Jenniangel:

Please I tried to cancel today, but they asked for reason of cancelation and upload. What do I upload please?

I just cancelled mine too.... I had initially sent an email and the response I got was to wait my turn so I took a screenshot of that part and cancelled.

My reason was simply long wait time.

Let me tell you the children you are trying to protect can sense all that is happening.
Infact I can assure you that they know more than you assume.... It would be tough but they will come around eventually.

Now to you, when a woman says she’s done, she is done , she’s made up her mind and is ready for any consequences.

I think you should channel your energy in making yourself happy and find ways to make it easy on the kids if they are yours.

Shalom!

Bhus21:
The challenge with Nairalanders and Nigerians, in general, is that we like to delight in ignorance. So let me help educate you in a small way. There are broadly 2 types of marriages. High conflict and low conflict ones. High conflict is where there's abuse, violence, and constant fighting. Low conflict marriages are the opposite. In the latter things are generally calm and happy with occasional bouts of arguments.

In high conflict marriages, divorce can be a good thing for the kids as it removes them from a highly charged situation. For low-conflict marriages on the other hand, divorce is devastating to the kids. This is because the kids see mum and dad as happy, stable and loving. When they then hear suddenly that the family is breaking apart it devastates them. They then have to deal with a lifetime of insecurity. They develop serious emotional challenges that put them at risk of so many adverse outcomes that are too numerous to mention. Just google 'divorce effect on kids'.

Now kids didn't ask to be born, parents choose to bring them into the world. To so violently take away their stability because parents couldn't put aside their ego to at least try to work out their issues is the most cruel and unfair thing one could do. So if there are kids from broken homes doing just fine, I can assure you that if there were from low-conflict homes that broke up, they would be doing so much better if their parents worked out their issues.

I think many of us in this age don't truly understand what marriage and parenting is about. I think my wife falls into this category actually and I didn't do a good enough job to teach her. I underestimated her limited understanding and thought love would get us through. Well as it turns out, love waxes and wanes. What keeps you going is understanding the commitment you made and working hard to protect it.

A small example is talking about marital problems outside. This should never be done. Only discuss your marriage with your spouse or a trusted counsellor when things are too difficult. Sharing everywhere with everybody is a recipe for disaster.

No be small thing o! Don’t mind those Doctor’s! I thank God for everything

Nyxx123:


Congrats Mama!!! Your pregnancy almost pulled a fast one on you.. one minute your showing slight symptoms, the next your seeing your period ... but ehh How does one sleep during contractions? Mama you be power horse, I salute you. Doctors keep embarrassing themselves, why can't they keep an open mind, anything is possible, I mean they are dealing with individuals with different threshold for pain. Like Dr! Bear that in mind.

africaflozy:
April mamas that have birthed their LOs, please submit your BS. Other April team mamas, I wish you safe delivery. No sorrow no weeping concerning all of us on this thread. Amen

Congratulations to April mamas and March and May mamas that ported to April. God bless the precious ones for us and keep our families.

Mama phlota we pray that your delivery shall be smooth and fast. Congratulations in advance.

May mamas that are yet to deliver we wish you complication-free and stress-free delivery.

Team April
Team_NoDulling
Team_Favour
S/N _Monicker___EDD___Gender

1. africaflozy __ 05/04__Team Blue/ DOB-28/03 ...BS submitted
2. Jhules __ 16/04__ Team Blue/ DOB-
3. dunpredictable __30/04__Team Blue/ DOB-30/04
4. Teetopic __18/04__Team Pink/ DOB-01/04 ...BS submitted
5. beegail __05/04__Team Pink/ DOB-01/04
6. Parkiz __07/04__Team Pink/ DOB-06/04
7. Zehner __24/4__Team Blue/ DOB-27/04
8. Joydan98 __14/4__Team Blue/ DOB -21/04...BS submitted
9. tyreal __12/04__Team Blue/ DOB-04/04 ...BS submitted
10. enkay2016 __28/04__Team Pink/ DOB-28/04
11. Phlota __29/04__Team Blue
12. Adetounvicky __04/04__Team Blue/ DOB-08/04
13. Chintes __23/04__Team Pink/ DOB -01/04
14. bolubej __08/04__Team Blue/ DOB-02/04
15. BarbieQwin __18/04__Team Blue / DOB-06/04
16. Mizfabulous18 __ 18/04__Team Pink/ DOB-23/04
17. Kevwe10 __ 24/04__Team Blue/ [b]DOB-

March Porter
1. Haryanphe __ Team Pink/ DOB-05/04

May porters
1. Leahmarh __ 15/05__Team Blue &Blue/ DOB-23/04
2. Momoadura __11/05__Team Blue/ DOB-24/04
3. Indian03 __05/05__Team Blue/ DOB-25/04
4. Yummysuits __ Team Blue/ DOB-30/04

Cappo I am team Pink o.. had a baby girl

BS!! BS!! BS!!

I started having serious back pain in June 2020 and I couldn’t sit to type, it got so bad I would support myself with waist trainer then put a pillow behind me.

Told my fiancé and we went for X-ray, test ... nothing came up, prior to then I had several dreams of going for scan and seeing a baby and my dreams never lie so I confidently told him I was pregnant .

Bought strip ... nothing , then I started having feverish feeling and my mouth was bitter 2 weeks later my period didn’t come.... went for blood test still negative waited a week did another one still nothing I was confused.

My mom called to ask me how far the back ache and I said it was still there... she just said “you are pregnant” my response was they said “nothing o”.

Then towards the ending of July period came.
My fiancé wasn’t happy at all because he secretly wanted me to be pregnant.

August we moved houses , did our intro and in the midst of house hunting, intro planning and moving a full month passed again and still no period yet again....
Then when we finally settled in our new home it hit me that my period had disappeared.

This time I kept mute didn’t want to raise his hope again ... then my sense of smell heightened and one evening we went to chill at a lounge close to our house I ordered goat meat pepper soup...... they brought it and I couldn’t eat o! It just won’t pass my throat and instead I started feeling nauseous.

My fiancé was so shocked (I am proper foodie) he said you are stressed Oya we are going to the hospital.
Next day we went to the hospital and at the hospital I smelt anything and everything ...

I quietly told the doctor to please include a pregnancy test to whatever test they were running, result came out and guess what .... I was 14 weeks pregnant.

Doctor just said let’s just start you on Folic acid.
Now as I found out I was pregnant it seem all the symptoms came crashing down....
Morning sickness became my partner I puked so much and was dehydrated, couldn’t keep anything down.

Symptoms kicked in from 2nd trimester for me... and my registry was slated for November while Trad was December.
On Registry day, they give me chance at Ikoyi because I was weak and throwing up like crazy ... Hubby had to sort someone who gave me a spot to lie down... mehn I see shege!

Second week of December I got my groove back my trad was for the Saturday of that week and on that day people didn’t know I was 5 months gone already.

We got into third trimester and I began to have pregnancy induced hbp... doctor kept telling to rest but It kept fluctuating so I just zoned my mind that any way my baby will be born, either ways.... just kept praying to God to take charge.

By 36 weeks I was put on a drug for 7 days and told that if there’s no change we should settle for an elective CS at 38 weeks.
At 37 weeks I was back at the hospital and bp dropped and same drugs were given for the next 2 weeks also did bio physical profiling and results came out great.

At 38 weeks my father died and they were scared to tell me... I spoke to him on Friday , he died Saturday and I felt it , they refused to tell me but I knew.... at some point I told hubby after looking him straight in the eye, so m dad didn’t get to see my daughter.

Monday of the week after my dad’s death, I started having contraction from about 2pm .... I timed it after a while I feel asleep and woke up 6pm and the contractions kept increasing I kept thinking I didn’t want to go hospital and be told it was false so I held on but by midnight the contractions were crazy and we left for the hospital .. they checked and said I wasn’t dilated and water hasn’t broken.

I kept insisting I knew what I felt and the Dr kept saying madam if you are in labour the whole hospital will known so I said I will go back home but due to my bp issue she insisted they will admit me and monitor it..
By 2am I started throwing up and hmmm words cannot explain the pain.

My husband will rub my back and by 6am I kept feeling the urge to poo! Dr came in to check if I was dilated and got the shock of her life , I was 8cm dilated. I also told her I need to poop.... she rushed to delivery room, they ruptured my water , removed pee from my bladder and then did all the set up.

By exactly 07:55am I welcomed my princess.
PS: all the above I described is not for the faint hearted.... I see shege!! and yes Dr apologized to me and said I had a high threshold for pain as she was used to women screaming the roof down when in labour so she didn’t realize how serious the pains I felt were.

I must say however that the feeling of seeing your child is so rewarding at the end of it all.

EDD: 24th, 27th April
DOB: 27th April
Birth Story submitted.
Cc Africaflozy

My princessa arrived today at 07:55am.
Edd: 24th, 27th April
D.O.B : 27th April

Mother and child are doing well.

BS loading!!
Cc @africaflozy

Congratulations

tyreal:
BA! BA!! BA!!!
Help me rejoice as my rainbow baby makes his grand entrance
DOB: 04 /04
EDD: 12/04
Weighing 3.5kg via cs after prolonged induced labour( details in BS)
Cc: April cappo Africafloxy
Team April
December 2020 cappo Sunbestie
Team December 2020

Congrats Teamie

bolubej:
BA BA !!!!
To God be the glory
Our prince charming made his grand appearance this morning at 8:23am weighing 3.1kg with tears.
I wish other team mates easy peasy delivery
@africaflozy

At all! We are not joking

tyreal:

Chai... Congratulations teamie. Welcome our prince charming...Team April is not dulling ooo

Cappo, Amen! We are doing okay, bags packed too. We will all welcome our Lo’s in sound health by Gods grace. Congratulations again

africaflozy:
Happy new month and welcome to April, the long awaited month!
I thank God for how far he has brought us. Just like yesterday that we got our BFP and here we are today thanking God for these precious gifts...

I thank God for making delivery easy for me and I believe in God that he will make it easier for every other persons on this platform.

So my April people, I am still with you all gidigba, my prayers continues. There shall be no loss or sad news concerning anyone. Amen

I hope bag is packed?
Shopping nko?
What about exercises and prayers?

Please, let's answer this roll call to know how everyone is doing. Thanks mamas

Team April
Team_NoDulling
Team_Favour
S/N _Monicker___EDD___Gender

1. africaflozy __ 05/04__Team Blue/ delivered 28/03
2. Jhules __ 16/04__ unknown
3. dunpredictable __31/04__Team Blue
4. Teetopic __18/04__Team Pink
5. beegail __05/04__unknown
6. Parkiz __07/04__unknown
7. Zehner __24/4__unknown
8. Joydan98 __14/4__unknown
9. tyreal __12/04__Team Blue
10. enkay2016 __28/04__Team Pink
11. Phlota __29/04__Team Blue
12. Adetounvicky __04/04__Team Blue
13. Chintes __23/04__unknown
14. bolubej __08/04__unknown
15. BarbieQwin __18/04__Team Blue

Congratulations! Thank God for his mercies... our capo has left us and ported to March , regards to her, welcome son.

Aremu01:
Ba Ba

To God be the glory great things he has done.
With Jesus Joy in my heart I announce the birth of my son, April Cappo
@africafloxy is the mother.

Mother and baby are fine and resting.
She ll update the house soon

Congratulations! No porting to April .
Welcome Prince Charming

Tinudesi:
BA BA
I welcomed my prince charming at the early hours of today 12:30 at exactly week 39
Baby weight:4kg with tears
Mum,son and dad doing well

Lol, okay sis

zaynie:



Amen sis.

Àwa container don land. You should get your items tomorrow.
Thanks for your patience

Happy Birthday � Mama Zaynie... God bless you always.

Finally! Congratulations mama, super happy for you.
Welcome Prince Charming

oke22:
BA ! bA
My prince came on Mother’s Day
Weighing 3kg
VD with no tears
Thank you Jesus

To every mama grieving at this time.... I pray God gives you the fortitude to bear this loss.

I sympathize with you and I ask that the lord of host who gives life heal your heart, hears your supplication and bring a turn around.

You all will receive amazing miracle of creation, you will conceive and carry to full term in Jesus Name.

AMEN.

As in! Very annoying, she’s been going around the thread quoting and forming “ITK”, If she read the Bible well she would know this for sure!

Trying to force her opinion down people’s throat!

Sleekmilan01:


Shut the hell up please,calm down and learn.. *After death comes judgment* doesn't mean when u died,u go to heaven and hell immediately..if u read the bible very well,you will know it was stated in the book of revelations that on judgement day the earth gave up the dead under the mountain,inside in seas and oceans and all for them to be judged...you dying now doesn't necessarily mean u getting judge that very minute...you go to rest and wait for God's judgment day which everyone will be judged according to his/her works on earth...so if dead people don't get judged immediately after their death,it means they can roam the earth or rest if they want to...its only the body that died and not their spirit,their spirit may chose to rest or to roam freely on earth.....

Be humble and stop abusing others because u feel u know everything

Hi mamas,

How is everyone doing? And Congratulations to all who have welcomed their LO.

Just here to recommend @zaynie for any baby shopping you require.

She’s very affordable and gives you quality for less.. buying from her was seamless.

Thank you.

Hi Chisom�� welcome to our world and may you continue to grow in wisdom and stature

katchycouture:
BS BS BS

My birth story is a very short one, this pregnancy came when I thought I was done with child bearing, oh the look of happiness on my husband's face while I was disappointed with myself, well I decided that what has happened has happened, then followed with series of scans, hospital visits ( I am a high bp patient), always treating maleria and all of that. Pregnancy advanced and I registered with General hospital ikorodu and Holy trinity hospital ikeja. At exactly 34 weeks I went for antenatal at the general hospital and was admitted for high bp and protein in urine +++, on the 5th day o suddenly felt a gush of water pour on my laps, I showed the nurse and she asked me to wear a pad so they can be sure of the quantity, the next morning the doctor came and saw it and that was my journey to emergency CS, they said waiting could be dangerous.i was wheeled to the theatre and out came my 34 weeks 6days old baby showing her crying skills... Only God can perform this miracle.

Thanks for the mentions, the private messages and the calls, I am sorry the BS came late, I have been battling with fever and pains since I was discharged on Sunday. Thanks at cappo sunbestie, may God make it easy for other December mamas,

Meet Chisom Nneoma

Awww... she’s adorable

threegees:
Cutie Thursday

Baby Grace Oluwasindara Chisimdi
We're 5 weeks old and she sucks me silly, yet we're on our fifth can of Nan 1.
God help us!

I agree... my Dr said it’s usually hard to hear heartbeats from below 16 weeks sef when one nurse almost gave me high bp

Tinudesi:

I will second this idea. This sinographer almost gave me heart attack to at week 8 saying my baby had no heartbeat but with other mamas assurance I repeated it at week 10 and baby is fine. Hang in a little more and recheck maybe after two weeks

Amen

dunpredictable:


Take your Golden chair sidon jare. God will see us through this journey. Amen

Ha! Please you people should collect bag of salt o! � Issa Diamond!

dunpredictable:


Welcome ma. Registration fee is 50 medium sized onions to be paid to the 4th member. Lol

�thank you this golden seat is fine o! Yes I am team April... EDD is 24th

africaflozy:


You are welcome mama..have your golden seat

Are you team April and what's your EDD?

Hellos I am new here and I am a first time mom

africaflozy:
Oya clear road for team APRIL

Mamas when do you plan to check baby gender. Personally I would do that at my next appointment. Can't wait to know

Team_NoDulling
Team_Favour
S/N _Monicker___EDD___Gender
1. Africaflozy ___ 05/04___unknown
2. Ovalrose ___ 10/04___unknown
3. Jhules ___ 16/04___ unknown
4. dunpredictable __31/04__unknown
5. Teetopic __18/04__unknown
6. beegail __05/04__unknown
7. Parkiz __07/04__unknown

Other April team members should come and register sharparly.... remember NoDullling grin

I agree�

GamalNasser:
Hmmm just yesterday I was saying to a friend that I suspect they will close a diamond bank in my estate and I was right , looks they are closing diamond bank branches in areas where they already had Access branches , Methinks Herbert Wigwe is just using COVID crunch as an excuse to ditch Diamond bank staff he inherited in the acquisition

TroubleDude:
try ''the last ship''

thanks plenty

Please is there a link to watch...

Yaaaaasy!!!!
Anthony Joshua for president