₦airaland Forum

lovinam:
Your hormones are raging!! Just show her where the food is and tell her to cook whatever she likes. Just relax in a few weeks u will deliver. Meanwhile join the pregnancy thread in the health section.

dearpreye:
Please, go ahead and buy the car. This is 2015, not 1970!

Live your life to the fullest. Sometimes our greatest enemies are those very close to us. They think they're doing us a favour or that they're protecting us, whereas they're simply keeping us mediocre and average. This, amongst other reasons, is why Africa is still largely underdeveloped; our minds are still pretty underdeveloped.

Any man who's intimidated by a lady's success should go and become successful.

Our society is in so skewed against our women.

onegig:
Nairaland gangs of intolerant religious folks at it again.

Why can't you guys just for once respect people's personal spaces as long as it doesn't pose a danger to you or your family?

How different are you in ideology from Boko haram or Daesh who's only mentality is " I am the only right one, my version of religion is the only correct one; agree with me or you perish" ?
He came here seeking architectural designs for a polygamy home.He doesn't need your opinion about the pros and cons of polygamy.

He didn't mention a particular religion in his opening post and to the best of my knowledge polygamy is still very much recognized by the constitution of Nigeria and is practiced in all regions.

If you feel you need to air your views about such. You would do well to open a new thread about that.

@mostyg

You would do well to ignore responding the posts that are off topic. You don't need to educate and you owe no one any justification for whatsoever you do. You opened a thread seeking ideas about architecture and if anyone doesn't find it interesting, they can always close the tab and move on.

I may or may not agree with your points of view or your actions but as for this I believe the best bet would be a winged styled apartments. With two wings and a central living room connected.

Also, the winged flats should have all that's needed for each to exist without a need to go to the other end to "borrow" or make use of things.

Wish you the best, just remember the word "just" in your dealings. May He make it easy for you.

mostyg:
Thank you, your comment is much appreciated. I am falling for the idea of separate en suite rooms, separate kitchen and same living room.

Onegai:
For those saying "People have kids on N50, 000 and less" and "wheelbarrow pushers are delivering babies" and "All fingers are not equal", please let me say something:

No-one owes you anything. No-one owes you anything. No-one owes you anything.

That means, that people are getting harder and harsher. Gone are the days when people like you will show up at hospitals and beg for bill reductions and some kindhearted medical staff will pay for it. That was the last generation (People above 40) and the present crop of doctors and medical staff will certainly not be doing that (they have seen whY their elders have sufferedand how most doctors couldn'to provide for their families because of generosity and forgiving bills). And unless you have NHIS, God help you if your child falls sick in Nigeria because Medicine is now run for profit. No-one in government is planning on upgrading any government medical facility anytime soon. They have said they have no money.

People are getting tired of people begging for help and infant mortality is high in Nigeria. The only reason it is not visible is that una can born upto 5 or more children. Resources are getting scarce in the global world and people are fighting and paying more for less products and services. So the next time you say "Our parents had kids on blah blah chicken change", remember this: OUR PARENTS WERE RICHER. Dollar was $1=N1 when my siblings were born and is now N280=$1 in their lifetime.

What this means is PLAN WELL. No-one will carry your children's needs and cares on their shoulders anymore (I personally ignore all requests that have this line "my innocent kids" in it, nah me born dem?). No more "God will provide", for it will shock and pain you when it doesn't happen. Please once you start planning your wedding, take a chunk of savings and place aside for your family. Be humble and buy second-hand clothes and accept them from people. The golden days are gone for now and it's time to tighten your belt.

culturegown:
Alhamdulilah robbil almeen. Gave birth to a baby boy this afternoon. to all the other te December, I wish you safest delivery and all the going to conceive(GTC) you will get your bfp before the year runs out. BS coming soon.

Fumbaby:
Take over ni, everybody is scared of going to ask her for anything. Her children are aware that it belong to us and not her

prissyluv:
God evening mamas. Abeg make una no vex. I know this is not the right place to post this but I will be glad if the issue can be looked into.

My question is,what is the fate of a wife whose husband buys properties in his name only but uses the wife's name as next of kin.

Congrats lizzy22.

Fumbaby:
[quote author=prissyluv

Whether he buy his property in your name or his name all that matters is prayers, side chicks are ready to destroy homes and you won't know when the name will suddenly change, my sis wear the garment of prayer

I don't know why me and my hubby don't care about whose name his on our property, the only thing I care about is how to start a family biz that will carry my children's names, because I don't intend to make the mistake my parents made, my father's name was the only name on our family biz, my aunt sat on everything when he died in 1995 till today she's the landlady and the CEO of my father's garri processing company (waiting patiently for her to pass on)

Generalkorex:
Who should we beliv now.
Shite story or the NA?

AbuMikey:
God don Catch this useless thief!!!

This is the Awaritefe. Scammer guy!!!


He's in need of Help and now begging the same People He scammed! SMH.


Who knows if this is not another scam gimmick sef

Walkopet:
[size=18pt]Nairalanders, Abeg who help me see sile12, e don tey wey I see d guy's post last o[/size]

ahnie:
I asked around,was due-ly informed that,there z nuttin like cabbage leaf,the woman had to peel the fresh cabbage back n gave to mehn...mehn ah don cabbage boobi up,no tyme for che re we re.

MumZ:
Pls where did u get d leaves o, or is it same wit d salad cabbage? Abeg no mind my jjc question.

ahnie:
E just be like say,i carry two bags of dangote cement for chest because my lil bae has bid suckin byebye.pls you sabi mamas shud help me.

wasak:
Admittedly I emotionally weak, but is that a crime? I mean, I didn't create myself that way. As for my age I'm in my early 20s she's my first love actually. Thanks

EfemenaXY:
Yep, very edible - especially when soft-boiled or baked.

It's popularly eaten with tuna mayo and / or with baked beans and salad.

Chillisauce:
Yeah. You can eat the skin. Some people even drink the raw one through juicing .
I think I prefer it roasted . Blended roasted ones can also serve as swallow. Like the texture of amala

Chillisauce:
Best way to eat your Irish potatoes is to roast them with the skin. Make it crusty and eat with paper sauce .

onegig:
If there is anything i fear in marriage. It is this issue of over familiarization to the point that people tend to neglect their chosen spouse and take them for granted. If there is anything that pains one to the bone. It's an unappreciative person.

Op. Just please sit her down and talk to her.[b] Or just send what you typed exactly here to her in a mail o[/b]r whatever and wait to see her response. Sometimes we are oblivious of our bad behaviors to others until we are told of such. Her reaction should be what would determine your next point of action.

Chillisauce:
Nice.

I heard steaming plastics and. Microwaving with them has some health issues.

I used to steam and microwave with plastics. I have stopped so far.
I invested in ceramic for my moi moi.
See if it's possible. I no wan hear say dem say dem say .

chukxie:
Na beans? Hahaha! How're u doing, my friend?