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Jeon:
Drillmate

PanshMATE

edoairways:
That video is scripted

My thought exactly

If the parents are funding the event, trust them to have the larger say
Either way, parents have the most guests and somehow they always have a standard they want it to meet sometimes irrespective of your views

She actually does have the right

I will say look for other alternatives and let her go please for the sake of the family

Bola146:
Take her as your own kid in correction, keep telling her. I too always make that mistake once in a while

The problem with this is she might not see herself as her kid hence the stubbornness like worst case scenario I will run away

Shinapraise:
Don't try it cos it will end in tears

Why? Cuz I see it really happening

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalists would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

I think There is no such thing as Church wedding in the bible
Jesus attended a traditional wedding where he turned water to wine

Mstick:
Bought a watch for my daughter and throughout the day I kept asking her for the time, at a point when I asked her please what's the time? She replied; it's time to get your own watch.

� savage

peropoliet:
your mama and mine is almost the same

No nonsense Iron Lady

Love her so very much

OlawaleBammie:
Taaahh, what hapen to their purpose sir??

Am of the Orthodox view my brother, not that we dont beg verbally but we make it so rare, and i love it that way.

I dont want a simp as son
I dont want a daughter who would comit suicide in the future.

I want children who would b having a curtailed emotions.

I want a rigid children, who would say and stand on their ground, who would not b easily moved cus of one nonsense emotions.

Laslas, i want a principled children cus i mysef am a principle personality.

Understand you now
Perfectly but in a like scenario as mine please apologize

OlawaleBammie:
Orthodox parents dont apologise to children verbally, rey dont.

Even me, i have that trait from them

Haa please o for the purpose of your kids

PrincessJr:
Lmao , the hustle is real. Men are not smiling

The stuff happens a lot these days

Last year I went for a friend’s wedding and there I met a young chap who introduced himself as a brother to the groom
Dude gisted me of how he had been around the previous night and all, he was even helping dem share drinks and I remember telling this guy to beware that not everyone at the party came with the right motive that some people had crashed the wedding just to steal

Guess what, this guy was actually a wedding crasher and left there with nothing less than four phones that day while posing as the groom’s brother

PrincessJr:
Did he disappear with the envelope?

Luckily for me I was able to slap the hand hard that the envelope dropped on the floor

Lamanii22:
What the hell Over what lol...

Immediately my dad informed her I won’t be returning back with them to their house as I have friends at my place who will spend the night so we could all leave for the church wedding the next day - momma believed I undermined the tradition. Barged at the high table where I was feeling like mvp, loudly questioning what I had said and the moment I tried explaining myself ehn, hell went loose

Long story short it’s been years but I still do tell her to apologize for that action as I will never forget though I have forgiven her

One thing about very traditional parents is that they are never wrong when it comes to their children and they never apologize
I will never be like that

Momma almost slapped me on my engagement day while i was on the high table in front of the audience

Or some guy that almost robbed me of the monetary gifts I kept in my jacket while dancing with my bride. Dance floor was rowdy, peeps dancing with the couple. Dude came near me whom I had thought wanted to dance only to deep his hand in my inner breast pocket and draw out the envelop
Omo my response was faster than flash before I could say jack the guy disappeared into the thin air

Hisense?

Good job
Try counting number of grains in a cup of rice
Takes more time but trust me its worth it

cococandy:
Also depends on if she wants the marriage or not.

He can’t be married to someone who doesn’t want to be married to him.

Very valid point. I hope not the case sha because if it is..... story for another day

Marriage Wahala

Thank God I haven’t seen a ‘Divorce her’ comment. Seems the children are still asleep
Ok OP you have been married for eight years it means you both have had your moments
Can you possibly trace back to when all was rosy between you two and try to recreate the incidence back. Trust me there must have been some activities you might have dropped as a result of over familiarity or with longevity of time

Your marriage will work. Start by having a very clear mind with no divorce option coming close then you can dialogue with your wife to work this out

Cheers

It is quite simple
She has more than 1 guy in her life, got pregnant and at first she was confused as to who she will’dash’ paternity. She obviously went with the one with the most cash at the time and fabricated story of abortion to the other which happens to be you in order for you not to ask
Stuff didn’t work out well with the first guy and now she is playing the second option card which obviously is you

Trust me I have seen the above happen and you really need her to confess what happened before jumping on claiming paternity
You will be surprised there is a very long chain of conspiracy theory in the mix

Good luck OP

Mariangeles:
It still does not answer the question...

Time is the greatest test
If the worst happens will her quote still be the case?

I doubt

CsRockefeller:
That's because u don't know the real meaning of love.

I’m honestly open to be tutored

Lol
Bring in a visitor for a week to occupy the room or turn the room to a store

I’m joking oooo

All na scam
Love is never enough

Decent and Godly men out there ain’t on social media writing the above crap

If you want to meet decent and godly men, quit searching for one on social media, you will meet them in the real world

Behold the President of the United States

gold4god:
am just afraid of not being called an opportunist

You are not an opportunist
That’s why I said earlier that you have no one to impress since your wife is well aligned

yanabasee:
And if the wife refuse to accept the idea, will she foot the bills for the time being??

If she refuses the idea and you go ahead. Hmmm the man can loose happiness o. It’s better to pay bills and keep your home happy than chop awuf in a very unhappy home

In my opinion if your wife agrees then it’s fine afterall she is your sister and not a stranger

The ‘but’ I can envisage is a series of run ins between your sister and wifey because they are both women and by now you should have an idea of how women interact with women especially in in-law scenarios

If the above is well catered for then you are good to go afterall no one to impress

Please note that my thoughts above is only in a case if maybe you aren’t too buoyant to afford a renewed rent but if you do then think thrice

I see no biggie about a bed � talk less of calling it matrimonial bed I mean who created all these filters in the heart of men

Since hubby no dey house she and her friend gast gist enta midnight na

But still if she knows her husband wouldn’t like it then it may not be correct