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“You are here to enable the divine purpose of the universe to unfold. That is how important you are!” ~ Eckhart Tolle

I’ve known since I was very young that I was destined for big things. I mean really. The first thing I knew I wanted to be when I grew up was the Easter Bunny. And I’m Jewish. Now as you cut through your giggles, here’s what I’m pretty sure I actually meant by that — I knew from very early on that societal constraints, “should”, and rules didn’t really mean anything. I could be and do anything I wanted.

And then I found road blocks; or maybe just the speed bumps of life. I kept reaching for more, but encountered fear, doubt, challenging situations, and naysayers. Thankfully, I never stopped believing. I always knew it was possible to live into the vastness of my visions, and become as big as I wanted. It’s taken time to align the my beliefs with this truth inside of me so that I could live into my knowing, but it’s been worth it.

And I’m definitely not alone. This beautiful planet is crawling with those of us who want to make a difference; who know we are capable of anything. Some of us are there living it fully, some are in the midst of the dance of taking a few steps forward and a couple of steps back (hint: good old self sabotage; something I know well), and others are just beginning to wake up to the realization that this knowing has been inside of them all along, and it’s time to do something about it. But no matter where you are, fear not. Often it’s just the stuff we think gets in our way that’s actually supporting us in getting there! So, to prove it to you, I’ve compiled 8 signs that point out that likelihood that you’re probably meant for something bigger; and that you’re destined to get there.

1. You suck at working for other people.

You’re a born leader and you know it. Or maybe you don’t know it. But either way, you’re just NOT into doing things that aren’t catalyzing big change. You feel stuck working for others. You want freedom, flexibility, creativity, and expansion, and you just don’t feel you can fully achieve that while working for someone else. You know that your vision is worth something, and that getting to apply ALL of your gifts is the only way you’ll be fully satisfied.

2. You tend to put things off until you’re really inspired.

So you call yourself a procrastinator. There is such a thing as self sabotaging procrastination, but if you’re meant for something bigger (which, if you’re reading this, I have a sneaking suspicion you are), there will also be times when you believe you must get something done because that’s what you think is going to get you from point A to point B. But what if you actually thrive off of inspiration, versus obligation?You deserve to be able to evaluate which is true for you in each moment. Is fear holding you back from chipping away at your to-do list? Or is it because you’re lacking inspiration. If it’s the latter, trust that doing exactly what you’re inspired to do is leading you to where you need to be. Often that inspiration knows more than we do about what’s really possible.

3. As a kid you thought adults who wore suits and went off to work were crazy.

You’ve always known somewhere deep within you that there was more to life than living a cookie-cutter, safe, pragmatic lifestyle. You knew you could have a bigger impact on the world if you did it your way, and that your way would involve more freedom and flexibility than those crazy adult-types had. And now, whether you’ve fully achieved it yet or not, you know that that feeling you had as a kid is utterly true. You’ve witnessed and felt what it’s like to live just as much on purpose in your flip flops as you have your business suit.

4. You love what you do so much you’d do it for free.

Here’s the irony – you deserve to know your value, and the more you begin to charge your full value for the contribution you’re making to the world, the more value those you serve will actually receive. However, you know you’re on purpose and meant to do big things when you love what you do so much that while you’re doing it money is not even on your mind.

5. You’re an idealist. You see the world at its best, and will stop at nothing to get there.

When I was a kid I used to get called an “idealist” all the time. At first I thought it was a compliment. I’d think “yeah that’s right, it is possible for the world to be that loving and amazing”. Then, toward early adulthood I began to get triggered by the word, as if people were saying that I couldn’t actually achieve that; that the world wasn’t actually supposed to be the amazing place I knew it could be. Now, I could care less what people think or call me. My name is Jordanna, and I am an idealist. By living in my own little world of my vision and my creations, my personal world often actually appears as “ideal” as I know one day the entire world can be. So really, who cares what’s true and what’s not if I’m having fun and serving others while doing it? Being an idealist doesn’t make you crazy, it makes you a creator.

6. You can’t always say how you know things, but sometimes you just “know”.

Visionaries don’t usually get their visions from what’s outside of them or from what the world tells them they should create. They get their visions from an internal drive to create what feels right for them. That “knowing” of what they need to create goes hand in hand with a knowing of all sorts of things. Call it intuition, call it gut feeling, call it spidey senses. If you are meant for something bigger in this world, that knowing will keep speaking up and asking you for what it wants. So really, creating big things is not an option when it’s your destiny. At least, that’s what I’m pretty sure your spidey senses would tell you.

7. You feel things. Big time.

Most of the clients I work with you are meant for big things in the world tend to feel pretty deeply. You may not have been taught that it’s okay to feel. You may have been taught, in fact, that your feelings will get in the way of being awesome. Well, let’s reframe that. Sometimes our feelings are our TRUTH. Your ability to be big, and contribute to the world in a huge way is dependent upon your truth. So allow your feelings to show up, and to guide you to where you need to be. Your creations depend upon it.

8. You’re more frustrated by having too many ideas than you are by not having any at all.

You tend to get inspired easily. In fact, the more awesome your life becomes, the more inspired YOU become. But sometimes it’s a bit of a conundrum. You know you’re meant to create big things, but if you’re not careful you can allow yourself to get stopped up by ALL of the things you want to create, without actually getting anything done. Don’t let this get to you. Be grateful that you’re so full of awesome ideas. If you’re not sure where to start or what to focus on, call upon some support. But don’t let your plethora of visions within your vision get in the way.

“Be not afraid of greatness. Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and others have greatness thrust upon them.” ~ William Shakespeare

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IntimateGist:
Amazing write up... Wow

Thanks!!

bamac:
HR was like "se e ya were mo tile sha?

Like WTF looks!

Marriage without a True Heart Connection

So many traditional marriages ‘ break’ because it is not a relationship based on a heart connection. It is not based on a true soul-travel. It is based on outside factors like social standards.

Things like money, safety, and a longing for someone to make you feel whole are some are the main reasons we rush to get married.

It’s an act of proving that you love someone, that you’re really committed, when isn’t just loving them enough? Why do we need to prove that our love is real? It should be obvious to all who look.

Most people struggle with the idea of self-love and how it is to feel safety INside themselves. When you are able to give yourself attention, feed yourself with soul-food, love, and fulfillment: You do not need to find love externally. It is always existing inside you already.


Darkness dissolves in The Light of Love

The energy of the heart is so strong, much more powerful than the power of the mind. We don’t give it the credit it truly deserves.

In a cosmic marriage, all the ‘ unseen’ and dark places hidden deep in the heart will appear in the light of love. Darkness will always peak in the heights of ‘ being in love’. Love is the highest vibration. Darkness is a much lower vibration.

If someone loves you truly, all the unseen aspect will come up for they are showing you what you can change. Just breath, walk, sing, dance, cry, and let it be ‘ there’. Do not judge your fears and insecurities.

When we can genuinely say ‘ Thank you’, and ‘I see you’, we create real transformation within us. Do not think your lover is the cause of this pain. See it differently. Your lover is only picking up the mirror, and wants to heal you by showing you all the aspects of yourself. Sometimes we don’t want to look, but that is the only way to grow.


BIG CREDIT TO:

Your reflection – Meeting yourself

When you find someone, who is true to their own soul, who has taken all the time, to find out their own pains, heals them self, and created the strength to get out of it… They are able to commit to you.

They need to be true to their ESSENCE. And that takes wisdom, soul searching, falling down and standing up. When you are committed to yourself, because you have seen both the darkest and the lightest places, you are able to ‘ see’ your reflection in someone else.

When you feel a partner is living from the heart, and loves themselves, you will not have a fear-based relationship.

For instance, your partner can be in a room with twenty beautiful other people or they can travel the world without you. You can let him have thousands of friends and you just have ‘ peace and trust’, because you know the commitment is from the heart.

It is a divine connection. You both have rest/stillness and calm, NOT a fear-based relation. You can have your own travel, your own path, and yet…. You know the path of your loved one, is right next to yours. You can sit back, and breathe. When you have peace and rest with a partner, it is, because you feel you can trust this person. And you know you can trust yourself.

Your true partner has already been decided; it is set above. It is already a commitment, without even knowing, it is an event set to happen by you. The cosmos knows. Your soul knows. Your gut instinct knows. You have been partners many lifetimes before. There is nothing ‘ new’, it feels like you have been married a hundred times before. The other person knows what to say or not say, to evolve the process.

You will always come back to each other, or stick together in some way because of the enormous magnetic pull to each other. As they say in the movie Avatar ‘ I see you’. Those words are more then ‘I love you’.

The words have many more dimensions behind it. ‘I see your soul.’

I love your soul, with all aspects that goes with it. Everything. The whole package. – This is the ‘I see you’.

Many people do not find it appealing anymore, to marry the traditional ways. We say vows we do not feel in the heart, sign a ‘contract’ for an institute and spend a lot of money on a sacred ceremony that transcends the need for material.

Relationships of the Past
There is a time and place for everything. You cannot change someone’s feelings, and you cannot ‘ make it work’, when it has already been broken and the other person is not fighting for love. It takes two to Tango, It is a lover’s dance…

Someone who does not want to be in their power (commitment to themselves) will never be able to commit to you.
On the road of your past relationships and affairs, you learned who you are, what you need to shine, bloom, blossom and stay strong in a world, that has so many challenges.

You learned about your personality and your ego-aspects. You learned how to be a strong person, and how to make a future partner a powerful and strong person by the vibration you are able to send in a connection based on Truth. That is how you love in a way that makes the other person stronger, not weaker.

kul

And what's the HR's reaction to the proposal? Pls get the picture, i want to see how the HR's face would look like.

Before nko?

جَزَاكَ اللَّهُ خَيْرا OP

جَزَاكَ اللَّهُ خَيْرا OP

Your roommate though.....

hmmmm

Jazakum OP.

VickyRotex:
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That car rear light, so lovely.

For a moment I thought it was a wheel of a moving vehicle.

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Jazakum OP

Thanks for the insights. Jazakum OP.

Why's OP getting confused with 'Where' and 'Were'

Points spotted on though.

Are u kidding me?

OVI75:
The father kiss daughter governor.abeg this one no be news.giv me somtin like.governor ibikunle's election as governor have been annulled.ehen dat would be news.

Let's wait till September 29th. We should believe!

Again, Tribunal dismisses Amosun's bid to stop Isiaka's petition
...INEC closes case without witness

Last minutes efforts by the Ogun State Governor, Senator Ibikunle Amosun and his party, All Progressives Congress (APC) to convince the Tribunal to strike out the petition challenging their victory at the April 11, this year election were yesterday dismissed by the 3-man panel headed by Justice Henry Olusiyi.

Amosun and his party had once again, challenged the jurisdiction and competence of the Tribunal, thereby asking for the dismissal of the PDP's petition on account of "irregularity, incompetence and lack of jurisdiction of the Honourable Tribunal to determine the petition as constituted".

Meanwhile, the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) yesterday also closed its case without calling its witness.

The electoral body had listed a witness, Mr Dickson Atiba to defend sundry allegations against the credibility of the election especially allegations of over-voting, non compliance with Electoral acts and rigging in 9 local councils under contention.

But counsel to the INEC, Mr Oluwajare Ogunnaike told the Tribunal that Atiba had been transferred to Lagos and all efforts to bring him down to Abeokuta had been difficult due to his busy schedule.

Ogunnaike, on whose instance the proceeding was adjourned till yesterday informed the court said he could not get across to the witnesses in time who he said has been transferred outside the state.

Counsel to the Petitioners, Adetunji Oyeyipo (SAN) said he would only concede to the adjournment if Ogunnaike would undertake on the availability of the witness.

Oyeyipo further told the court that the body language of the 3rd respondent was not to the effect of calling any witness adding that it was either the witness was not willing or that INEC was not eager to call him urging the court to order the third respondent to close its case.

While responding to the posers by the Chairman of the panel Justice Henry Olusiyi asking if there could be any other better assignment for an INEC staff to come to court to defend the election the electoral body conducted that Ogunnaike responded, "We are not afraid to present our witness and in the absence of assurances that we can bring him to court, I hereby apply to close our case".

But at the twilight of adjourning the case to give lawyers some days to present their final written addresses that Counsel to the first Respondent (Amosun) John Olusola Baiyeshea (SAN) and George Adeniyi of the APC filed separate applications dated August dated August 3, this year seeking "an order setting aside the entire proceedings and report of the pre-hearing session on account of lack of jurisdiction of the Honourable Tribunal.

Chairman of the three man tribunal panel, Justice Henry Olusiyi said the applications were abuse of court processes and unnecessary waste of time of the tribunal.

The applications were brought pursuant to section 6 and section 36 (6) of the constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and paragraphs 18 (1) - (4), 47 (1) and 53 (5) of the first schedule to the Electoral Act, 2010 as amended.

According to the motion on notice obtained by our Correspondent, the 1st and 2nd Respondents sought for an order setting aside the entire proceedings and report of the pre-hearing session which was closed on July 13.

In the alternative, the respondents also sought the order consequentially dismissing and/or striking out the petition on account of irregularities, incompetence and/or lack of jurisdiction of the Tribunal to determine the Petition as constituted.

In the Counter affidavit, the petitioners posited that all issues raised in the application are not true and that they have been adjudicated upon by the Tribunal in separate applications by the Respondents.

The petitioner further explained that the applications were brought malafide and with a view to waste the time of the Tribunal and dissipate the constitutional time within which the petition should be heard and determined.

Ruling on the applications, Justice Olusiyi held that the applications were attempts to relitigate on matters that have been long settled by the same tribunal.

The Chairman posited that the right thing for the respondents would have been to appeal the rulings instead of seeking the tribunal to sit on appeal over rulings on which issues raised in the applications had been dealt with.

He said, "By these applications, the 1st and 2nd Respondent are asking us to sit on an appeal over our ruling of 7th of July, 2015 and 30th of July, 2015. All the two issues raised in the two applications have been decided upon one way or the other.

"The normal and proper thing for the 1st and 2nd respondents to have done was to appeal and not to bug us down with these applications. This is no doubt an abuse of court process. This applications are an attempt to relitigate matters that this Tribunal has long settled.

"It is an abuse of judicial processes and unnecessary waste of Tribunal's precious time. The application are bereft of merit and substance. This applications failed and dismissed."

The case has, however, been adjourned till Tuesday, 29th September, 2105 for the adoption of final written addresses by the parties.

It would be recalled that Amosun closed his case with 4 out of 29 witnesses listed.

kossyablaze:
no worry I ll

I dey wait!

kossyablaze:
lol guy c eh... If u try me, I go just open ur nyash.

Abeg, open him yansh!

Lol..... Ambode ti de.

Jazakum!!!!

OMG!!!