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Geestarry:
If she is not adding value to you, then you are better off alone, than being drained.

I love these words of yours. They just spoke to me.

The venue looks like Trenchard Hall University of IBADAN. Student lectures don't hold in Trenchard. He was probably invited by a group of students to give a talk.

RESHARPENED:
It is very direct.
Go to PlayStore and download EverSend.

Thank you so much for this. You can modify the post if you wish.

RESHARPENED:
Zenith MasterCard on Eversend

Bro teach me small now

Bann3d:
All the information is available for free online. You just need to do a bit of research.

Can you please give me a liltle bit of guidance?

cmoney22222:
Gtb on eversend… no time

Bro, I will be very grateful if you can teach me a little of your knowledge in this arbitraging. Please how can I reach you. I am willing to pay for the knowledge.

nini1:
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I sent you a mail.

nini1:
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I sent you a mail.

whela:
It comes with old age...live long and see so many painful death of younger ones. May God give us long live without witnessing such.. it's all grace.

Not possible. The more you age, the more you see painful deaths.

tonysunkan:
There are ominous signs that the relationship will not go far.

The plane has lost its engine even when taxing. It will not take off.

Can you please elaborate?

cbrass:
I am experiencing something similar too at the moment ,please if you found a solution kindly let me know

I'll like to know more about yours. Can we chat on telegram?

zexy2030:
There wouldn't have been room for pre intimacy...if a lady could allow pre intimacy before marriage...just beware. Something is wrong. You can't be hungry and suffice with water to claim u r satisfied. If you r hungry eat food not water. Rather stay away from food totally, deny hunger. Water cannot replace food. Drinking water to delay hunger is flushing the system but to the honest, more injuries would happen, if u take water for too long waiting to break with food at a particular day.

You speak in parables. But I get your point

toffyz:
And you're not ready for pre marital sex right?
If you're, this would prompt your sexual urge towards her the more.
If the relationship is healthy, serious and secured then, you can try that.

It's health and secured alright. The security is being threatened by this lack of attraction from my end

DonCandido:
Op, don't take this the wrong way o. I think you have become a mugu on a leash.

2019! And you haven't shined her "Kongo" for once?

You are officially reverend sisters not bf & gf.

I EARNESTLY urge you to test run what you are about to pay for and if the commodity does not meet up to your expectations, please go in good conscience to another trader!

Let her apply to the nearest Convent where her monastic vow to chastity is cherished.

You are not a female

Stupidquestions:
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Truth is her not allowing u to fvck her since 2019 lol, has lead to frustration on your part...and the frustration has turned to subtle hatred and bitterness against her touch that u are now under denial and disgust of her sexuality....

All those things u wrote up there is just living in denial and communicating subtle frustration....
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[quote][/quote] Subtle frustration.... Your analysis although harsh, did struck a chord. Thank you

SmellySperm:
Just quit bro coz sexual attraction odikwa necessary.

But why did you accept to a nosex before marriage relationship? What if she's shallow with the P? You need to F her to know if you both are sexually compatible.

I think I'll rather not F her as it will be a much heavier guilt on my conscience if the relationship eventually goes south. My confusion is whether it will affect marital happiness.

[quote author=bolagabriella post=104045461]Thanks

jaxxy:
When he’s now saying her touch is like a sisters own I want to expose and explain his confusion.

Please expose and explain

LilMissFavvy:
Yes of course, attraction and body chemistry is very important in marriage. Help her to spice up her looks.

I have tried to no avail. She is a staunch member of one of these churches that feel certain appearances are "unchristian". I can't even confidently buy her a dress because she may likely not wear it.

jaxxy:
U are childish and confused. So because she didn’t sleep with u, u now want to sister zone her?

A matured person would give advice without insult. That all I have to say to you. Grow up

holybabayo:
It's supposed to be the opposite way: you feel more attracted to those you have not have sex with than to those you have had with.

Maybe there are features you like that she doesn't have: height, weight, color, shape, skills, etc.

You have to be honest with yourself and discuss this feeling with someone mature and apply the advice and see if there are changes.

Sexual attraction is necessary for marriage. That's what will make you treat her well. It will be bad for both of you to proceed without curing this.

Please don't have sex with her. That's not the way. It will not also change anything. It might be worst. And she will feel used.

True. It's supposed to be the other way. I mentioned it to her but she said its okay I feel this way. That it's because we've not been intimate. I just don't want to gamble and enter into marriage and start regretting.

LilMissFavvy:
I can bet the girl doesn't dress up and look gorgeous, plus smell nice. Now someone is about to lose her fiance. Teach your fiancee the things she needs to do to spice up her appearance, and your attraction for her will return.

She really doesn't. Quite bland. Wouldn't wear earrings etc. But there was moment when I liked her like that. I'm just lost at the moment. I really do want to feel attraed to her again because she is quite good on other aspects. My only fear is if the lack of sexual attraction would cause issues in marriage.

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend since September 2019. I intend to marry her.
The problem is that, I don't desire her sexually. Any intimate touch from her feels like the touch from a blood sister. Very uncomfortable.
She is a strict Christian with a policy of no premarital sex. So we have never had sex except for occasional kissing and romance which I sometimes initiate.
However, since January this year, I lost sexual attraction towards her and I avoid even simple touches. In fact, last Sunday we were walking down the street and when she placed her arms round my shoulder, I stylishly evaded it. I don't feel like this towards every other woman.

I'm currently not seeing any other lady but I have had sexual flings with two different ladies including an ex.

Question is: Is sexual attraction/desire neccesary for marriage? Is it normal not to feel sexually attracted to your partner? Can this be a basis for break up as I fear it might persist in marriage and make me cheat on her.

Hintona:
Full lips with a deep dent in the middle of the upper lip.

Yeah.... It's called Cupid's bow

thesolutions:
you and all others acussing MTN are just marketers. MTN remains the best any time any day twice on weekends.
I've been trying to crack this Airtel pocket mifi so i can use MTN LINE on it to no avail. 6gb subscription does not last upto 3 days checking only mails even after disabling auto update and rooting the proxy server to local host. had to be using my phone wifi with mtn network to do that task withfar lesser subscription of 1.5gb of N300 weekly.

1.5gb for 300/week!!! What's the code?

Without Lewi and Gnabry, Bayern's attack is depleted

kingjooo:
500k we can get standard one,but your budget should be 600k inorder to get a super sound one.

Thanks bro. We'll link up when the funds are ready

kingjooo:
You may choose to put it on higher purchase to reliable drivers and get x2 of your money back under 12 months because it's not too expensive or better still drive it yourself.My guy so many people neglect dis hustle,but if you do dis ur financial life will never remain the same.I've done it before,just let me know whenever you're ready

Thanks man. I'll definitely take you on this offer.
First off, do you have an idea on the cost of buying a golf 3?

kingjooo:
@op why not buy golf3 and come to abuja to make your money

Bro, how do golf 3 owners make money in Abuja? I'll like to know so that I can buy one. I live close to Abuja and would love to know anything that will fetch me an additional source of income.

KallmemrB0:
no second space on 9t

Reviews on gsmArena say the 128gb variant has second space.
It's the 64gb variant that doesn't have second space.

[quote author=genius43 post=100353921][/quote]Bro, can you enlighten me on the process for installing gcam on redmi 9t

bamac:
Another XIAOMI phone highly recommended.

Please call/whatsapp on 08091180137 to order through a reliable and trustworthy Jumia sales consultant.

Can you help me order this phone? The price is down to 69900. Tried ordering for it but my payment keeps getting declined. How soon can I get it in Abuja?