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Bann3d:
All the information is available for free online. You just need to do a bit of research.

Can you please give me a liltle bit of guidance?

cmoney22222:
Gtb on eversend… no time

Bro, I will be very grateful if you can teach me a little of your knowledge in this arbitraging. Please how can I reach you. I am willing to pay for the knowledge.

nini1:
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I sent you a mail.

nini1:
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I sent you a mail.

whela:
It comes with old age...live long and see so many painful death of younger ones. May God give us long live without witnessing such.. it's all grace.

Not possible. The more you age, the more you see painful deaths.

tonysunkan:
There are ominous signs that the relationship will not go far.

The plane has lost its engine even when taxing. It will not take off.

Can you please elaborate?

cbrass:
I am experiencing something similar too at the moment ,please if you found a solution kindly let me know

I'll like to know more about yours. Can we chat on telegram?

zexy2030:
There wouldn't have been room for pre intimacy...if a lady could allow pre intimacy before marriage...just beware. Something is wrong. You can't be hungry and suffice with water to claim u r satisfied. If you r hungry eat food not water. Rather stay away from food totally, deny hunger. Water cannot replace food. Drinking water to delay hunger is flushing the system but to the honest, more injuries would happen, if u take water for too long waiting to break with food at a particular day.

You speak in parables. But I get your point

toffyz:
And you're not ready for pre marital sex right?
If you're, this would prompt your sexual urge towards her the more.
If the relationship is healthy, serious and secured then, you can try that.

It's health and secured alright. The security is being threatened by this lack of attraction from my end

DonCandido:
Op, don't take this the wrong way o. I think you have become a mugu on a leash.

2019! And you haven't shined her "Kongo" for once?

You are officially reverend sisters not bf & gf.

I EARNESTLY urge you to test run what you are about to pay for and if the commodity does not meet up to your expectations, please go in good conscience to another trader!

Let her apply to the nearest Convent where her monastic vow to chastity is cherished.

You are not a female

Stupidquestions:
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Truth is her not allowing u to fvck her since 2019 lol, has lead to frustration on your part...and the frustration has turned to subtle hatred and bitterness against her touch that u are now under denial and disgust of her sexuality....

All those things u wrote up there is just living in denial and communicating subtle frustration....
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[quote][/quote] Subtle frustration.... Your analysis although harsh, did struck a chord. Thank you

SmellySperm:
Just quit bro coz sexual attraction odikwa necessary.

But why did you accept to a nosex before marriage relationship? What if she's shallow with the P? You need to F her to know if you both are sexually compatible.

I think I'll rather not F her as it will be a much heavier guilt on my conscience if the relationship eventually goes south. My confusion is whether it will affect marital happiness.

[quote author=bolagabriella post=104045461]Thanks

jaxxy:
When he’s now saying her touch is like a sisters own I want to expose and explain his confusion.

Please expose and explain

LilMissFavvy:
Yes of course, attraction and body chemistry is very important in marriage. Help her to spice up her looks.

I have tried to no avail. She is a staunch member of one of these churches that feel certain appearances are "unchristian". I can't even confidently buy her a dress because she may likely not wear it.

jaxxy:
U are childish and confused. So because she didn’t sleep with u, u now want to sister zone her?

A matured person would give advice without insult. That all I have to say to you. Grow up

holybabayo:
It's supposed to be the opposite way: you feel more attracted to those you have not have sex with than to those you have had with.

Maybe there are features you like that she doesn't have: height, weight, color, shape, skills, etc.

You have to be honest with yourself and discuss this feeling with someone mature and apply the advice and see if there are changes.

Sexual attraction is necessary for marriage. That's what will make you treat her well. It will be bad for both of you to proceed without curing this.

Please don't have sex with her. That's not the way. It will not also change anything. It might be worst. And she will feel used.

True. It's supposed to be the other way. I mentioned it to her but she said its okay I feel this way. That it's because we've not been intimate. I just don't want to gamble and enter into marriage and start regretting.

LilMissFavvy:
I can bet the girl doesn't dress up and look gorgeous, plus smell nice. Now someone is about to lose her fiance. Teach your fiancee the things she needs to do to spice up her appearance, and your attraction for her will return.

She really doesn't. Quite bland. Wouldn't wear earrings etc. But there was moment when I liked her like that. I'm just lost at the moment. I really do want to feel attraed to her again because she is quite good on other aspects. My only fear is if the lack of sexual attraction would cause issues in marriage.

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend since September 2019. I intend to marry her.
The problem is that, I don't desire her sexually. Any intimate touch from her feels like the touch from a blood sister. Very uncomfortable.
She is a strict Christian with a policy of no premarital sex. So we have never had sex except for occasional kissing and romance which I sometimes initiate.
However, since January this year, I lost sexual attraction towards her and I avoid even simple touches. In fact, last Sunday we were walking down the street and when she placed her arms round my shoulder, I stylishly evaded it. I don't feel like this towards every other woman.

I'm currently not seeing any other lady but I have had sexual flings with two different ladies including an ex.

Question is: Is sexual attraction/desire neccesary for marriage? Is it normal not to feel sexually attracted to your partner? Can this be a basis for break up as I fear it might persist in marriage and make me cheat on her.

Hintona:
Full lips with a deep dent in the middle of the upper lip.

Yeah.... It's called Cupid's bow

thesolutions:
you and all others acussing MTN are just marketers. MTN remains the best any time any day twice on weekends.
I've been trying to crack this Airtel pocket mifi so i can use MTN LINE on it to no avail. 6gb subscription does not last upto 3 days checking only mails even after disabling auto update and rooting the proxy server to local host. had to be using my phone wifi with mtn network to do that task withfar lesser subscription of 1.5gb of N300 weekly.

1.5gb for 300/week!!! What's the code?

Without Lewi and Gnabry, Bayern's attack is depleted

kingjooo:
500k we can get standard one,but your budget should be 600k inorder to get a super sound one.

Thanks bro. We'll link up when the funds are ready

kingjooo:
You may choose to put it on higher purchase to reliable drivers and get x2 of your money back under 12 months because it's not too expensive or better still drive it yourself.My guy so many people neglect dis hustle,but if you do dis ur financial life will never remain the same.I've done it before,just let me know whenever you're ready

Thanks man. I'll definitely take you on this offer.
First off, do you have an idea on the cost of buying a golf 3?

kingjooo:
@op why not buy golf3 and come to abuja to make your money

Bro, how do golf 3 owners make money in Abuja? I'll like to know so that I can buy one. I live close to Abuja and would love to know anything that will fetch me an additional source of income.

KallmemrB0:
no second space on 9t

Reviews on gsmArena say the 128gb variant has second space.
It's the 64gb variant that doesn't have second space.

[quote author=genius43 post=100353921][/quote]Bro, can you enlighten me on the process for installing gcam on redmi 9t

bamac:
Another XIAOMI phone highly recommended.

Please call/whatsapp on 08091180137 to order through a reliable and trustworthy Jumia sales consultant.

Can you help me order this phone? The price is down to 69900. Tried ordering for it but my payment keeps getting declined. How soon can I get it in Abuja?

Lovelynife:
3 days Xiaomi poco M3 for sale with all accessories intact in ibadan. it is 4g Ram 128g Rom..

Price?

Ewizard:
The price on Jumia den was a big concern for me, how come every other persons were selling 74k while a particular vendor on Jumia was selling for 66k, Probably refurbished. I couldn't risk ending up being Penny wise and pound foolish since I don't have 74k, Poco M3 became the Messiah for my budget.

Pouch and charger only.
No tampered screen.
Super Fast freaking charging.

Charged 3days after I got exhausted playing all the default games.(did this test without sim/data) just gaming.

Then did d second battery test (calls, data, hotspot on for full 2hrs) and charged the next day at 20%�left.

I plan to do a 12hr movie test soon. Will copy 6 movies of 2hr duration each from my lappy.
Play them on shuffle with VLC, keep it on my table, go to work by 7am and return by 6pm to know what's left with the battery.

When am done with that, it's over for you all.

3 days without a charge is massive but considering that you were not using data I wouldn't conclude on the battery power. How long per day were you playing the games?

The result of 12 hour movie test will be quite interesting. Do it tomorrow maybe
I appreciate your feedback bro. thanks

I hope to place an order on Jumia by tomorrow evening. My mind should be made up before then.

KingAlabi:
Don't get the wrong idea @bolded

I purchased the 5.3 from jumia when it was still 74k
And during black Friday the price really dropped

Since review on Poco m3 has been dropped for you

Let me just drop small on Nokia 5.3

Battery life - trust me you will doubt yourself if it is really a 4000mah battery, it doesn't last as long as the Poco m3 obviously but you will know it is just excellent.

Display - every one has their preferences, but 720p on the Nokia is good enough

Ram - 6gb Anybody telling you a 6gb and 4gb ram will perform at the same rate is just lying to you, not discouraging you on the Poco m3, but the Poco has more system apps on that 4gb ram (bloatware) which I presume the accessible ram will just be 1-2gb, Nokia is a Android one device, no bloatwares, came clean, just Google apps, you have 3-4 gb available for you to play around with


Camera - I don't know of the Poco, but Nokia default camera app is wack, you solve this with Gcam and you will think that it's definitely not this device taking this shots.

Choose wisely

How can I choose wisely with this your review that is as convincing as the review of m3 by Ewizard

I'm also not bothered about the display and camera quality. Android one is clean and comes with regular updates like you rightly mentioned. The absence of bloatware is great.

As for the ram space, I'm not a gamer and I don't use heavy apps. My frequent apps are whatsapp, telegram, browser, and media players. Any of the two phones will multitask these apps smoothly.

I guess, at this point, the deciding factor for me will be battery power. I read on Nokia website that the 5.3 battery is optimized to last up to two days. Is it true. What is your battery experience like? Hope much on screen time do you getting a single full charge?

Also, I don't frequently change phones. I'm currently using an infinix Note 2 that I bought since 2016. There hasn't been a single fault with the phone since I got it. In fact I am changing it because it lacks 4g and the ram is poor.

summarily, if I want a phone to use conveniently for 3-4years, which of the two phones would you recommend?

Ewizard:
I was in the same dilemma as you for over a month until 2 weeks ago.
in fact I spent days on gsm arena comparing and contrasting, watch YouTube videos, private chat some phone gurus I met here on NL and everything you have done plus more.

I lost my 3yr old Nokia 8.1 to quack fone engineers, in a bid to change the battery. Naso dem damage the board 4me.

That's by the way, I only mentioned it to legitimise my membership of the Nokia family and also let you know I have had a first hand experience with Nokia monster devices. it was a 4/64gb 4000mah devices.
May her soul RIP.

Nokia 5.3 Vs Poco M3 for me was simply a choice of Camera Vs Battery.

Firstly, forget about the 6gig ram, both devices will run any app with same speed and performance.

Secondly, If camera is a big deal for you, Nokia 5.3 is your best buy. However, if you ain't a mobile videographer or some camera psycho freaks. Poco M3 camera is as good as any other camera you can get in any 100k- devices in the market apart from IPhones.
In addition, with the help of gcam, your Poco M3 camera can replicate an iPhone resolution.

Thirdly, if you have a constant power supply in you area, you can settle for Nokia 5.3, otherwise Poco M3 is your best buy.

Power was a thing for me so I settled for Poco M3 and I can tell you for free that the battery is a monster.

After I got my delivery from Jumia, first thing I did was to fully charge to 100% and conduct my battery test.

I don't wanna turn this post to an epistle but Poco M3 was a better pick for me at the end, and so far it's better than my 8.1 in performance.

Well, 5.3 is still in my cart on Jumia so I might get it for someone in my household just to keep both within my reach lol.

My pick: Poco M3

I got it for N61,900 during Jumia Tech Week.

Goodluck.

N:B I was worried about the price difference of Nokia 5.3 on Jumia for 66k with the price on every other retail store I visited including slot and konga who all sold for N74k and above.
Also on the reviews, while many were happy with the 5.3 whom I perceived were paid reviews following thier pattern of comment. Few actually complained about the camera quality and 1 mentioned it might be a refurbished device for that price.

I'm so much grateful for this your review. You perfectly understand my dilemma. Just like you, I also did a lot of comparisons using different sites during the past one week.....

The price for 5.3 is quite strange and tempting because even on international sites the 4+64 variant of the 5.3 costs more than 4+64 of m3.

I'm worried about accessories for the m3. We're you able to get a pouch or tampered screen?

How long does the battery last on a full charge and how fast is the charger.