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Typical social media users, always typing faster than their brains. Being too hasty will keep putting people in trouble.

aestake:
Yep. Pd? Category?

Jan 2013. F4

aestake:
Second table is being current for documents and fees while the first is for being current for interview letter, medicals, and interview...Visa.

I see, thanks. I should be looking at the second then as I'm yet to pay the fees.

When I was in the dating pool, I do long term. A year and above. I take time before I date you and if you don't misbehave, I don't need feel the need to break up. I'm not one who gets tired easily of a girl giving me peace.

Sapasenator:
Nigeria society is patriarchal with the ladies not having same job opportunities as the men, .

I don't know why people keep saying this. In my organisation, half of the staff are females, half of the bosses are females. This is an organisation with over 20k staff strength; all well paid females, yet they still want their male colleagues to pay for their lunch.

There is now equal opportunity for females in Nigeria. Let's stop pushing an outdated narrative. Women have access to everything men have. If they're not taking advantage, then they're lazy and entitled.

Go and watch meetings of women of winbiz and you will be intimidated by their profile as a man.

People date hookers all the time. It's all a choice issue. People even marry them. Everything depends on your value system.

tensazangetsu20:
They will say you have low self esteem. Honestly just stand on a street in Chile and see how handsome the men are then stand on a street in Nigeria and just look. The difference is like day and night.

Chile sef na country wey dem dey brag with? Anyways, Nigerians who grew in extreme poverty will brag with anything.

The guys who can't get girls abroad are guys who relocated out of poverty. Poverty has humbled them and taken away their self esteem. Even for 2 weeks training, men still lay chicks not to talk of those permanently residing there.

No woman should be sex starved except she has self esteem issues or values her body and only wants to share with the right man for her. Men will dig into anything if offered.

Worse case scenario, those men who have esteem issues should go and get a hooker. Hookers are expensive, so is dating. The only difference is that you will miss out on the emotional part of dating a woman.

dammodee911:
Good news! Big jump for the family category.

What's the difference between the two tables on the family sponsored category. I've always assumed I fall under the second table.

We're not ready. When we're ready to be a real mega city, we will demolish those slums called buildings on Lagos island.

From a neutral point of view, I know that those buildings would have been demolished long ago if not that they belong to the indigens. Lagos island is a mess.

Men will always spend money on women. Spending for the right woman is not a problem. The issue is when you spend on public property.

Many would love to have a brother to share their material things with.

Such people will never have anything good come to them. These things are laws of nature, you don't need to be religious or not for it to work.

I fear so much for the future. A future where an M.D will be having a meeting high on colos. A future where teachers will come to school braless and pantless.

You're not alone my man. There is something about staying home.

Idleness stimulates hunger. People say they spend less when home, I seem to spend more.

Even with a well stocked house, I find myself ordering treats during weekends or when I'm on leave. Pizza, chicken wings etc. I ignore whats home and begin to order take ins.

Agbado economists at it again. Keep squandering the future of your people.

Instead of cutting down expenses, they borrow more to fund their expensive lifestyle.

Most of you marry tits and ass, you ignore real substance and follow shadow.

It's extremely difficult for a woman that has values to open her legs for any man, most especially one who is married. When you see your wife or girlfriend cheat, just know you're with a slut.

Men and women should learn to keep screening properly before marriage. If you get it wrong, you'll lament for the rest of your life.

Ps: We know it's a figment of your imagination but foolish people like this actually exist.

The number of above 30, beautiful and employed women I meet all the time is alarming. What is really going on? There are more unmarried ladies in their 30s now in Nigeria than the married ones.

Family greed, personal greed and wokeness is going to be the cause of the end of the marriage institution in this country.

Moral of the story is that olosho is an inbuilt trait. There's nothing one can do about it.

People should screen properly the kind of people they marry. No matter how you treat your olosho partner right, if they belong to the streets, they belong to the streets, period!.

Labour? Is that the name of a dog? A toothless one?

Nice one. All the people I have lent money to ended up defaulting. Unfortunately, it has closed doors for those with integrity who may need my help.

I pray for people to be sensible and not over speed. The bridge is not a race track, even though the temptation to floor the gas pedal is there.

The UK is a shit hole. For those who are japa enthusiasts, try other European countries.

First off, what is An Nwa Boy story? I don't understand that grammar, one would think it should be A Nwa Boy story.

Anyway, like most Nigerian Netflix movies, it was bleh. They veered off track. I don't know what exactly they want to achieve by teaching about the igbo apprenticeship and then veering into gangster, blackmail and paternity fraud.

The storyline is a 4.
Acting is a 7.
Cinematography is a 7.
General score is a 6.

It's common with the Northerners. The girls family may be wealthy but personally, i don't like it.

Always best to avoid your inlaws feeding you people or providing things for you people. That's the fastest way to lose your respect and status as the head of the home.

Marrying into a rich home in Nigeria as a man is not as romantic as most people think it is.

If you want a good marriage, put in the work before the marriage. Screen, screen and screen. If you eventually marry the right person for you, it will be much easier.

The major cause of marital problems is a mismatch of people. Desperation and marrying for the wrong reasons is why people eventually have problems in marriage.

Concrete will crack with time. I still prefer asphalt , and it's better to maintain.

Why don't you people on this forum channel your sense of imagination into something productive. Develop your fiction skills and write a novel. Stop wasting away on a faceless forum.

Humans are humans everywhere, it's the systems put in place by the same humans that checks people.

If it was in Nigeria, people will criticise and shame the country. Man by nature is primitive.

These men are without tummy girdles, wigs and makeup, not also forgetting that these are outdated clothes the men are wearing.

The average woman past 30 doesn't look good naked, truth be told.

A woman's performance is mainly measured by her willingness to do anything to please her man, at least for me.

Criminals which includes politicians, militants, pastors etc are the ones running Nigeria.

GeorgeForeman:
I think he's real because I reached out through the number he provided.he sent me his nysc Id and PPA acceptance letter. he even sent me his nin slip sef to confirm his name and phone number.i sha sent him 2k because na wetin I get to give am be that.

Perhaps you can also show the transfer you made to him showing his name matching with his Nysc id card as you seem to be in the verification mood. Those of us with plenty years here have seen a lot, all forms of schemes exist here, nothing new.

Don't date when you are not financially stable, not because you need to provide for anyone but because dating when you are trying to find your feet is a big distraction.

A woman that wants to support you in your hustling days should be the one running after you trying to offer you assistance and not you trying to force a relationship.