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Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 1:30pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
Dear pals, Pls kindly drop ur advice.....its nw two yrs since I've known my boyfriend. In d course of our getting to knw each oDa he got to knw abt my past relationships.Some of his friends thot we wil never make dis far, sm tried their best to tear us apart, they are still trying.Sometimes my bf just picks a fight wit me dt I'm nt being sincere and I'm still seeing certain pple behind him.I've tried proving mysef to him bt he dosent want to knw and now he is giving his friends a chance to seperate US by giving thoughts to their side talks.I really dnt knw wt his intentions are,my fingers are crossed. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by oluking: 1:45pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
Am still trying to digest your message.it is too filled with abbreviations like nw,knw dt,wit etc. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by xynerise: 1:50pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
Your boyfriend doesnt trust you. You noticed your friends are trying to break up ur relationship and u didnt poison them? You 4k up o |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by k2039: 2:03pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
megliz: I really dnt knw wt his intentions are,my fingers are crossed.How are we suppose to know what his intentions are. We are not mind readers here o 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by omega25red(m): 2:07pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
poster your reputation (assuming you have one) is following you around. What is it about you that makes his friends suspect you? If his friends have no reason to suspect you, then why don't they like you? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by Mynd44: 2:10pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
If you have been with him for two years and you cant get a fix on his mind, what makes you think we can? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by doho(m): 2:15pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
If u'v been wif him for 2yrs in sincerity, u certainly dnt need an advice. He isn't worth it. Find ur way out |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 3:03pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
xynerise: Your boyfriend doesnt trust you. You noticed your friends are trying to break up ur relationship and u didnt poison them? You 4k up oNot my friends but His. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by frank317: 3:11pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
I wonder how ur past has been. But why are his friends bent on seperating u guys. Men friends don't like it when their friend date a hole, do they have reason to think u are a hole? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 3:13pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
[quote author=omega25red]poster your reputation (assuming you have one) is following you around. What is it about you that makes his friends suspect you? If his friends have no reason to suspect you, then why don't they like you?[/quote/ Its not a question of his friends suspecting me they think I took him away from their league. He barely hangs out with them unlike before I met him and think he shudnt be steady with a girl,it has to be the guy thing one boy to Numerous lovers. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 7:38pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
omega25red: posterIts not a question of his friends suspecting me they think I took him away from their league. He barely hangs out with them unlike before I met him and think he shudnt be steady with a girl,it has to be the guy thing one boy to Numerous lovers. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by Etranshub(m): 10:35pm On Sep 11, 2012 |
I wonder o, like say NL's baba alawoz. That's what u get when u jump from one niccur to another mtchww Mynd_44: If you have been with him for two years and you cant get a fix on his mind, what makes you think we can? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by Mynd44: 1:10am On Sep 12, 2012 |
Them don turn us to Mr/mrs fix it |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by deniyor: 1:21am On Sep 12, 2012 |
What exactly are you doing that is making him think you are cheating? Time to have a sit down and talk moment with him 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by KINGwax(m): 1:50pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
megliz: Not my friends but His.no lele now, invite them for lunch and poison them. Na the same result na |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
@OP one fact that i havent been able to confirm in your posts IS: have you ever cheated on him, or not?! |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by omega25red(m): 2:58pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
megliz: Its not a question of his friends suspecting me they think I took him away from their league. He barely hangs out with them unlike before I met him and think he shudnt be steady with a girl,it has to be the guy thing one boy to Numerous lovers.well from your statement seems like you are dating a small boy. Only small boys let his friends influence his decisions about who he chooses to be with. If i were you i would keep my options open as far as dating because since he can be easily influenced like that , who is to say his friends wont hook him up with another girl when you aren't around/ |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by kulboy(m): 4:46pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
megliz: Some of his friends thot we wil never make dis far, sm tried their best to tear us apart, they are still trying.now he is giving[b]his friends[/b]a chance to seperate US by giving thoughts to their side talks.^^^ xynerise: Your boyfriend doesnt trust you. You noticed[b]your friends[/b]are trying to break up ur relationship and u didnt poison them? You 4k up oLearn to Read properly before commenting |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by Yahayablessing(f): 5:20pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
Pls forget abt him joor,he doesnt love u |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by sexyshe(f): 7:53pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
He doesn't trust you and a relationship were there's no trust won't work,are you sure you are not doing things that will make him not trust you?e.g lieing about somethings which he laterr discovers or picking several calls while you are with him,if u are really faithful an he still won't bliv you,pls run ooooo cos he will never trust you even when married then problem sets in. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by boron10(m): 10:53pm On Sep 12, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Them don turn us to Mr/mrs fix itwho be us? Shey this one think say him don ever give reasonable advice ni? |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by Mynd44: 3:18am On Sep 13, 2012 |
boron10:okay, you have made your point now go sit on your thumb as usual |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by ENZOSCIFO1: 9:16am On Sep 13, 2012 |
U are not cheating yet he says u are, then may be u shud just start cheating @least then u know his accusations are not false and u will feel better. Simple things made difficult |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 9:57am On Sep 13, 2012 |
ENZO SCIFO: U are not cheating yet he says u are, then may be u shud just start cheating @least then u know his accusations are not false and u will feel better.exactly what I saidd to him that if I was actually cheating on hhim and he says all these to me then I won't feel Bad.I feel worse. Wen I'm being aaccused of the wrong things. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by DExplorer1: 10:11am On Sep 13, 2012 |
Ok OP. Talk true here. Have you been cheating on him? No lie, ok. Na virtual things we dey. Just tell me |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by Nobody: 10:28am On Sep 13, 2012 |
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Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 10:57am On Sep 13, 2012 |
sexyshe: He doesn't trust you and a relationship were there's no trust won't work,are you sure you are not doing things that will make him not trust you?e.g lieing about somethings which he laterr discovers or picking several calls while you are with him,if u are really faithful an he still won't bliv you,pls run ooooo cos he will never trust you even when married then problem sets in.as for calls its when I'm with him some stupid calls will come in and even wen I don't want to pick their calls it arouses suspicions.Most of these calls are harmless calls. Long time friends with no strings attached. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 11:03am On Sep 13, 2012 |
D-Explorer:in every sense I would say NO! But the admirers are just too much of which I already know their intentions and I'm not giving it a try. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by DExplorer1: 11:18am On Sep 13, 2012 |
megliz: in every sense I would say NO! But the admirers are just too much of which I already know their intentions and I'm not giving it a try.Do you recieve too many calls in his presence? Talk tru here o |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 11:27am On Sep 13, 2012 |
D-Explorer:in the early stage of our relationship but now its reduced to the barest minimal I can go a day or more without fone calls. |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by DExplorer1: 12:03pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
megliz: in the early stage of our relationship but now its reduced to the barest minimal I can go a day or more without fone calls.Good!! Make him trust you. He probably had seen a sign or something somehow. Make him believe in you again. Even though a rela. shouldn't be like a cell, watch your ways with any dude around. Keep your phone clean and note those areas he's suspecting you and adjust. That does it |
Re: Help!!! My Boyfriend Thinks I'm Cheating On Him by megliz(f): 12:05pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
D-Explorer:Thanks so much for your candid advice. |
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