how do i get this girl who is hard to win her heart? i have done everything i could, but she still seem not to be interested in me. she is a student studying medicine in nnewi. she said she is not interested in any relationship till she graduates. whenever i call her when she is reading or busy she doesnt pick my call. if i send her card, she rejects. i have even told her to call me whenever she is in need, that i will assist her but she refused. she said she does not love me, whilst i told her i love her. i have showed her all the caring i can think of and knows her, but she keeps rejecting me. even to come i see her, she will refuse. she is damne stubborn in every aspect. but i truly love this girl and i want her. house, plz advise on how to get this girl. thanks.

@pOster ωђατ level z she in nd wats her name.am also a medical student in nnewi.I may tell yu her weak point U̶̲̥̅̊ knw?

mentorken05: @pOster ωђατ level z she in nd wats her name.am also a medical student in nnewi.I may tell yu her weak point U̶̲̥̅̊ knw?

pls don't go and make that gurl lose fucos on her studies now, she is not ready for relationship and it's not a crime if she decides so. he should just remain friends with her and wait till when she is open to relationship then if she accepts him, good for him, if she doesnt he move on. i dont like that idea of taking advantage of her weak point, allow her to decide with her whole heart when she is ready.

Sigh.

bigmodo, keep trying. Never give up. Many good things don't come easy...this might just be one of them.

Op

Give me her fone nos let me help u with d runs

Or

u give her what she don't expect, most medical student I know re serious student & with what u said she is also a serious student.

Dere is no need of winning her heart with ur little 200 naira mtn card.

And I know u can buy her car, set of gold, led tv, home theatre, ac or even renting an apartment 4 her & even if u buy it she will still reject dem

D only thing u need 2 do here is 2 find out her year in medical school, don't ask her & don't let her know ur plans 4 her.

Then u buy her TEXT BOOKS from her level till her final yr or housemanship.

Remember buy d whole text book d same time & give her all d same time.

If u don't have d money 2 buy d text book brow becos I know dere books re expensive like phanthology is 8000 naira

If u don't know dere text books I can help u out I know a lot of medical student.

M M M: Op

Give me her fone nos let me help u with d runs

Or

u give her what she don't expect, most medical student I know re serious student & with what u said she is also a serious student.

Dere is no need of winning her heart with ur little 200 naira mtn card.

And I know u can buy her car, set of gold, led tv, home theatre, ac or even renting an apartment 4 her & even if u buy it she will still reject dem

D only thing u need 2 do here is 2 find out her year in medical school, don't ask her & don't let her know ur plans 4 her.

Then u buy her TEXT BOOKS from her level till her final yr or housemanship.

Remember buy d whole text book d same time & give her all d same time.

If u don't have d money 2 buy d text book brow becos I know dere books re expensive like phanthology is 8000 naira

If u don't know dere text books I can help u out I know a lot of medical student.

there was a time i tried buying her books but she refused.

Beync: pls don't go and make that gurl lose fucos on her studies now, she is not ready for relationship and it's not a crime if she decides so. he should just remain friends with her and wait till when she is open to relationship then if she accepts him, good for him, if she doesnt he move on. i dont like that idea of taking advantage of her weak point, allow her to decide with her whole heart when she is ready.

i deleted her phone no and said i wont talk to her again. But i couldnot forget about it. So i collected her no again frm a friend n called her. I have tried all i could to forget about this girl i cant. You see, i am a really busy businessman in onitsha who goes out in d morning and comes back at night. I dont even have any feelings for most girls i see around. My mind is just tied to this particular girl.

bigmodo: there was a time i tried buying her books but she refused.

Use jazz on her then.WAIT!Just joking.I truly appreciate these kind of girls-Honesty.My advice let her be.DO YOU WANT TO MARRY HER OR YOU WANT TO SATISFY YOUR EGO?Some girls will even take all those from you and still reject your advances.She knows what she wants-To secure her future not an unwanted pregnancy.MY ADVICE:LET HER BE..You 've been living before you knew her n will keep on living.Find someone else.Infact you may even marry a Hoe playing hard 2 get.Girls know it turns men on and so use it to cage them.Guy move on.It's easier said than done but you have to,okay?

bigmodo: there was a time i tried buying her books but she refused.

Then I need her phone nos

M M M:

Then I need her phone nos

bros, u wan spoil runs for me, abi

bendazum: Use jazz on her then.WAIT!Just joking.I truly appreciate these kind of girls-Honesty.My advice let her be.DO YOU WANT TO MARRY HER OR YOU WANT TO SATISFY YOUR EGO?Some girls will even take all those from you and still reject your advances.She knows what she wants-To secure her future not an unwanted pregnancy.MY ADVICE:LET HER BE..You 've been living before you knew her n will keep on living.Find someone else.Infact you may even marry a Hoe playing hard 2 get.Girls know it turns men on and so use it to cage them.Guy move on.It's easier said than done but you have to,okay?

if a girl takes my gifts n still reject me to an extent i consider rude, am going to change my mind. I wanna marry her 4 real if she gives me d chance. I even told her and she said i should go n find another person.

fluid26: bigmodo, keep trying. Never give up. Many good things don't come easy...this might just be one of them.

yes op dont give up

The way some peeps reasaon is simply amazing.Dude,love is not by false:if she says no show,it should stay so.

Yield: Sigh.

Don't say it, I know!

bigmodo: if a girl takes my gifts n still reject me to an extent i consider rude, am going to change my mind. I wanna marry her 4 real if she gives me d chance. I even told her and she said i should go n find another person.

if you were in the same or similar profession with her it would have been easier, medical students likes people with similar or same profession, you are a business man.

You spoiled it first by proffessing luv & buying gifts..now she tinks u just wanna get under her pants!
So be patient...very patient wit her. Is she seeing someone else? Verify that.
Get very close to her closest friend but DO NOT date her,just spoil her wit gifts,make her ur ally and gist her things but be sure dat she will gist ur object of affection everytin dat goes on btw u two.
All u need is patience esp if she aint seeing someone else.
U can sweep any gal off her feet...all u need is the right broom,so find it.

leave her alone....................... the more u try,,, d more u make a fool of urself

@op from de way u sound shows dat u love her very well.

But maybe from de way u approach her on de first day made her to hate u and everytin about u.

i suggest u let de love tin be and try being a gud friend to her first. Spending on her doesnt make her to love u. But make sure ur calls dont become disturbance to her.

I know rejection is hard but we can't always get what we want in life. Rejection happens to the best of us. Its normal to get rejected once in a while but it sucks to be a pest. D fact dat she z a medical student aint got nuffin to do with her rejecting you - ts just an excuse - medical students @ all levels av boyfriends - all dey need z someone to sweep dem off der feet - playing hard to get z different from not wanting a person entirely - she'll show subtle signs in d former, not lyk d picture u painted above.

elseforth am gonna b just a friend to her.

OP miss in action. stop pestering her with your love. control your emotions and be just friends where you can. As a Falconer, pay less interest on the falcon and she will turn around. Besides she is a medical student, which means she will hardly have time for distractions and that's what you are at the moment.

Hi bigmodo, I will suggest you stop buying her gifts and also just be a pal to her for the main time. Get the though of love of your mind for now, the more you keep pestering her, the more you appear to be a stalker. Some girls are hard-headed while some behave that way to know your stance and mind as some men tends to back off early enough.

As suggested by some, be friend with her and remember, patience is the magic key to it. Don't rush it, if she is the right one, things will come it way naturally. Goodluck

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