Hi Nlanders, i need some advice here: you've been seeing someone for a while and from all indications the guy/girl is really into you and keeps telling you 'i love you' but something still holds you back from saying those words too,please what can one do in this situation?

I am speechless

Yu hav to identify Y u're unable to say I luv u. If its cos u have no feelings for him, is there any chance dt u'll develop feelings for him? If no, let the guy go so it doesn't appear u're leading him on.

If u're unable to say yu luv him evn tho u do because of ur prior experiences, I'd advise u to listen to ur heart - u said urself that he's really into u. Not evry guy would take u for granted or throw ur luv back at ur face (if ur refusal to say yu luv him is caused by ur fears). Gdluck