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Islam is not just a religion.. it's a way of life.

Islam captured everything that will happen or has happened to mankind

Let me help you, if you are Yoruba oo.. since you have discussed with your husband, give him two weeks and you will see changes. We don't correct our family in front of our wives. (A kin ti oju elero kaa). During the two weeks, if he does it again, still calmly tell your husband oo.

After two weeks and no change... Tell him yourself jokingly. "Uncle, we don't enter married woman kitchen anyhow".. you can always call on me if you need anything, I am your wife and I'm responsible to serve you anytime... We both know it's a lie.. but correct him without hurting his ego.

Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?

We said Jesus didn't complete his job and we are right.
Muhammad finished the job by giving us realistic command that will suit the world God has planned which is what we live now. Pastor Chris and many pastors divorced and both or some part remarried.

Muhammed was realistic in all his judgement and decisions. None was faulty nor discriminatory

enilove:
Islam is a F ALSE RELIGION. If Islam believed in Jesus ,the quran would have contained WORDS of Jesus and obey his commandment. If you believe that a prophet is from God , why dont you obey his messages?

Which of Jesus commandments is in the quran? Non.
Muhammed married the wife of his adopted son . But Jesus tells us not to divorce nor marry a divorced woman.

Matthew 5:31-32 KJV
It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: [32] But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

Quran says in Surah 33:37.

37 Behold! Thou didst say to one who had received the grace of Allah and thy favour: "Retain thou (in wedlock) thy wife, and fear Allah." But thou didst hide in thy heart that which Allah was about to make manifest: thou didst fear the people, but it is more fitting that thou shouldst fear Allah. Then when Zaid had dissolved (his marriage) with her, with the necessary (formality), We joined her in marriage to thee: in order that (in future) there may be no difficulty to the Believers in (the matter of) marriage with the wives of their adopted sons, when the latter have dissolved with the necessary (formality) (their marriage) with them. And Allah´s command must be fulfilled.

The same God of the Bible that hates divorce cannot be the God that commanded Muhammed to marry his adopted son's wife.

Islam is the devil's lie. That is why everything about Islam is violence .

Quran does not contain the ten commandment as given to Moses.
Islam does not know the meaning of a Prophet. That is why quran calls Adam a prophet.

God bless u my blooda.. I am tired of them. We will live well with Abokis I swear. They have no economic importance, even their business men don't pay taxe

hoMegas:
The truth is that you people never wore clothes until the British clothed you. That you lived in small villages while we the Yoruba are the first metropolitan people in west Africa. You were busy sacrificing your twins while we were creating one of west Africa's largest empires. Your insults to afonja is a slight to your own race as he was not only the supreme generalissimo of oyos army but he won 28 battles in his entire career. Using the name afonja to insult any Yoruba person is an insult to your nameless forefathers
The majority of Igbo in Lagos are not only petty traders and hawkers but also import fake products that endanger the nation. You people should stop deceiving yourselves we the Yoruba pray day by day for Biafra
At least it will stop the influx of fake products

Arewa threat must be rescinded... But I still think that threat is necessary to clear them that nobody is dependent on the Ibos. Not even SS people.


If they form political party, I'm sure even SS won't support yeebos talkless of SW.

We dislike arrogant baffoons.

Na play kill am...too much movies

Ts a nice move.. I respect yeeboos business prowess... Best of it's kind

you cracked me up badasss

kokoA:
Tested by ajebo looking peeps.. hmmm. Of what use is the poor in this country sef? Ehen! Nice coach by the way.

Someone should take her to Sharia court, She will regret the day she was born

That is SANGO handwork...

He too dey vex

Y are you answering this bigger fool fairmumu.... Someone stole our money or participated in stealing our money and make a dollar become #240 yet you still defending her.. Ko werey loo

@ hardywaltz:

My message is clear
She's an accessory to the looting of our collective Yam.

Fairgodwin:
I wasn't contending [that with you], my point is, calling someone foolish is actually uncalled for (both in the long and short run).

them don use their heads take chewing gum...
Female are striving to become mehn by challenging for World Presidents, soon they will be contesting for Kings, Emir or Igwe.....Some mumu men are contesting for best houseman..awon oponu

Acidosis:


APC is the 666 (THE MARK OF THE BEAST) OF THIS GENERATION. DO NOT ASSOCIATE WITH THEM, THEY WILL DESTROY YOUR LIVES PEOPLE!

[s]DASUKI's LOOT is nothing when compared with the amount APC SPENT ON CAMPAIGN.[/s]

PAID TOWNCRIER ---- Please LOOT and SPENT are different. We dont care how much they spenT please return our LOOT.

hmmmm

PASTORANKING 1 ... followersuffering 100000000

PLEASE BURN THEM or BURY THEM DEEP MAYBE THEY COULD TURN TO CRUDE OIL IN FUTURE

fool by NATURE.............ITS IN UR BLOOD. THE WAY TO STOP A ROTTEN YAM IS TO REMOVE THE ROTTEN PART....ANY OTHER EFFORT WILL GET IT ALL ROTTEN. PLEASE THINK

drberry:
Nonsense... Am I the only who's beginning to get tired of all this trial against GEJ'S administration?? The present administration should stop attempting to distract the masses from our current economic woes. It's not like they are even better. PRESIDENT BUHARI, IT'S HIGH TIME YOU STARTED EXECUTING YOUR CHANGE AGENDA AMD STOPPED ALL THESE DISTRACTIONS...

PICK HIS NOSE IN HARMATTAN IS UNAVOIDABLE FAH...BETTER RECONSIDER

purplecoco:
A good accent and pretty fingers turns me on in a guy. . There are only things, but these are the major ones.

What turns me off? Erm, if he picks his nose or brags and damn full of himself.

mmm

Lasisi69 ....this is ur food

End time watch

British passport doesnt make you a British citizen bro.. When french nationals were arrested for BHaram shit...it take 48hrs for french delegates to fly down to Cameroon. Nnamdi Scam Kanu has been arrested for month and no word from Britain. Get the fact

IbokUtoroh:
those advising buhari aint telling him d right thing.
First nnamdi na british citizen n i know those guys dont treat their people like poo d way we treat ours.

Awon omo igbo.............Awon omo wobe.........Awon omo entime

Lolz

hmmm

Endtime
#number 9
Lasisi69

Endtime lies

This virus is affecting me bro

ENDTIME

lasisi69:
End time

EndTime as Lasisi69 will say

lolz

@Lalasticlala
@Seun

We need people to understand that terrorism has no religion

Mehn.... Nigerian are now very aggressive ooo... Please don't tashi them like play like play sef

Please take embassy and all international Airports, Seaports to East as requested to proof they weren't marginalized. They will surely criminalized everything with trafficking and kidnapping. Awon omo alee olee...olojukokoro