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Sammy07:
I only have a question OP.

Hope you later transfer the money back to him since you didn't visit him?

lol.. I didn't send the account

Goldbw122:
Well, just take a break and discuss about the issue simple, and if things go side ways just break up with him and find the right one for you, this life nor get part two but if everything went well then congratulation...

I appreciate your input.

AmgMakanaki:
Lol. Funny enough. Wants to introduce you to a prominent politician on what occasion??. That sound so silly publicly

He's a politician. He holds a political office. But introduce me as what and for what reason is what I don't know

Good evening house. Please I'll need people's opinion on this.

I'm not really good with relationships.

I recently met a guy I had a fling with, with no intention of even being his friend. But he called after some days to ask if I've forgotten him. From there we started relating, he has been to my family house and he has invited me to his home town when he went visiting. He treats me very well whenever I am with him. We can gist and talk about a whole lot of things.
He claims we're in a relationship without asking me out, whenever I tell him it's a fling and friendship we have, he kind of gets hurt. Though he hardly calls me, we can both be online without chatting each other for days.
The issue is that, he invited me to his home town today some days ago, he even offered to send me transport fare but I refused to go because I don't want to continue having s*x with him again and I know he won't let me return home today. When he called to find out why I didn't come and I tried to tell him my reasons, he was pissed, he said I should forget about the foundation of the relationship and let's build on what we have. He said he wanted to introduce me to a prominent politician but I behaved anyhow. He's still not angry oo.
I really don't know what to make of this, do I just take it that we're in a relationship or what is the best thing to do in this situation.

You're doing a nice job. I read through every post and replies.

I need something to do to earn money. I was teaching initially, it's something I love to do but the pay is too low, so I left.
Now I go to offices or meet people to sell oil perfume and slippers, but it's really not my thing.
I wish to relocate to another place to leave family house but the only money I have is about 70k. I've been thinking of how I can achieve that because I have no friend I can squat with for the time being.
I still want to ask you a few personal questions. Can I send you a dm please.

I just checked my dashboard and my friend's. Verification is ongoing

Congratulations op

What kind of public embarrassment is this?
I don't like the way they're treated Jor,
I hope they don't commit suicide after this

Wishing you a successful surgery
May God be with you

Kedro:
name of the bank please.

Sorry to bother you again. It says an error occurred when I tried to submit, do you have any idea what I should do?

Kedro:
name of the bank please.

thanks

Kedro:
This years application approval coming in
I applied 18th March 2021.

please is it my name or the name of the bank that I will input in the bank name

That's highly impressive

SimplyFacts:
That's commendable


Never knew there's Agatu community coz every Benue person na Agatu for our side

Agatu is just one local government.

foruminfo:
consider affiliate marketing and leveraging on existing businesses to create lasting business.

Please can you explain this affiliate marketing a little. I really do not understand it

Ortom Benue State
0/10
Always in the news about Fulani herdsmen as if he cares about his people's welfare.

After keeping her virginity for so many years only to end up commiting an abortion without being properly dis flowered.
It's not every girl who had an abortion that's actually a spoilt child fa.
Op, you are only concerned about protecting your image, have you stopped for a moment to think how this lady feels?
Don't tell me she seduced you oo, you have the power of self control and she didn't point a gun at you.

Saintmary:
If you were my sister I'd shake you till you wake up, because you are dreaming.

What!!!!

At 27, don't you know you're not getting any younger, wasting precious time whining about a guy, are you for real

News flash!!!!!! You don't love the guy.

You're just delusional enough to sustain your infatuation for 11 whole years of your life.

Imagine, your mates are spending the same amount of time giving birth to all their children and planning their future you're here claiming love.

My dear, life goes on. If it ends with him, go out there and meet up with people, enjoy your life, have fun responsibly, meet marriage minded people and settle down with someone you like.

What nonsense

Love koor, madness ni.

P. S. He will still come back and try to have sex with you. Don't be stupid.

Thanks for your honest opinion. Speaking out helps me in getting over things easily. I've not had sex with him before and I don't intend to do that.

DSC7:
What a small world,I never thought you are also a Nairalander....

I still have you in mind dear....


At the right time you will realise how much i love and cherish you...

Aleboss:
They got flogged for playing an intellectual game? This country is doomed

Is he supposed to play the intellectual game in the classroom

Thanks a lot.
I just want to heal emotionally. I'm not interested in him again.

blinking001:
The truth is there's nothing you can do about it OP......they are some people we just can't replace in our lives....not like they're so special or anything but it's just the way you were wired to love them unconditionally....and there is nothing you can do about it but to live with it.....no matter how peaceful and wonderful your present relationship is you'll always think about him......its life....I've got a couple of ladies on my list that's facing same issues because of me......that guy places his happiness and peace of mind before yours...that's the only reason you can't forget him...he's not like the regular guy that's willing to burn in hell for you..lol..
Solution
There is nothing you can do about it...you two will still end up together....you'll always find a way to be together again...there is nothing you can do about that......One thing is certain...that guy feels thesame way as you...but there's something about you that's keeping him from totally loving you......may be your character......

aniplus:
The same way you feel peace when ending it with others who genuinely care about you, is the same way he's feeling peace as he's ended it with you...
That thing you're feeling now, is probably how you also made those others feel.

Karma's a bitch, no?

You don't have to take it personal. How do you know they genuinely cared about me.
The most important thing here for me is moving on

Xenry:
What an interesting story! Well, you better move on and be careful next time. Because some guys ain't worth the effort.

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If I'm a girl, I would do only 'no sex before marriage relationship,' because it's less stressful and you won't feel like you lost anything after break-up. Any guy who can go into no sex relationship with you can also go miles with you. But such guys are rare—very very rare.

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Just block him on your social media accounts, maybe it will help you to forget him easily.

I didn't sleep with him.
He even suggested the no sex relationship because of his christian faith.
Thank you, I've blocked him already but...

madri4u:
Scored 55% this morning, which means am out of the ra.ce. I nor know why Npower nor dey favour me. Two times now l applied for this npower, BVN profile bleeped my style that time. Now the third time now, l dey score low as 55%

Cheer up, there's more to life than Npower. You might even be lucky

Hi fams. I just want to share this because it might ease my pains. Please go easy on the insults that may follow. It might be a lengthy post 'cause I want to pour out my heart.

I'm a 27 years old lady. I met this guy when I was about sixteen. I particularly took note of him unconsciously the first day we met but I waived it aside. I wasn't particularly friendly at this point in my life but somehow we connected and became friends.

We both left where we met to different locations yet we kept in touch. I changed sim card severally and he also lost his severally but somehow we still get connected.

(One thing about me is that, my mind has a way of helping me to make decisions. If I do contrary to my mind's suggestions, most times I regret it.)

While this was on, I had some suitors, but then my mind won't let me marry. Whenever I want to say 'yes' to anyone, it becomes a battle in my mind. Reminding me about the other guy who didn't even ask me out until I turn down the proposal. There's this peace that comes with saying no.

Then in 2018, I decided to get into a relationship which is the worst mistake of my life. My mind was against it as usual but I decided to go on because I can't continue waiting for one guy. I told him it was a no sex relationship which he agreed, I became very free with and around him.
He later forced himself on me because he said I was behaving as if I'm better than him. It was a very traumatic experience because I've kept myself for so many years.

In 2019, my long time friend asked me out. I was very happy because it was what I waited for. Relationship was great, love was real despite the distance and he told me I've been on his mind all these years.
But along the line, he started showing some attitudes like not answering his calls( he's always with his phone), not calling for days and when he calls, he talks very casually. I asked him if there's any issue, he said everything was fine. Until the day I called him and he was talking with a girl while my airtime was burning. I asked him where he was, before then, he'll tell me where he was without asking, but his reply that day was why am I asking. I told him to call me back when he's less busy but he didn't.

I called him some days later to talk. I told him that if he's no longer interested in the relationship, we should peacefully break up instead of becoming enemies which he agreed to. That's how we broke up without a reason.

After some weeks, I asked him for reconciliation and he told me he will get back to me. He didn't, about a month later, he started posting a girl's pictures on WhatsApp and eulogizing her. Sometimes he does this immediately I come online. I was deeply hurt but I accepted or so I thought as part of life.

The issue is, I can't forget him totally no matter how much I try.
I've prayed, stopped talking to him, had relationships which didn't work out.
I don't want him again but I can't forget him. I know I've made stupid decisions in the past but how do I move on from it, is it until he announces his wedding date or when?

Help me out please

zeeace:
me too. I just did now. I scored 55

congratulations

Odalo12:
But it doesn't reach the alloted time before you are signed out

I just took the test after several NPWR/.... Verification failed message since last week Sunday.
I used opera mini

NwaEzefuNaMba:
Omo, I have tried like a 100* today trying to write this test, it keep saying verification failed.
E don choke me for here, abeg expect make e Una help me out oo!

I've been trying to take the test for over a week now but it didn't go through.
My friend tried yesterday with his own phone and it went through, though I was logged out.
Try another device

Odalo12:
Account blocked. Any solution to this

Log in after about six hours. You'll be given one last chance

2sureguy1:
After I successfully updated my details, this is what I get anytime I proceed to the test portal. I have been dealing with this for days. I have even tried so many time at midnight

same experience

Depressedkidd:
Same here. I've stopped dwelling on it. I have things to use my time for. I just try every two or three hours now. used the whole of Saturday Sunday and Monday to click submit. I'll click till it tells me that my login session has expired, I'll login again, fill details and repeat. It's just sad that a whole govt site will be this frustrating to upload less than 1mb of information

I've stopped dedicating my day and night to it. I try when I can now

oluwafemiabioye:
I faced similar challenge on Sunday when I tried doing mine. It's most likely because you haven't completely updated your documents. If you are using a phone I will suggest you set your chrome to desktop view and then upload all necessary documents. After that try writing the test again.

I did but it didn't work

khairate:
Same thing for about 3days now. No matter how viable the network is. I even tried at midnight, still no luck

My experience too for over three days now