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Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A Nice Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date jerks but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how nice a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that powerful attraction.
And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but you need to get over it if you want to change how women respond to you.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever!
You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being reasonable with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will make them like us, us guys are always doing things to get a woman's approval or permission.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... ever.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women badly for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things," think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen A LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only natural when this happens...
That's right, I said natural.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as manipulation.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge, and unfortunate, mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they feel too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have experience.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, really like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to attraction.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over ten full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things other than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman.
But it's not an accident.
You have to learn how to do this.
But the great news is...
ANY guy can learn to do it.
If you'd like a FAST, SUCCESS-GUARANTEED lesson on making women start paying attention to you (without YOU ever having to say a word, or the woman even REALIZING why she's suddenly feeling it for you)



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, confident young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten times!
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is vitally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About ten years ago, I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


-David DeAngelo
http://www.doubleyourdating.ca/articles/0011-ten-mistakes-guys-make-with-women.htm

All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

Thats why i said for men only...or are you a man in a woman's username?....

Try and space ur sentences!

Wizee: Try and space ur sentences!

Noted.

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

Animals are everywhere on Nairaland. If you can not add value to a post, why write rubbish. This thread is meant to be commented on by people with common sense and intelligence. If you are so dull to comprehend, please get your filthy life out of here.

@Op, you r 1000% correct... Tho' some men are naturally dumb, they will never learn, even if Jesus read this article into their ears every morning.

@berem, wetin u dey talk there...!?

Mods' pls front page, let NL men/guys learn. Biko.

Okontami: Animals are everywhere on Nairaland. If you can not add value to a post, why write rubbish. This thread is meant to be commented on by people with common sense and intelligence. If you are so dull to comprehend, please get your filthy life out of here.

Choi...! Oga this ur comment ash small na. Berem is not always like this, maybe Ebamma don bluetooth her that hin down syndrome this afternoon. Or maybe she no check the sign board before she branch enter.

MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen A LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only natural when this happens...
That's right, I said natural.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as manipulation.

Even if others might ve been over _blown...the above quote has made me appeared, practically...a MUMU of sort . I can't see myself shelving this awkwardness from my person for a long time to com until my pound of flesh retrieved.
Imagine a little gal of just 18 yrs wanted to convert me to her MUGU 2. I just noticed her not always reachable cos of the fact she uses her grany's phone, I decided getting her a phone though of just 10k but at least with browsing facility. Just within the wk , this "kid"almost turned me to a proper kid by ignoring my calls and rudely refused to get online whenever she would find me there . More so , she prefers I visit her place in which case she turned around to throw me to her 2 elder sisters as if they're the ones I ve been making advances to .

you never meet crazy woman, na im dey make you dey do all dis tinx, some women razz pass craze

They jst don't learn, do they?

Una no dey tire to rehash all this copy-and-paste nonsense? Boys need to grow up and focus on what's important. Wasting too much time worrying about how to please random, insignificant women is the WORST mistake men make with women. Make una go find work.

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

him don open una yanch

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

him don open una yanch lwkmd

This is indubitable and pragmatic, not for aofs.

I got too much game

Any nigga can open up 2 me. .I can make any nigga drop his pride down to get 2 know me

I an so sweet-that U will see him giving me his account numbers

Onila 4 life!

Nice one bro.@op

The gullible men who will listen to this poster will never find TRUE LOVE!!!!

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

Go hug transformer it will make you warm

onila: I got too much game

Any nigga can open up 2 me. .I can make any nigga drop his pride down to get 2 know me

I an so sweet-that U will see him giving me his account numbers

Onila 4 life!

for ur tiny mind

Okontami: Animals are everywhere on Nairaland. If you can not add value to a post, why write rubbish. This thread is meant to be commented on by people with common sense and intelligence. If you are so dull to comprehend, please get your filthy life out of here.

You are one to call another an animal?

Still in shock.

really interesting writeup but i'really want to know if those mistakes u've written about applies only to beautiful women or all in general?

This is nothing but a bunch of wadswallop, gibberish and balderdash.
It has not probative value and as such should be treated like bunkum.

khadijaluv: really interesting writeup but i'really want to know if those mistakes u've written about applies only to beautiful women or all in general?

You are green and gullible, otherwise you wouldn't have believed this.

* Blowing my SK *

Mucokey:
Even if others might ve been over _blown...the above quote has made me appeared, practically...a MUMU of sort . I can't see myself shelving this awkwardness from my person for a long time to com until my pound of flesh retrieved.
Imagine a little gal of just 18 yrs wanted to convert me to her MUGU 2. I just noticed her not always reachable cos of the fact she uses her grany's phone, I decided getting her a phone though of just 10k but at least with browsing facility. Just within the wk , this "kid"almost turned me to a proper kid by ignoring my calls and rudely refused to get online whenever she would find me there . More so , she prefers I visit her place in which case she turned around to throw me to her 2 elder sisters as if they're the ones I ve been making advances to .

So u have to print this out, and paste it on the ceiling, so when u wake up every morning, u will look up and read it as ur daily manual.

A nice write-up.

::Andrew:::
This is indubitable and pragmatic, not for aofs.

You pedagogical ignoramus, a jejune and callow fellow that lacks perspicacity.
Tell me what makes the above tripe and waffle irrefutable?

ujukala: A nice write-up.

Gosh!

pro01: Una no dey tire to rehash all this copy-and-paste nonsense? Boys need to grow up and focus on what's important. Wasting too much time worrying about how to please random, insignificant women is the WORST mistake men make with women. Make una go find work.

1000 Likes!! END OF STORY.

freecocoa: You are one to call another an animal?

Still in shock.

no mind the otondo wey dey call pesin animal! For dis cold weather na im pesin dey write novel make I read! Shioor!

onila: I got too much game

Any nigga can open up 2 me. .I can make any nigga drop his pride down to get 2 know me

I an so sweet-that U will see him giving me his account numbers

Onila 4 life!

Shior... Says who..? Onila, the beautifool fool.