Ty lannister,
From a babe's POV, u hv done d needful, anything outside that is simply choking to some babes.
Stop calling and texting or whatever and let her make her decision. If she gives u signal(trust me u will know if she has interest),then u can proceed but if she don't, pls don't force it,she aint interested.

U c her, greet her normal and move on.
U will soon hear from her.

Remember, babes trip for guys who always look and act like they r in control even though they r like jelly inside.

Lorreta the wild one!
Abeg no injure my bro o!

Jgal I've sent it.
Thank u darling.

NL and drama.
Whenever u log in, be sure to be entertained. No dull moment.

Poster,happy married life!
Waiting for my e-cake o!

But u wicked no be small, u no even invite us upon say some of us were there for u when u were down.
U cook and chop alone, now u don come again.
My cake o!

, pls do rest that hand. What r u even doing here except to view.
Abeg o, I no wan hear story.
Sorry. That thing can be very painful.

Oga o!

What were u doing with d money sent by ur parents to u?
U would hv shown that u can succeed in another area. Not everybody is gonna be a prof. Assuming that ur account is smiling and u went to tell ur pple, they will rebuke but forgive u easily.
Now u wanna go and cause hbp to ur parents. Let them be abeg. Don't kill them bc of lack of foresight.
I know many guys like u. They started huzzling while in school. Their progress counterbalanced their fucckup.

As per d lie, keep on lying but this time look for something to do and read,study hard. If u can go for a discipline u can handle well. When u must hv found ur feet a little, go and talk to them. It will be easier for them to assimilate.

We all make mistakes but situations like this produces great men and women.

Don't kill urself. Nobody is perfect. Some r worst than u yet they pulled tru.

And minimize d way u ask them for money until u stop entirely.
All d best.

Chilli, u won't injure me abeg!
I can just picture it.

He said he wanna meet one target by d end of d year. Me too I wanna met loads of them by d end of d year too. And I'm very serious!

BB, u guys hv trashed d main issues here.
Personally I learnt a lot. At least we can chip in every now and then and we r not disturbing d flow. I really lv it.
But I saw u on our own, what were u doing there?

Lollz Nash at tight budgeting!
Hubby told me d same thing few days ago.
No wahala, me too I dey tight budgeting too.

This is a full grown man naw!
Abi they put fake pix?

Scared bc of blokos?
Lollz! This peeps won't kill me o!

At least there is a solution.
She should buy that blokos protector I saw here few days ago and padlock it b4 he travels. That way she will hv peace.

But do they hv vj protector too?

Chai! This guy is smart!

Coogar u r absolutely correct .
All d signs u ever needed r always there.
Just be a good actor and see them unfolding b4 u.
Lv is never blind.
When in a r/ship with d opposite sex make use of ur number six very well.
It will never disappoint u.

Sissie, thanks so much.
Nagode darling.

I hv that normal butterfly sewing machine. Will call a tailor to reset it for me.
Will do as u said.

As per the cake thing, I actually posted something for tayour after seeing her cakes on d front page but it didn't go that was why I reported to roy.
I have halogen oven antd wanna ask her if its ok to use it for cake.

My hair is still there o!
No time.

They said anything ur hand fit do, don't hesitate especially when u r still vibrant and young.
I appreciate so much.

Jehova!
How did u guys know?

I can never detect this.
Why r they doing this naw?

Mynd,
I get u but humans rnt being human u know, else d world wouldn't hv been the way it is now.

Mynd_44:
Some things don't have to work for the society as long as it works for you. For the sake of your health and sanity, you take decisions based on your personal opinion.

There is no "one solution" to cheating spouses. There probably will never be even if they make the consequence for adultery death by hanging some people will still cheat.

My dear, its very sad. The worst r those ones that look and act all good that d spouse will always vouche for yet, something is happenin.
I will never trust anybody in this my life. At least, that reduces hbp in a way.

Buky, don't be too sure o,I tell u.
This ur % is quite stagaring.

There r men that married as a virgin and become abali agba aka after marriage.
Some were chronic womanizer and changed after marriage.
Some were cheats b4 and after marriage while some no matter d circumstance will never fall for it.

I found out that as men gets older, more money and fame +power, d more he tends to cheat. Likewise women.

Now there r categories of adults.

Some men hv very high sexdrive. If one marries an uncomplementary woman, na outside be that for sure. Even when the wife tries to meet up with d dd, some still look outside.
Some r normal while some can actually stay for a long time w'out and it doesn't bother them.

Personally, I believe that its all about principle.

I guess something must be wrong somewhere.
RR, did u c my mail pls?

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@op, that ur list is gross.

Tough one I must say.
Chilli is right, d one with d lesser pay should quit.
Ur time table no longer matters as long as u hv small kids. Every other person has to fix their schedule behind them smallies.
In some cases, u can strike a deal with cretche owners so u will be paying for extra hours.
In a case where quiting job is out of d equation, one of u has to look for something to do close home. Its very important that strangers don't train ur baby for u.
All d best.

Lollls!
NL gat to keep moving!

Kanwulia, its not all churches.
What I spent on my church and registry wedding were almost d same,honestly.
And no time wasted too. Registry took more of our time cos we were 3 couples.

Such a lovely thread.
Love every bit of it.
Thanks to all d contributors.
(Kudos to baby mama)

Somebody disappeared to reappear again.

How r u and family Efe?

Its remaining CC. U guys can ghost mode anytime,walai!

Jgal thanks so much.
Will email right away.
I can do hair very well and fix nails too.
As a matter of fact I do my nails myself.

Its very good to be versatile honestly.
So bad I'm yet to play any musical instrument even when I had great opportunity to do so.

steph7: Bless his soul, the sad reality of things is that most men will see this act as emasculating.

U r right dear. Very right.

Eeew! This looks sweet.
Even if the wife and mother is a born wicked witch, acts like this will turn her to an angel.
U simply can't help falling for men like this. Very contagious.

Sissie, so u can sew?
I tried but it was pedalling backwards.
I really am interested in learning how to sew. I'm thinking on buying electric motor to help me.
I must sew something good this year.
Jgal has boasted my morale.

Pls how can I get a book to guide me.

This thread is sweeting moi!
Final bus stop.

Poster, apologise to them even though its against ur better judgement and start looking for another house and this time, don't live with the landlord or his relatives.
B4 then thread carefully.
All d best.

Nothing to trash out.
@op should read my first and only post to her.
Has her family and relative crucified her yet?
D strength she said she needed,is she not getting that from naija?
Why d generalization?

Chilli, I didn't pick anybody's post. I am talking about what I've been seeing here.

This rubbish should stop abeg.
Read my first post without sentiment and u will c where I'm going to.

Psalm, I'm yet to read what u addressed to me. I'm addressing a general notion by our pple living outside naija who thinks that all we know how to do is walk around naked.
Every country in this world hv one ish or d other.
Our pple were once in darkness and when they left d shores of naija, they started seeing and bam!, we all in naija r doomed!

What kind of colonial mentality is that?