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Divay22:
Hmmm
Is divorce really your last resort?
Have you really prayed about it?
Seeing to the welfare of your kids is way more than giving them what they want or providing their needs.

Food for thought.

Thats why prayer has to be intense before you get into marriage so that one will not end up regretting later on. Prayer should be the first resort.

really

Cameleon72:
H

for Helen

Alot of unmarried folks turn counsellor...OP believe this ones at your peril

FortuneTeller:
The resident nairaland Milk Man has come again. Remember when you were sucking food and nepa from your host? What of the neighbor's daughter? Hopefully she she is more respectful now that you are a father. Milk Man do the needful and give those children milk.

Queen of Savage

Eyi lee ooo

Time & chance!

DSTV ti take over!

What happened to your marriage and why are you giving up so easily?

vhai...e pain ke say na man write all these nonsense

Why are Nigerians so myopic... beat a woman...so what has the female folks done to deserve the beating? How sure are we that it isnt the male folks fault all the time. Slave mentality

eyinjuege:
Is the man not lazy from all her narrative?
Going to hang out in bars waiting for customers to call you, and loafing around all day.
Who does that when he's supposed to be out there on the field aggressively marketing whatever product he's got?
Or you think those marketers in banks, insurance companies etc do that kind of siddon look approach and get paid what they do?
If a man can be so unserious about his own business, how do you think he will handle other people's own?
Is it until she gives her last blood before you agree she's sacrificed for her family?
Even young men these days dont want liabilities as wives, because it's not practical and not in tune with the economic realities of today.
It'd be a different thing if he's seen hustling trying to market his product. You have to go out to look for money, because money hardly ever comes home to meet you .

I get yur point however i seem not to get carried away as this is just one-sided. Ladies sometimes dont have thev esilience to carry the familybonce an abled man runs into a problem. Such women comes to nairaland to paint their spouses bad in this manner and focus more on the negatives to get the sympathy.

needforanswers:
Presently the money we survive on is from my savings from working before I got pregnant and that is quite meager and won't be enough for us in the long run. I have advised him to get a better paying job but he ignored me like I didn't even say anything.
His laziness irritates me and I think even he is starting to pick up on the resentment. I have a feeling he married me thinking I would take care of the both of us because I have affluent parents.

How i so wish i know OPs husband..from the tone of your post i can see that youbare not ready to sacrifice for your family hence calling your hubby lazy.

OP dont get engaged into what will stick your moniker to your head biko...na dem dem sabi wetin dem cook together


2nd to comment .... this land is for job seekers like me..my prayer is that may we receive grace to up our games to become employers of labour.... Amin

ifyalways:
Go study for your Jamb, Waec or Neco.

Your "uncle" complained to your mom, I'm sure your mom had one or two things to tell him.

How's your uncles sex life your business? Unsolicited advice is of the devil.

You ve gotten no chill to spare sis

nBro, people hardly employ live-in gateman these days as the instances of murdering their bosses is on the rise now but they rather employ an individual from a security outfit where your full details may have been capyured.

Look for a security outfit and try to get an employment therein.

rent and transport combined

jk

Oga blow the whistle joor..what are you waiting for..put yourself in the shoes of the MD and one lazy ass is reaping you of your hard earned money. What will you have advised the staff to do?

WiredLeggings:
i guess so. love is blind, or so I've heard.

Havent yu ever felt the blind love before?

Who has got any latest news about the push cv platform that emerged few years ago?

Doctors in the house??

Still any idea??

WiredLeggings:
how did you not see all of these during your courtship?

Love i guess

i am not married though. but hearing that one's marriage is a sinking ship is scary. I am hear to learn though now that i am planning marriage at an early age and i dont want a situation of had i known, i wont God bless your marriage . I know everything will come back to normal soon by God's grace.

:Du

How old are you?

Engr06:
Please I need serious and mature advice. My girlfriend who I love so much is pregnant for me. We actually saw it coming but the problem is am nt financially stable. Our parent arnt rich enough to carry the burden, but my woman and I has agreed to live on the little I earn as salary. Also, we are planning to have our introduction as soon as possible just to salvage the situation. I hinted my mum about my plan for the introduction (hiding the part that she is pregnant already). Mums response was to be patient since I already know the situation of things from the home font, she advice we shud wait till probably next Year, hoping things will be better. Its really a trying moment for me presently as I can't concentrate, thinking how am going to cope as there is no help anywhere. I love my girl, she understand the situation of things and she is ready to sail with me no matter how, and I dnt want her to suffer for any reason. Being a poor boy, I dnt know how to go about the whole thing.
Please I need advice on what to do. (abortion is out of it)
Note: is there anyone who has experienced this and scaled through.

My 2kobo..poverty is a thing of the mind..get out of that poor boy attitude and find something doing..you have more mouth to feed now..making money should be the focus now and not self pity

I concur..this Lawmaker is damn funny and dramatic...he no represent my constituency sha..keep the humor