Izuone: My girlfriend spend the night over at my house but she refused me bedmatics. why ? she is not happy. She has problems and i am not showing concern . She wants to do her hair and i should bring the money and i have told her that i don't have the money now that she should use her money but she said if she do the hair by herself that i would hear am. The second issue is that i should give her money to put curtain in her house to which i have not said anything . This issue of curtain has been on ground for over a month now . I expect her to put curtain in her own house. The issue of hair ,i gave her money to do her hair two weeks ago. The one that she just loosened . She has refused to allow me make love to her for over ten days now because of those issues or so i think. I have known the lady for 4 months now but i am no longer comfortable with her denying me sex if i don't met her need . How do i tackle this issue. She works . She has her own tailoring shop and people working under her.

Izuone: My girlfriend spend the night over at my house but she refused me bedmatics. why ? she is not happy. She has problems and i am not showing concern . She wants to do her hair and i should bring the money and i have told her that i don't have the money now that she should use her money but she said if she do the hair by herself that i would hear am. The second issue is that i should give her money to put curtain in her house to which i have not said anything . This issue of curtain has been on ground for over a month now . I expect her to put curtain in her own house. The issue of hair ,i gave her money to do her hair two weeks ago. The one that she just loosened . She has refused to allow me make love to her for over ten days now because of those issues or so i think. I have known the lady for 4 months now but i am no longer comfortable with her denying me sex if i don't met her need . How do i tackle this issue. She works . She has her own tailoring shop and people working under her.

slimyem: ...you are more interested in sex with her and she's more interested in the money you'd trade for it..
50-50-No cheating!

ThoniaSlim:

Thank You! Your relationship is obviously a transaction so pay up!

omega25red: poster

you are being extorted. she is holding her vag as a hostage and you can't see it until you pay the ransom

Too bad, your relationship is based on money for hand yansh for ground

Izuone: that is not what i want and it has been bothering my heart and i love this lady from my heart . Infact for the past three months we have been practically always together during our free times.

slimyem: ...you are more interested in sex with her and she's more interested in the money you'd trade for it..
50-50-No cheating!

Izuone: yes i want sex and i demand it from her but i don't like Paying for it and this r/ship didn't start like this but it is degenerating into that and i don't want it so. I would Rather be on my own that let it become so. The essense of this thread is , how can i salvage this relationship so that it doesn't become money for hand,back for ground.i am just managing ,but i can pay her bills but am not looking for a person that i would be paying her bills. I want somebody who will be there for me and allow me share her joys and pains and also share mine.

omega25red: poster

you are being extorted. she is holding her vag as a hostage and you can't see it until you pay the ransom

Too bad, your relationship is based on money for hand yansh for ground

slimyem: you started the relationship on wrong terms and its almost too late to salvage it.
If you truly want seriousness,then you have to be sure your girl wants the same with you! (i'm not certain she does though)
your best shot is to sit and have the serious talk with her..and if you guys are gon continue,you have to stop demanding for sex like it's your right since you pay her bills...and your giving her whatever should be out of affection/necessity not as payment for sex!
If you are sure you are both on the same page,start afresh!
If not,end the symbiosis and find a new girl for a real relationship!

slimyem: you started the relationship on wrong terms and its almost too late to salvage it.
If you truly want seriousness,then you have to be sure your girl wants the same with you! (i'm not certain she does though)
your best shot is to sit and have the serious talk with her..and if you guys are gon continue,you have to stop demanding for sex like it's your right since you pay her bills...and your giving her whatever should be out of affection/necessity not as payment for sex!
If you are sure you are both on the same page,start afresh!
If not,end the symbiosis and find a new girl for a real relationship!

Donalð Genes: Well,i quess u shud sit her down and tawk to her if she is after money or ua hrt dat u wont delay to back of the relationshop!she is just too over demandinq...secondly she is takin you 4 a ride

Skii:



OP, sounds to me like you may be the one with the issue here, as there are always two sides to a story.its possible you unconsciously reward for intimacy, so it may have become psychological for your current gf as well as your previous one. She now wants the reward first

Onegai: it's trade by barter. Pay her and have her body. Isn't that the agreement you made with her?

SAFO: Hold up hold up holup.

She has her own tailoring service and she's pestering you for curtains

Tell her this "b!tch make your own curtains". This should empower you enough to get your manhood back and move on.