cococandy:
Also depends on if she wants the marriage or not.

He can’t be married to someone who doesn’t want to be married to him.

Very valid point. I hope not the case sha because if it is..... story for another day

Marriage Wahala

Thank God I haven’t seen a ‘Divorce her’ comment. Seems the children are still asleep
Ok OP you have been married for eight years it means you both have had your moments
Can you possibly trace back to when all was rosy between you two and try to recreate the incidence back. Trust me there must have been some activities you might have dropped as a result of over familiarity or with longevity of time

Your marriage will work. Start by having a very clear mind with no divorce option coming close then you can dialogue with your wife to work this out

Cheers

It is quite simple
She has more than 1 guy in her life, got pregnant and at first she was confused as to who she will’dash’ paternity. She obviously went with the one with the most cash at the time and fabricated story of abortion to the other which happens to be you in order for you not to ask
Stuff didn’t work out well with the first guy and now she is playing the second option card which obviously is you

Trust me I have seen the above happen and you really need her to confess what happened before jumping on claiming paternity
You will be surprised there is a very long chain of conspiracy theory in the mix

Good luck OP

Mariangeles:

It still does not answer the question...

Time is the greatest test
If the worst happens will her quote still be the case?

I doubt

CsRockefeller:


That's because u don't know the real meaning of love.

I’m honestly open to be tutored

Lol
Bring in a visitor for a week to occupy the room or turn the room to a store

I’m joking oooo

All na scam
Love is never enough

Decent and Godly men out there ain’t on social media writing the above crap

If you want to meet decent and godly men, quit searching for one on social media, you will meet them in the real world

Behold the President of the United States

gold4god:
am just afraid of not being called an opportunist

You are not an opportunist
That’s why I said earlier that you have no one to impress since your wife is well aligned

yanabasee:


And if the wife refuse to accept the idea, will she foot the bills for the time being??

If she refuses the idea and you go ahead. Hmmm the man can loose happiness o. It’s better to pay bills and keep your home happy than chop awuf in a very unhappy home

In my opinion if your wife agrees then it’s fine afterall she is your sister and not a stranger

The ‘but’ I can envisage is a series of run ins between your sister and wifey because they are both women and by now you should have an idea of how women interact with women especially in in-law scenarios

If the above is well catered for then you are good to go afterall no one to impress

Please note that my thoughts above is only in a case if maybe you aren’t too buoyant to afford a renewed rent but if you do then think thrice

I see no biggie about a bed � talk less of calling it matrimonial bed I mean who created all these filters in the heart of men

Since hubby no dey house she and her friend gast gist enta midnight na

But still if she knows her husband wouldn’t like it then it may not be correct

Imagine what if he doesn’t have a job and decided to touch an hungry wife every night? Imagine the disaster

In my opinion there is no formula for these things, just pure luck to find who understands and supports your hustle thats all

OP on point

Omo the Victoria babe na sharp babe o. God knows how she has bought more time on this contract
Op

I wish you well

vincentjk:
Go for all these old pathfinder suvs chiefs use in Nigerian movies

edawg:
254k miles
Holy Moses!!

Omo I see am I panick

funmisticqueen:
Yes i can, but you have failed to prove that abortion is murder

Justice Binta Nyako or na Rita Odili we go say

Continue judging for Africa ba. I just think if you aint in ones shoes, using your filters to judge may not be right

Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.


The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.


If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to get the pregnancy aborted , you are wasting your time.

One question sir ARE YOU MARRIED?

dominique:
Dumb question, shows the kind of flawed upbringing you had.

You are harsh o
Op only asked a question

More pictures?

Funny thing is I just saw this video on YouTube with fabulous and encouraging comments and same video on nairaland with a enormous level of hate chai... guysss instead of hating on cuppy for no reason but her dad is rich why don’t you polish your act so that your kids too can have some good Gelato with your funds ehn

As for me, good music. What fascinates me is she never relent and I enjoyed all her tracks save for the one with skuki

I also remember OBO went thru same treatment before being accepted

Keep it up Cuppy

I bought both Lontor and century both 16” and I think i enjoyed century more
Lontor has a chronic battery life which is the most important

NwaAmaikpe:




Individuals have unique fingerprints, they also have different interests.
You're lucky hers is Cardi B and not Mia Khalifa.

As a parent you should take it as a gift.
Michael Jackson, Kylian Mbappe, Tiger Woods, Serena/Venus Williams and Lil Bow Wow's parents took advantage of this same complaint of yours.

She's pointing you to the area of life she will effortlessly excel in.
Besides; Nigeria needs a quick and better replacement to Weird Mc, Sasha P, Muna and Mo'chedda.
Help her forge a career in rap.
Not everyone will be professors, doctors or lawyers.

Errrrhm.
But, how does your wife know that Cardi B's daughter's name is Kulture?
You may just be accusing the wrong person of obsession only because she is more vocal about it.

Nailed it

I dey wash am wella. Any problem?

23. Enjoy your own company

So sorry about how you feel but the fact remains you are married

I think you need closure. Do let your husband know how you currently feel. I pray he is matured enough to handle this and also make you the center of his world. With this you tend to feel relaxed in the marriage and your journey to marital bliss officially kickstarted

I lost the gear box to my Hyundai Accent 2014 to this similar stuff at agbado area

Painful after google map showed me that was the shortest distance

Never African parents believe they own you at any point

HANSEEL:
i am very happy for lyta. but would that affect olamide and davido's relationship?

I think so

What do you think