I'm a guy.

Tanx ell77, funloving n davidylan. There are points in wat u all said, I'm grateful. I'll put them into use and pray God helps me too. Had to pray seriously bout it this watchnight service, Just pray God herad and helps me. Tanx all,. Happy New 2008

babiala


ROFLMAOS !!! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. This people will kill me with laughter. WTF is Babiala now. Even google doesn't know what that is. huh, Naija people.

@top_kin - its ok, HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008! Why did you post twice?

ell77:

@top_kin - its ok, HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008! Why did you post twice?

In fact oo.

I replied in the other thread and the guy nor say make he go check.

Sorry Ehn!

I didn't post twice. It's just the 2nd page and i happened to be the first to REPLY again, just appreciating u guys. Tanx again

sorry oooooooooo. BUT THERE IS NO BIG DEAL NOW, @ 25 wel . As a girl , what were u doing till then well, look 4 a guy that really loves u who will not think abt ur past and marry

if u dont like it then dont do it!simple! but i bet u love it that's why u cant stop!.u can opt for a deliverance sha! they will cast out the spirit of sex

@top kin:
The problem, sir, isn't that you lost your virginity at age 25. The problem isn't that you lost your virginity at all.

Rather, the problem you're having is that you can no longer seem to control those sexual urges that you've had since you were an adolescent. Remember that we were made to have sex. That's how we keep up our numbers and it's how our genetic heritage becomes our genetic legacy. It's part of the grand design. That's why sex feels good. If it didn't, we'd be far less inclined to engage in it. Which makes sense--after all, if food didn't taste good, we wouldn't eat and we'd starve!

Ask yourself some things: WHY do you feel out of control in this regard? Is it simply for the pleasurable physical sensations? Is it the "power" you feel you have? Is it the closeness you feel with the people with whom you're having sex? In other words, ask yourself what it is that attracts you to continue having sex when you don't want to do so.

People have sex for lots of reasons. A recent study was done that took a look at some of them. Some are certainly valid (attempting pregnancy) while some are semi-amusing (boredom) and some are just plain weird ("she had pretty eyes". Determine your reasons. Then go from there.

Remember, you don't have to have sex unless you want to. Unlike eating or drinking, you won't die if you don't do it.

Since u said u were once close to God, i suggest u first go to him in true repentance, then learn to discipline urself and to study your bible and also fellowship with other christians: change ur friends and finally prayerfully look for someone to marry

Eeyah! there's no point crying over spill milk bro.Self control can help._{Try it}

Well said, Bblak! If you can choose to have sex, then you can choose not to have sex.

[color=#006600][/color] :ooooh girl, u need not regret,u wanted and u had it.remember once did is always done. dont worry stay cool and close tight

All u need to do is get married.
Once u're married,i believe u'll be able to control
urself more n u wouldn't want to make ur wife
suffer, safe.

get to the word of God,renew ur mind and pray , u will catch the fire again

na u do your self, should have done it at age 5, so by now the thing don tire u. anyway just enjoy the sex drive while it last,cos its not there for eva,ask our sista in the house that lost theirs earlier.

hey dude, its ok, wecome to the world of fullness where holes are being drilled more and more.
Screw more and more and more and more and more, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH,
kolo, u don burantash one lovely scambo, na im u dey cry.

dont worry, i have a herb u can drink to make u a virgin once more.
mail me now or forever be a disvirgined man.

finguy:

na u do your self, should have done it at d age of 5.so by now d thing for don tire you, . anyway just enjoy the sex drive while it last,because its not there for eva,ask our sista in the house that lost theirs earlier.

lmao . ,

its so hard to loose ur virginity, but i know u would have heard what is attached to it before loosing it, u should have thought about all these thing before going to action with bobo

sex=guilt

I even thought it was a girl

hissssssssssssssssssssssssss

oreofemi:

its so hard to loose your virginity, but i know u would have heard what is attached to it before loosing it, u should have thought about all these thing before going to action with bobo

How old were you when you lost your's?

Emkayotis:

How old were you when you lost your's?

what a question, if u dont have anything to say, pls, mesurnu.

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Why is it so hard for you to give a straight answer?

@poster
the bible say, if your eye will make u sin pluck them out
i say if your dick will make u sin, cut it off

isnt it abit 2 late

You were already 25, why did you just wait until you get married?

@posta

It appears you'r tryin to make up for the past. If you are married, its not a problem but if you are not, then wahala dey. I guess the best way out is to keep yourself in check.

You're not a lone in this. The urge will alwz be there but tell yourself you've got integrity and make a stand. May God help you

@ poster
hey girl its not your fault. u c sex is too SWEEEEEEEEEET.
u can't stop till ??