Pls I've been thinking about this over a month ago,and I need matured answers pls.I went to my friends house,Her mother was around to visit them.I asked after her mum and she was like she's in the bathroom washing.I greeted her but to my surprice she was washing her son inlaw's cloth.I asked my friend and she told me she always wash it whenever she's around.pls nairalanders is this normal?Cos to me it's abnormal.

Well i would say washing only his clothes are funny but if she is washing other people's clothes along with his its normal. http://onlinecnatrainingclass.com/cna-class-online/

It depends, maybe she loves the Son-in-Law very much and also loves washing clothes to while away the time. I admit it is weird but neither you nor us really understand the issues involved and should rather leave them to their ways.

Kini big deal?

Its not normal, why should my mum come to my house and wash my husband clothes, she won't even wash her own clothes sef, after taking care of me for how long, she'll start taking care of my husband too, that's just wrong! What am I doing that I can't wash my husband's clothes

Iyo-aye:
Pls I've been thinking about this over a month ago,and I need matured answers pls.I went to my friends house,Her mother was around to visit them.I asked after her mum and she was like she's in the bathroom washing.I greeted her but to my surprice she was washing her son inlaw's cloth.I asked my friend and she told me she always wash it whenever she's around.pls nairalanders is this normal?Cos to me it's abnormal.

In-law don chop amala.... What would my wife's mother wash my clothes? What happened to house maids? Not normal if you ask me.

Did she also wash his underwear and panties??

There are 2ways to dis: Either that d husband expects d wife to wash his stuff but d wife being a lazzy type pushes it to d mother and since d mum already knew her daughter's phobia towards clothes decides to humble herself to b doing for her to maintain peace!

I tell you, no sensible husband will have his clothes washed by her mother in law , i guess d man in question doesnt know abt it unless if sometin fishy is going on!

steph7: Its not normal, why should my mum come to my house and wash my husband clothes, she won't even wash her own clothes sef, after taking care of me for how long, she'll start taking care of my husband too, that's just wrong! What am I doing that I can't wash my husband's clothes

I think I agree with u steph.

for what now Why would my mum wash my hubby's cloths? She asnt even washed mine not to now talk of my hubby, even if i was on a sick bed,my siblings would rather do d laundry for me instead of my mum or better still get someone paid to do the washing if my siblings aint around.....


On a second tought,life is unpredictable. Alot of circumstances can lead to such... When life trows challenges, alot are bound to happen. But in my right senses i would never allow such,its totally unacceptable....

Really what is your business about their family dynamics? It works for them, and you are a stranger in their house. Know your place

2mch: Really what is your business about their family dynamics? It works for them, and you are a stranger in their house. Know your place

I agree with your reasoning...she should mind her business.