though.

U can start building self esteem here.
Loosen up on ur posts cos they r very rigid.
Joke with and mingle with guys here. Yes there r some pple that strarted with social media and their marriage is booming.
And don't be afraid to voice ur opinions too.
It will help u a bit.

Oga Roy, r u eyeing mrs incredible?
This one ur interest dey for this matter welluwell

Oya, make una start una own na

Don't u know some derailing r good ones?
Abeg leave them. I'm enjoying d flow.

*whispers-u can never tell*

Topic.
Poster, u lack self esteem. Develop that first and take ur time b4 u jump into d fire.

Tbaby, life is lived just once. So flow jare!

Nothing do u!

All these peeping johns. Go to sports section o.

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alutacontinua: @loretta, is he gonna be gone for a while?
This one wey u wan order machine

Aluta, na wetin u wan here enh? .

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Sarcasm, I hate u.

We can do better without it.

If we don't wanna advice. We can also read and pass.

Cause we wanna extract our pound of flesh we bury emotions at d altar of pride and revenge.

Its even better we don't qoute somebody's outpouring of pains at all than qouting it to despite our supposed enemy.
Of course d @op might be wondering why her post generated such post or regreting why she posted.

Seun Osewa smiles to d bank every minute thru our silly behaviours and care less if we kill ourselves on or offline. There is even a disclaimer down there.
The greatest form of slavery is d slavery of d mind.

Kanwulia, my head is seriously aching and u r not helping matters!
Pls, do stop.

Its good u snapped right now Dutchess cos this has been building up a long time ago.
I even send u mail that wasn't replied last year.
Go c a psychologist.
I presumed u r d withdrawn type so it will be good if u don't spill everything here bc of d future. Nairaland can be messy at times.
If u can't c a psychologist then I suggest u choose somebody u know will respect ur privacy and u always lv his or her inputs here and TALK to d person.
These r things I will want u to talk about.
Ur childhood
Ur parents
Ur siblings
Ur sex life.(Year and how)
Ur relationships.
This will enable d person know where d root is and to know how to counsel u.

Its even a lot easier, tell d person how God disappointed u.
We all had that moment.

All d best.
Its well.

2buff: No sane man would wake up one day and stab his pregnant wife.

...One wonders what that woman did to trigger that nigga's ire to the point where his rage-handicapped brain decided that the only way to move forward was to kill her.

Yes, he will surely move forward in jail!
Rubbish!

All u guys should puleeeez zip it!
What will make u lay a hand on a preggy in d first place?
Why didn't he run?
Worst file for divorce?
Bc he is a guy that's why mouths r shifting anyhow.
Even at that we can't bodly come out and condenm bad thing. If a man or woman misbehaves,condenm it outright.
Is this politics section?

Just like d lady that cut her hubby's thing off. C as ur mouths were running like tap water. Woman is this,woman is that.
Now its a man killing a preggy u guys r here spewing rubbish.
What nonsense!
Hypocrites!

Marriage is good o!
C as lorretta don mellow down by force
Kudos darling!


Kanwulia de kanwulia!
Na u be that?
Wao!
And I dey feel this ur oga.
U guys too much!
C shape!

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Baby mama, I taught u were fighting somewhere? Abi u don fight finish?

Anywaiz, I come in late
But let me ask pls.
Any remedy for hyperactive child?
I'm practically going crazy!!
Even to type this is wahala.
The latest craze now is my hair.

Since I put to bed, we hv never slept one full night sleep.

Baby mama sorry o!
I dey come.

Akubuiro=money is enemy.
They r living up to their name.

Which one is second gen again?

Secretary general.
Kpachara anya gi o!

Royal Roy: Buhahaha.
Una no go kii person for here o!!!
No man should be allowed to look like Pius oooo.
In this modern age and time?
Wahala dey o.

Roy leave matter!
We used to go to d same church b4 he became second gen.
Meen that man is huge!
Anytime I wanna give example of obese man, his name will poop out.
In church, I end up staring at him instead of listening to the pastor.
May God forgive me.