I met a man,i liked him,he is caring n he treat others well.but i found dat hes the social type,he likes alcohol (bùt dnt drink much)and am d religious type.am afraid if i can cope with him.he likes me much.

Pls n pls n pls,response 4 matured mind only.

oluchi557: Pls n pls n pls,response 4 matured mind only.

BY RELIGIOUS DO YOU MEAN CHRISTIANITY?IF SO HAVE YOU NOT READ OR HEARD THAT BIBLE SAID YOU SHOULD NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS?WHEN HE START USING YOU AS HIS PUNCHING BAG,BRING WOMEN INTO YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME or BEHAVE IN A WAY THAT CONTRADICTS YOUR PRINCIPLE.THEN YOUR EYES WILL OPEN BY FORCE!RUN AS FAR AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU.INFACT YOU NEED SERIOUS COUNSELLING.GO MEET A PASTOR FOR ADVICE.BY THE WAY HAVE YOU FINISHED YOUR UNIVERSITY EDUCATION?CAN YOU SUPPORT A FAMILY ALONE,BECAUSE I SEE YOU GETTING PREGNANT WITH THE WAY I SEE YOU O.

bendazum: BY RELIGIOUS DO YOU MEAN CHRISTIANITY?IF SO HAVE YOU NOT READ OR HEARD THAT BIBLE SAID YOU SHOULD NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS?WHEN HE START USING YOU AS HIS PUNCHING BAG,BRING WOMEN INTO YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME or BEHAVE IN A WAY THAT CONTRADICTS YOUR PRINCIPLE.THEN YOUR EYES WILL OPEN BY FORCE!RUN AS FAR AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU.INFACT YOU NEED SERIOUS COUNSELLING.GO MEET A PASTOR FOR ADVICE.BY THE WAY HAVE YOU FINISHED YOUR UNIVERSITY EDUCATION?CAN YOU SUPPORT A FAMILY ALONE,BECAUSE I SEE YOU GETTING PREGNANT WITH THE WAY I SEE YOU O.

Musu, spousal abuse is not restricted to 'unbelievers'. There are pastors even who slap and batter their wives.



@OP, in order to have peace of mind concerning your decision for a life partner I think you should restrict your pool to your 'born again brothers'. I'm sure there are fun loving church brothers who know how to show a lady a good time without necessarily compromising standards. Cheers.

Bendazum thanks

Fresh dude tanz 2

fresh_dude: Musu, spousal abuse is not restricted to 'unbelievers'. There are pastors even who slap and batter their wives.
@OP, in order to have peace of mind concerning your decision for a life partner I think you should restrict your pool to your 'born again brothers'. I'm sure there are fun loving church brothers who know how to show a lady a good time without necessarily compromising standards. Cheers.

FOWL,NOT EVERY PASTOR IS A CHRISTIAN OR EVEN BORN AGAIN.CHRISTIANS ARE CHRIST-LIKE AND PATTERN THEIR LIVES AFTER JESUS.THERE ARE 'PASTORS' AND THERE ARE GOD FEARING PASTORS.GET THAT INTO YOUR THICK SKULL!OLODO.

I think he is still ok, in as much as he is not a drunkard... And you really think he loves you...
Else, stick to your church 'brothers' and wait till one of them sees an 'heavenly vision' concerning you...
Cheers

Thanks all

I don't knw what to say. But u should knw what u want, and whats good for u. To topic, u can never knw ur future man . It will happan like magic. So u can give any body a try. I dont see anything wrong with that guy anyway. Jesus turn water to wine.

From wat u wrote it seems he is gud, moreova u know him better dan we do, if drinkin is de reason u think he is not de right man for u. i think u re wrong. As u said u re a born again, drinkin 1 or 2 bottles is not a sin. or is he a drunkard?
If u like him Go 4 him. Follow ur heart.

@ all,i appreciate.