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Jayzel:
Lol not mostly all, most ladies out there have'nt experience wat we call relationship talk less of love, base on their strictly parent's who does'nt let them have their own way's. Most of them experience their first love or relationship when they get admitted into higher institution (university). so don't judge most lady out base on love issues most re still newbies depite their mature age

I'm just being careful this gender ehnnn, but anyway if a girls truly loves, you should go for her as a man, its in your best interest, its the man lost.

Hmmmm, this kind matter yuping no go put mouth.

Shoot him and hang his dead body up for crows to feed on it.

Jayzel:
I understand ur point , but this particular lady is of a wealthy background, so i don't think money is the problem here. And i can tell when a lady is in love like madly in love !

I just hope her age is not getting to evening news paper, because after enjoying the life of their head at young age they will start claiming love at older age, I'm just being blunt here ooo and thinking from all angle.

Jayzel:
No body bro just pouring out my point of view
I'm a cousellor therapist mostly on relationship, i settle a 2 month's old relationship today but to my greatest suprise i came back home feeling so emotional and remorseful about the whole issue today.
I hate seeing young ladies crying over a guy who does'nt care about her emotional feeling's or warfare it really hurt tho.

Don't mean to derail or to be mean towards the ladies girls only cry and claim love when the man is wealthy, you will shock the lady might be lying.

Can't relate but I do feel your pain. But who do you this kind thing now ehn.

Tell her she is not missing anything. Suffer no sweet at all.

Your sins have been forgiven go and simp no more. Just forgive yourself and move on.

Be patient till your house rent is due, when is due tell your wife to pay or his younger brother to pay, if they cannot, let them no who is the boss.
And if they still prove stubborn, move out and pay for a small apartment just for yourself, peace of mind over anything.

Why go through all this stress, just use your salary/allowance carry Barcelona over 4.5 you go loose weight after 90minutes

If I follow this advice I will be single forever, I hate anything that look or seems like conflict and how many Nigeria girls can communicate, they don't Just know how to flow and this really irritate me.

Hmmmm nkan be

Liverpool calm down no be so haba

Night life, especially traveling at night to other state just to groove.

If found guilty hang him, good riddance

Let me SIMPly move away. This a matter of the heart let me not crack my brain.

Even lodging in the wrong hotels can get you kill.

Favfables1:
You're sooooo not getting the point chief....
Did you see the bolded?? It was YOU who refused to settle for less.... It was YOU who kept pushing.... It was YOU!!!!!!!!
You didn't just sit down idle and do nothing, you didn't like your current position so YOU made the effort.... It wasn't handed to you on a platter!!!!! YOU stepped out there and got it!!

You didn't sit down all day watching a movie, you kept pushing until you got it...why can't she do same?? Why're you not advicing her to do the same thing you did?? Why are you posing those questions to the man and not to her?? If she didn't have a man, wont she survive??

Honestly boss...
I'm so disappointed in your comment up there ...
If it was a man acting the way she's acting, I'm sure you'll post those questions to him, so why are you not posing it to her??
Are there not people out there who finds small thing to do pending when they're waiting for admission?? Atleast she has a trade, let her use it or better still learn new trades?!!

Yes encouragement will go a long way, buh not in this case... encouragement here will only embolden laziness!! What she needs is tough love... Hard spanking here and there... Waiting for admission doesn't necessarily means you should just seat down and be lazy....

Ok

People with doings gbosa for you boor.

Favfables1:
Oga you sef na wa o...
So a full grown adult of marriageable age will sit down all day watching movies and rather than scold her for such nonsense you're asking all this questions...

She has learnt a trade, can't she look for a place and attach herself to?? Must everything be handed over to her on a platter because she's a she??

The work you're doing now, were you just sitting idle in the house and someone gave it to you??
Can't she go out there and look for a job by herself?? Is she not old enough to enter the streets and get her hands dirty?? If it was a man that was behaving like her, would you be asking all this questions?? Or is it because she's a she and not a he??

Mtttttcheeeeewww...

We all fail to learn that everything is time she is waiting for admission (HND)
I still remember telling someone I hate sitting in office so quit, people call me names lazy etc but 3 years now the same people are calling me workaholic I don't come home bla boa
When I was looking for what suit me people see it as Idle I'm not the type that believe in make I dey manage this one first I have a plan I stick to it.
In Timaya voice (Na only plan A)
Parent nagging there kids to do something na him make some kid dey do tailoring now instead of being an engineer or lawyers etc delay is not denial.
Word of encouragement really goes a long way paddy mi, you see nagging, that thing dey kill people slowly.
Dreams comes slow but they go so far.

Biodun556:
Hypocrisy is a norm among Nigerians. These people blame Muslims and northerners for this.

You know we have mentaly unstable people who don't know what is called free will.

I always stay far away from people with hot temper, so no slap for me.

Southernigbo:
yeah, of course there is exception, some have bigger more developed statues like d example u quoted.

See life

Before I read to that part of pregnancy I already predict it, my guy don Japa.
Aunty this is one those long Con.

This your question Reginal Daniel Husband disagree.
Or is there any exception?

I will never stood so low to make a point, this is embarrassing and waste of talent.

Haliraph:
The reason why am asking this question is because, i have a girlfriend who just enjoys sitting at home all day watching movies and sleeping even after completing her training as a stylist.
Though she's hoping to get back to school next year for her HND program.
My problem is, she doesn't show any effort of being supportive or industrious in anything.

Did you offer her anything and she reject?
If you are complaining without giving her anything then you are doing more damage than good.
What vacancy have you shown
What plug have you refer to her
Which business have you discuss with her
What empowerment have you given to her
Motivational quote they sweet when you are not in the shoes of the person receiving it.
#peace.

Her body, her pain but he still concern everyone cus you're human and should be treated as one.

Education first ooo (it won't take you more than five years but production can last you more than to achieve ooo)

God just strike this one for all others to learn please.

Money that can easily be paid through difference means of payment platforms, this people just hate accountability