How to maintain God standards in Relationship before and after Marriage for long lasting marriages

There are basic ways of maintaining God expected standards in our relationships leading to marriage and the marriage itself in order to have a long lasting relationship and marriage that is pleasing to God and God will bless your union and sustain it. Here are the various ways to maintain God standards for long lasting marriage and relationships listed below

In your relationship with your partner must have an agreement that this is a no sex relationship till marriage and must always strive not to put the two of you in situations that may expose the two of you to sexual sins such as staying together or living together, staying for long period or hours in your partner home alone together, dressing provocatively that may lure your partner into sexual sins.

Mostly to women, every sexual encounter brings about wears and tear to them and every pre- marital sex generally , is the quickest and fastest way to destroy yourself as pre-marital sex exposes you to a lot of problems before marriage.

The Bible confirms that in Proverbs 6v32 where is says that anyone that commit adultery lacks understanding and destroys his own soul. I Corinthian states that 6v18 states flee fornication, every sin a man commits is outside the body but whoever commits fornication destroys his own soul.

Proverbs 31v3 states that do not give your strength to women and to the ways that destroys kings .In the listed passage above , the word of God has confirm that and when one does not get involve in sexual sin before marriage , it is expected that about 60% of the problems in marriage is already solved.

Just look at the six possible things that will happen to any one that get involve in pre-marital sex include
1. The partners when they eventually get married will never respect each other.
2. The marriage will be made up of constant strife
3. They will not trust each other
4. They may certainly be room for unfaithfulness
5. With time, they will lose sexual desire for each other.
6. They may also suffer delays in child bearing due to other problems in their health or reproductive system.
Other problems that pre-marital sex brings include the issues of sexually transmitted diseases, infertility due to wrong abortions, block tubes ,HIV/AID, remember that condom usage is not completely safe when not used properly used or there may be a tear some where along the line hence the best options is to avoid pre-marital sex before marriage, a word they say is enough for the wise.