₦airaland Forum

Ozzyk:
I'm on 6 weeks leave immediately after our wedding
She resumes work the 3rd week after our wedding
Whenever she goes to work I do the cooking, and cleaning and other basic home duties before she comes back from work.
By the time she comes back she'd just eat press phone and sleep
But still all these doesn't yield anything positive
I stopped doing the home works since it yields nothing

Kai, I know the first few months of marriage is the hardest, but this una own no follow. Some women don't know it's their attitude towards sex that push their faithful husbands to cheat.

Diamond098454:
But you have been sleeping with her throughout your courtship a month of no sex won't kill you

Why una no de ever read wetin them write? Is there a price for rushing to comment?

Eniolohunmo2:
You givn me memories Mahn! It was Mama and End of the Road for me then.....those songs hit differently bro.

Honestly, it hits me harder knowing that the "world" around us see the good things we appreciated just yesterday are now labelled "old school". Time changes yesterday.

GanagiBitrus:
I no know the kind gum wey dem take gum that imperial Leather sticker.
Water no dey ever comot am.
It sticks till the soap finishes.

I been de listen to my Boyz II men de go jejely, them come leave me behind. I no de even know say things de go leave me. So imperial leather na old school now?

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PulaPower:
But this one like Bag of Onions isn’t a fine girl..

She for let fine girls do the talking..

Bloggers de call every girl wey do viral video " fine girl"

Sonnobax15:
. Jennyclay,you don't know me . I'd have really loved for you to hear it from my banny's mouth on how I've been supportive to her . Don't assume everyman out there's like those men who've been toasting you . Just like it's in Physics --"Like terms attract each other" ,so it's with relationship..... you should change your circle, perhaps when you do,you may end up attracting men like my type even tho we're almost going into extinction

This has nothing to do with your argument with the Jenny girl. I stopped physics as a subject about twenty years ago, but are you sure physics states that like poles attract? Isn't it supposed to be the opposite?

brain54:
Cute dog...

Rip to your dog.

I know someone that had a 26 year old dog. The dog was so old. Nobody saw it die or the body. It just went out one calm evening and never returned.

The owner looked for it but never found it.

Someone said some dogs usually do that when they have premonitions of their death.

I also remember they was a dog on a street close to where I lived as a kid. I avoided that street because of the dog as it always barked at me and chased me one particular day.

I can't remember the particular age but it was well over 20 years old.

It later died and I remember being very happy and started going to the compound to throw sticks at fruits hanging from the tree there!

Cats do that more. It's so rare to find the body of your beloved old cat. They leave when they're old, come back to spy sometimes, then disappear forever.

bigpicture001:
For me... It's makinde... Funny enough I am Igbo and an Obidient...

Give honour to whom it is due

1. Makinde

2. Soludo

3. Otti

I don't understand, funny enough because of what? Igbos usually don't accept good things from/ by others or what? Why many of una de carry tribe for head on every single topic on this Nairaland?

Prosperous111:
Black Africans don't learn. I can never marry oyinbo for my life

Them even put picture for you, you still call her Oyinbo.

Be wary of people who complain too much. I would have said , if given the opportunity, he would do worse, but no need to say it. I was in Anambra at the time he was governor.

Banbanna:
They don't at all.
Not wanting to belittle their taste of music, sometimes, I wonder whether they give a damn about ol" school songs at all. Because they're so consumed by trending music.
D'Angelo's death is even more heartbreaking to his son who lost his mother, Singer Angie Stone just few months ago. May both of their souls rest in peace.

Angie Stone has a son with D'Angelo and she's dead too? I've really lost touch with the music world.

Who be this "grace" wey all these girls de always talk about? He must be a very rich man.

Smitaro100:
It can neva happen in naija because dem go don thief enough funds for their generations yet unborn.. infact doing this is like belittling their status quo.

This one right here is about passion, not money.

Double0h7:
Live - to reside,

Leave- to go

I don’t know why ppl on nl struggle with the use of those two words. It pains my soul when I see this error.

Yeah, me too, but do people still write people as "ppl" in this 2025 that we're living in like this? These things truly hurt my soul too.

Achor1111:
Na hand to hand they will share the money, then use it for investment outside country.
Common citizen won't benefit from it

Alia doesn't follow the usual style of collecting and sharing or swallowing all for himself like other past governors of Benue, so the elites do not like him and are doing everything for people like you and others outside the state to hate him.

sleek214:
Interesting... Pepper soup money for business. So na 10k you give person to start business, na WA oo. All those that need 10k to start business, line up here, at least I can sponsor about 80 people to start business

I think she was just having fun, but it's like most Nigerians blood de hot too much for jokes these days. However, na the question wey come my mind when I see that "plate of catfish pepper soup" naim you analyse so. Na wetin spoil the joke.

MorataFC:
Lol 😂 😂 😂
Ai has not changed anything ,This has been the result from the creation .

This is Nigeria CENSUS in 2006.

Na wah o. Where did I get my idea from again? I've been so sure. Abi na dem say- dem say I follow? Okay o, you win.

It's sights like this that get me consoled sometimes when I remember how I chase the finer things in life. That fine girl ( in this instant) that you want to commit suicide over, if God gives the both of you long life, you would know that time changes everything. I don't know how else to express what I mean.

MorataFC:
Bring out your stats , and if you win , i will give you half of my weekly wages.

Ai has changed it o. Perhaps all these trans and lesbos identify more as males in these crazy times. However, I was not refering to these times, so bring all you wages come make I spend this weekend.

lawani:
Northerners font make noise on social media because they are not well represented on social media or rather they make the little noise they can with their number on social media.

I don't think so. Trust me, they were the most humble and trustworthy humans you could ever find in Nigeria until recentl times (I assume you know what I mean). However, I still think it's some of those traits that's holding them down from being loud-mouthed like other regions.

Samantha125:
But Borno state is always in the news and your Northerners make good quality movies judging by the few that I've watched on Netflix... Their movies are not predictable like those usual Nigerian movies... My sister used to watch them and I didn't find anything interesting about them until I came across the ones from the Northern part of Nigeria.

And their women can dress, they're the perfect definition of how you don't need to be half naked in order to look good.

Indeed, Borno has been the epicenter of terrorist activity, or perhaps it is more accurate to say it is the source of much news concerning terrorism in contemporary Nigeria. This is why it regularly features in the headlines. However, it may surprise you to learn that even when news from that region goes viral, the majority of commentary does not emanate from the North.

MorataFC:
Men always outnumbered women

False, in this world, women over outnumber men.

Samantha125:
It's the first time I'm knowing about Kebbi state, it's like the people from there are well behaved and too silent.

Generally, the North doesn't make noise like other parts of Nigeria. Even when they were in power, they were silent, leaving the others, particularly Igbos and Yorubas , to continue with their noises, even till today. You can confirm about that from any topic even here on Nairaland.

I don't lock any of my devices, reason is, if it gets lost and is found by a good person, he/she would call me or a close contact, or answer to whoever calls, helping me to get it back. If na bad person, toh, Otilo as they say these days.

Zocalite:
You are just saying things vaguely

Even asking when I was born - lolzzzzz

gej era as bad as it was, is better than buhari or tinubu era - that's a fact

And it's also not a standard for good governance

You can twist narrative to others Sha, but not me

You asked a question after reading my comment. I answered you and you replied with exactly what I meant. Are you sure you don't have a problem? Were you bouncing and smiling as is depicted in that picture then? Or you went back and researched on the internet about how things were and was going to be during and after Oga Jona's reign, since you weren't born then? You think Nigeria would have been better if Jonathan had continued? Continue to sleep. I no de fit argue with person wey carry political party, tribe or religion for head.

Zocalite:
"People died like chicken" - how



Compared to the next two government, nothing flawed about the picture



Except you are a apc crony

I expected that from APC/PDP party people like you. When were you born? Or again, do you forget like fish like the average Nigerian crowd? Did you know there was a time we were not allowed to get into crowds with hand bags? Why was that? In fact, if you want to mention anything good about Nigeria, Jonathan shouldn't be your reference.

The second picture is flawed but unfutunately the average Nigerian crowd will see it as true. Nigeria started bleeding a long time ago and was only made very obvious during Jonathan until today. People died like chickens too during Jonathan's regime. Only Gen Z's or tribal/religious bigots would believe we were living in Paradise those days.

omoredia:
The people that deny Christian genocide in Nigeria can lie about anything. If it was an ibo man's refinery they will shut it down even before they were asked

What is the connection between this comment and the topic

King2305:
To be very honest, all the trash you there ended up for[i][/i] poster and even gave a more glaring view to his post.

So u now admit say na woman do woman?

Based on ur gibberish "A sidechick has a high opportunity for growth more than the wife"

You are technically saying and affirming that "wife" should get a divorce so as to be a sidechick. In other word, to have a better chance for growth?

That also validates OP claim that a wife gets divorced and ends up being a sidechick. That is his argument.

Whether they have better opportunity or not is not OPs argument. But you have now open our innermost eyes to a better career opportunity as an advantage of being a divorced sidechick. Which I will end up saying is the most useless argument of 21st century.

Also, just like what one guy said, no sane man would leave his wife for a sidechick not to mention "divorced, 8th hand, borehole sidechick"

I don't know if that junkie guy is trying to woo a lady here, Check ANY topic that has to do with gender, He intentionally wants to be on the side of women, even if the topic is obviously exposing the wrong side of women.

Babaibeji2020:
Well.....might be karma at play!
....show me your friend and I will tell you who and what you are.
Maybe she has slept with her best friend's man.....just maybe she had been sleeping with other women's husband.....just maybe!
That she boldly walked away shows she has been in that situation before, though she was the tormentor now she's vowing not to be tormented.......
....Can't eat your cake and have it,those prayers you made married women to subject themselves to has finally been approved, face it,probably with prayers too......

Gbam! Final comment. This is often the way the world unfolds. You find yourself profoundly wounded by the same actions you once inflicted on others, yet you continue to ponder how humans can be so cruel, conveniently and deliberately ignoring that you have been just as cruel as the one who currently wrongs you. Last last, alcohol is something else, if not, how I go take reason this kind thing wey I type so? But is it not true?