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I think she is right up to her level of understanding. Reason being that the more she grows in wisdom, the more she understands

Are you telling me the current MD of access can’t buy a brand new car? Or even Directors at solid MNEs legit?

I’m think she is not 100% correct although she is mostly correct

What you need is JESUS my brother

JESUS

A big fish in a small pond or small fish in a big pond… which is more preferable in a career journey?

I have this question a couple of times and I wanted to hear your thoughts about it

100%
That man is my MVP anyday anytime

Many people dream of a marriage free from trouble, resentment, and emotional drama — a partnership where communication is simple, and only important matters are discussed. But is such a relationship truly possible?


Conflict in marriage is natural. Every couple faces disagreements due to differences in personality, background, and expectations. However, a successful marriage isn’t about avoiding problems altogether — it’s about how those problems are handled. Resentment often grows when issues are left unresolved or when emotions are ignored.

Some couples strive for a calmer, emotionally balanced relationship where communication is respectful and solutions-focused. This approach doesn't mean suppressing emotions, but rather managing them wisely. Emotional intelligence — the ability to express oneself while understanding a partner’s feelings — is key to creating this kind of dynamic.

A marriage that feels “easy” isn’t one without effort. It’s built on respect, honest communication, empathy, and self-awareness. While no relationship is perfect, a peaceful and supportive marriage — one without constant drama or resentment — is absolutely possible when both partners commit to understanding and growth.

ademijuwonlo:
People still have friends or people that they are close to but just make sure that they are the solid type that would have your back come rain and come shine.
Good friends are important in life!

Good friends sha. Maybe sometime in the future, I am able to point that I have a good friend but on the flip side, I don’t think anyone can boldly say I am one to them so …… no sweat

bigpicture001:
It is a lie... A very big fat lie... We all expect something from someone... It may not always b money

Yes, loyalty, trust, solidarity, care, concern.. etc

Bro trust me. All those are water under the bridge

I have been burnt and burnt all over again
So I rather expect myself to be better than to expect anything from anyone

lovediehatelive:
Like I stated we haven't seen for ages, and I only went to his state for some business stuff.

I understand your point and I'm strongly considering it. I would be avoiding them sha, because finding a peaceful home this days is hard and wouldn't want to be the devil.


Though I'll still look for a way to indirectly convince him for a DNA test.

If the DNA comes back positive, how do you intend for the wife to view you going forward? Someone that must have taken care of you when you were around?


Or you think the husband wouldn’t tell her that it was your idea just to save his face?

Think am o bro. Let the sleeping dog be

Do people still have friends??

For me, I don’t expect anything from anyone so as not to be disappointed. I count anything you do for me as extra not as expected

Oga

Can you please avoid the family for a long while so you don’t bring this your energy to your friend? Really it isn’t your business if you think about it

None please!!!

None is preferable. Live healthy and be good

Be intentional about everything

Don’t leave anything to chance!! Pls pls I beg of you

Gbese

Sapasenator:
Why do you say that, now you are beginning to scare me.

Don’t worry
You are covered

Sapasenator:
Reason I am a strong advocate of one child in this present economy.

Hmmm

Economy got nothing on you na

immortalcrown:
What time should men leave office? Be specific so that we will be sure that you are not mistaking staying in bars for staying in late in office.

Bar no go be everyday na

Rule of thumb, be home 6:30-7
Gives you some hours before the children retire for the day

Sapasenator:
Some men live longer because of staying late in the office to cool off after the day's work. Do you know whether he is avoiding his wife, looking to sneak in when she is already asleep or staying long for traffic to subside. Me I get home 11pm every night.

In this, still need to consider the upbringing of the children, they can easily be lost in an unhealthy marriage and a missing father situation

While this is not a chant for irresponsible work life balance, it is a shout out call to men especially those with a young family.

To stamp in the training you so desire to enshrine on your children, you will need more time with the children which includes closing early from work and intentionally teaching your children the way to go.

The mistake most young fathers make is to delegate all this to the mother during the week maybe because her job is more flexible and she comes home early only for the father to show up during the weekend and start complaining of complacency. Newsflash….. it is very possible the mother is stressed too during the day and will leave the children out to the maid or channel 314 on Dstv or coco melon on her phone just to catch some rest too. The children now are at the mercy of what the maid deems right or wrong or they start getting addicted to the devices and nothing else matters. Sometimes, you will observe your 4-5 year old has “seen finish”your spouse and no longer respond to her instructions. These things are real.

Dear Fathers, it is time for us now to be very intentional about raising our children and to better achieve this, we need to get home early from our places of businesses and work then be very involved.

Ciao!

Minding your business is the best way to go

Deo1986:
You quit the 'retched' relationship in 2021 and between 2021 and March 2023 you found the love of your life who wedded you traditionally and relocated you and the children to Canada?

Wow, isn't God good?

Is a miracle working God

Fakest of the fakest

Calvary247:
My husband is the man the world had ever given me. I love my husband. I'm enjoying my marriage to the fullest. Marriage full of joy, happiness and satisfaction. This union is powerful.

Congratulations OP
I’m glad I could read one good testament about marriage
May your happiness continue forever amen

It’s kind of strange when people link marital success to couples sharing same beds/room
Also the strange importance we tag to a mattress and wood called marital bed like really what does all those mean?

Bed wey pikin go use piss spoil? �

I have seen great marriages where couples don’t share same room as well marriages that crash badly even with same room

My thought is that bedrooms don’t determine marriages longevity or success biko

Why isn’t he controlling in Borno where he comes from

May be old school but I advise devoting your self more to God in prayers, study and praying in tongues
Slowly but gradually it becomes abhorrent to you till it stops completely

I have been doing this since my childhood and I seem not to have outgrown it especially with meat and noodles

Wait is it wrong??

OP play safe and follow this through
You will be fine

Klass99:
No, it is not. Why are you even contemplating it?

Please do not do it until;

1. You receive an offer in writing.
2. You've sat with it for 24 hours, thoroughly read it and you're satisfied with the terms/condition.
3. You sign the offer and communicate your start date to the new employer.
4. You have given the required notice to your current employer.
5. You exit current workplace with little or no drama.

Proxyly:
Chat me up. I am available

I did you are no longer responding

Seems you ain’t responsive on WhatsApp

Guitar interested

And would you mind sending pictures of the other available items?

There is no such thing as ex general. Once a general always a general