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Jokes EtcWhen Hot Girls Finally Graduate From Covenant University by zeefa(op): 11:53am On Nov 13, 2014
......they will be like....the koko don start and no dolling........ grin grin

PoliticsBuhari Versus Goodluck Declaration Crowd. Which One Is More Promising? by zeefa(op): 4:55pm On Nov 12, 2014
The first picture shows the turn out at President Jonathan's declaration at the eagles square in Abuja yesterday.

Second Picture shows Muhammadu Buhari of the APC declared at the same Eagles square and there was no space for people to even stand. No one was given a kobo to attend.

Which one of the two pictures gives us the reality and mind of Nigerians?

PoliticsJJ Okocha, Kanu & Peter Rufai Spotted During GEJ Declaration At The Eagle Square by zeefa(op):
Nairalander, Could anyone here tell me what this guyz are doing here.......( To support the President?) Wow...

Our youth can never learn and fight for change in this country, Instead they all go about licking the foot of our corrupt leaders.

This is really sad...... this guyz are suppose to join the campaign to fix the Nigerian football.

Clueless people looking for cheap recognition.

CelebritiesWhere Is Sky B. .dead or alive? by zeefa(op):
Sky B. This 9ja guy made name for his self in 2007 with his debut album "Pray For Me" which sold nearly 1 miliion CD copies minus pirated copies, what really made that album tick was the hit track "I"m Calling" which made 9ja especially the Eastern part of Nigeria sit up! And go "gaga". The other tracks where hits also, some done with slow emotion laden beats and some done with what was considered party beats back then, although compared to now, those party beats are outdated can't match the current one produced now.Based in Portharcourt Nigeria's Sky B was famous for how he mixes great vocals with local flavour producing a genre of Hip hop which we havn't seen of recent. Not even the likes of Baby oku crowner Flavour and 9ice can match him on that, the guy was so talented that people started grading him on par with the likes of P.square and 2face(both of them seniors).Year 2008 Sky B was tipped to become a long time member of Nigeria's music industry, as bright and young as he is many expected him to become one of the pillars of 9ja music, as he was in the same form with Alingo crowners the group known as P.square, Ihe na eme artist 2face and the 9ja beef master Ruggedman not forgetting Idris. For a promising talent who burst into limelight to vanish like that is beyond comprehension, how many current Naija artist made it into limelight on their first try? Only two I know of Timaya and Sky B, Timaya with his first Album, that hit 1 million copies sold since then he havn't looked back.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1ZvbIhg-xo

Sky B six years counting

Is now six years since Sky B vanished from Nigeria's music scence, like a whirl wind, he vanished into thin air. While Sky B went into self-exile,P.square, 2face, D'banj and others has risen, they are growing from strength to strength, in six years P.square has produced over 2 dozens of solos, a handful of collabos, many awards, has signed record contracts with foreign record label, became ambassadors to many organizations particulary Globacom.2face on the other hand is not left out, 2face is an example of a succesfull music artist, has won many awards, has collaborated with top International music artist, has won many Children (if you consider that an achievement) has finally settled down.The koko master himself D'banj is not left out, in six years he has his own record label, collabos with many local and International artist, many awards.In six years many new artist have entered 9ja music industry, during that period we have seen muscians like Flavour N'bania, KC, Wandy cole, African rapper no.1 M.I, Iceprince, Olamide, Nato C, Omawumi, Stomrex to name a few. Producers has risen to the challenge and has produced excellent beats, in many cases it is the beats that makes a song sell, if you doubt me listen to Iyanya's "Kukere". In six years party beats has evolved to a new level no longer what is used to be, the senior artist has also adapted like P.square first 100 percent party beat produced "Alingo".
Everything has changed, the beats, the artist So Sky B has vanished, is he sleeping? Is the competition too much for him? Is he dead? Sky B where are you?. I'll try and find out even if it entails going to PH.
TravelRe: Canadian Immigration Scam Alert.(swiftravelsolution.com) by zeefa(op): 3:19pm On Sep 10, 2014
The agent advised him that it won't a good moves to declare that he used the agent because that may affect his application. And unfortunately it caused a damage to him.

All I need from the house is experts that can help track the guyz. And anybody could help use their email address to see if they would respond to immigration services.

Their address is on the website.

Thanks.
TravelRe: Canadian Immigration Scam Alert.(swiftravelsolution.com) by zeefa(op): 4:15pm On Sep 09, 2014
...Not funny at all, the picture posted is that of Emily White, One of the agent in swift travels.
TravelCanadian Immigration Scam Alert.(swiftravelsolution.com) by zeefa(op): 3:50pm On Sep 09, 2014
Good day everyone in the house. Please i heard of a sad story and i want to share it with people in the house so that the Virus of the scam wont spreed in Nigeria.

A friend of mine was scammed $15,000 by Canadian Immigration application agency ( Swift travels Solutions) with the website address http://swifttravelsolution.com. for a work permit visa TRV to Canada.

he paid the $ 7, 800 to their office address in the United State (590 Great Circle Rd. Nashville, TN 37228) and they sent him LMO and Job offer Letter from the company the agent arranged from him, Not knowing it was a fake document until the embassy confirmed it.

Prior to the submission of his application, this same agent asked him to pay $6000 for accommodation in Canada which is one of the clearance from the CIC that he was ready to relocate for the job in Canada. He went ahead again to pay $6000 for the accommodation and the receipt was scanned and sent to him through his email address. ( I know so many people will be surprise and tag him as being stupid but this people are just too real to ever be fake ).

He made his application to the Canadian Embassy with the documents from swift travels solution and after three months of the application processing time, The Embassy invited him for a chat on the fake documents ( LMO ) and he was asked if he used an agent but he declined and he was denied on the ground of using fake documents.

He contacted the agent and they promise to refund his money but up till today, efforts to get through to them proof abortive and to no avail. they no longer take his calls and even respond to emails.

Please if anyone have an idea of how to track this people, Let us try and help out. I have the email address of the agent and their website is still active.

People should be vigilant of this agent. I am sure all the pictures on their website are fake pictures. if you get any email or pop up advert from swift travels for any immigration assistance, Please try as much as possible to discard them so that you wont fall to be a victim.

http://swifttravelsolution.com/travel-consultants.html

TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by zeefa: 3:17pm On Jan 02, 2014
ojoolajire: Oga , you don't need a rocket science to understand that TRV applies for people who wants to stay temporarily in Canada as the name implies. Also you can work while been a student , you just have to wait for six months or u can work immediately on Campus only.

Anyways , wait till I get my TRV this week and I will explain to you better . Cheers
Ok.
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by zeefa: 2:21pm On Jan 02, 2014
ChriGo: ......My brother....I do not agree with your Long explanation of TRV....you said TRV is only meant for people that applied for work permit....Owning to the Acronym TRV which means Temporary Residence Visa, are you gonna tell me its only the working class that stays Temporarily in Canada?....i don't Think so bro.....Temporary Residence Visa is a generalized word meant for peeps coming to reside in Canada for a Temporary Purpose....Be it Student,Visitors,Tourist,Workers.....So please bro, i would always fault you on your statement biko........you can check this for clearer view http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/information/applications/visa.asp ......TRV is not meant for people that applied for work permit alone.......
Ogbeni, y can't you just read and understand the link you sent to back your argument up. I neva zd its only the people that applied for TRV . As a student, you will only be given a student visa and u cld apply for work permit visa as soon as u finished ur program in canada.

Please, go through the link again and stop given people a false hope Mr immigration expert.

If you have or know someone that has a student visa already. Why cnt you just ask them the type of visa canada gave to them as a student.

I neva zd student can't apply for a work permit, but that wld b after your study as a student in canada.

Everything is stated in their website pls
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by zeefa: 8:50am On Jan 02, 2014
ojoolajire: You apply for TRV and u will obtain study permit when u get to Canada I think . You have to have a visa b4 u can apply for work permit. after u get TRV , and u get study permit in Canada, after 6months I think u can then apply for work permit. so it is pretty different I think
You are gettin it all wrong man. TRV means temporary residence visa that is meant for people that applied for work permit in canada. I said it earlier in one of my post that student visa doesn't go with TRV. If you have a student visa, at the point of entry in canada, you will get study permit that allow you 2 stay in canada for studies, remba you are not allowed to work as a student. And work permit means you are allowed to work.

Please, get all dis clear and don't mix things up.
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by zeefa: 8:25am On Jan 02, 2014
surveyor1: I want you to know that trv processing time is different from federal skill worker processing time. Before you applied; did you check whether your skill is on the occupational list, IELTS score, age. Remember is a point based system. Also, did you do credential assessment with your skill body in canada. All these are steps you need to take before you apply. I guess your application is invalid, because you should have receive acknowledgement letter by now
U guyz should understand that there are differences btw student visa and TRV visas to canada. If you have a student visa, at the point of entry in canada, you will be issued with study permit.

But in the case of TRV

Canadian Work Permits

Canada has some of the best employment opportunities of anywhere in the world. The country relies on a steady stream of immigrant workers who come both to work and to live in Canada. This beautiful country attracts many thousands of people every month due to its booming economy and welcoming attitude,

A Canada work permit is a well-known stepping stone to residency and applications for visas of this kind are designed to help Canadian employers who are finding it difficult to fill positions with Canadian permanent residents or Canadian citizens. However, we aim to ensure your Work Permit can act as a stepping stone to Citizenship.

Applying for a Canadian working permit makes provision for working in Canada without the need to undergo a points based assessment. Canadian work permits allow you to work in the country; however, they are dependent upon a job offer from a sponsoring company.

Working permits are not transferable, although you can apply for a Canadian visa for immigration of another type during your stay. Whilst in Canada, immigration status can only be altered in this way so long as your permit is still valid.

Who is Eligible? 

A Canada work permit rests upon a written job offer from an employer.

Once you have received such an offer, in most cases it is then subject to confirmation by Human Resources and Skills Development Canada (HRSDC) who will assess the likely impact of employing a foreign national in the position in question, to ensure that the employment is genuine and that it will not impact negatively on the domestic labour market.

HRSDC 

Once HRSDC confirms that job offers may be filled by foreign nationals, applicants may request Canadian working permits from Citizenship and Immigration Canada (CIC).

Foreign workers seeking to work in Quebec will also require authorization from the Quebec immigration authorities.

Employers sponsoring a foreign national for a work visas in this way are responsible for ensuring that the candidate is in possession of the necessary permits and that they adhere to the appropriate conditions and limitations.

Further Criteria

For your case to be approved, you will have to supply evidence to the Canadian government that you are in good health and do not have any serious criminal convictions. This evidence will take the form of a medical examination and a full police report from your current country of residence. 

A Path to a New Life in Canada

Work permits are a great way of getting that all-important work experience that you need to take the next steps in becoming a citizen. Although work permits are temporary, some people see them as an ideal route to a longer-term solution. One of our clients explains how this worked for him:

“Getting my Canada work permit was the first step for me becoming a citizen. I know that this is not what Work Permits are for but after working in Canada, I completely fell in love with the country. Originally, I contacted IXP to help me find work anywhere- I was simply desperate to find new opportunities away from home country. Then an opportunity arose in Canada, although it was only temporary. I decided to take my chances and soon enough I was working just outside of Edmonton. Once my permit was almost up, I called IXP again to see what they could do for me; I wanted to stay but didn’t know if I would be able to. Thanks to my new work experience in Canada, I was allowed to apply for a longer term visa once I had secured a new job offer. It took a lot of hard work but I knew that IXP were trying their best to find work for me. They put me in touch with a local employer who was willing to sponsor me and that led to me on the path to citizenship.”

Pls read the above to kw better
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by zeefa: 8:23am On Jan 02, 2014
surveyor1: I want you to know that trv processing time is different from federal skill worker processing time. Before you applied; did you check whether your skill is on the occupational list, IELTS score, age. Remember is a point based system. Also, did you do credential assessment with your skill body in canada. All these are steps you need to take before you apply. I guess your application is invalid, because you should have receive acknowledgement letter by now
U guyz should understand that there are differences btw student visa and TRV visas to canada. If you have a student visa, at the point of entry in canada, you will be issued with study permit.

But in the case of TRV

Canadian Work Permits

Canada has some of the best employment opportunities of anywhere in the world. The country relies on a steady stream of immigrant workers who come both to work and to live in Canada. This beautiful country attracts many thousands of people every month due to its booming economy and welcoming attitude,

A Canada work permit is a well-known stepping stone to residency and applications for visas of this kind are designed to help Canadian employers who are finding it difficult to fill positions with Canadian permanent residents or Canadian citizens. However, we aim to ensure your Work Permit can act as a stepping stone to Citizenship.

Applying for a Canadian working permit makes provision for working in Canada without the need to undergo a points based assessment. Canadian work permits allow you to work in the country; however, they are dependent upon a job offer from a sponsoring company.

Working permits are not transferable, although you can apply for a Canadian visa for immigration of another type during your stay. Whilst in Canada, immigration status can only be altered in this way so long as your permit is still valid.

Who is Eligible? 

A Canada work permit rests upon a written job offer from an employer.

Once you have received such an offer, in most cases it is then subject to confirmation by Human Resources and Skills Development Canada (HRSDC) who will assess the likely impact of employing a foreign national in the position in question, to ensure that the employment is genuine and that it will not impact negatively on the domestic labour market.

HRSDC 

Once HRSDC confirms that job offers may be filled by foreign nationals, applicants may request Canadian working permits from Citizenship and Immigration Canada (CIC).

Foreign workers seeking to work in Quebec will also require authorization from the Quebec immigration authorities.

Employers sponsoring a foreign national for a work visas in this way are responsible for ensuring that the candidate is in possession of the necessary permits and that they adhere to the appropriate conditions and limitations.

Further Criteria

For your case to be approved, you will have to supply evidence to the Canadian government that you are in good health and do not have any serious criminal convictions. This evidence will take the form of a medical examination and a full police report from your current country of residence. 

A Path to a New Life in Canada

Work permits are a great way of getting that all-important work experience that you need to take the next steps in becoming a citizen. Although work permits are temporary, some people see them as an ideal route to a longer-term solution. One of our clients explains how this worked for him:

“Getting my Canada work permit was the first step for me becoming a citizen. I know that this is not what Work Permits are for but after working in Canada, I completely fell in love with the country. Originally, I contacted IXP to help me find work anywhere- I was simply desperate to find new opportunities away from home country. Then an opportunity arose in Canada, although it was only temporary. I decided to take my chances and soon enough I was working just outside of Edmonton. Once my permit was almost up, I called IXP again to see what they could do for me; I wanted to stay but didn’t know if I would be able to. Thanks to my new work experience in Canada, I was allowed to apply for a longer term visa once I had secured a new job offer. It took a lot of hard work but I knew that IXP were trying their best to find work for me. They put me in touch with a local employer who was willing to sponsor me and that led to me on the path to citizenship.”

Pls ready the above to kw better
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by zeefa:
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FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op): 4:51pm On Oct 18, 2013
When we have issues, the whole nairaland following my story contributed. I wish to use this medium to announce the arrival of our lovely baby. Morenike just gave me a bouncing baby girl$

I will upload her picture soon.

Besides, we I have a lot of updates which I will share to the house later.

Thanks to you all.
EducationRe: Chemical Engineering Vs Petroleum Engineering by zeefa: 12:57pm On Sep 17, 2013
I studied chemical engineering and for the past 9yrs, av bn working as a quality control engineer both in nigeria and the middle east, qatar, abudhabi and oman(which is purely mechanical)
Well, as a chemical engineer, I think you are flexible especially when you are opportune to get an oil gas job.

For me, I still prefer Mechanical Engineering.
PoliticsRe: Asari Dokubo's Mansion In Port Harcourt by zeefa: 6:58pm On Jun 15, 2013
Billyonaire: Nairalanders and beef. Are Niger Deltans supposed to work in reality ? Listen, Niger Deltans are not supposed to work a day in their lives. How hard do Qatar citizens work ? How hard do Kuwaitis work ? Congrats to Asari.
Yes oo my brother, Qatari dnt really work because of the wealth which is evenly distributed in their country. So people shouldn't blame the hausa man from bayelsa how he got money to built the manson. Thumb up 4 u man.
CelebritiesRe: Tinsel Stars, Chuks And Eneh Weds (Picture) by zeefa: 12:30pm On Apr 18, 2013
I op she is AA cos I learnt chucks is SS! So they nid 2 watch ot o!
FamilyRe: He Wants Sex Every Night. by zeefa: 11:05am On Apr 13, 2013
Op, wht is ur business in ur sister marital affairs! In my own case, they shld b able 2 sort themseleves out as a couple. And am not sure any sane man would demand for sex every damn night. Its just impossible unless he isn't a humanbeing. Even scientists haven't proving that right in researches. So go & mind your own aburoko buz and allow them beee! Lo ba tan
EducationRe: Riot In Lautech As Students Mob Pregnant Lecturer + Victims (Photos) by zeefa: 7:17pm On Apr 09, 2013
blackmann: That front gate is usually a deadly place for the students. During my days as a student in Lautech we had numerous loss of lives there and several riots. Vehicles speeding from Ilorin don't even bother slowing down when the approach that area. It got to a point the skool closed that gate permanently and all students used the Under-G road (the back entrance).

May their souls RIP.
Great ladokite! Yh I cld remba dos days, 1996/7 in lautech! D dangote rice trailer saga @ General, & series of accidents b4 they finally divert student 2 underG. O ga ju!

May d souls of the affected rest in peace!
FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op): 1:00pm On Apr 07, 2013
seyi42k: Hi Zeefa,

Nollywood script or not, reality is often times stranger than fiction. Take a break from everything; posting on nairaland, talking with your friend, thinking about this issue etc. Go to disneyland or something.

You have learnt some lessons which everybody that has read this thread will add to their own lives. Points of note for you, me and everyone.

1. Never register all your assets in the name of another in the name of love. Lawyers always advice against it because of issues like the one you have mentioned. Always seek fair representation, especially in societies overly sympathetic to a gender over the other, e.g. western societies are too feminine while african societies are too masculine. Again, always seek fair representation.

2. When this is over, forgive her threats. It could be a result of hormonal changes due to the pregnancy.

3. Cut down on your calls to your friend. However, there is nothing wrong in talking to a friend for over 2 hours daily. In fact the same scenario plays out in the small company I am working with now. I and my boss were former bankers who left banking last year. It was his friend in the UK who gave him 25% of his registered company so that he can manage it. The company is a success story so far. People should go and read the story of Goldman Sachs on how a family business can become a global giant. It often starts from relationships such as yours.

Also, try to get your wife into intellectual discussions which could stimulate better communication between both of you. I have discovered that people with analytical/philosophical minds always have something to discuss every hour of the day. I always imagine myself living in the same room with Gani, Wole Soyinka and Chinua Achebe. Just imagine the quality and quantity of discussions.

4. As for your MIL. Seek counselling from your pastor.

5. Lastly, wetin all of una dey do for UK? If you are well to do, get an equivalent job in Nigeria and come make an impact here. I hear you talking about Solar for Ondo State. That is fantastic. However, it is your insistence to become a UK citizen that has given your wife an edge over you. Come back to Nigeria and build your wealth.

The company that I work, which I spoke about above, been managed by my boss has made more money than the one in the UK. Infact, the other owners are now seriously considering relocating so that their children can understand what it means to be blessed and not take things for granted.

If you have the connections that landed you a contract with the Ondo state govt. You should grow this connection and make an impact in the society while growing your wealth. This will be to the overall benefit of your family.

Please take good care of your wife.

Good luck.
Thanks so much seyi42k! Its nice reading ur comments. I'm also working on something but need to settle that before making my way back home. Ile labo simi oko! No one luv 2 b a slave in another man's country. As soon as things get stabilized! Naija here I come 2 milk the oil money!

Anywa! Thanks so much for all ur contributions.
FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op):
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I need to open up this new page without having to quote anyone cos so many people have done just perfect to have followed up my thrend and drop a good comment. However, I commend those with negative contributions too cos they are also part of progress am about experiencing at the moment to better my marriage.

Frankly speaking, your comments have been making waves in sorting us out a little bit cos despite the commencement of the whole problem, the calls goes on. But right now, I had to get home from work, check ppls comments on NL & May be discuss with him for just half an hour & st8t to bed.

I will use dis opportunity to answer few questions from the comments!


1. How long is the marriage btw Us?

The marriage btw Morenike & I clocked 3yrs feb 2013.


2. No of kids?

God just answered us and we are expecting a baby soon by his grace.


3. If she is a nigerian.

She finished her secondary school in Fakunle comprehensive high school in osogbo, osun state nigeria and university education in the united kingdom. we met in a friends child dedication three months after I relocated to uk.


Useful facts!

We stays in our own apartment which we bought 2011 with my share being 70% from the total cost of the properties. Although its by mortgage but all the documents were prepared under her name cos of all the rights she has over me as a UK citizen.

I know so many ppl will attack me for taken the above action but I see her as my wife and never thought of any instance that might root the case out of us in a negative way. I have accepted her after our marriage and building our home should be our topmost idea which I prioritized.

Negative comments from the Thrend.

Some people castigated my useful calls to my friend and even tag it to be a Guy stuff.....

For your information, we don't discuss issues that won't better our life....let me tell you for example, he is an electrical engineer, for the last 2ys he has been working on solar energy & innovations. And part of our crew put some finishing touches to the team that came 2 naija 2 install that of ondo state.

All we talk are based on how to develop ourselves, most especially in a land where you don't have a family that would checkmate you or give you directions.

I got converted to a xtain abt 14yrs ago in the university. Dayo is a gud Muslim but one thing that surprised me is that, that didn't stop our friendship. In fact, I tried getting him converted too but he is so principled and focus that he holds on2 his religion and never discourage my decision.

People should know that there are people out there ready to do anything just to see a smile on their fellow humans face.

I don't kw ao it goes, but I must confess all we talk about are some important issues and not those ones that would affect or be of a negative impact to us as a whole.

Dayo has 3 kids and his wife is from rivers state Bonny lady precisely! Most atyms I wonder y tribe can't really play a good impacts on our side having married a yoruba lady whom I think should understand better and keep devil off our path on the so called scenario.


Conclusion.
My MIL according to the Pastor called him on phone and the has taken a full charge of the heat. But it wasn't funny that they didn't mention the threats and warnings given to the pastor.

Well,we were both there yesterday & the pastor advised us together and called me to a separate room and insist I reduced the calls from dayo or take time to hang out weekends to discuss fatal issues if need be.

He also warned me of my MIL and said he will keep praying along side with me for a breakthrough.

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Right now, things are little bit down but I noticed she is always looking sick due to her condition. We didn't go to church today cos she complained of not feeling so good and vomited that I had to clean up and made her breakfast. As am updating here on NL she is on the bed sleeping after I got her hot custard & chips.

The Pastor didn't allow us to give details on the cause of the problem. He only advise us and asked us to stand as husband and wife, seeing it has one of the challenges of marriages so many atimes ppl face in life.


BUT as for me, the Q is, how do I gradually help mysf from it.... Then from what happened, I have gained a lot of things and its making me not to be too free to Mprenike again! Do I just let go & start another life with HER after her nasty threats?

I'm here 2 at least reduce that actions of mine.......but Morenike really hurt my feelings & our baby is all I look up to see right now.

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I still need to call her cos we still have to settle out some critical issue that only the both of us could settle.....

Thanks everybody for all your contrubutions! Am so so glad and I think I have to be off nl for awhile.
I hope to let you kw when the final part of it comes out.

Thanks u thank u thank u............great ppu of naitaland, admin & seun for a gud forum initsiatives. Am so grateful.

Pls note that the real name of my wife isn't used on the post, so ppu shld not relate my personal notes to anyone! ThÀnk u
FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op): 7:21am On Apr 06, 2013
Mr Tumble: @op From your story I can see that your wife is a medical doctor and was assisted by this your same friend during her plab days and you on HSMP. She wants you to sacrifice your friendship for your marriage. My question is why will you be on HSMP and still be fearful of RP threat? Provided you have no wrong doing be it assault, then I don't see why your ground should be shaking and the need for associated trembling. For you to be this worried means you either not on HSMP or you are worried about your marriage and not RP. If you are worried because of the RP it implies that your HSMP claim is invalid and your story is far from the truth. If you are worried because of your marriage then I can understand that, and your concerns about salvaging your marriage. From my own point of view....If it is about your marriage then, unfortunately you have to weigh your options because if you pretend and play along till you get your RP will you still be willing to be with her? what kind of threat will she be issuing, probably the assault and neglect or rape? A woman or man issuing any kind of threat be it divorce or RP threat just because he or she has an advantage over your status not your life has no wife or husband credentials and hence not a wife or husband material. If your HSMP story is valid then I don't see what you have to loose from her threat. Marriage is not about threat or taking advantage of one another.Provided you two can have a dialogue and reach a consensus not you obeying a threat order. If you go on to pretend till you get your RP then divorce her then its obvious its all sham. She is taking advantage of the fact that you need her RP.To me thats slavery 21st century. That shouldn't fly. Lastly,putting your life in the hands of a woman is not a good thing to do. which seems to be what you have done knowingly or unknowingly. Set yourself free as you are not different from other Nigerians marrying white ladies and if they don't conform to the ideology or lifestyle of the ladies involved they get threatened over their immigration status...thats





exactly what am seeing here. Why be a slave? No offence.
Yah, I am not afraid of her threat on the issue of the RP cos I came in with HSMP years ago. Its subjected to a renewer with some back up documents. One the other hand, she has a RED passport which means, if I change to be under her, things would be much more easier for me.

Yh, you are right, she is a medical doctor with a Masters in Public health. And I am a subsea Engr as well managing with a coy arnd the shore of scotland.

I'm hoping God will intervene. Thanks to you all for your words of encouragements.
FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op): 5:33pm On Apr 05, 2013
Wow! I have entered front Page! I just hope Morenike won't be reading these now. Well, its nice cos I need something good to come out of the marriage NOT just the way she chooses to act lately.

Thank you NL for pushing it forward, I will take my time to read the response from peoples comments and contributions later when am free.

* the Question I need to ask people reading this post is if they ever tasted being so close to som1. This is just what I experience and its hs been so wonderful with dayo. A friend like more than a brother. My brother from another woman as I always call him.

So many people are reading meanings cos u haven't been involve in2 such before!

Well, for people who just came across my present predicaments of mine. We have been in2 dis case for a week now. And am hoping things would take shape soon.

With Morenike present threat, its seems am about to change my body language and fast forward actions against her.

My PR is at stake here.....coupled up with the new added threats she dropped on the table few days ago.

I am not sure she is NL fan but at the sametime, I have committed no crime seeking peoples opinion on what would help us both resolve clear the cracks between us.

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Coming up on the real arguments on PR issue with her..ki olorun komi yo ni o.
FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op): 1:40pm On Apr 05, 2013
Ishilove: That's why I want you to check. You don't know the best hands but you have automatically labelled us wack and tasteless angry


Coogar, when I have your time I will take up your challenge, but as it is I have my plate full with this: www.nairaland.com/1205583/iyawo-nylon-bag

Once I update today, I will now relax and find the best time and place to trash your philistine's asss grin
wwww.nairaland.com/1205583/iyawo-nylon-bag.

Nice story from you ishilove. But was surprised when you have to accuse me of fake story. I'm not surprise to have observed in influx of people to your thrend cos of the quality of your language & presentation. You are good, no two ways about that, but try & appr8t a True life story.

I needed help 2 sort myself out and not that I found it pleasant to just come over to NL forum to expose myself. Nope! I believe where we have peoples comments & advise, I could pik up any that would help me sort out my challenges.

I have not even given the whole details, People have been wagging and saying a lot of nasty statements against my thrend. Well, I had to hold my peace cos I came to seek for a collective advice but not to be in the position to fight or attack the lovely people who have taken their time to follow up on my post with a good contribution in terms of comments made with a distinct act of mind.

If you dnt mind, I may need your personal email address for a chat with you outside NL.

Thanks everyone as I op 2 give you updates 2moro after work. And sorry for the multiple post made earlier.
FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op): 1:40pm On Apr 05, 2013
Ishilove: That's why I want you to check. You don't know the best hands but you have automatically labelled us wack and tasteless angry


Coogar, when I have your time I will take up your challenge, but as it is I have my plate full with this: www.nairaland.com/1205583/iyawo-nylon-bag

Once I update today, I will now relax and find the best time and place to trash your philistine's asss grin
wwww.nairaland.com/1205583/iyawo-nylon-bag.

Nice story from you ishilove. But was surprised when you have to accuse me of fake story. I'm not surprise to have observed in influx of people to your thrend cos of the quality of your language & presentation. You are good, no two ways about that, but try & appr8t a True life story.

I needed help 2 sort myself out and not that I found it pleasant to just come over to NL forum to expose myself. Nope! I believe where we have peoples comments & advise, I could pik up any that would help me sort out my challenges.

I have not even given the whole details, People have been wagging and saying a lot of nasty statements against my thrend. Well, I had to hold my peace cos I came to seek for a collective advice but not to be in the position to fight or attack the lovely people who have taken their time to follow up on my post with a good contribution in terms of comments made with a distinct act of mind.

If you dnt mind, I may need your personal email address for a chat with you outside NL.

Thanks everyone as I op 2 give you updates 2moro after work. And sorry for the multiple post made earlier.
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So sorry about the multiple post. It was my netwk problem. Tx
FamilyRe: She Threaten 2 Divorce Me If I Dont Dissociate Myself From My Best Friend. by zeefa(op): 8:24pm On Apr 04, 2013
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Hmmmmmmmm, another update coming!

Just about 2hrs ago, Renny dropped a note on our bedroom reading table... Which reads

CONTINUE WITH HIM & FOREFIT THE FOLLOWING......

RED PASSPORT APPLICATION, which am due 2 apply for come july cos she is a citizen.

DIVORCE....

& FACE ARREST FOR NEGLECT AND ASSULT.

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I believe so many people have been looking at these as a story! But be candid, its something that beats my imagination too cos everything looks and appear like this nollywood story in nigeria.

I'm sure u people will be wondering on the issue of the mentioned RED passport. Well, may be this will give me an opportunity to tell you more about Morenike.

Right now, I don't concentrate at work again. I have told my pastor in nigeria. And he is presently praying along with me for a change.

.........Let me rest my brain and give you guyz an update later 2moro! And that will be about morenike and the new developments.

Dayo's wife just came 2 visit us with her 2kids & she pretended as if nothing happens...

Dayo's wife has given up and no issue between them...still don't know why renny is taken it so far...
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