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All these hungry looking people will rather do propaganda than to do something meaningful for a living.

You should be showing the bad roads and dilapidated infrastructure not glorifying the slum. No matter how much propaganda is made, those who know will still know that Festac is a glorified slum.

Social media and lies. Even if this is true, it shows that what may be bad for one person is perfect for another.

Try to get it tight the first time. Some people are not good for us, let them go and look for those who are good for them. If they remain with you, you'd live in misery for as long as they are in your life.

Why is she asking for lunch? Things may be really hard for her. What they usually ask for is wigs, phones and money.

Honestly, anyone asking for lunch should be pitied and giving lunch if you can afford to. Being hungry is not funny at all. Many men allow their kids to go fend for themselves. Poverty is terrible.

Horrible news. Even with this kind of news, many girls are still willing to go meet strangers for money.

As a man, I need to go with someone if I have an appointment with someone I don't know, and it has to be in an open place during the day.

I don't know where girls get their courage from. I salute their bravery.

Lol, government of rebuttal. Nothing surprises us again, this is what happens when your hands and mouth is faster than your brain.

Trust CBN at your own risk, better start thinking twice.

Bobby killed Whitney. Beware of the company you keep. Rest on Whitney.

Respect people's private life.

Men of old will travel abroad alone and leave the wife and kids here. This 'woke' generation prefer to carry their whole family there all in the name of I'm doing it for the family.

Last last, na the family dey end up messing them up. Think wisely before acting.

But truth be told o, it's the major contributor that calls the shot o. Once you do 50/50, you've lost all the right to dictate the tune. Men should never give up their power of the major provider, it causes 'see finish'.

Nonsense. Which hospital in Nigeria has ever depended on Nepa? Every hospital has a generator, most even have inverters now.

This doctor is a slowpoke. I can understand the impact of no light in a developed nation, in this forsaken country, we have always provided our own alternative power.

The strike must go on. You can't be earning millions monthly while people can barely buy garri to eat. 60k is an insult to Nigerians, that's a mere $40, in a country where almost everything is imported.

You've saved billions by removing subsidy on fuel and electricity. Channel that savings to the welfare of citizens and not squander it.

aestake:
I dey give you hope! Things might change. In the past, it was a 10-yr wait.

I dont mind an additional 10 years wait. It will be a sweet spot for me. It will be favourable for my kids as they will be entering college.

aestake:
2030 or sooner!

Hahaha. 2030 is just 6 years, when they are in 2008? Not possible bro.

I can say boldly that this is a lie and just a way to get 5 minutes of fame.

aestake:
If you are F4, they are still treating the applications of Mar 01 2008 for documentation. You're not supposed to be here

Funny enough, this clears up my confusion. I should focus on the second table.

I know I have a long way to go. I've given myself an extra 15 year wait, like a retirement plan. I'm here just for knowledge.

I bet she wasn't billing Obama, lol. Some mother inlaws over here will turn you to a pauper because of billing.

Belle777:
Don't worry. You probably have not even started.
You will understand as time goes on.

Perhaps. My priority date is Jan 2013 , application approved and I'm waiting to be communicated to.

Belle777:
When were you "filed for"?

Did you, the person who was filed for, fill out any form online? Did you upload Police report and birth certificate? If yes then you should be looking at Final Action dates. If you, the person filed for, have not done this then it's still filing dates that you're waiting for.

Lol, I'm even more confused but no worries, thanks for taking out time to reply.

Belle777:
There's table for
1. 'Final Action Dates' for Family Sponsored
2. 'Final Action Dates' for Employment based
3. Filing Dates for Family Sponsored
4. Filing Dates for Employment based.

If a family member filed for you then you're interested in "Family Sponsored" tables.

If you have not received any email from NVC asking you to start your processing then you should be looking at 'Filing Dates'.

If you have completed your processing, filled out a form online, paid a fee, uploaded documents and been told that you are now DOCUMENTARILY QUALIFIED, then you should now be checking "Final Action Dates".
The Final Action Date shows your Priority Date when 'Current'.
Your Priority Date is on a 'Petition Approval' document that was sent to you in PDF format.

I hope this helps.

It's still not clear. I was filed for and application has been accepted. All I need is to wait till my date becomes current.
Table A or B which applies to me, under F4.

Quite emotional but then, should wre condone boys who steal because life wasn't fair to them?

Boys don't have vj to make money and so their own self help is yahoo or stealing. Should we also sympathise and raise money for them?

Life is always unfair but I know there are other ways to help ourselves. Many girls hawk, do petty business like frying akara etc. Prostitution can never really be justified, no matter how you present it.

Exhausted03:
F4 VISA UPDATE!!!

Was Just sent my visa interview appointment details

Priority date:17th April 2007
DQ: 10th Sept 2020
PD was current on the VB for about 8 months
And passed currency about 6 months ago.

Interview date: 22 July 2024

This visa was filed when I was barely 1 year & 6 months old. 17 years of patience has finally paid off for my Folks.

F4 FOLKS IN THE HOUSE, YOURS IS NEXT!

Filed at 1 year and 6 months? Lucky you. It's people like you that F4 is meant for, not those of us they filed for when we were in our 30s.

Best of luck in your interview.

I'm still confused about the table we should be checking under family sponsored in the bulletin, is it table A or B?

Why adoption? Women are still fertile till late 30s or better still, freeze your eggs.

Lol. You leave the daily killings in your country and go and condenm what's happening in another country. Our country is filled with lots of morons.

Mindlog:
-What is nonsense about infidelity?

Glad you establish that sexual indiscretion outside marriage is a reason for abandonment ,some men experience at old age when they are frail and sickly, no longer attractive to women out there unless he is wealthy enough to attract women who would exchange attention to him for his money. because mama has already signed out!

I don't know why you're arguing. I never said the man was right. I support abandonment in old age. Go and meet the youngling that took your strength and seek solace in them at old age.

There are many ways for women to keep a man in check. Leave it at that.

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Mindlog:
Now, how should "women of new" manage their men who have smartphones and unlimited access to apps and social media platforms which men of old, didn't have?

Sensible women don't bother too much over such nonsense. You either divorce him if you can't deal or you deal. You don't go making a nuisance of yourself in public.

When he becomes old and weak, you leave him and go and stay with the kids. Many men are paying for the sins of their youth at old age.

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Blacks will never be respected, both by foreigners and their own. A pity.

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Mindlog:
'Cause you have nothing to say, that can stand scrutiny....

Go and ask women of old how they managed to keep their men even though they had countless concubines outside.

Women are powerful, especially the wise ones. They know how to keep a man they really want to keep.

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Mindlog:
Such as?

Don't be lazy, do your research.