Lol...that is if NYSC still exists by the time you graduate..

Na the one wey you don see be that, how about the one wey you never see?

MrBrownJay1:


so stop acting like one...

what man in his right sense wanna date an unattractive person?
what man in his right sense would focus on desperate single mothers, instead of any women in general?!
what man in his right sense would want direct tel contact before even getting to know the person?!

You may be too harsh on OP if you ask me.

But OP, honestly your post is too direct and sounds like one with a sinister motive truly considering the insecurities these days.

OP...If convenient for you...can you tell us the feedback...are yu now married...did she promised to change??...let us know please

Greenbullet:
lol, my guy calm down.

lol...yu neva advise na

omo...make i no talk. patiently observing to see which is worse before commenting

Reference:


Which law and custom is that. If his name is not in any registry recognised by law courts he has not married. What rubbish tradition is that. To eat kolanut and drink vodka means what....abegi.

Hahaha... i thought OP said its only white wedding remaining.

they have done the registry already

Plankton2017:
Good day all,

My wife to be's character has been terrible since we did our trad. Now I dont know if I should halt my wedding plans slated for this Saturday.

Her and her family are very domineering and rude. She shouts at me at the top of her voice and does not respect me. I have done Trad and Court wedding. what can I do for God's sake

You are married already.. at least according to the law and custom .. So you are in it already.

Missed call

Seriously!!!

Anyone that has read this Epistle should quote me with the summary.

Thanks

I tot Ronke Oshodi addressed this matter

its the best

Google fa

Divay22:
Hmmm
Is divorce really your last resort?
Have you really prayed about it?
Seeing to the welfare of your kids is way more than giving them what they want or providing their needs.

Food for thought.

Thats why prayer has to be intense before you get into marriage so that one will not end up regretting later on. Prayer should be the first resort.

really

Cameleon72:
H

for Helen

Alot of unmarried folks turn counsellor...OP believe this ones at your peril

FortuneTeller:
The resident nairaland Milk Man has come again. Remember when you were sucking food and nepa from your host? What of the neighbor's daughter? Hopefully she she is more respectful now that you are a father. Milk Man do the needful and give those children milk.

Queen of Savage

Eyi lee ooo

Time & chance!

DSTV ti take over!

What happened to your marriage and why are you giving up so easily?

vhai...e pain ke say na man write all these nonsense

Why are Nigerians so myopic... beat a woman...so what has the female folks done to deserve the beating? How sure are we that it isnt the male folks fault all the time. Slave mentality

eyinjuege:


Is the man not lazy from all her narrative?
Going to hang out in bars waiting for customers to call you, and loafing around all day.
Who does that when he's supposed to be out there on the field aggressively marketing whatever product he's got?
Or you think those marketers in banks, insurance companies etc do that kind of siddon look approach and get paid what they do?
If a man can be so unserious about his own business, how do you think he will handle other people's own?
Is it until she gives her last blood before you agree she's sacrificed for her family?
Even young men these days dont want liabilities as wives, because it's not practical and not in tune with the economic realities of today.
It'd be a different thing if he's seen hustling trying to market his product. You have to go out to look for money, because money hardly ever comes home to meet you .

I get yur point however i seem not to get carried away as this is just one-sided. Ladies sometimes dont have thev esilience to carry the familybonce an abled man runs into a problem. Such women comes to nairaland to paint their spouses bad in this manner and focus more on the negatives to get the sympathy.

needforanswers:
Presently the money we survive on is from my savings from working before I got pregnant and that is quite meager and won't be enough for us in the long run. I have advised him to get a better paying job but he ignored me like I didn't even say anything.
His laziness irritates me and I think even he is starting to pick up on the resentment. I have a feeling he married me thinking I would take care of the both of us because I have affluent parents.

How i so wish i know OPs husband..from the tone of your post i can see that youbare not ready to sacrifice for your family hence calling your hubby lazy.

OP dont get engaged into what will stick your moniker to your head biko...na dem dem sabi wetin dem cook together


2nd to comment .... this land is for job seekers like me..my prayer is that may we receive grace to up our games to become employers of labour.... Amin

ifyalways:
Go study for your Jamb, Waec or Neco.

Your "uncle" complained to your mom, I'm sure your mom had one or two things to tell him.

How's your uncles sex life your business? Unsolicited advice is of the devil.

You ve gotten no chill to spare sis

nBro, people hardly employ live-in gateman these days as the instances of murdering their bosses is on the rise now but they rather employ an individual from a security outfit where your full details may have been capyured.

Look for a security outfit and try to get an employment therein.

rent and transport combined